#no this isnt a callout

[martyr0l0gy]

butches are the silliest of the silly geese.. you can tell them repeatedly you have a crush on them, call them petnames and compliment them constantly, spam message them, and even say Yes to going on a date with them, and they'll still ask if you're Sure

#this isnt even a subtweet at this point #this is just a callout post #femme4butch

[koboldfactory]

its a good thing to point out that people draw nsfw content, they should keep their porn away from real content

You do realize that the first half of your statement conflicts with the second half right? People pointing out an artist’s literal separate adult only space to people outside of it is directly at odds with any safety measures an artist may take to keep their adult only content in an adult only space.

Going “erm that sfw artist has a PORN alt btw!” Is a harmful solution to a non-issue

Edit: also separating the categories into “nsfw” and “real content” makes me want to laugh and also roll my eyes so hard my head pops off

#koboldasks #obviously if someone is like a criminal or predator or something you call out genuine bad behavior. but having a separate adult space isnt #a callout-worthy offense. sorry

[redstonedust]

average callout doc will be like 50 pages of niche fandom discourse and then at the very end theyll be like ''also they tried to kill their roommate, scammed me out of $1000 and are openly racist" and im like. my brother in christ why didn't you lead with that. why did you even need that other stuff.

#genuinely the amount of times ive seen a callout post where the important information is buried #this isnt a novel you dont need to save the juicy part for the climax

[oceanwithouthermoon]

ive come to realise that i dont actually hate kubokai, i just hate the way people write them

#sorry i read like two cute in character kubokai fics and im enjoying it now #theyre cute and im a closeted shun kinnie so. obviously i will ship him with my crush from the show. #i just really really REALLY hate the super cliche seme uke dynamic people usually give them #those people have NEVER watched the show.. my boy shun is NOT like that #its sooo stereotypical and they obviously give shun the role of 'the girl' in the relationship which is. um. ew #'shun is so fragile and innocent and uwu and he needs big strong aren around at all times to coddle him' #'and aren has a soft spot for shun and shun only and only shun can stop him from being totally murderous and dumb' #do yall know that one scene from the kissing booth #where elle is like 'NOAH! LOOK AT ME! THIS ISNT YOU! LOOK AT ME' when hes about to beat the shit outta his brother #thats how kubokai gets written usually #'aren pwease nevew fight again🥺pwease? fow me?' #me reading anything kaido says in most fics: HE WOULD NOT FUCKING SAY THAT #sorry #people can write whatever they want its just. so ooc. #canon them is soooo bromance core #im sorry idk why im posting negative shit again when i like JUST said i wasnt going to do this anymore LMAO #not a callout post about anyone on here obvi- actually reading more recent fics from people on here is whats gotten me more into them #saiki k #tdlosk #the disastrous life of saiki k. #kuboyasu aren #kaido shun #kubokai #meows post

[katwritesthings]

Phandom, are y'all okay?

Has anyone else noticed the trend recently of Maddie and Jack are absolutely terrible parents?

Like, don't get me wrong, they're not the greatest parents ever... But they're not always some kind of supervillain/evil scientist power couple who can't look past their own biases to change their opinion in the face of new evidence.

I'm kinda specifically talking about the DPxDC side of Tumblr (mostly because of how much I've been reading in that crossover territory the last few weeks), but I think the general fandom has been falling more and more towards irredeemably evil Drs. Fentons as well.

I mean, I get that it's a trope of the Phandom for the Fentons to disecc Danny. Like, that's not the issue. Or at least, not the whole issue? 'Cause I love a good trauma-filled angst fest as much as the next phan.

There just... Used to be a balance, I guess? Like for every couple of Fentons Bad Parenting there would be a fic of the Fentons accepting Danny. It wouldn't be easy, and there was a boatload of delicious angst in that, depending on what Maddie and Jack had done to Phantom before finding out he is their son. There were fics exploring Maddie and Jack dealing with the emotional fallout of their son dying due to their negligence and not even noticing.

But lately, it's just been Maddie and Jack are terrible people. Full stop. No nuance or shades of grey to them.

And I know there are a ton of people in this fandom who have never even seen the original show and write amazing fanfic anyway. They've learned from what we put out there, and maybe that's why there are no new good parents fics.

But, like, remember when Danny Phantom used to be a very thinly veiled allegory for coming out to your parents? I know not everyone's parents are loving and accepting. I'm not trying to diminish anyone's experiences or anything and I think this has devolved into somewhat incoherent ramblings... And this just may be because I have been in this fandom for over a decade now. I may just be overthinking current trends.

But, are y'all okay? Like, seriously, babies.

Do you want a hug? A cup of cocoa? A parental figure to look you in the eyes and say that your feelings are valid? That you are wanted and appreciated just the way you are?

#danny phantom #phandom #phandom politics #i guess #idk #this isnt a callout #or vagueblogging #im just like #worried about you guys #i love bad fenton parents #who disecc our boi #but there needs to be a balance #anyways #yall take care babies #dp x dc #cause you guys are a part of this too #fandom #i love this fandom #i really do #but man

[cemeterything]

Op of the self care notes post said it was a joke that breached containment type of post, so they didn’t have those intentions, but I think they said it was a positive experience to see how many people actually cared even if that wasn’t what they had set out for originally.

i respect that completely and, like i said in my tags, i don't assume any ill intent on op's behalf, however i do still think it's an irresponsible, unsustainable and unhealthy way of seeking support or recovery. i genuinely hope that op does recover and receive all the help and support they need, and wish them nothing but the best, but i also disagree with the method used and don't think it should be encouraged or normalized for reasons i've already stated (that social media attention is very superficial and unpredictable, and that creating the impression that complete strangers are in some way responsible for your mental health without their consent, regardless of whether that was your intention, isn't really right).

#like me disagreeing with that 'ill practice self care if this gets 666k notes' post isnt a callout for the op #and if youre the kind of joyless cruel husk of a person who decides to send hate or attack op for it then im disgusted by you and want #nothing to do with you #but as someone who has personally experienced the detrimental effects of tying my mental health to social media attention #regardless of how good your intentions are i cannot agree with it on principle because it fucked me and countless others up #far more than it ever helped

[sannin-three]

I've seen a few people say that if you leave out the stuff we learn about him as the story goes on, Hiruzen speech during his death scene, about family and such, can still be rather touching.

To that I say: what about Naruto???

Even if you want to ignore the stuff that comes later: everything involving Danzo, the Uchihas, Orochimaru, and the promise that he made to Naruto's parents - even if NONE of that happened - he would still be the asshole who let everybody in the village treat Naruto like shit and left him to live in a shitty apartment by himself from the time he was a small child.

"We are family" WHERE IS NARUTO IN THAT FAMILY

#honestly i shouldnt be surprised give the way he treats Asuma #this isnt a callout to anybody either this is mainly just me bashing hiruzen #hiruzen sarutobi #anti hiruzen #naruto #naruto uzumaki #anti danzo #uchiha massacre #naruto shippuden

[lockandkeyhyena]

So so sorry if you've answered this before [or if you just didn't wanna talk about this] but I noticed your part is absent from the Primadonna Spottedleaf map? Again sorry if this is overstepping bounds but I'm just curious if you knew about that

all good. got kicked for supporting bi lesbians i think. they just said ‘because of the drama’

#which is weird because they supported me previously #gonna say it. #tons of wc creators have no spine. i really tried to understand not wanting to get involved in ‘drama’ #and prioritising your participants #but it got to the point where people who agreed with me would still kick me from their maps to sate the rabid callout culture #anyway. can you tell i’m bitter? i’m very bitter. i put in free labour for so many maps and while it is within a host’s rights to kick #whoever they want. its also within MY rights to be bitter about it #sorry lol. rant over #ignore me #anyway it would be nice if people were this aggressive about the people who raided my servers calling me and my participants racial slurs #but i guess racism just isnt as big of a deal as random bullshit queer infighting #OKAY #SORRY #RANT ACTUALLY OVER NOW #yeen rambles #ask

[whumpshaped]

the phenomenon of people pining for emotionally unavailable and quite frankly just gross and horrible bastards has captivated me for so long. why do people do this. is it just saviour complex. is it just victim complex. is it the need to feel special. well i drew a new conclusion tonight.

insecurity.

i think it's not enough for you to melt someone's icy heart, nor is it enough for you that you're the ~special chosen one~. i think you need them to consider you a person and everyone else just dirt beneath their feet because every time you see them mistreat someone you can be reassured that they would never trade you. you apologise on their behalf and make excuses and give people placating smiles and say 'oh they didn't mean it' but deep down you know you'd feel worse if your beloved treated everyone with basic respect like they do you.

that or youre on the ace spectrum and pining for people who will never love you back feels safe + youre possibly into bdsm

#this isnt anything profound im half asleep its midnight #but i just had to get it off my chest #its also not a callout post #bc i also pine for shitty ppl #idk i just love to spend my sleepless nights thinking abt shit like this and coming up w stupid conclusions #usually i'd dump my thoughts in the form of a prompt or a drabble #but im too tired to even do that

[c0rruptedcanvas]

Being in a small fandom is a double edged sword.

It’s nice as there is little to no drama, but you are constantly on life support due to the little content that’s in it

#ao3 my beloved #fan fic writers you are my hero #butterfly soup #THIS #ISNT A CALLOUT #JUST SPEAKING MY MIND

[sweatandwoe]

I was gonna make a joke post about it but a lot of the Copia doesn't have sex/is bad at sex stuff makes me so very uncomfortable as an autistic person

#im not tagging this with fandom let it roam wild and free #the man is very autism coded because he is made by an autistic man who regularly is trying to destigmatize sex #fun headcanons are fine but some of them feel a lil... off... #this isnt a callout post to anyone in particular this is just what ive noticed for the past few months and its been happening a lot recently

[recursivetransformarray]

had a drafted post joking that h/akita would do numbers on here without knowing 1) he DOES have a tumblr account and 2) my notifications are so busy I didn't notice he was fucking following me

#original #the censoring is so this doesnt show up in any search this isnt a callout lmfao #he's been following me on twitter for a year or two now and occasionally haunting my reply sections so its not a *huge* surprise but. OTL

[snailsnfriends]

"I'm in my fleabag era" "I'm in my MARINA era" "I'm in my fiona apple era" "I'm a hot girl" "I'm a clean girl" no you're not you are a complex human person and the validation and self actualization you crave will not come from placing yourself into neat little fake boxes for other people to consume. just exist as yourself. that is the best thing you can do

#makes me CRAZY!!!! #i am guilty of yhis too btw this isnt a random callout or whatever #snailtrail.txt

[curlyhairedprince]

the fact that there are people who dont know why it‘s so funny that Hélène took this picture because they werent around in 2017-2019 makes me dizzy

#this isnt a callout #it is just so #oh my god alskkd

[anxiously-sidequesting]

I know we as a fandom all love to shit on Duncan whenever we get the chance (see: me posting Duncan GruncanWuncan) especially since the like, two times we ever see him he's shitting on us for being ourselves then tries to kill us because of his own delusions of grandeur but I thought about it and I was like, "......man that's kinda Sad actually"

BECAUSE seeing this from Duncan's perspective; he's The Best, he always has been the best, but reality constantly shows him that isn't true (Malorn, The Wizard, anyone else)

Like imagine how painful that can be when you think something that you truly deserved and something that you've fought for, maybe for your entire life, is seemingly handed to others who aren't nearly as deserving as you

And yeah WE know that Duncan has neither worked (very hard, at least) for his perceived greatness NOR does he truly """deserve""" it (Duncan has been shown to be shirking his duties off to us and possibly others for his own gain), but DUNCAN doesn't know this. Like in his mind he truly, honestly, genuinely believes with his whole fragile heart that he is just above everyone else and puts more effort in trying to convince others of that rather than literally just trying to work towards that himself

And then there's the extra added insult that even in his own class he's pretty mediocre. Duncan INSISTS that he was Malistaire's best student and that he praised Duncan maybe once and that all other Death students only wish they could be like him, but... Malorn. And I bet deep down Duncan KNOWS that in fact Malorn was Malistaire's best and most talented. And Duncan can't even really twist that in his mind because it was made solid when Malorn took over Malistaire's duties instead of him. It was proven as a hard fact that Malorn was more suited to the job than Duncan was and is widely recognized as being The Best Death student (if the YW isn't a Necromancer)

Okay so fine. Whatever it's just Death right? At least Duncan can be the best at ANYTHING ELSE, maybe he's not the most talented Necromancer but there's 6 more types of magic to excel in!!!

But then another person ruins that. The Young Wizard poofs in from another world and suddenly, Duncan is overshadowed once more because a literal child prodigy and Local Hero arrives and literally saves their world and then, the universe. Multiple times in fact

Like bro I can imagine that could be at least a little bit painful for anyone, but imagine with Duncan's already low self-esteem and his fragile, large ego, he literally and genuinely took that personally and a hit to your pride is devastating for anyone, no matter who you are. That was like, Strike Three for Duncan and it was so very personal and important to him that it left him in a deep and vulnerable state

But I think the absolute saddest part of Duncan's downfall is that near the end, he was ultimately manipulated by an adult. A grown ass adult noticed and acknowledged his insecurities and purposely struck where it hurts the most, in his weakest state. Duncan already wasn't thinking clearly from the start but when everything went to shit for him and he was clinging, Gretta DarkKettle approached him and completely broke him down to make him into something else entirely for the Schism's benefit.

Of course Duncan was a piece of shit from the start but he truly didn't have any malicious intentions until Gretta messed with his mind. Like, he went from a pretty much harmless bully to an actual criminal of the state and a threat to the literal universe. Duncan was CORRUPTED and all of his worst fears and delusions were solidified the moment Gretta """validated""" those feelings Duncan had.

Is Duncan completely blameless? Fuck no he did some fucked up shit actually and I'm glad he was held accountable for it by the narrative and the fandom!!! But I think it's something to be said that at the end of the day, Duncan was still a child that was suffering from many type of issues before being recruited and manipulated by a powerful literal cult. Wizard101 does have a theme of malicious intending and less than responsible adults using children to get what they want (Malistaire, Morganthe's brother, GF Spider, GM Raven, coughcoughAmbrose) but unlike the Young Wizard who successfully stays true to themselves despite that, Duncan had a more Morganthe-like route and ultimately succumbed to it. Of course their situations are a lot different since the YW wasn't brought in by a cult, but you can't help but feel bad for someone so young being preyed on by older people who are supposed to look out for them and protect them from something just LIKE that.

I will always shit on Duncan because it's funny and hold him accountable for his actions because he should, but I also feel bad for him and I hope he had a better ending after he was defeated

#this isnt like a callout post btw LMAO everyone is free to feel how they feel #this isnt me like shitting on the fandom or anything pls dont feel that way #i just think duncans situation is really interesting and kinda important to look at beneath all the memes and stuff #duncan is a loser in my heart but he's a victim in my soul. poor kid #also think about the fact that he STILL wasnt strong enough even after all that. we still defeated him #he spent most of his young life having all that resentment and anger and hatred in his heart- #-and thought it would all finally be worth it once we were dead but that also fell apart #my fave types of villains are the ones who trult believe they were right/were wronged by the world #duncan literally had delusions of granduer. thats super tough to get over #the feelings and belief of self can be so so important to someone #what you truly believe about YOURSELF is like the core. it can even be more important that religion/family/etc. for some people #it personally makes sense to me that duncan would feel so broken after having that 'taken' away from him #because if you dont have yourself to count on then who???? what else is there #also sad because literally the wizard did nothing to him. we were just minding our own business but duncan still took it personally #it didnt have to be that way at ALL and i hope he gets some therapy and gretta gets locked up forever #anyway. im normal #wizard101 #w101 #wiz101 #duncan grimwater #long post #text post

[amystarrstuff]

i dont ship sinclair x don quixote but you can't deny it does something very funny to certain sinclair x kromer fans.

like yes here's this girl who's totally obsessed with sinclair and is a huge influence on his backstory and wants to create a "perfect world" with him and there's even a sinner that gets her identity and gets to be around him all the time. but also this fucking thing

#limbus company #lcb #don quixote #kromer #sinclair #limbus company spoilers #chapter 3 spoilers #amuposting #whipping out the DON QUIXITA for this #this isnt a callout on anyone i just think it's really funny tbh