#my parents my fathers my dads im their child and they are my parents

[lolipoptheclown]

They are literally my dads guys trust me

#my parents my fathers my dads im their child and they are my parents #spooky month #spooky month bob #spooky month dexter #ratmeat #ratmeat sm #<- cause yk they are BOTH my dads so that means they are husbands now #lolipop ramblez

[deeply-unserious-fellow]

Alastor feels more like Niffty's dad then Charlie's tbh

#he also feels more like Niffty's dad then Husk and Angel do #like. angel is just a mom friend and husk has eternal grandpa vibes. does not make either of them parents #also my previous statement still stands: if you infantalize Niffty Im adding your scapula to my collection #<- felt the need to add this because discussing who seems like a father figure to her can very well dip into “Niffty is a child” territory #and I don't want to imply she is a child #Im tag rambling again fuck- #anyways adults can benifit from parental figures too smthn smthn Alastor is Niffty's father figure and if u disagree u are simply. stoopid? #hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #hazbin niffty #charlie morningstar

[fairyreblogs]

Scout can NEVER try cooking an omelet because Spy would walk in and see Scout's first ever attempt and since its not a perfect omelet Spy would give criticism and then try to teach Scout how to make a perfect omelet to honor his french heritage but Scout would be so outraged by what he perceives as Spy insulting his attempt and then trying to take over so he would just leave the kitchen and not eat anything for lunch, leaving Spy alone in the kitchen with all the omelet materials wondering why trying to teach his son how to make the french meal did not work

#look when you are an american and your father is french. shit happens #the second i moved out i made so many omelets. and yes some were burnt or falling apart. but you know what? #i had infinitely more fun making the omelets myself then i ever did with my dad grabbing me by the wrist and moving my hand like a puppet #french fathers who missed several years of their american childs life be like: how the fuck do you parent. this adult child of mine is shit #normal guy who totally isnt projecting onto Scout and Spy #this is so fun because if there was a venn diagram of me and scout it would nearly be a circle. im not a merc and im not boston #i can literally be like: here are things i hate about my father. but then replace father with Spy and it still matches. slayyyyyyyy #except my dad made me stop playing baseball because i have no depth perception and kept getting hit in the face :( #tf2 scout #tf2 spy #dadspy

[theprodigypenguin]

I'm not a parent, but can you imagine how psychotic Dragon would get if Sabo got hurt in his place. Like to some degree Sabo is worried that if Dragon were to die, the revolution would die with him, and Sabo was raised from a very young age to think of himself as expendable because of his parents, and that kind of thing can settle into the marrow of your bones and not go away no matter how much time passes. He would more than willingly stand in front of a brutal attack to defend Dragon, though Dragon is the last person in the world who'd ever need to be shielded. It's instinct for Sabo to protect, plus this is Luffy’s dad AND a member of the D clan. Dragon is important, Sabo isn't, so he'd happily take a hit in Dragon's stead. Queue his blood splattering across Dragon's face and Dragon just has a psychotic break because first of all he probably most definitely has ptsd, suddenly all he can see is Sabo crying against him because he can't open the gate to Grey Terminal, ten years old with half his face burned bloody and unconscious, and he just fucking snaps cuz that's not just a revolutionary or the chief of staff or his second in command that's his fucking kid and he's watched him grow up for the past twelve years, he can remember when Sabo barely reached his knee in height and now he's bleeding out because he, the child, was trying to protect Dragon, the parent. Nonono, that's not how this works and now Dragon has to commit homicide. "Would you kill for you child" he sure would! He knows Sabo can take care of himself but if he sees that blond brat fall in front of him he is going to descend to the lowest level of hell and bring whoever pulled the trigger with him.

#im listening to atlas falls by shinedown and the angst is getting to me #id just love to see dragon break someone in half #one piece #sabo #monkey d dragon #good dad dragon #nah but thinking of a child getting hurt for a parent makes me sick to my stomach the angst possibilities are 🤌 #my daddy issues culminate into a desire to see my favorite characters be protected by their father figures #its a bummer cuz my dad was never around for me but i feel better when i project good fathers onto my blorbos #those few pieces of art ive seen of dragon cradling a bloody unconscious sabo with a homicidal look on his face #yeah that clears my skin and water my crops

[welcometoteyvat]

jing yuan and yanqing are giving zhongli and xiao if the latter’s canon relationship was Actually fanon’s made up father figure/adopted child dynamic

#idkkkkkkkkkkkkk who looks at zx and is like 'you know what. this is a healthy parent child relationship' #like girl by fitting them into father son boxes you are actively making their relationship imbalance Worse #if you do that and dont shy away from it i respect that but if you say dad/son makes their relationship more wholesome or whatever like WHY #now i wont deny shippers might do that too but i see the dad son version so much i think im just averse to it by default #also because i think father son makes people actively Try to make their relationship something that its not and it erases a bunch of subtlet #subtleties in it. it's the nuanced r/ship -> entirely unproblematic and flavorless r/ship that i hate #also the number of people who'll block if you ship zx. like damn thats crazy you guys really think theyre father son (fake)??? #at their peak they're like. 4000 year old guys who have too much history and repression and some weird entanglement of 'nah im bothering him #too much' and 'gotta protect him w my life' complexes. and then this devolves into theyre never gonna kiss until 3000 more years have passed #listen they just Contain Multitudes idc if you dont ship it just dont make it into dad and son and we will be so gucci #jing.yuan and yanqing are like different i think mostly bc yanqing is actually like a minor and jing yuan is also a normal ish person #plus the light cone and the abouts?? yeah this is an actual like adopted parent/child thing #also good or bad news i caved and am now playing hsr. the plan is to pull yanqing and then go on infinite hiatus in the game 👍 #JWKFLJWEK i dont think theres really any draws for me besides him. personally neutral on turn based combat and the open world isn't giving #the only saving grace i have rn is 1) ive gotten to the part where bron.seele is real and man theyre gay 2) trailblazer trio 3) tall female #mc 4) everyone has way better emoting abilities than genshin 5) su.shang's really cute <3 #the story doesnt really interest me though its like cool but not mindgrippingly interesting #tbf i think genshin is the same way storyline wise (at the beginning) but the difference is that turn based combat isnt really my thing LMAO #ramblings! #zhongxiao #if you want to filter it out ??

[scorpiusmalfoylovesoscarwilde]

most days I'm so chill with the fact I'm non-contact with my father, it was the best decision, I hate him, my life is so much more peaceful without him

then bam it's a random Tuesday at 8pm and I'm sobbing because I miss having a dad, like, excuse me what is this??

#im ping ponging between its all his fault he made all those decisions to maybe he was doing what he thought was right #i barely ever had a dad so i dont know what im crying for pff #if he died tomorrow I'm not sure I'd go to his funereal I don't want him at my wedding #but sometimes I want him to just hold me and read me narnia like he did when I was 9 #my parents were terrible but its cause they didnt know what they were doing but i dont know how to make peace with that #would it have killed them to be nice to me? #this is very simplified but yk #gonna go read some draco scorpius centred fanfics now to make me cry more cant wait!! #i hate him i hate him i HATE HIM I HATE HIM #but i didnt always and i dont want to but there are things you just cant take back #anywayz thats enough trauma dumping on main lmfao #if anyone has any father child centred fanfictions do let me know and give them to me plz thanks #daddy issues #are screaming #scorpius malfoy #and god do i hate his new wife #this is way too many tags im sorry to anyone whos made it down here lmfao

[kn11ves]

emotional support group for autistics who got called condescending and rude as kids just for responding to things directly and still not knowing how they were being mean

#what did i do #i got constantly told by my mother and step father (and his family) that i always talked like i knew better than they did or that i was #just as mature. i was just fuckjng talking what the hell did you want me to do #why do you feel attacked when a 10 year old speaks to you as an adult????? literally what #i dont know on that note sometimes its just like i dont even feel like ive aged at all #sure i have a giant explosion of time in my head just Gone from my memory because i was getting abused but like i dont feel like ive aged #or really matured ive felt like ive alwats felt #i cant relate when epople are like me when i feel all my ages or i wish i could go back to being x age or being x age everything felt so #different..like no it didnt. or im missing something? #i have never in my life felt like anything has changed. ive always been this old. there is no ''inner child'' and ive never had childhood #innocence or a nostalgia or childhood to go back to. i have no idea what any of you are talking about ever👍 #ugh jst rmemebred skmething that happened with my white step dad's mother #we visited her house and she literally fucking didnt let me go (not physically) until i replied to her with Correct Granmar. what was i #doing? i was reaponding to her by saying ''yeah'' and she kept repeating ''yes'' like telling me to say yes instead of yeah and i didnt #Fucking Get It because guess what you old white cracker i barely fucking speak english and you are just saying things in an aggressive tone #like thats gonna make me get it. and i Didnt i just kept replying yrah to her yes's and then she got tired of it and we left out the door #and theeeeen i got yelled at in the car by being called disrespectful and rude by my parents. WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO????????? #those crackers never liked me LOL i literally know they didnt #ugh i rmemeber this one time my step dads father was like trying to show me some dumb boxing or karate or something punching move and he #told my mother that i was good at it because he felt i had a lot of aggression and then NY MOTHER YELLED AT ME IN THE CAR FOR IT?????? #oh fucking wonder why te kid being abused mighthave aggression but she didnt Know (apart from what She was doing to me) like why would it #be my fucking fault if he thought i had aggression in me HOW IS THAT MY FAULT WHAT DIDBI DO I WAS JUST TRYING TO DO THE MOVE BECAUSE WELL #I WAS TRYING TO GET ALONG BECAUSE THATS WHAT THEY WANTED ME TO DO #she was like do you know how much that embarassed me and WHAT THE HELL HE SAID IT I DIDNT I WAS LIKE #8??? OR SOMETHING???? I DONT FUCKING KNOW!!! I DIDNT KNOW WOMAN WHAT DID YOU WANT FROM ME #mothers when they mother👍

[illputdownmyrootswhenimdead]

the good ol "i dont see my child as an individual with their own mind, thoughts, opinions, and unique needs, and instead i see them as an object that i can control and make plans and set up expectations for for without problem or consideration, and if they aren't in the narrow boundaries of what i want them to be, i will act like they have died and talk about how hard this is for ME" special

#child abuse // #transphobia // #ableism // #sorry for how long these tags are i have too many thoughts in my brain. sorry #transphobic parents: im losing my daughter/son :(( its so hard :(( this is literally the same as my child being dead :(( #im watching them destroy themselves :(((( #trans kid: *literally just asked to be called different pronouns or cut their hair or something* #vs #ableist parents: my child doesnt even let me hug them :(( sure its a really unpleasant feeling for them that is very distressing but #what about ME?? :(( my child not liking physical affection is the HARDEST THING EVER im such a brave parent #autistic kid: *just doesnt like being touched because it feels bad and needs other sensory accommodations* #like legit transphobic parents and ableist parents use really similar language to talk about their kids #a lot of implications or outright statements that their children are 'gone' and that their current child is some kind of impostor #do these people think changelings are real?? did they miss the boat on that??? #and the 'im grieving my child' thing is so fucking dumb im sorry #your child isnt dead! theyre the same fucking person dumbass #your child didnt disappear when they realized they were trans or got diagnosed with autism. like. theyre still your fucking kid #these kinds of thoughts lead into shit like this story i heard about online about a father who became an alcoholic #because his son is trans and starting HRT. like this dad completely blames his addiction on his son being trans #because 'his daughter is destroying herself' and 'this stuff tears families apart' #newsflash you dumbfuck your son isnt at fault for you becoming an alcoholic instead of going to therapy to deal with any #complicated feelings or stress due to your son coming out #he did not hold you down and force alcohol down your throat you made the conscious goddamn choice to do that #because youre soooooo distraught that your beautiful daughter is gone :(( #fucking cry about it maybe? #and with ableist parents theres a lot of talk about how they dont feel like their child loves them or how THEY find it hard to love them #which. again. its not their fucking fault its yours for not getting help to fix your shit #just because your child doesnt show affection in the way you do doesnt mean they dont love you or that you shouldnt love them #if you cant love your kid because of them being autistic thats a problem that you need to see a therapist about it. jackass #do not blame your kids!! for your issues!! they can tell!!! and it fucking hurts!!!!!!

[bisaster-energy]

sometimes you have to kill your dad because as long as he's alive you can't breathe

#im not in danger i just need to bloody my knuckles with his face #i wasn't given the privilege of teenage rebellion. all my older sisters got to do it #break away from our parents' control and tbh neglect and verbal abuse and do their own thing #and now they can talk to them more normally. they dont just bend to our dad's will #if they dont like something he's saying they can just leave bc while they were away from home they learned how to do that #i missed my chance i guess #i went from obedient child to obedient teen to obedient adult and i can never leave #because im the only one that can fucking deal with his shit by suppressing every negative emotion i have around him #even then it's not enough. i have to agree with him not just listen to what he has to say. im sick with rage #but he's only ever seen me smile because other emotions would just prove to him that women are overly emotional and illogical #i was kept on a leash maybe a little tighter than the others because the ones that came before left when the door was left open #ive never felt more like a dog than when im with my father

[castielfucks]

dude actually i think I really don't like my mom

#her dad was disrespectful toward me and keeps trying to contact me through her and my cousin #even though i asked him to stop #my mom sends me a message saying “i know you told me not to pass on his messages but” and proceeds to pass on this nasty old dudes message #i tell her its disrespectful to my boundaries and im not interested in any contact or convo with this dude #and she sends me a vouce message CRYING ????? saying she hates being the middle man??? #girl.... you are supposed to be the middle man for your child ? youre a parent ? thats not being a middle man thats parenting??? #youre SUPPOSED to protect and defend your child from people they dont want to talk to #and your child getting frustrated when you fail to do so is not “throwing rocks” as she put it oh my GOD #get those fuckin tears out of bere man like i havent been the middle man the peacemaker for our family #since i was able to walk and talk #bitch PLEASE just be a parent!!! be normal about being a parent !!!!!! #how are you 50yo in a different state than your 80yo father and youre still scared of him ???? #how do you let your father say some transphobic shit to your child and u shrug with “oh thats just how he is sorry” #youre grown as hell how does someone disown a 50 YEAR OLD ADULT CHILD LMAOOOO #please talk to your theraoist about it and not your youngest child !!! for once !!!!!!!! FOR ONCE !!!!!!!! #*****editing to add i just sent her a vm asking her to clarify what and who she meant by beung a middle man #if she says me im throwing hands verbally

[pendraegon]

something something about your parent who abused you all your life having the same thing that you do and when he goes through the lows you feel sympathy and yet.

#it is not joy but it is. something that tastes similar. #sorry it's just like. im bipolar too but i would never ever treat my child like that if i had a kid lmao nor does it excuse #any of the actions that STILL (STILL!) occur towards me. like.... something about seeing the person who hurt you again and again and again #suffering. even if that suffering you understand acutely and know TOO well like. i despise that this is another thing that we share. is it #not bad enough we share the same blood? why is my brain wired the same way? but. we are also. parent and child. he is #still my father and even now. even now. i look at some young kids with their dads being happy and i crave that. so bad. so so so bad. #i dont think i'll ever not feel that to be honest. #anyways. um. tbt to teen ellian talking about All Of This #on my online diary (my tumblr bloggie of course<3)

[narutomaki]

get me OUT OF HERE

#this is about fucking. shipping. fucking orochimaru. get out of this polycule all of you shoo!!! go!!!! #STOP HAVING BABIES AND BEING HAPPY AND GOOEY!!!! STOP!!!!!! YOURE RUINING ME!!!!!!!!! #the fucked up little version of Obito ive made tho and his fucked up little niche of functionally immortal reincarnated body sharing #its like ive made him cat nip for Orochimaru. i was JOKING INITIALLY RIGHT??? I WAS LIKE #HAHA OROBITO HAHA HA HA HAAA FUCKING HELP MR #IM IJ HERE NOW LIKE OH YEAH AND GENE SPLICING IS SOMETHING OROCHIMARU HAS EXPERIENCE IN #AND GIVING HIM THIS AS A HEALYHY OUYLET AND MAKING HIM A MOTHER IN ONE FELL SWOOP #Obito has like 15 kids by the time Miho is created so shes not going yo be his heir (his heirs mother was an Uzumaki he hit it off with and #asked to have a kid with young (17) so shes 14 by the time the main series begins) #any way. Kakuzu being like ok you can have a chold under this roof but i will not be responsible in any way for it #and then holding Miho exactly once and going like 'oh i get why mothers die for their babies now' #Kisame takes the longest to warm up to her which surprises him bcus he gets along well with the rest of Obitos children #(Obito is like well. fuck you guys. Uchiha clan in Ame time and offers people contracts like in situations of fertility he adopts the mother #and father into his clan and turkey basters it (okay no he does send them to the hospitla but) and otherwise offers #a home a name etc for agreeing to join as either a civilian clan member or to have a child of his and some of the #second parents are like oh fuck yeah i want a kid but not a relationship/my husband is infertile/whatever and raise the child #as their own with very lityle input from Obito but some Obito has raised / was raising essentially on his own (such as his heir whos mother #didnt want to be in a relationship with Obito but wanted to test out motherhood and found she Could Not Do It and is now #more of an estranged aunt figure but 14 y/o doesnt have much bad blood about it bcus she has The Scariest Step Dad squad and #is 1000% creepy teen girl coded and it gets validated in sooo many capacities. cant do unethical experiments on mice when one of your step #fathers can bring you into the lab and teach you how to actually do the work and deal with an ethics commity that yes we have to #otherwise your father gives us the neutral but disappointed face) #ANY WAY #CAN YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN ?? LET ME THE FUCK OUT!!! LET ME OUY LET ME OUT HELP SOMEONES FFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUC

[hiveswap]

Girl who is not breaking the cycle <- hasn't spoken to her grandmother in months for a good reason and felt the skin peel off her face just texting "hi how are you" to her dad despite promising to keep contact for the sake of her baby sister if not anything else

#augh fuck #both my maternal grandmother and my father suck in such similar ways. mostly i mean my dad doesnt do a bunch of stuff she does #but hes better in the sense that he does call me yknow. #plus again hes raising a baby i cannot let those two actual weirdos fuck up another child #i have a feeling im gonna be the only accepting non hateful person in her life... #idk if theyll be nice as parents because he wasnt around to parent me for too long and her gf is young #my main issue is literally their expectations/politics

[nicollekidman]

a work family can be one catholic fbi agent with a child out of wedlock, a forensic anthropologist with abandonment issues and a murderer for a father, and the childhood trauma they heal from under the guise of teaching science <3 

#this is INSANE. #brennan was like i know you're manipulating me into letting my dad stay so that i can heal my relationship with him by pretending #im doing a favorite for you as my partner #and he was like NOOO and then. #they did it #bones rewatch #booth a child of an alcoholic abusive father fearing for his own parenting skills #brennan too afraid to let her dad back into her life bc he might leave again #the two of them: what if we teamed up #this is what i mean by they were already parents together even when they werent

[storm-of-feathers]

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#sorry i know i said i was going to sleep but i gotta get this out of my head #i think. i think im beginning to forgive my father. #i dont really know how to describe whats happening in my heart and head #i don't know if this is forgiveness or acceptance #but im not. mad at him anymore. we get along now #is that what forgivness is in a family like this? when youve stopped being angry? #and its not a 'stopped being angry because tired' its #ig bc we see each other so much less often now we're both easier for each other to deal witu #is THAT forgiveness? learning to deal with each other? #but we spoke to each other more like old friends than parent and child #drank like it too #he said he loved me #i said it back #is that forgiveness? understanding ill never have the dad i needed #but that i still have a dad and as an adult we get along like friends and thats... what we have? #generations of trauma all to be softened by a friendship im calling forgiveness #if i even do forgive him. if he even forgives me. if either of us truly know what forgiveness is. #im going to bed for real now i just needed this off my heart

[todayisafridaynight]

okay so this feels like many eons ago, but I was the anon who asked if Daigo was a dilf (what a fool I was) now I have another question what do you think Daigo would be like as a father?

daigo as a dad doesn't sound like the worst reality for once. he'd probably be like. a standard dad if that makes sense ?? he's not overly doting but that doesn't mean he won't remind his kid how much they mean to him whenever the opportunity arises and he's sure to be there for them whenever they need him

#snap chats #like he borders on Work Dad- he's preoccupied by business but he also knows how to make time for his kid #definitely doesnt want to project his childhood onto his kid yk he wants to be there for them unlike his parents #this is going off the assumption he's a Single Father Making A Difference if that wasnt evident #but yeah he'd probably be a nice dad he's generally got his head on his shoulders and he's a smart man #this ask makes me cry cause i have twitter mooties who like. gush about daigo being a dad every other week #and then i sit here having absorbed none of their chatting going 'yeah what WOULD that be like.... #wheres my text support for the claim im about to make' #like daigo likes kids we know that from RGGO and he's willing to go the extra mile for them #id imagine he'd do more for his own child so #like kiryu was a great dad When He Got The Chance I See You Typing Put That Ask Away #and kiryu was definitely handed a weird deck to play with so daigo would probably fair better if we're just talking one kid