#only white christians do this.

[unopenablebox]

texting my mom to find out if she'll still love me if i use a tube of crescent roll dough to make savory filled pastries

#we didn't do that kind of thing growing up! what if it's too goyische and she disowns me. #box opener #both 'small oven baked savory pastries' and 'using crescent roll dough to make them' are goyische actions in my mind #only white christians do this.

[timeisacephalopod]

The type of Christian who asks atheists how they don't like, murder people on the reg are so funny to me because they seem to think their religion makes them the Peak of Morality when statements like "if you don't believe in God how comes you don't do X thing" all but outright state they have no idea why shit like murder and rape is bad except that God doesn't like it lmao. Like way to admit you have no intrinsic sense of morality and need to be afraid of a higher power to be a decent person, but I promise if you're not a piece of shit it's actually very natural not to want to do heinous evil shit all the time potential punishment from a higher power or not 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

#winters ramblings #seriously its SO funny when that happens because every time its like ??? the FUCK kind of thoughts do you have #to ask HOW i resist doing evil shit all the time because i dont fear god because i dont believe in God?? #what kind of fucked up person do you haveto be to only resist killing people because of fear of a higher power?? #these are people to avoid because typically they also come with the issue of using their religion to make any action they want #perfectly Good and Moral because GOD said it its in the BIBLE whether thats true or not and like bible or no #if you have no intrinsic sense of morality i dont want to hear about atheist morality from you lmao #not that athiests lack issues i swear to god white dudes who evangelize atheism like its their new religion #have WILDLY missed the point and often suffer the same problem as the aforementioned Christians #wherein the onky thing thats ever given them any kind of pushback is the church so they decide RELIGION is horrible and bad as a whole #which isnt true religion can be a perfectly lovely amazing thing for people but that brand of atheist #doesnt seem to understand that people turned away from the church because of wide spread abuse and discrimination not because #believing in god makes you literally mentally ill like some of these fuckos act like. abelist AND shite to religious folks in one fowl swoop #so you know atheists have problems too but like they arent making laws in their beliefs images across the world so you know #temper the criticism with how influential the group actually is although richard dawkins types DID get a lot of space to spew their idiocy #like dawkims if you think youre SOOOO much smarter than christians how come you have ALL the same misogyny problems?? #youre not that smart and logical if youve decided a whole kind of person is inherently less than you buddy. in fact thats very Christian #of him actually. funny when that happens but again if you dont actually know WHY something is a problem #its very easy to say Thats Bad and then literally do the exact same thing you just condemned because when YOU do it its no longer bad #because its got YOUR flavor of fucked up morality on it now instead of being like hmm maybe Christianity isnt a problem #because it EXISTS but because a lot of people use their religion as a pointed barb to discriminate against huge swaths of people #and often the intolerance becomes a legal issue when Christians and other religious majorities shove through laws based on EXCLUSIVELY their #religions and opinions and that doesnt mean religion should be dismantled it means we ahould tell religious folk who would know what #morality was if it fucked them up the ass to shut up and figure out what morality is outside of rekigion before they start legislating about #it and whatnot. also i wish extreme opinions werent ALL the news focused on exclusively on the political right #can we platform some NORMAL well adjusted christians who are god loving AND not a bunch of wingnuts #who are two steps away from arguing thou shall not kill only applies to people they LIKE because they dont seem to understand #maybe murder is bad when EVERYONE does it not just The Bad People??!?!

[james-silenthill]

People that refuse the concept that things might be culturally christian are chuckleheads

#delete later skater #ppl are like wehhh wehhhhh i have no culture #yes you do alex from ohio #but you refuse to acknowledge it. and in refusing to acknowledge your cultural upbringing youre only shooting yourself in the foot #i was raised in an athiestic fashion but even then i have a culturally christian background due to being part of the accepted majority #cultural norms are silent and they can be insidious in that way #case in point: white person that doesnt think racism exists in their school because theyve never needed to look out for it #guy who thinks women are hysterical because he cant see the very real gender barriers at play #how tme ppl react to transmisgyny as a whole. its awful #and then ~my fellow athiests~ are like wahhh wahhhhh wahhh #and its like #shut uppppp #just saying bs rn sorry guys

[kyuala]

SOOOOOO hard to go through everyday life trying to ignore the never-ending feeling that im just irreparably fucked up and therefore should just give up on everything

#this aint exactly s******* but it aint exactly not s******* either #anyways it gets even harder when i have to live under the same roof as my brother who is so much better than me in every single conceivable #and imaginable way possible like #and i knowwww a LOT of it comes down to us having relatively similar yet wildly different lives despite being 1.5y apart and having the sam #family our entire lives like he has gone through NOTHING and i mean not a single societal issue ive had to face and endure my entire life #he's a man im a woman. he's white im black. he's straight im gay. he's skinny ive always been 'overweight'. he's always been the good #christian kid ive always had issues w faith and religion. he's never been mentally ill i was clinically depressed for nearly 8yrs of my lif #we both lost the same parent and im the only one who got pathological grief and a personality disorder out of it. he's had a great job for #the last 7yrs that now pays him 20k+ every month ive only had 3 odd jobs my entire life and 2 of those my MOTHER had to give me so i would #have SOMETHING and ive never made over 1.6k monthly n my last job was minimum wage only #he's had like 4 relationships and is nearly engaged im so traumatized + emotionally unavailable ive only ever been on 1 date my entire life #he has a good relationship w every family member we have i have Issues w like half the family. he's always been an active member of our #church i can barely listen to like 4 traditional hymns before i start losing my mind and spiraling. i think the only two ways we're pretty #much equal like socially is that we're both able bodied cis and christians but still the cis and christian thing is debatable for previousl #stated reasons so like. do yall see how much better he is doing than me in every little last area in life and how he's always gotten the #long straw when it comes to Not having to deal w certain obstacles in life. n i know its like yea idk what it actually is like to be him an #he could not be doing all that well first of all shut up. second of all if it was 1 or 2 things i'd get it but it's literally EVERYTHING #and i know bc of said things n our v different lives it's unfair to me to compare the two of us but then it begs the question: WHY #WHY did i have to go through these things. WHY do i have to deal w this. WHY did i get the short straw literally every goddamn time #WHY did i have to get THIS life like WHYYYYY why ME GOD. why have I had to put up w all this bullshit for 24 fucking years!!!!!!!!! im TIRE #and this is not me hating or resenting him i know it's not his fault and he is so good to me #but still. why was i left with these things? to live like this? #so yes i guess i do envy him a little bit. who wouldn't #mari.txt #personal #tw negative #dl #btw i do NOT mean some identities are better than others. i mean he is better and is doing better than me in life partially bc he's never #had to deal w certain social issues and obstacles that come w oppressed identities.

[sybbi]

People will see the Star of David and be like "Is this Zionist propaganda?"

#are you fucking kidding me #also 'i think i'm fine with being called an antisemite now' is not something the good guys say #like if you are capable of understanding why the collective cultural treatment of muslims in the us following 9/11 + the rise of isis = bad #you should understand why treating every jewish person as culpable or guilty by association for israel's deeds is also bad #like how are you all stepping backwards on this #you people will bend over backwards to clear yourselves of guilt when the us does anything so how are you not capable of doing the same #for jewish people?? #like you understand this is the attitude israel counts on right? #the more unsafe jewish people are made to feel abroad the more israel's branding as the only safe place for jews #is proven right #be angry at what is happening but dont deny that jewish people have also been faced with a uniquely shitty situation #where people they thought they were safe with are now joining neo nazis and christian radicals and white supremacists #in spreading hate and targeting them bc of an apparent bloodlust and need for retaliation #retaliating against random jewish people is not helping palestine spreading antisemitic tropes is not helping palestine #making your jewish neighbors and friends feel like you're watching them for any excuse to prove theyre one of The Bad Ones is not helping #if you can't acknowledge that jewish people outside of israel feel rightly uneasy bc all u see is 'israeli excuses and propaganda' #YOU. ARE. AN. ANTISEMITE.

[whimsycore]

I think what people don’t understand about having a narc parent is how isolated you are and how they make you feel on the daily. I had major oral surgery today and I woke up in a dark house tonight.

She literally raised me with the belief that she’s terrified of a completely dark house. And because of that I would make sure a light was turned on for her. Whether she was inside the house yet or not. This woman left one light on and it’s where she was today before she left.

The entitlement and inconsideration is part of daily living with her. But I’m supposed to stay with her because she’s scared to be alone. I’m supposed to not want anything for myself. I’m supposed to not DO for myself because she doesn’t. Imagine your entire life they make you a caretaker and they complain every minute of every day about you to someone so you can’t even trust other adults in your life. And you can’t count on your parent either because they let you down often but expect the world from you.

#like and sometimes other adults will ???? at the them for the way your parent treats you but then they bombard them with how ‘bad you are’ #this woman never celebrated Mother’s Day but literally told her friends she was hurt me and my sister gave her nothing like she didn’t raise #Us for 20 years telling us that and birthdays were haram #she coincidentally went out to buy jewelry on her birthday and would always do something for her birthday #and completely ignore all three of her kids. she even ignores one of her kids deaths. she ignores the day every year #it’s not even just how inconsiderate she is it’s the fact she ALSO had a single parent in the 60s who #literally provided for her in ways only white woman at the time got pampered #it’s the fact she reminisces about celebrating Christmas with her family and still is focused on Christianity #it’s her deep fear of everything that gave me CLINICAL anxiety #and I’m overreacting #when you have CPTSD from your parent they also think all you are and all your worth belongs to them #she also would cry to me when I was at college because she was alone #but when I needed her she hung up on me because ‘it was too much’ but didn’t forget to tell her friends abt it :3

[1eos]

it really pisses me off that any attempts to discuss how misogyny statistically leads to violence against women at the hands of men and then defended by everyone brainwashed by patriarchy regardless of gender (re: mothers protecting sons who assault their partners) is immediately derailed by mras claiming it's terf rhetoric???? trans women are part of the women facing the violence what the fuck are you talking abt? it boggles the mind that half the time when ppl are trying to 'combat' transmisogyny they're fucking being transmisogynistic

#every time they're like don't shit on men that's transmisogynistic #trans women aren't fucking men bro #and terfs don't really hate men imo some of them will complain abt them ig #but most transmisogynists are like.... straight.... theyre tradwives obsessed with the white supremacist patriarchy #the idealogy is rooted in the 'supreme divine feminine' that's skinny white christian or culturally christian and cishet #and they'll be more mad at someone talking shit abt men who are literally online putting femicide #and abuse of women in general as the pinnacle of manhood #see the way all those men changed their tune on Jonathan majors when he was accused of domestic violence? #so why are you defending that??????? #i really do think these chronically online ppl think transphobia is only perpetrated by lesbians for some reason #likeeeeeeee who is passing these laws babes #who's beating women for any perceived faults or 'hints' of 'masculinity #it's a system of violence and it's a LOT of different ppl perpetrating it

[andromedasummer]

i ended up having a like. 30 minute conversation with some of those "freedom convoy" people. was at the bus stop. they were wearing trump hats. i ended up roped into the conversation because i was so taken aback at seeing one in public i was just. staring at it. ive never felt more depressed about someone elses life and beliefs than when i talked to them.

#they fucking. tokd me about the litterboxes in schools for kids identifying as cats and i had to #break it to them that that wasnt true and explained that. also explained. what its like yo be autistic. how i find it joyful #and also discussed how they believe trump has been spoken to by god and chosen to lead and how they arent christians or catholics like they #used to be but instead talk directly to him and have him inside them #and also apparently how 15 minute cities in china are used to keep people imprisoned where they are #and we arent a democracy anymore. which was so funny considering. they are participating for a party #running in the election #i gave them my perspective on being transgender and gay and watched them have like. 3 or 4 ''are we the baddies'' moments #explained what puberty blockers actually do. that surgery is paid out of peoples own pockets. that we literally only have #one doctor who can perform these surgeries and hes abt to retire #and at the end of the convo they were like ''youre so pleasant. youre really smart young lady'' and i was like ''ty? i just. read a lot' #god i hope they learned. something. or i changed some opinion. they seemed to have a more positive view of autistic people at least #i just like. fuck dude. these fuckin right wing grifters are ruining these peoples lives. #the lady has been unemployeed since covid cos she got sucked into this antivax stuff and now theyre both financially unstable #perfect targets for tamaki and the freedoms people who were known for squeezing money out of people through bogus religious stuff #those two have been twisted into just. hateful and scared and are saying the most. insane shit and they dont even realize it. #and the worst part of it was the amount of young people there. so many people my age just deluded into this nonsense. #and kids JESUS CHRIST so many kids holding signs about ''protecting the kiwi way of life'' like bro every single thing #you are getting upset about an imported culture war. you arent threatened by this shit. #youve latched onto american culture war stuff because youre insecure in your whiteness and existence in a colonial country #its so fucking evil.

[baiika]

//i'm VERY FUCKING CRANKY rn

#ooc; kogi rambles #//in the last few days i've had to walk several white ppl of the difference between manji & the nazi swastika #//i've been proselytized at by a brimstone christian calling me a sinner To My Face not knowing the kinda goodworks i do #//& i've spent like the last 45min writing up an essay to tumblr abt misinformation on i/p that's fucking rampant on this site #//only to hit the chara limit & having to truncate it

[gxlden-angels]

I'm like Jesus, but instead of turning water to wine I turn you transgender

#I have once again decided my blog is for people with blue hair and pronouns only #and have determined t*erfism is not just christian-like but Also v based in whiteness #and as a black transmasc person it just don't sit right with me to have y'all here #with y'all actively wanting my rights gone or working with folks who do #blue hair or bust #ex christian #religious trauma

[troonwolf]

How can you tell someone is one of these white middle class people you speak of? What should i watch out for

I feel like this is sarcasm and I can't remember who I was calling white middle class people + tried looking through my blog but it's too far back or in between memes for my impatient ass to find.

With that said I'm pretty sure you're talking about my criticism on endogenics because I've called them that a few times.

Obviously not everyone in a group is gonna be white and middle class even if the majority are, but as someone who used to be in endogenic spaces I noticed a few things

Grand majority of them are white Americans

Grand majority are from middle class backgrounds

Grand majority come from fundamentalist religious (Christian) backgrounds and have religious trauma in connection to it but they outright refuse to consider how that may impact their perspective and beliefs today.

Now as someone who is no longer in the community but still observes for critical reasons, things are genuinely not that much different today. Where do you think this whole weird approach to mental illness even comes from, my man? Christianity. Unironically it's from white Western fundie culture.

Fundies hate mentally ill people. In fundie circles you're taught either to approach mentally ill people like they're special and somehow blessed, or that they're fucking possessed by demons. This is an attitude that persists very strongly in Western fundie circles. They don't trust psychology, they think it's all a scam. If they think there's something demonic about being mentally ill, they will perform exorcisms and many people over the decades have died due to abuse during exorcisms and other "cleansing rituals."

The "positive" outlook of mental illness isn't much better. You're still denied treatment, and now you have the burden of being a weird Christ-like figure to your family and neighbours, essentially suffering for "the glory of God" because they think your psychotic audio hallucinations are actual angels.

Many endogenics leave environments where this ^ is the norm, and though they have enough critical thinking and self-awareness to recognise that religious brainwashing for what it is, they don't realise or care that they're falling into the same trap as before, except with liberal-friendly language.

They don't want to approach mental health symptoms as if they're mental health symptoms because they're taught that's scary, bad, that it makes them broken, that the trauma and illness "taints" their system. These are things you can easily find endogenics saying for why they refuse trauma labels. It's not because there's any logical reason to refuse those trauma labels, it's because something inside them is averse to it. Scared of it. Because that's what they were taught. That mental illness is scary and makes you broken.

And so you end up with thinking like this: (all yanked from sysmedsaresexist)

All this ^^^^ Is about spirituality. It's about faith. it's about ideology. Even the stuff that isn't explicitly about faith, is still about faith, because that's how they approach it. It's not about data, or what's healthier, or even what's probable, it's not even about having a good internal reason for yourself WHY you resist trauma labels. It's about what makes them feel the best. Because that's how fundie religious backgrounds teach you how to reason- with belief, and faith, not with grounded reasoning backed up by data.

Asides from that, there's also the very middle class white person thing of appropriating other cultures and bastardising them for your unhealthy anti-science belief system. A lot of the time when I vaguely make fun of white endogenics it's because of that.

#anti endo #endos dni #syscourse #endo cult #tbh dude if you see someone obsessed with anime and tulpas they are most likely white #but in general all of this [spreads arms wide to encompass the mess of endogenics] #is the internet nerd equivalent of your weird hippy aunt who denounces christianity #but has just replaced it with a load of misunderstood and fake bullshit about how rocks have magical properties #it's the same anti-intellectual psuedo-science navel-gazing shit that white people always do #like white americans have no real culture #and their only culture is terrifying and tells them to whip themselves everytime they have bad thoughts #so they just go around stealing culture from everyone else #same shit with tulpas etc #actally I take it back the bit about white ppl having no culture #becaue every white person has the option to look into their ancestry and discover the roots of their culture before christianity took ove #but they would rather appropriate from other cultures and refuse reasonable explanations for things #most of y'all have some kind of pagan root you could rediscover but instead you do....alll this...

[bleakbluejay]

you guys gotta learn to be a lot cooler about religions that aren't your own

and yes. that does include christianity.

#eli talks #And I Mean It. #the priority obviously is to get cooler about islam and judaism and all. like the religions that get oppressed? #but that firsthand and secondhand religious trauma is making a lot of people very not cool anymore #it makes a lot of people kind of. assholes. even. #white ppl who grew up baptist or catholic or mormon or whatever else that are now athiests will like #talk about how evil religion is. how toxic. how controlling. only really meaning christianity. #bc that's the only religion that really exists to them. as ex-christians. #they ignore the way various black and indigenous ppl have fused their traditions and customs with christianity to survive #they ignore the positive teachings of christianity like charity and reserving judgement and kindness and patience #they ignore the positive elements of religious organization like community-building. fund-raising. finding meaning. #and it's ok to have religious trauma. sucks that it happened. but there's nothing wrong with you being traumatized. #can you for the love of god stop making that everyone else's problem though? #like . can you be normal about how other people choose to interact with the world? #can you be normal about the culture other people practice? the foods they eat? clothes they wear? rituals they perform? #can you like. not try to trick a jewish person into eating pork? can you not ban hijab? #can you just clench your teeth and not say anything mean to someone praying before a meal? #can you keep your comments to yourself when someone says they are going to pray for your hardships to lessen? #when an indigenous person mentions a ceremony they did or a practice they do. can you not call it mumbo jumbo? maybe? #can you abstain from calling a catholic creepy for the ash on their forehead? #idk. i feel a certain way about this.

[quartermoonconvergence]

gotta be honest here if u rationalise max’s parent characterisation as “indians who don’t know english” i do not want u here

#like. do 200000+ of english speaking indians mean nothing to you #like. it isnt a first language. its only there for christians #in india btw. like a lot of ppl in goa learn english as THIER FIRST LANGUAGE BECAUSE THEY ARE CHRISTIANS #NOT EVEN COUNTING SOUTH INDIANS AND NORTHEASTERN INDIANS USING ENGLISH MORE AS A BRIDGE LANGUAGE #A LOT OF INDIANS DONT KNOW HINDI BECAUSE IT ISNT THE NATIONAL LANGUAGE #ITS LIKE. 45% OF THE DAMN COUNTRY #PLUS. THEY ARE IMMIGRANTS. IMMIGRANTS. YOU KNOW. PEOPLE WHO WILL ATLEAST HAVE SOME IDEA OF ENGLISH #THEYRE RICH ENOUGH TO IMMIGRATE TO A NEW COUNTRY IN MOST LIKELY 2004 BASED ON MAX’S AGE. ITS VERY LIKELY MAX’S PARENTS KNOW ENGLISH THAN #THEY DONT. #DUDE. THEYD KNOW WHAT ALLERGIES ARE. THEY GAVE BIRTH. MOST PARENTS INTERNATIONALLY KNOW IT IN ENG #im sorry im rly mad abt this i saw the worst post ever recently and it’s rly odd how performative this fandom gets #like ok. let’s just call immigrants uneducated on english and perpetuate stereotypes that cause hatecrimes i guess!! we just ended racism!! #dadvid still isnt ok btw guys /s #like atp ure just a performative and ignorant person. like. #max parents hcs are a particular litmus test if a person is a performative white activist or not #im sorry for all of this in the tags but i was seething abt this a little since. well. uhm. yknow. #camp camp #cc max

[snekdood]

yeah, free palestine, but that doesnt mean just "get rid of" (left intentionally vague by ppl who say it) israeli citizens??? its always blame the governments not the people over here idk what yall are on.

#also what do you mean by 'get rid of'? #bc personally i think thats a gross ideology to have. where should they go? #aside from the fact yall LARP about wanting white ppl to leave america #(which. surprisingly maybe to some. is exactly what some white supremacists want! they want white only ethnostates so) #this is slightly different from the situation in america where jewish ppl are kinda shoved out of every fucking country and were basically #'given' israel as a dumping ground for them. white settlers wanted to find a 'new world' to colonize and christianize #as far as i can tell jewish ppl were more or less just. dumped in israel bc no one else wanted them #so where do they go exactly? whats your game plan? bc yeah! it is sounding a bit genocidal at this point. #i dont think israel as the occupational govt it is has a right to 'defend' itself per se #but i think the citizens do since LITERALLY WHERE DO YOU WANT THEM TO GO #I still personally think some sort of two state solution should be the goal.

[e-adlirez]

Actually made a drabble this time

Summary says all, haha

If you need a bit of context, Professor Plotfur is a character from the Thea Stilton Mouseford Academy books, as part of the school's new Performing Arts department :3

#thea stilton #thea sisters #geronimo stilton #ao3 fanfic #fanfic #fanfiction #as someone who studied in a theater class for one year in a country that isn't the philippines #it's a whole different breed #like back home they'd just like warm up your voice or whatever and have you read lines and stuff #I didn't know you get to play goofy games and do try not to laugh challenges #i would say that the “hayop ka” gambit is also a common thing practiced in filipino theater but uh #the school i studied a bit of theater in in ph was a sheltered white boi Christian school that had the crappiest extracurricular system #you literally have to do a raffle to get into a mandatory saturday class #if you got uhhhh an animation class that's literally a scam because it just shows you how to make a site with html then too bad #rinse and repeat for all three semesters #so I got into drama twice out of sheer rng and we didn't even get to scream obscenities about how some imaginary dood cheated on us #we did like one christian play and then one where I had to play some girl just getting out of the shower all horny-like #it was weird I had no practice time and no room for improvement because i only had that drama class for one semester #basically it was wack #i dunno if it's the same in other schools but in my school back then it was wack #then I moved to a first world country got into a drama class for my whole last year of senior high and man #I done got scammed /j

[sappho114]

not being christian or culturally christian is great. you could all be lying about good friday and easter and i just wouldnt know. wouldnt care to know!

#quarianrambles #the only thing i do know is the mail is somehow slower this weekend #which usually means an old white boy died #or christian things