#shes irresponsible as FUCK

[cagneyblooms]

dhmis oc eheheee.. her voice sounds like first tooth and bubble bath memories combined i feel

#dhmis #dont hug me im scared #shes irresponsible as FUCK #she teaches the trio ab heat power btw

[whoblewboobear]

I’m gonna take Kipperlilly from some of yall 👀 you can like a villain without trying to clear their name. She objectively is a murderer and a villain this season. It does not make you a “””””bad Person””””” if you like her. You do not have to try and age her down or make her out to be innocent or gentle or sweet or misunderstood. You do not get to use her mental health to excuse her actions either.

At this point, a lot of these post are getting into slippery slope territory, especially concerning mental health. You can be mentally ill and still understand right from wrong. Infantilizing people struggling with their mental health can cause harm. There are mentally ill people that can/will/do go their entire lives without blaming and trying to harm others because of what they’re going through.

Like I feel like we’ve officially hit Joaquin Phoenix Joker levels of ‘we live in a society’ discourse. Yes, there are things that suck and living with mental health issues and having that make your life harder sucks. But then funneling that feeling of unfairness and frustration into harming other people is not okay or justifiable. It’s a clear sign that someone went untreated or their mental health was not taken seriously enough soon enough.

There are a lot of young and impressionable people in the d20 community (a community that is overwhelmingly very supportive and cognizant of mental health) that will see the KLCK discourse and take some of these things to heart. Please be mindful in what you post. She is a fictional character and in context of the story, instead of getting further help or seeking better treatment for her mental health, she chose to harm people. Some responsibility does fall on her in that regard. Not all, but some. There is a point where things get very concerning when you become a danger to yourself or others, Kipperlilly is in that place to be very clear. She needs help.

Yes she is underage, and I do think Jawbone has a heavy responsibility to either reach out to her parents to report her behavior and figure out a treatment plan for her immediately. This never happened, even when she admitted to wanting to kill Kristen. She continued on, untreated and without her rage issues not being fully addressed. Then she murdered someone.

Infantilizing Kipperlilly to absolve her of her wrongdoing isn’t the convo we should be having. Figuring out where she falls on the morality scale does nothing, she’s one of the villains of the season, by that metric, she’s not a great person (not because of her rage disorder, because of her actions.) There are complexities to her. The conversation we should be having is why not a single faculty member or adult that interacted with her and witnessed this behavior didn’t say “woah hey, let’s pump the breaks and get you assessed for a few things and get to the root of what’s going wrong.”

When you see someone struggling, reach out, assess the situation. If you’re an adult and are in a position to help, don’t hesitate to do so or notify a parent or guardian in their life so they get them help. If you’re underage and see a peer struggling, check in and if something sticks out to you as concerning, reach out to an adult that can help or find someone to help. Don’t enable violent or harmful behavior. /Please/ that person can end up hurting themselves or someone else.

#I- listen I will go on about mental health all fucking day #it is VERY important to me #I’m not a professional or a doctor #I’m only speaking from personal experience of having family and friends with mental health issues as well as dealing with my own since I #was 12 years old #I’m now 24 and I have been consistently in therapy the entire time thankfully #initially because my mom and sister saw what I was going through and got me help and then Into my teen years to present day I continued to #seek treatment #it is dangerous to enable behavior like Kipperlilly’s #it is deeply irresponsible as well #like no she’s not real but the kids in the fandom are #dimension 20 #fantasy high junior year #d20 fhjy #fhjy

[mayasaura]

I just want to talk about the nursery being painted and the purpose of the Tomb to be without a door. Anastasia had a family - and putting to the side the pact with Alecto there's some implicit symbolism to John asking for the workers of the Ninth to die constructing the Tomb with that image of new life. (Still can't articulate my disbelief that he went and didn't think that asking Anastasia of all people, The one who lost her cavalier to him, would have problems)

Yeah. Especially finding this out about the Ninth, where nurseries becoming tombs is a thing we're sensitive about.

On one level we've always known Anastasia had a family. Like, we know she's Harrow's direct ancestor. You can't be heir to the line of someone who never had children. But the nursery.... Yeah. It really hammers it in. Her friends painted a nursery mint green for her children.

And now it's a tomb.

#that's what the Anastasian is now after all #you're right there's really Something there #I've noticed something in John I think ties into this thematically that I really hope Kiriona is going to help us explore #John doesn't believe in a future #I said in my last Anastasia meta that Anastasia outsmarted John by making herself immortal in a way he couldn't understand #she left behind something she created to outlast her #John hasn't built anything to outlast himself and he doesn't think of the future at all #he mourns the past and fights like hell to live in an eternal present where nothing ever ends #you know #immortality #and a part of that—maybe most of that—is about despair #even way back before the world ended even before he had magic powers he didn't think of a future #I think he couldn't imagine one #and like. I get it dude #don't imagine the future and maybe it can't hurt you #how many people have you heard saying they don't want children because it seems cruel or irresponsible #they can't imagine forcing someone to live in the world they see coming #climate anxiety is fucking everywhere and for a lot of people in our generation—John's generation—it's coalesced into despair #but Anastasia did imagine a future #she had a family #and now John has a daughter but he still can't imagine a future for her #she's just as dead and eternal as the world he loved so deeply he killed it rather than watch it die #what did Gideon say when she saw the First? it had the look of a picked-over body but hot damn what a beautiful corpse #that's gonna be you baby girl #the final expression of the art of the nine houses #John gave up on hope ages ago #so it doesn't really surprise me at all that he still asked the builders to die in the tomb #the locked tomb #ntn spoilers #nona the ninth

[toss-a-coin-to-your-stan-account]

fuckin blocked the SHIT out of someone for hating s3 vol 1 bc (among other reasons) ciri is "irresponsible" as if she's not a literal fucking child that lost everything and everything she loved and finally lets herself act like a kid when she has a family and parents again and (as audacious as it sounds) that means she'll want to do fun things more than stay safe and (clutching my pearls as we speak) be upset when she's told she has to cover up and hide during the ONE night that was supposed to be genuine fun that she hoped to have ON HER FUCKING BIRTHDAY

#SHE'S NOT SUPPOSED TO BE RESPONSIBLE!!!!! THATS THE TRAGEDY!!! #THE SADDEST FUCKING PART IS THAT SHE *SHOULDN'T* BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY OF THIS!!! SHE SHOULD BE HAPPY AND SAFE AND A KID!!!!! #OF FUCKING COURSE SHE'S IRRESPONSIBLE SOMETIMES!! ITS WEIRD TO EXPECT ANYTHING ELSE!!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!!!! #mine #the witcher #the witcher s3 spoilers #ciri #cirilla fiona elen riannon

[a-chaotic-dumbass]

fascinated by the lack of empathy for a 16 year old girl dying on her childbed shown by the some of u ppl. like do u hear yourself

#asoiaf #lyanna stark #house stark #r+l=j #this is specifically in reference to One pinterest post and the comments bc christ on a fucking cross #how r u gonna call a girl begging a kingsguard to let her brother to her as she was dying selfish and irresponsible and say that she #deserved it and then turn around and ask for empathy for elia and her children like hello?? run that by me again real quick #jon snow

[wuakdd]

i relate to her so much that its almost unbearable

#nitw #night in the woods #mae borowski #like.. while im not as violent and social as she is #i still am rude and irresponsible and insensetive and i do something first and then think about it #but at the same time reason for her actions are her deep flaws that were caused my mental issues #and im like. just deeply flawed but still mentally stable #which annoys me bc at least my behaviour could be more understandable. #AND THE FACT THAT IT ANNOYS ME ANNOYS ME EVEN MORE!!! #like seriously WHAT THE FUCK is my problem #i hate myself sm i’d rather just stopped existing #IM ALSO SORRY FOR ANYONE WHO SEES THIS. sorRy #*by mental issues

[craycraybluejay]

How many great artists and scientists and iventors dyou think died in slave plantations, concentration camps, and meaningless bullshit wars and genocides?

#i think about it every now and then and feel like crying #you know? #someone who died to the cruelty of humanity could have cured cancer #and their lives matter either way but #it causes me anxiety to think that even with whatever value I have it can only mean so much #people are irrational and cruel. i could invent fucking time travel and in some spaces it simply would not matter #how do you play at stocks and mind games with someone who does not Think in that way #a smart play for power or play for anything else is only useful so long as other involved parties arent insane or stupid #how frustrating is that? #irresponsible stupid people in power make my blood boil more than just the power itself #you cant even concede to someone like that either bc they wont understand compromise or surrender #but also its like telling a bully you'll tell his mom that his dad cheated #but the bully is stupid and beats you up anyway and now you both lose because youre definitely going to tell now #you could have come out both winners if he understood your leverage and backed off #but now youre both losers cause you are still all bruised and bloody and he gets to deal with his parents messy divorce #don't negotiate with stupid people. recognize when they arent understanding and just try something else like running #dont fret sometimes an appeal to emotion will kick em into gear #'ill tell your mom' vs 'your mom will be so devastated and sad when she finds out :(' #obv dont do that unless someones abusing their power over you/hurting you in a situation you cant just run from #because the best solution if possible is almost always run. leave. get away. #but if you have to fight you want to get at any angle you can #you want to corner the other person so they go from being offense to defense #and if youre just digging/prepping for a bigger thing you want to get them frazzled enough to make a mistake #again. this is for self defense especially in long term abusive/toxic situations #people who abuse using their power usually have ego problems. sometimes you can take a gamble and go for the ego #they do this to you. do it BACK. #and preferably have a weapon on hand if they are liable to violence and unpredictability #better to look for a lawyer than check on the status of your life and health insurances #it is never too late to fight back. some people will tell you helplines but they have not helped me or anyone i know #so i'm telling you how to fight back and protect yourself by any means necessary

[heartshattering]

5 AM

Just me and my overactive mind facing the nighttime again 🙃

#hopefully the meds work but while waiting for them to kick in I get so damn nervous #and sometimes I do get nights where even on my full dose my anxiety is too overpowering and I just. Do Not Sleep #I mean I do eventually but not without spiraling first :') #way before I was prescribed sleep meds my longest was 3 nights without sleep while on a VERY stressful trip #I felt like I was gonna die and I did not sleep until I got off the plane and was back at home #(this was like 15 years ago already but it still haunts me fhfgsgdh) #my best friend and I were having a conversation today #and she was like 'not sleeping can make you hallucinate right?' #and I was like :') I get the hallucinations in other scenarios too #BUT I also get what she meant #not sleeping is really bad for me mentally which is why I can't do 'sleep restriction therapy' #and fun fact #a lot of my OCD obsessions revolve around sleep!!! #which is 'awesome' because laying in bed with insomnia makes my OCD flare up so like #the two get to feed off each other and make my life a living hell!!! #and don't even get me started on my sleep paralysis episodes #(which I like to think of as just my brain misfiring but that my aunt tells me is saints or demons trying to talk to me) #'cause she hallucinates too but hers are like 'spiritual' or whatever #same with my mom's hallucinations as well #and to add fuel to the dumpster fire of my mind and body is the fact I've been overcaffeinating again #which I've known not to do ever since I was in middle school and saw the pediatric cardiologist who specifically said 'hey don't do that' #fast-forward to adulthood and I still haven't learned how to handle anything #like. I have heart meds and sleep meds and migraine meds and IBS meds #and yes meds are good but like. I know you need to incorporate lifestyle changes as well #which I do for like 2 weeks until the next time I fuck up #I've been so irresponsible lately but like. ESPECIALLY today #didn't eat #took some meds on an empty stomach and forgot to take my other ones at all #had too much caffeine #stressed out over some stupid situations thanks to overthinking

[silvermoon424]

Was gonna post a whole rant but I’ll save myself some time and just say I fucking hate capitalism and all the bootlickers who simp for it. Capitalism simps are seriously some of the most morally deficient people out there.

#I was motivated to write this post because I read a comment where some guy told a girl her mom is “’stupid and financially irresponsible”’ #bc she’s still paying off her student loans 10 years later #while HE a proud capitalist has paid off three loans and only got mommy and daddy’s help with the first one #eject these people into the sun I’m done trying to reason with them #anti capitalism #Fuck capitalism

[stinkybrowndogs]

How do u buy a little farm house with 4.5 acres of land when u r broke and also live in california

#there is a perfect little place for sale i am crying that she cant be mine #i would do my art n have my dogs and my hawk and maybe even a little garden #id get like. 2 or 3 goats. some chickens. i #its down the street from one of the nice community farm stands #sell my eggs there #eat my tomatoes from my garden #i could have 4 dogs and it wouldnt be irresponsible #its next to public hunting land #i could fly bird there #cries in poor #it needs a lot of fixing up #but the house is so fucking cute #and its not too pricey for up here #meaning its under 500000 #fuck u california

[starlight-on-snow]

The way they hold each other....im passimg away......I'm going to the floor does anyone want anything

Also I just realized that his arms are in a perfect mirror of each other in these pictures I cannot go on

#true fact looking at these made my migraine ease off. im being irresponsible but it's worth it #the 1928 one could be a painting im feral look at Dea 😭 an angel #the man who laughs 1928 #the man who laughs #the grinning man #it's the way he closes his eyes in both of these like her very existence is a relief of all hurts and a joy unquenchable #it's the way she looks like there's nowhere else she'd even imagine being #FUCK #gwyndea #tmwl1928 #bovprod #*sings softly* my broken heart is mending my screaming world is healing with your looove

[im-smart-i-swear]

webby would have LOVED mystery flesh pit national park

#my funky guys #shed be sooo fascinated w it #shed be pissed about the comercialisation of it n shit BUT. at the same time if she could take a hike in there? #she would. 100%. and shed be having a blast tge whole time #like. shed have a love hate relationship w the whole national park thing and how irresponsible the whole situation was #bc it WAS shitty and sketchy as hell #but on the other hand she just really really loves the idea of being able to walk around the insides of a colossal beast #so shed be like 'ofc nobody should be allowed to fuck around in there like that wtf dude thats so dangerous and irresponsible #.except for me. they should let ME fuck around!!! fuck the corporation and tourists i would treat her right!!!!!! #*I* would be careful and wouldnt exploit the resources and keep distance from the fauna unlike SOME PEOPLE' #ok well. i mean weblums exist so i suppose she COULD walk around the insides of a giant organism #but still the mystery flesh pit has that certain allure. a vibe. weblums are cool as hell but theyre not an eldritch underground horror #weblums are cool space whales but the mystery flesh pit is .well the mystery flesh pit. cant rlly compete w that #anyway. the pit may be a deatrap but not for her. shed survive. shes special like that the giant lobsters wouldnt eat HER #also webby would be very much on the pits side. its not ITS fault people are stupid?? its just chilling!!! its not evil!!!!!! #'ohh but those arthropods are scary!!! WELL. theyre WILD ANIMALS DIPSHIT ofc theyre hostile. and plus theyre cool as hell'

[aeide-thea]

#rebecca traister #marriage #uspol #this article is honestly a bit of a muddle structurally #but i think she touches on some good points #and i also just. appreciate the invitation to give the increase in lobbying for Marriage a good skeptical squint #because honestly i've encountered very little skepticism about the institution even in liberal parts #and i do actually think it's like. seventeen weasels in uneasy harness #like fundamentally the fact that you get a tax break for being married is. what the actual fuck. #similarly i know it's like. considered irresponsible to be down on marriage because it's important for queer ppl to have equal access to it #in the face of a society that has often refused to recognize our relationships‚ and i get that #but like. in an ideal world i think more people ought to explicitly set up medical proxies‚ iron-clad wills‚ etc #rather than the current setup where Marriage is meant to serve as shorthand #for a bizarre assortment of statuses‚ some of which should be more broadly available— #people ought to be able to share their health insurance more broadly! #(i mean for that matter health insurance shouldn't depend on employment‚ for many reasons.) #(but like. it's a whole fucked up chain. you depend on a company affiliation; yr spouse depends on a spousal affiliation) #(and anybody who can't or won't get themself within the pale of a network that will shelter them? is just fucked) #—and some of which shouldn't exist at all. like. i'm sorry. governmental financial incentive to enter into wedlock??? #anyway i don't think i've ever seen any skepticism/alienation wrt marriage on here except from soph #so i can't imagine this tag rant will be a particularly popular opinion #but it's like. marriage IS a conservative institution and societal pressure to engage in it is part and parcel of the machine #that's trying to grind us all back towards christian white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy etc etc etc. #(and yes there are many people of various marginalizations who dig marriage) #(and to whom their own personal marriage is imbued with its own individual meaning) #(and like. a marriage between marginalized people does not cause them to perfectly fit the trad model and receive perfect acceptance) #(like. just look at buttigieg.) #(but like. similarly it's true that the attempt to restrict abortion access is a deeply conservative project) #(even as there are more nuanced conversations it's possible to have about particular axes of reproductive justice) #(was that enough disclaimers?)

[bakingmoomins]

ppl who walk their dogs unleashed r fcking unbearable

#my dog pissed himself literally pissed himself bc a dog came running at him so i stood between them ready to protect raba #and the owner came running and was like hereereey whats the isssueee whatsup my dog just wants to say hiii #she's so frieeeendly what is wrong w youuu and then he saw that rabano was fucking scared bc he's scared of other dogs #(he thinks he's a cat) and he was like heeey whats wrong with your dog lol my dog lil bambi here is soooo nice and you've got like #a huge beast over there haha why is he whining #so i got really mad and told him to put his dog on a leash and he was like nooooo she loves being free and she's sauuur nice #and i was like ok sure lil bambi is nice whatever what if she runs towards and aggressive dog and gets bitten #and he got really mad at me and left. honestly fuck u and ur stupid lil bambi idc if she's sweet loook she has a bandana i don't care #like that dog literally just ran at me and rabano she could run into traffic she could do a lot of things i am so tired of #irresponsible pet owners #🐌

[fulgurbugs]

happy birthday to me (bought a 4th draculaura doll for myself today)

#its ok i got birthday money i deserve an irresponsible purchase) #and she’s so fucking cute like #g3 draculaura dolls have all been so fucking cute and tailor made to appeal to me #she’s pink #she’s got halloweeny aesthetics #what more would i want #anyways now i have 4 and no space in my dorm #lmao. she’s behind my tv rn

[flutternozzle]

the kitten i posted abt a few weeks ago is still hanging round around our house and zooming in when anyone opens the back door.. 2nite she came in and made herself comfortable on my mom’s hoodie 😭🥺

bonus pic of her looking at me sadly thru the window after she went outside and i shut the door to come in ☹️

#she’s soooo fucking cute and friendly but we don’t know if she’s a stray or not?? #she doesn’t have a collar so if she is someone’s pet they’re like. Super irresponsible 🙁 #ellie.txt