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BLACK MOON LILITH. 🌙 THE POWER OF SEDUCTION. 💋 & HOW TO USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. 🐍

Introduction

[please read. Examples for each sign/house included below]

✨ Who is Lilith?

To be honest, no one really knows. In some mythologies, she is Adam’s first wife who was banished from the Garden of Eden for being subordinate. In others, she’s a cxm stealing night demon who causes men to have wet dreams so she can steal the sperm & eat the babies??? (I think. I may have made that last part up, but it sounds about right). I chose to believe she’s somewhere in the middle.

Her mystique is a part of her allure, much like women to men in general. She’s like the High Priestess in tarot. An all knowing witch w her foot upon a crescent moon, holding all the secrets to the known & unknown. Sexy, right?

No matter the background story, Lilith is THAT BXTCH. (That is, if you’re into the whole sexy demon lady thing). She speaks of unbridled feminine power. The dark side of the moon. Lilith represents the untamable part of feminine energy. Chaos in its purest form. & low and behold, we all have a Lilith within us, scratching to get out.

🎵Glory Box- Potishead

“Give me a reason to love you.

Give me a reason to be a woman.

I just wanna be a woman”

(if you don’t know this song, you are missing out)

✨ Definition of Seduction

1. The act of seducing — especially the enticement of a person to sexual intercourse

2. Something that seduces: temptation

3. Something that attracts or charms

- Merriam Webster Dictionary

✨ The Power of Seduction

Like the snake charmer charming the snake out of the basket; Seduction is the art of charming the snake out of *his* basket…if you know what I mean *wink*…just kidding. In all honesty, seduction is so much more than sex & getting someone to sleep w you. It’s about attracting the energies, people, places & things that you want into your orbit. The power of seduction IS the feminine super power. It is the power to be desired, the power to tempt & entice & ultimately, the power to manifest. Why do I say it’s a feminine super power? Not because girls are the only creatures that can seduce, no. But rather because feminine energy is all about receiving. It is vital for feminine energy to be able to lure in its object of affections or else it won’t be able to survive. Always remember, the Moon (feminine energy) is only able to RECEIVE & REFLECT light from the Sun (masculine energy). The Moon doesn’t create light itself— inherently making it “negative” energy because it only takes. The Sun on the other hand, has enough light to spread around, giving freely, making it “positive” energy. See the connection? This doesn’t have to do w gender at all & has everything to do w how energies flows between negative & positive/dark & light.

To seduce is to control, to manipulate, & to influence. Like The Magician in tarot, casting spells & pulling rabbits out of his hat, seduction is the fine craft of illusion, allure & making things appear out of thin air— using the best parts of yourself to reel in the best of catches. When you understand your seduction style, you better understand how to use what you got to get what you want! AND THAT is when the magik happens, baby!

✨ This post is going to be about how to tame the untamable. How you can use your star given gifts to the best of your abilities & attract whatever/whoever you want in to your life, bringing blessings down from the sky. Once you master your Lilith, you master your own shadow, your own inner chaos, your own power of seduction— & merge into one being, always striving for your highest good & manifesting beyond your wildest dreams. While looking damn sexy doing it!

✨Below you will find descriptions for each Lilith placement by zodiac sign/house, celebrity examples, songs/lyrics, films/characters & seduction tips! Enjoy!

🎵Sexy Bitch- David Guetta ft. Akon

⚠️ FYI: I will be using sidereal examples, HOWEVER, this is still applicable to western tropical astrology! Please, don’t plagiarize my work. I put a lot of time, energy, effort & thought into my writings & I ask you please respect that. If your description doesn’t resonate, try reading the Lilith placement ABOVE if you are reading for your western sign. You may learn something new!

⚠️ I do not want to offend ANYONE by using traditional gender pronouns. I am a cis-gender heterosexual female, so I am writing from the perspective I know best. I am NOT trying to say this is the only perspective that matters. I have included cis-woman, trans women & even drag queens as examples in this post. Please feel free to share any insights you have, no matter the gender, non-gender or perspective! I’m truly open & supportive. This is not an exclusionary post.

Special shout-out to my little sister who helped me conduct research for this post! I love you so much! She’s the one who encouraged me to start this tumblr lol 🖤💋

ON WITH THE SHOW:

✨ Lilith in Aries/ Lilith in the First House

The Embodiment of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Mars

Tarot Card: The Magician/The Emperor

Lilith is more than comfortable in Aries/1H. She’s the provocateur, the fire dragon, the mistress. Lilith finds a lot of power in the first house & in the first sign of the zodiac. She loves playing the sexy villain, one who causes men’s head to turn & woman’s stomach to drop. She IS Lilith. Well, at least the façade of her.

If you have Lilith in the first house or in Aries, you seduce by simply being you. Be bold. Be present. Be open. You don’t shy away from competition, because you know other woman can’t compete w your daring & enticing nature. You don’t see competition, you walk up to it & squash it. Your aggression may turn people away, but it will activate the right mate that will find you irresistible & charming. You ooze w sex appeal & look best in blacks & reds. There is a commanding energy surrounding you that causes others to want to ACT. You bring out other’s masculinity to the forefront— the competitiveness, the passion, the anger, the rage, the lust— and all you have to do it walk into the room.

You tend to wear more daring & revealing clothing & make your admirers drool. You usually have tattoos & piercing— giving off a fierce edgy vibe. Your favorite wardrobe is probably something related to the 90s, be it a band tee or a choker. You wear makeup like it’s war paint! Real garage band glamour. You may have a nasty habit of attracting married men because you bring out the animalistic & primal energies in even the most domesticated of men. You have an energy where people just want to taste & tame you, hoping they can satisfy your seemingly unquenchable sexual thirst. If a man has laid eyes on you, best believe something started stirring inside him. If a woman has laid eyes on you, best believe something started stirring inside her. Never question if you’ve made an impact. You ARE the impact.

Be aware that this can attract the wrong type of attention as well. This Lilith sign is likely to have had some unfortunate sexual encounters, to put it lightly. The same energy that attracts your prey, can sometimes attract a predator,l. This this Lilith sign has to be particularly careful not to attract people trying to steal power away from them. It’s because of your power that you are so undeniably desirable. But sometimes people will want to overpower you & that can lead to serious problems. Own it. Don’t be afraid of it, but be wise.

All in all, when you walk in a room, people see Lilith. You are their worst fear & most lustful fantasy. Show your dominant & masculine take charge side & you’ll have the right partner wrapped around your finger. You, more than any other Lilith placement (maybe not Capricorn/10H depending on how much money is involved) are okay w the being the bad gal— so be it. Sometimes your relationships can go from extreme passion to extreme hate but you enjoy the journey, it’s all the same to you. Primal. Animalistic. Untamed. Wild. There is always an air of volatility in any of the relationships you are truly fascinated & enthralled in. Your fierceness is your super power & some people can’t handle it. You don’t sweat like a whxre in church on Sunday because you’re ashamed, you’re sweating because you’re too busy fxcking the Priest. Everyone knows it & you’d have it no other way.

🎶 Lana Del Rey is a Lilith in Aries native. She is known for having an ongoing affair w the-man-who-shall-not-be-named, but was (& sadly still is) a mogul in the music & film industry when her career first started. She has had no issue sharing her experience of being a mistress & has seen the benefits of “being a bad bxtch on the side” (Sad Girl). Del Rey also talks about anger, passion, abuse & drugs in relationships— all things Lilith in Aries brings to the surface because of the primal energy associated w it. Think her third album “Ultraviolence” (If you have this placement & you haven’t listened to this album front to back…do it now, thank me later). It’s a great example of the highs & lows of multiple love affairs. Each song, like a chapter of a memoir, drawing out the extremes of love, hate passion & lust from a femme fatale perspective. Although Lana has been the center of controversy when it comes to promoting “toxic” relationships— she’s NEVER shied away from who she is & the types of relationships she prefers. THAT’S the Martian in her. She welcomes the taboo & the “ugly” parts of love no one would dare talk about & makes it into a poetic, drug induced, teenage fever dream. She has been & will be, the misunderstood mistress of the decade.

🎵 Ultraviolence — Lana Del Rey

“He used to call me DN

That stood for deadly nightshade

'Cause I was filled with poison

But blessed with beauty and rage”

🎵 Sad Girl — Lana Del Rey

“Being a bad bitch on the side

Might not appeal to fools like you

Creeping around while he gets high

It might not be something you would do, but

You haven't seen my man

He’s got the fire

And he walks w it

…

His Bonnie on the side”

🎞 The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo

👑 Honorable mention:

Shakira (there’s a she-wolf in the closet, amiright?)

(A lot of celebrity men have this placement, I’m sorry this list is a little short for woman, but you have a LOT of men, Bruce Lee…Will Smith (cough cough, Ryan Reynolds, and some…um…some war criminals. I’m going to leave them out, but I’ll give you a hint, they both definitely contributed to the onset of WWII. Do with that info what you will…lol)

Drop a flame 🔥 emoji down below because you’re on fire, baby!

✨Lilith in Taurus/ Lilith in the Second House

The Sensuality of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Venus

Tarot Card: The Empress

Lilith in Taurus/2H is all about the finer things in life. This Lilith expresses true— stand out beauty. Be it the face, the body or the whole package. Beauty is projected onto this Lilith sign more than any other, even if the person possessing this placement doesn’t see themselves in that light. This Lilith is all about exploring the senses— all the things that make us human and alive. Lilith in Taurus/2H will only want the best foods, the best wine and the best sex— no if and or butts (unless you’re into that) about it.

If you have Lilith is the 2nd House or in Taurus, you are a natural beauty— whether you feel that way naturally or not, people find you irresistibly attractive. Always remember, attractiveness is not solely based on looks! Your scent is delicious, the way you move your hips is hypnotizing, your taste in music—impeccable! You ARE the sexy vibe. You can be a show-stopping beauty in sweatpants or in couture. You are beauty and grace personified!

This is a placement for a muse and you can use this to your advantage in terms of seducing and attracting whatever you want into your life. Because you may not see your outer beauty, sometimes it could be beneficial to have someone see it for you! For instance, you could be a model, but it may be better for someone else to dress you! People will see the beauty in you in places you would never imagine yourself, so be open to other people’s view. You may be too calm, cool & collected to truly see how you shine.

You win over any admiring lover by cooking, caressing & providing a homey environment that anyone would feel comfy in. Light candles, play music, add tactile toys to your bed pleasures. Listen, you would totally KILL in some lingerie— anything that stimulates the senses (taste, touch, smell, sight & sound) you are QUEEN! And don’t you forget it. You exude femininity & people will want to cater to you, so let them!

The dark side of this Lilith can be getting too comfortable! Be mindful not to just chase highs & pleasurable experience & leave responsibilities and health on the back burner. Remember to stay engaged with the harsher part of realities, so you can fully enjoy the good things in life. What’s pleasure without pain? You also have to be smart with your temper. It’s slow to rise, but once it gets going…it’s GOING, so be careful not to alienate those you love in a temper tantrum. All in all, you are one beauty queen & you should wear your crown proudly! You are walking art. Sometimes this can become a burden, however, because you are more than your looks. So sometimes your beauty & sensuality can be a gilded cage. I recommend using your beauty to your advantage, but being deliberate in not allowing it to be all of who you are.

🎶 Megan thee Stallion is a beautiful example of a Lilith in Taurus native. She is tantalizing to the senses & posses an all around bold & beautiful presence, from her head down to her toes. For the music video, “Big Ole Freak”, she is playing around w color, stimulating to eyes, bubbles, stimulating to the touch & her voice is cool and smooth, stimulating to the ears. Although fashion wise, Megan hasn’t always hit the mark, no one can deny her beauty AND THAT is the power of a Lilith in Taurus native. You just are beautiful, you don’t need all the glitz & glamour to prove it! Megan is also one of the most sensual rappers out to date. She deals w themes of sex & pleasure almost exclusively.

🎵Big Ole Freak- Megan thee Stallion

“"Baby lemme rub, lemme rub on ya

Can I get a lil' love, lil' love from ya"

My body addictive it's driving him crazy”

🎞 Scarface

👑 Honorable mentions:

Megan Fox

Lady Gaga

Drop a cake 🎂 emoji down below because you’re delicious!

✨ Lilith in Gemini/Lilith in the Third House

The Mind of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Mercury

Tarot Card: The Lovers

Lilith in Gemini/3H always brings a mind-blowing experience to someone in this Lilith native’s presence. Lilith here is quick witted, intelligent, worldly & one of the greatest conversationalist to grace this planet—and she knows it. She is able to enrapture her prey with light banter, chilling tales of late night rendezvous in the big city & possess an effortless coolness that keeps people coming back for more & more. This Lilith is certainly one to play the cat & mouse game, mentally— heck! She is the one’s who wrote the rules!

If you have Lilith in the 3H or in Gemini, you seduce by the sound of your voice & the impressiveness of your mind. You know how to tell a story & get anyone to hang on to the edge of their seat, wondering what your next witty comeback is going to be. Now, having this Lilith means you are not the most committal on the planet, so you will really have to be aware of how you cast your web. What you consider light flirting may really awaken true feelings of desire in someone else and you could send the “wrong” message. (You may get off on this in fact, actually….you’re secret is safe w me).

To be honest, you look good in anything! It’s not your outer appearance that matters, but rather your inner intellect that makes you undeniably attractive. People will remember things you say in passing for years & years to come. So always choose your words wisely.

This may actually be one of the hardest Lilith’s to tame because you are all about exploring as many experiences as you possibly can—simply so you can talk about them later. This may confuse people who are attracted to you, and maybe even confuse you at times if you are unaware of your nature. Because this is a masculine & extremely cerebral Lilith, you will have to be mindful and take into considerations people’s feelings. Yup, feelings aren’t your strong suit. You can easily manipulate and entice with just the sound of your voice, but there are feelings behind your actions & you should be responsible because other people may not be as heady or as detached as you are. You would do a lot better in partnerships w other Masculine Lilith signs such as other Air & Fire placements. You have no issue leaving someone who believes they are deeply & madly in love with you on read. And that is your magic, but also your curse. They way you can fly from person to person, relationship to relationship can leave people feeling like they never mattered to you at all. Once you detach, you detach…sometimes, never to to be heard from again. You’re not as dreamy as Pisces, but you’re just as elusive & can a leave a lover asking “did that even happen?”.

To seduce, invite people to a night out, or go on a date to an art museum or gallery. Your lover will be genuinely impressed by your knowledge & how you know how to work a room. They enjoy seeing you flutter from conversation to conversation, never missing a beat. You know a little about a lot, but seem endlessly fascinating & full of otherworldly adventures. You objects of affection will appreciate the way you always seem to know a little something about something. Your intelligence & gift of gab are UNMATCHED. You are most likely highly educated or at least give off the aura that you are. Just be careful not to come off as a know-it all. Always leave a little room for learning!

All and all, this can be a very powerful Lilith placement because your intellect is sexier than any lingerie— but chances are, you look good in lingerie too. You can seduce the hardest men/partners to pin down, because YOU certainly give them a run for their money! Look at Amal Clooney! She’s a Lilith in Gemini native & was able to woo & marry one of Hollywood’s most eligible bachelor’s, George Clooney! There is power in your words— strong seduction power— use it wisely! Or else be a tornado/whirlwind, leaving your lover dazed & confused like Dorothy waking up in Oz.

🎶 Doja Cat is a Lilith in Gemini native. In her career, she’s been a rapper & a singer (I think she is a DOPE rapper, doesn’t get enough credit for her penmanship) and uses her voice to inspire & seduce millions. She’s so good, she can sing a song about being a cow & people drool. I think it’s interesting that she picked the name Doja “Cat” because I think cats embody the Lilith in Gemini energy so well. You may have a cat…but do you OWN a cat? Cats are notoriously smart & mischievous…so is this Lilith placement.

🎵 Rules- Doja Cat

“Play w my p—, but don’t play w my emotions…

I need devotion

Leaving you with that lotion

Telling me this and that, the third

That sh— for the birds, I'm ghosting

if you don't dive in that p— like dolphins”

🎞 Cat Woman (the character, choose any Batman movie & any actress)

Clementine - Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (I want to highlight her change of hair color, every time they meet. Gemini energy is known to switch the look up, quick!)

👑 Honorable mentions:

Amal Clooney

Judge Judy (she’s iconically witty & smart-mouthed. Made an entire career off talking sh—)

RuPaul (THEE Drag QWEEN, Hunty!!! Notice how Ru is able to switch effortlessly into another larger than life character. If that’s not Gemini duality, I don’t know what is!)

Frieda Kahlo (I could do an entire post on this one! Trust me. She’s amazingly dope if you aren’t familiar w her life story)

Drop a cat 🐱 emoji down below because you do whatever you want when you want!

✨ Lilith in Cancer/Lilith in the Fourth House

The Empathy, Compassion & Chaos of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Moon

Tarot Card: The Moon

Lilith in Cancer/4H is an extremely powerful feminine energy. This can be a very chaotic placement— as Lilith may experience fluctuating moods & deep dissatisfaction in life— but can be an extremely loving and compassionate placement as well, that is willing to sacrifice her own happiness in order for others to feel supported, loved & nurtured. It’s when she doesn’t feel as if she’s getting the same treatment that we run into problems. She is the ultimate mother figure, and sometimes mothers have to do what no others will do to protect those they love & care about most. Lilith her is very emotional, sometimes so in tune w how she feels, she forgets to acknowledge the world around her, comfortable in her own world of woes. Lilith here has unbridled power to manipulate emotions— her own, but most importantly, those that are drawn closest to her.

If you have Lilith in Cancer/4H you are lovingly empathetic & this is your card of seduction! You can sense how others are feeling & use it to your advantage. Your nature allows you to see what others are unable to see within themselves, especially when it comes to unexpressed & repressed emotions. You yourself have probably struggled w emotions that sit just beneath the surface, at any moment ready to boil over. Hence why you are such a deep & impactful lover— like the phases of the moon, their are so many different shades of color to your personality.

You look particularly attractive in dresses and loose fitting clothing— your lucky, you look best when you look comfortable! I’m sure some of you may be very blessed in the breast department, so show off them boobies when you really want to cast your spell on someone.

With this placement, you will have to be careful of attracting people w deep rooted “mommy-issues” and/or who are just genuinely unhappy. Because you possess a strong & caring nature, your partners could try to use you to fill that hole that was left there by a parent— NOT YOUR JOB! However, you can use this gift/persona to your advantage, just don’t let it drain you. You can make anyone feel welcome & at home, but you have to make sure that you’re not trying to please someone who is unappeasable— that’s like trying to fill up a cup w a hole in bottom of it!

To seduce, invite people (you trust) into your home. Let them see you in your natural habitat. Comfortable & in charge. You shine in your own dwelling & people will fantasize about coming home to you every night! Your intuition is so sexy, the way you just know things can be spooky to some, but a huge turn on to others. You know how to love w a big heart & tangle anyone into your web. Don’t be offended by the mom trope, MILF’s do exist! Just don’t be taken advantage of by people because they have a sob story & don’t take advantage of people with your sob story either. This can be a particularly emotionally manipulative placement, so try not to weaponize your tears & recognize when others are doing it to you.

All in all, this is a very special Lilith sign. You truly are the dark side of the moon. Mysterious. Intriguing. All the things a woman can be. At times, you can be a bit scary. You bring emotions & feelings to the surface in other people that they wouldn’t usually explore. This is a gift! Be careful not to let it feel like a curse.

🎶 Princess Diana is a perfect example for Lilith in Cancer native. On one hand, she was beloved, compassionate, philanthropic & one of the brightest stars to shine from the Royal Court in centuries! She was good hearted, good natured & and was undeniably a mother figure for millions of people around the globe & her death was a tragic loss. On the other hand, she is said to have been an emotional wreck any time the cameras weren’t on. She caused a lot of havoc in the Royal Court due to her emotional outburst & people that were closes to her found her manipulative & immature. I am NOT trying to pass judgment here, at the end of the day, I was not there, I do not know her, hell, I wasn’t even born...but I think it’s a chilling example of the different layers of a Lilith in Cancer and how much of an impact/divisive effect it can have, depending on who is on the receiving end & what situation they are in.

🎵California King Bed- Rihanna (Lilith in Cancer native)

“Just when I felt like giving up on us

You turned around & gave me one last touch

That made everything feel better

And even then, my eyes got wetter

So confused, wanna ask you if you love me

But I don’t wanna seem weak”

🎞 Mommy Dearest

(Scrub Christina! Scrub!)

👑 Honorable mentions:

Naomi Campbell

Rihanna

Grimes

Aaliyah

Normani

Zendaya

Shonda Rhimes

Foxy Brown

Melania Trump

Drop a rose🌹 emoji down below because you’re beautiful, but prickly!

✨ Lilith in Leo/Lilith in the Fifth House

The Drama of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Sun

Tarot Card: The Sun

Lilith in Leo/5H is another masculine side of Lilith. Here, Lilith is bold, creative and also a DRAMA QUEEN. She is dynamic, knows how to make an entrance (and exit) and is absolutely Legendary. Using her grace, charm & will power to dominate & win over anyone, people feel as if they are in the presence of royalty. She is the playwright, the actress, the cast, the crew, but NEVER the audience when it comes to how she lives her life. This Lilith can encompass the performance of femininity as an art. Capable of so much fire & passion, this Lilith placement can make icons that are remembered for centuries!

If you have Lilith in Leo/5H, you seduce by being the over the top, sophisticated, generous & dramatic woman that you are! You know how to curate an image— a heightened character of yourself— and perform it to anyone who is willing to watch (or not, you don’t care who’s looking, you will ALWAYS put on a show). The issue w this Lilith placement is sometimes you can feel trapped in the larger than life persona you’ve created for yourself & feel suffocated by the very drama you created in the first place.

When it comes to clothing & fashion, you know how to dress yourself. You know how to make a statement w your wardrobe, while still remaining classy & on trend. In fact, you ARE the trend. You treat the world as your runway! Be careful not to get too caught up in brands & luxury. Sometimes, your need to be seen can leave quite a whole in your bank account. However, you may always feel it was worth the money as long as people are GAGGING!

To seduce, be in your natural habitat— the theatre! Or really anything that is artistic & creative in nature. Leo/5H energy is arguably the most creative energy out there (& and I say that w heavy pisces placements) & Lilith just super charges it! When you write, speak, act, draw, paint, sing, &/or create is when you shine the brightest! You can also be great w kids, particularly kids that aren’t yours. (You kids may steal the spotlight from you, although you will always be a fierce protector, you will not appreciate them taking away your attention). You know how to lead & command. People want to listen to you! You rule with flair!

Of all the great qualities this powerful Lilith has to offer, one draw back is to NOT get caught up in your own ego. As a child, you could have suffered from not feeling seen or heard & had a very low-self esteem, so you created an alter ego to better navigate the world as an adult OR the success that you get off your creative pursuits ends up projecting an alter ego onto you. Meaning, you could be shy naturally, but because you’re a movie star, people don’t think you’re shy & expect you to be ON all the time. This dynamic can cause you to be very sensitive about how you come off to others & you may not take criticism well, seeing it as a slight or as if someone is purposely trying to expose the “quiet/awkward/nerdy person” you may feel you are deep deep deep down. With this Lilith, your ego is your best friend, because you made sure to build it up, but it’s also your biggest enemy— because at any moment you may feel it can come crashing down.

All in all, this is one of the most dynamic Lilith placements. You are not afraid to cry, yell, laugh or smile when it comes to expressing your emotions in the world. You’re not afraid to bare it all— you’ll be the only one to know if your acting or if you’re coming from a genuine place (and sometimes you may not even know yourself).

🎶 Marilyn Monroe is a Lilith in Leo Native! Congratulations, you hit the Old Hollywood Sex Symbol jackpot with this placement! Monroe’s image is so iconic and so well known, one could easily say, she is one of last centuries Queens of Sex. Monroe was the top paid actress at one time, but again, fell into the trap of being known for her character, rather than who she was. Not to make light out of her untimely demise, but how DRAMATIC! She lived her life w absolute flair. I mean, she had an affair w the sitting U.S. President who was one of the most beloved men at the time and then HE DIED! I mean, grab the popcorn! (But also, rest in peace to anyone who lost a loved one.) Monroe IS feminine DRAMA! The ultimate no-body, turned sex fantasy, turned starlet, turned tragic ending. This is obviously an extreme example of what this placement is capable of, but you get the picture! People don’t even no Norma Jean. Like who? But we all know Marilyn. A blessing & a curse.

🎵Set Fire to the Rain- Adele (Lilith in Leo native)

“But I set fire to the rain,

Watched it pour as I touched you face

Well, it burned while I cried

‘Cuz I heard it screaming out your name”

— (see, so dramatic! Side note, Adele writes a majority of her songs…that’s the creativity I’m talking about! This Lilith in Leo placement can be a one woman show)

🎞 Chicago

👑 Honorable mentions:

Adele

Zoe Kravitz (yes, people know her as Cat Woman now, but she has done music as well, Lolawolf is super dope. She really is a creative firecracker! I’ve been a fan of hers for years! Her TV shows are good as well.)

Kylie Jenner

Trixie Mattel

Queen Elizabeth (I mean, duh, she’s LITERALLY A Queen, like a real life Queen, for real)

Eryka Badu

Drop a crown 👑 emoji down below because you are ROYALTY!

✨ Lilith in Virgo/Lilith in the Sixth House

The Virginity & Purity of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Mercury

Tarot Card: The Hermit

Lilith in Virgo/6H is a bit of an oxymoron. Virgo energy is all about purity, health & virginity, while Lilith is all about sex, passion & fierceness. Now those things don’t inherently negate one another, but, on the surface it feels like it does. Here, Lilith is the Virgin Whore, the tease, the girl next door with a freaky side. She’s refined and turns her head at impurities or imperfection— yet somehow manages to leave a trail of chaos in her quest for perfection. She’s clean, she’s attractive & she makes sure to always present her best self…however, everyone has their skeletons & this Virgo placement can’t wash them away completely— no matter how hard they want to perceive their image of innocence.

If you have Lilith in Virgo/6H, your seduction method is one of subtlety. You could attract partners simply by being non approachable. Meaning, your standards are so high, almost no one is good enough to pass Go when it comes to moving things to the next level. You expect the best from others—but always, mostly from yourself. Your self-criticism causes you to be a machine of trial & error. You know what works & what doesn’t. You, like Leo Lilith, have done a magnificent job of creating a squeaky clean version of yourself & you try more than anything to keep that facade going. Only the most daring, bold & beautiful partners can catch your eye & keep your attention.

(As I’m writing this, I thought of Shrek & Fiona. Fiona was so high in her tower (pure & untouched), only Shrek was brave enough to go get her. Only to find out she was an Ogre as well! She was never the perfect beautiful stereotypical princess, she was always something so much deeper & more complex than that, but she was forced/wanted to hide it away. Hmmm…maybe I’ll do a deep dive on that later. Back to the show…)

When it comes to fashion, you look good in really earthy tones & free flowing clothes, OR sharp tailored, (expensive) well fitting gowns & suits. You tend to dress for your jobs or careers, so chances are, if you’re not in baby doll dresses w sweetheart necklines, you’re in a pencil skirt, beautiful heels and a button down. No matter what you’re wearing, as long as you’re giving the illusion of having complete control of your life, you look good. As far as make-up goes, with this placement, you could be all natural— only wearing lip gloss or some very very very light blush & mascara, perhaps it was even too awkward for you. After all make-up is for whxres (I kid, I kid)— but if you do wear make-up, you are doing it to PERFECTION. There will not be a flaw on your skin. You will be meticulous & routine about your make-up, but it could be so subtle that no one even knows you have it on! You really are a natural stunner. And because you have spent so much time mulling over every detail of you face, you know what to highlight and what to lowlight, if you know what I’m saying.

As I stated earlier, this is a very tricky & complicated Lilith. In my opinion, Lilith is pretty uncomfortable here. There is so much contradiction in the Virgin Whore trope, where to begin. At its worst, this Lilith placement can point out other’s flaws while still attempting to come off as holier than thou EVEN though they have stirred the pot & brought in their own shenanigans. At its best it can be so kind & serving to those around them— doing the things that no one else is willing to do for the greater good. The hyper criticism of Virgo energy in general, is brought to the forefront within this Lilith. Constructive criticism— good. Criticism just for the sake of criticizing— bad.

All in all, this Lilith can force this native to have to reconcile w their impurities & be OKAY w them. No one is perfect. You shouldn’t hold other people to an impossible standard, but most importantly, you shouldn’t hold YOURSELF to impossible standard. When this Lilith becomes unfulfilled, she can easily fall into someone who means well, but comes off as harsh & unsatisfied. It can be difficult for those who are trying to win her over, because they want the real you— not the perfect you! Think of Shrek and Fiona. He loved the ogre in her.

🎶 Jada Pinkett-Smith is a Lilith in Virgo native & if you’ve had any interaction w society over the past 4-years, you are very familiar w the word “entanglement” & well verse in the “slap heard round the world” that resulted in a 10-year Oscar ban on her husband, Will Smith. Pinkett-Smith is a very complex look at the power of Lilith & the true power it can have over people, particularly partners. In almost every video that has surfaced, Jada is seen berating & belittling Will in some way shape or form. Of course there is more to the story, but for the sake of this post, let’s go w the shallow version. Not only was the fight started by “defending Jada’s honor”, (keeping her image pure), it was brought on by a critical look of dismay at Will for laughing at the joke. THIS is how subtle & quickly this Lilith can cause people to act. As interesting as that slap is, I actually want to talk about the “entanglement” story, because in all honesty, it all started (from the public’s eye) during that red-table talk. Notice her use of language (Virgo is ruled by Mercury) in order to absolve herself of not being seen as someone who had an affair w a much much much younger man, but rather someone who slipped into a tricky situation that she would have otherwise never been apart of. (Listen, I am not hating about an older lady & a younger man, HOWEVER…I’m all about owning it! She didn’t want to because it would make her look bad AND THAT is what I’m trying to get at w this particular Lilith placement). Her need to be seen as perfect, even though she’s done some imperfect things is the very thing that is bringing chaos to her family & life. Granted, Jada’s mother was an alcoholic growing up, so she is only doing the best that she can. I’m sure that was a tough environment to say the least & I’m sure that’s why she attempts to have so much control in her adult life. I am not here to pass judgment, but this is a very telling example of the dark-side of this Lilith. This Lilith could easily fall into the obsessive-compulsive category if left unchecked.

I do want to end on a positive note! I LOVE virgo’s. My mom is a western virgo & so are some of my best friends. My current partner is a sidereal moon in Virgo & my little sister is a sidereal Virgo rising, hell my entire youtube channel is pretty much sponsored by Virgos (shameless plug, check it out, Kosmostrology)…why am I telling you this? It’s because I think you are some of the most giving, loyal & service oriented people. I think you are a very misunderstood sign & I love the purity and the way you see the world. There is nothing wrong w wanting to make the world a better place— NOTHING! Just always keep in mind, that your idea of perfect, may not be everyone else’s idea of perfect & as long as you remain flexible in your fantasy, you can be a wonderful mate, lover, & friend to anyone!

🎵I Want to be Evil- Eartha Kitt (Lilith in Virgo native)

“Prim and proper, the girl who's never been kissed

I'm tired of being pure and not chased

Like something that seeks it's level

I wanna go to the devil

I wanna be evil…”

(This song is ICONIC. It’s a bop from the 1950s! HIGHLY recommend you check it out. Eartha Kitt is an absolute Legend.)

🎞 Jennifer’s Body

👑 Honorable mentions:

Kim Kardashian (geez, I could go do an ENTIRE article on this Lilith placement with her, alone! Literally stepped on the scene w a sex-tape, got pimped out by her mother, gone through 3 marriages now, the most photoshopped & body altered person on the planet…and still manages to be a PRIZE & a dream girl for a lot of folks. A great example of the Sacred Whxre)

Oprah

Demi Moore

Selena (singer)

Eartha Kitt

Jodi Arias (In case you don’t remember, this is the woman who murdered her boyfriend by stabbing him like 140 times & came walking into the courtroom w pigtails & glasses trying to pass herself off as an innocent babydoll…the contradiction, see what I mean?)

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✨ Lilith in Libra/Lilith in the Seventh House

The Equilibrium of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Venus

Tarot Card: Justice

Lilith in Libra/7H is a mild placement for Lilith. But “mild” like a mild tasting fish. Meaning fish taste like fish, no matter what kind of fish it is, be it; tuna, cod, crab, shrimp or salmon (I’m hungry now), there will always be a fishiness to it…but in any case, the level of “fishiness” varies. I say all that to say, this Lilith is powerful & distinct no matter what kind of girl ( or fish lol) she is. She IS the balance scales of Karma even though her energy is soft. When one encounter a Lilith in Libra, one encounter a choice of plunging into the depths of their own psychology, addictions, sexuality & mortality (8th House) OR stay behind doing the day to day grind of living & routines, never truly knowing or exploring what’s on the other side (6th House). THIS IS POWER. And the funny thing about Lilith here, is she doesn’t even have to lift a finger to send her lover’s swirling in a bitter daze about their own shadows…even if they choose to ignore it. Much like the smell & taste of fish, this Lilith lingers— bringing out the most passionate of reactions. Some people love fish, some people hate it, either way, everyone has a choice on how they react to it.

If you have Lilith in Libra/7H, your method of seduction is extremely understated & subtle. Opposite of your Lilith in Aries/1H counterparts, you would rather flirt than fxck. You ARE a flirt, a charismatic beauty that has a cool detachment from strong opinions. You seem to be very passive in your communication style & tend to ride the fence. This is glorious & infuriating to anyone you wish to attract towards you. Lilith is back in a masculine energy within Libra. Much like Aquarius energies, Libras can carry that too cool for school vibe & people love it! You stay away from being overtly passionate, trying to remain the calm & level headed, but in doing so, you end up bringing out the fire in your partners.

Fashion-wise, you probably look good in anything! You know how to blend the classic couture w current trends. You probably don’t go too bold or over the top, preferring a look that accents your “good” parts while not being overtly sexual. You most likely believe in the rule of 2s for woman’s fashion. If you show boobies…no legs. If you show a lot legs…no boobies…something of that nature. You could also be very monochromatic in your choice of colors. You may have your signature color and/or style. After all, why fix what ain’t broke? That’s the most objective way of getting things done. You naturally keep up appearances, even if people don’t necessarily notice. You’re more likely to maintain your french manicure than pick new bold colors every time you switch up your nails.

You truly do hold the key of Karma when lover’s cross your path. Interestingly enough, I don’t think you’re much of a seductress w this placement, you are more likely to be seduced. You drive your partners mad w the idea of partnership w you, but you don’t ever truly commit— even in marriage. They may be all in & you may be all “meh.”, it just depends on what you feel you can get out of the connection. You are all about contracts & equal give it take. You know what you bring to the table…so they better match you or up the anti. You may find that as partners come into your life, they encounter some sort of loss. This is your energy (& their Karma) forcing them to explore the 8H parts of their psyche that they would otherwise ignore. With this Lilith, you are there as a gentle, nonjudgemental guide, ushering them into the dark side w a beautiful smile and witty conversation.

All in all, this Lilith placement is more about the people you attract rather than how you attract people. This is a very passive Lilith sign & that is its strength, but also its kryptonite. You can find yourself being the balanced one in the relationship OR you are the unbalanced one in the relationship & their really isn’t any in between. If you are chasing pleasure & people pleasing, forgetting to check on yourself in the process, you are possibly creating a path of destruction— leaving other people’s feelings in the dust as you float around from situation to situation. If the person you are dealing w is doing this, then maybe being passive isn’t the wisest decision for you. This Lilith placement, more than any other placement, could go EITHER way. You could gain & maintain control & balance or completely spiral out of the bounds.

🎶 Dolly Parton & Whitney Houston are both Lilith in Libra natives & they both sang “I Will Always Love You”, originally written by Dolly, of course. This song is 1.) ICONIC, but 2.) It’s a very loving & peaceful break-up song…but. for. who? “I Will Always Love You” is a song about sending your lover away because you know the paths you are going down will lead you in different directions. Dolly specifically wrote this song as a “farewell to her business partner and mentor, Porter Wagoner, expressing [her] decision to pursue a solo career”. (Wikipedia) I mean, C’mon…that’s SO Libra/7H, it’s cliche. Down to the business partnership! It’s heartbreaking when love isn’t enough to maintain the balance & commitment of a relationship. But THAT is the push. This Lilith placement talks about triggering partners & sending them on their way as you explore aspects of yourself that is ONLY brought out in partnership. While also being about leaving partners behind so YOU can find your own way. Yet, somehow, because Libra is so fair & balanced, they still want the best for their lover’s because best is only fair. This is the placement that will most likely have a whirlwind romance full of passion & desire & have to leave it behind. (I’m sorry!!!!!!) And although Dolly wrote a beautiful song & Whitney sang an exceptional rendition, I’m sure the people on the listening end were NOT happy about their decision to part ways and go solo (Aries 1H axis)— they maybe even got angry.

Digging deeper into Whitney Houston, she is a prime example of how an unbalance Lilith in Libra can send someone into the depth of addiction…i.e. her relationship w Bobby Brown. Legend has it, Bobby Brown was always a rebel rouser, but never a drug abuser. Once he got into an intimate relationship w Whitney, who on the surface is gorgeous, talented and truly a one of a kind artist, his relationship w drugs also took a huge spiral. He was flung into the shadows of the 8th house, wrapped up in her allure & charm. Now, am I blaming Whitney Houston for Bobby Brown’s “downfall”, no, not at all…I am pointing out that their relationship played a part into his overall development as a human being— for better or for worse, I am not here to judge.

Side note, because I think it’s interesting & worth noting…When writing this blurb, I found it fascinating how much I HAD to talk about the couple aspect of this Lilith. You WILL be in partnerships and coupled up more than any other placement because that is truly the only way you see your Lilith come out. It’s very telling because no other sign has been like that. 7th House is the house of “others” for a reason! You could be in some long-term relationships that are doomed from the start, but because of the Karmic nature of this Lilith, you HAVE to stick it out until the Karma is resolved. This Lilith placement is a twin-flame placement if I’ve ever seen one! This can also play a part in your business contracts.

(You always have free-will. If you’re in a toxic relationship, get out!! Don’t wait around for someone because of the twin flame label. I’m just pointing out some relationships could last longer than you originally intended).

🎵I Will Always Love You- Whitney Houston & Dolly Parton

“I hope life treats you kind

And I hope you have all you dreamed of

And I’m wishing you joy & happiness

But above all this, I wish you love

And I will always love you”

🎞 La La Land

👑 Honorable mentions:

Taylor Swift

Hunter Schafer

Lavern Cox

Julia Fox (note how she started dating Kanye right at the beginning of his divorce from Kim K.)

Megan Markel

(I’m also awarding this placement: “most likely to turn their breakups into catchy pop-songs”…here is your trophy, it’s real gold🏆)

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✨ Lilith in Scorpio/Lilith in the Eighth House

The Hidden Passion of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Mars (Western: Pluto)

Tarot Card: Death

Lilith in Scorpio/8H is a well of mystic endless fascination & almost obsessive sexuality, but not in the way most would think. Lilith here is dark, perhaps too dark, as the shadow side of her dwells in the deepest part of her psyche. Here, Lilith is about suppression, rather than expression. Her sensuality is obscured by her need to feel in complete control. It’s almost as if she’s too private to be truly intimate w someone— a part of her will always be hidden, for fear of rejection, abandonment & just overall loss of control.

If you have Lilith in Scorpio or in the Eighth House, you are a keeper of secrets & truth. Your power of seduction hides in your power to hide— hide feelings, hide memories & hide the darkest aspects of your self & arguably human nature as a whole. The ones drawn to you want you to reveal yourself to them— gradually watching you flower bloom. They want to be the person who cracks the code & opens up your impenetrable gates. Usually, it is assumed that this Lilith placement would be filled w lust & sexual energy, but we must remember what Scorpio truly means and the power the 8th House holds. Scorpio and the 8H are all about power & privacy— forcing Lilith in this position to always hide her power deep within herself in fear, that if released, it would be “deadly”. Meaning, everything that existed before the “reveal” will be turned to ash, nothing will remain & transformation & change are bound to occur.

This Lilith placement loves black (of course, who doesn’t), but I would actually like to draw attention to how conservative this placement is likely to dress. The irony in this placement is, with all the sexiness & power of allure it possess, most of the time, this Lilith wants to keep it hidden, a secret from the world. Think hijabs & head to toe covering in more conservative countries. (I am not passing judgement for or against, but it is a wonderful example here). The attire is meant to tuck away the power of feminine energy & make it sacred to those who are closest to it— rather than expose it for the world to see. (Again, not passing judgment for or against) You know how to dress & suggest. You may wear a turtle neck to the club & a maxi skirt to brunch…it really stems from a level of shyness but it can sometimes be misconstrued people thinking you are a prude. THAT IS NOT THE CASE! It is more so about preserving yourself & your sexuality for the man/partner w the most power, unleashing a level of sexuality, sensuality & intoxication that hasn’t been felt before. You are the Grim Reaper, leading your “victims” souls to their little death (orgasm) & renewal.

This Lilith placement MUST be careful not to hide so deeply within itself that it becomes unrecognizable to itself. Don’t be afraid of your power, own it & sell it to the highest bidder! (Literally or figuratively, not here to judge…I’d do it.) Once tamed, this Lilith placement will know how to project sex without actually having to be sexual. Because this Lilith is so deeply tied to psychology, you of all signs know how to hypnotize & seduce without letting your “volunteer” know they are even under a spell. THIS…this…is a super power, but it requires more discipline & restraint than others because it is so so so soooo powerful.

You may deal w deep wounds surrounding intimacy & self-expression. Your natural combustable energy could have been contained, shamed or drugged out of you. With this Lilith, you most likely were told that the “real” you is too taboo for the real world. You may have encountered people trying to take power from you, like your Martian counterpart, Lilith in Aries/1H. But unlike Aries energy, that calls for war & outright passion and almost instant gratification, Scorpio energy broods & dwells, seeking sweet sweet calculated revenge. THIS is another Karmic placement. Who knows how many life times you’ve lived, attempting to hone in on this power. It’s the ultimate power struggle for change & transformation— causing nothing but earth shattering shifts in energy like an earthquake. Sometimes you have been stalked, other times you have been the stalker. Sometimes you have been the victim, other times you have been the one holding the bloody knife. The Karma is so personal & so private, it is only between you and whoever the universe has chosen for your partner to this comic dance.

All in all, this Lilith placement is a bit subversive. You would think this sign would be the most sensual & sexually open, but it is absolutely not. This Lilith is all about the preservation of what is most sacred. It is capable of seeking light in the darkest of situations. Yet, this placement is more likely to draw out the darker behavior patterns in their partners, making them lustful, private & extremely calculating.

🎶 Beyoncé is a Lilith in Scorpio native & she perfectly exemplifies the power of this Lilith. Beyoncé is one of the greatest selling R&B pop-artist of all time, but sex was never the item she was selling until much much MUCH later in her career (compared to Megan thee stallion or Cardi B), AFTER being married and having a daughter. Beyoncé is one of the most private & elusive celebrities in the age of social media. She has managed to stay relevant, but beneath the radar. Even when her drama spills over in the public eye, (ummm…the Solange elevator incident) she slithers around the issue as if it never happened…I mean, do we still know what happened that day? No.

Beyoncé also demonstrates how this placement is attracted to power more than anything else. Her husband, Jay-Z, is no looker, but he’s absolutely brilliant and a business man. She saw this potential in him early & has been loyal to their relationship through him being a successful drug dealer— *cough cough* I mean, entrepreneur, into a music mastermind, all the way to BILLIONARE status! And now she gets to wear the most stately Tiffany’s diamond & go twerk in The Louvre.

Because the 8th house deals w money inherited & money made after marriage, this placement is more likely to be a “good luck charm” and bring riches through the spouse, rather than earning it themselves. Powerful.

Michelle Obama is a fellow Lilith in Scorpio & she is the epitome of class & elegance. Michelle ALWAYS looked good, but was never revealing or inappropriate for the position she was in. Oh yeah…and she just so happened to be married to the first Black leader of the free-world. Not bad for a little girl from Chicago! This Lilith may not sleep w everyone, but they know WHO to sleep w if you catch my drift.

🎵Dangerously In Love- Beyoncé

“With you next to me there's no darkness I can't overcome

You are my raindrops, I am the seed

With you and God who's the sunlight I bloom and grow so beautifully

…

I am in love with you

You set me free

I can't do this thing called life without you here with me

'Cause I'm dangerously in love with you

I'll never leave”

🎵Upgrade U- Beyoncé

“I hear you be the block, but I'm the lights that keep the streets on

Notice you the type, that like to keep them on a leash though

I'm known to walk alone, but I'm alone for a reason

…

I see your hustle with my hustle, I can keep you

Focused on your focus, I can feed you”

(I’m giving you two songs because I want to demonstrate the transformative effect this Lilith placement can have. From being dangerously in love one minute, to upgrading/transforming (8H) their partner into something bigger than they themselves could have ever imagined, the next. You bring out the power in your lovers. They are willing to do ANYTHING to make sure you are protected…even if it’s a little shady…or a lot shady tbh)

🎞 Olivia Pope - Scandal

Annalise Keating- How to Get Away with Murder

👑 Honorable mentions:

Cher

Michelle Obama

Courtney Love

Brittany Spears

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✨Lilith in Sagittarius/Lilith in the Ninth House

The Wisdom, Freedom & Exoticness of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Jupiter

Tarot Card: Temperance

Lilith in Sagittarius/9H exudes a certain exoticness that no outsider can truly harness. This Lilith is about freedom & exploration, always in pursuit of higher understanding of faith & spirituality. Another masculine Lilith placement, here we find her to be curious, interesting & full of experiences that reel in her in suitors. She is all about living outside the boundaries of what her “small-town” may say. She wants to travel! She wants to see the world! She wants to explore! Although in Western Astrology, Sagittarius energy is painted to be quite care-free & wild, in Vedic Sidereal Astrology, Sagittarius/Guru energy is on of the most serious signs of the zodiac (not saying they can’t have fun & throw a GREAT party). Following Scorpio/8H, Sag energy has experienced the depths of themselves & now want to grow & expand into the sunshine, teaching others and spreading light along the way. With that in mind, this Lilith placement always carries a certain knowledge that is sexy & beyond ordinary. It could be acquired through higher education or through life experiences. Either way, this Lilith is full of life & only attracted to those who understand the power of her wisdom. Her foreignness is glamorous to the everyday man. This Lilith is a placement for Princesses & Royalty. Think about how important education is to any royal family. One has to be impressive, worldly & smart to be able to handle world affairs!

If you have Lilith in Sagittarius or Lilith in the Ninth House, you are more likely to seduce someone outside of your culture OR you are somewhat exotic within your own culture. Perhaps you’re culturally mixed & speak two languages or just look different from how your ethnicity is usually described. THIS is one of your many powers. Regardless of if you are in your hometown or a distant land, you are seen as someone who is regal & intelligent. People know that if they can’t keep up with philosophical conversations, they need not apply. Your soul is always wondering from experience to experience— like your opposite sign, Gemini— the difference is you are more likely to turn these experiences into a religion & start a cult…lol. Your faith & beliefs are VERY important to you & people will find it sexy that in no matter what circumstances, you always seem to remain true to yourself. You require a certain level of freedom in all your commitments, be it traveling often or pursuing higher education, you may find it hard to settle down before your 30s. You have no problem walking away from relationships that no longer serve you after giving it your best.

You look best embracing your wisdom & spiritual gifts, while also maintaining a faith to your “origins”. So, if you have culturally traditional clothing, wear/modernize that! You will always stand out in a crowd full of trends & fast fashion. You could also be really interested in art from a cultural perspective, so you would do best to take your date to a museum & end the night dancing in some hole in the wall Ethiopian restaurant w a full afro-centric band dancing the night away. Or bringing your lover home to a culturally significant dish, introducing them to things & experiences they have never dreamed of before!

At its worse, this Lilith placement can become self-righteous and a know-it-all, so be mindful of other people’s opinions & try not to force your belief’s on others. Your way of spirituality/life may work for you, but it certainly won’t work for everyone. It is easy to become preachy because you are so passionate! That is not a bad thing, just something to monitor as you develop relationships & learn your communication style! ALWAYS remain curious & willing to explore. NEVER think you’ve mastered anything so you can remain open. As long as you continue to listen to those around you & don’t get blinded by your own faith, you will always be on the cutting edge of beauty & sophistication. Believe it or not, YOU ARE the Princess of the Zodiac.

All in All, this Lilith placement is all about learning & teaching. You teach your lover’s about life, expanding their horizons & opening their world up in ways no one every truly expects. You are unpredictable & live off your luck. This can easily pull your “seductees” in, as they want to know more & more & more about you. But the gag is, your life is a never ending tale!

🎶 Priyanka Chopra & Grace Kelly are both Lilith in Sagittarius natives. Both of these beautiful woman were actresses turned blushing brides to powerful and/or popular men. Chopra was able to land the much younger & very eligible bachelor, Nick Jonas, while Kelly was LITERALLY made into a Princess. I bet these woman know how to hold a conversation! In both relationships, there is an “otherness”. They were able to marry someone outside of their culture & adapt— teaching & learning new ways to view the world in doing so. I mean, Priyanka & Nick had like 10 weddings just to accommodate both of their cultural needs in union— how beautiful!

This placement is not just about race & ethnicity, it can also be about social class as well. The film example, down below, The Princess Diaries, starring Ann Hathaway, another Lilith in Sagittarius native, is about a “poor” girl who finds out she’s actually royalty. She then takes on a very personal journey to learn all the customs of Kings & Queens, while still remaining a bit awkward and out of place, juggling her friendships & previous relationships. By the end of the movie, she is able to blend who she was & who she is into who she will ultimately become— A QUEEN!

🎵Chun-Li- Nicki Minaj (Lilith in Sagittarius native)

“B— it's King Kong, yes, I'm King Kong

This is King Kong? Yes, Miss King Kong

In my kingdom, with my Timbs on

(How many championships?) What? Six rings on”

🎞 The Princess Diaries

Princess Jasmine- Aladdin

👑 Honorable Mentions:

Jackie Kennedy

Ann Hathaway

Monica Lewinsky

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✨Lilith in Capricorn/Lilith in the Tenth House

The Restrictions of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Saturn

Tarot Card: The Devil

Lilith in Capricorn/10H is a very powerful Lilith indeed, but maybe not for the reasons you would think. Capricorn/10H energy is all about status & worldly power, here this Lilith will use its sexual power to get worldly possessions. She is the sugar baby, the prostitute, the stripper, the mistress, the trophy wife. Best believe, she WILL be paid for her services. This Lilith placement knows more than anyone else, that nothing is free in life & won’t give themselves away for free either. They believe that sex is an art & their services should be paid for accordingly. However, don’t get it twisted, this Lilith placement is hard to impress. She will only be attracted to the best & the brightest, the most powerful or the most street smart. She is not afraid to get down & dirty because she of all people knows— There ain’t no rest for the wicked.

DON’T BE ALARMED! I am not calling you a prostitute (or maybe I am, who am I to judge!) I am calling you a business woman who knows that sex is leverage. You know pleasure is exchangeable for money or status & in this dog eat dog world, money is power baby…no questions asked. The ultimate “Pay me up front, or I’ll take it the hard way!” attitude.

If you have Lilith in Capricorn or Lilith in the Tenth house you will dress for the job/man you want & look damn good doing it! If you’re attempting to seduce the President, you’re in a tight pencil skirt, using the old bend-and-snap tactic tried & true. If you are more attracted to the “street entrepreneurs” (if you’re picking up what I’m putting down), you are the BADDEST bitch in the land, wearing the latest trends, nails done & edges laid to a T. You easily know how to lure in anyone into a gaze, but you give off the “if you want me, you gotta work for me” vibe & that drives them crazy. No scrubs…no, not for you. You’re checking credit scores, you’re checking mattress banks, you’re checking for luxury cars & Egyptian cotton sheets. Capricorn is a feminine energy after all, & the Devil wears Prada!

You seduce by leading w the word “no”. Some may take it as you thinking you’re better than them, perhaps, but it’s really more of a test. You believe if they aren’t willing to fill up your tank, then why bother putting any gas into theirs. A date for you would somehow involve you showing your loyalty. This is one of the most loyal Lilith placements there is, so you best believe you are making suitors jump over hoops to prove they deserve your “ride or die attitude”. Because once you’re committed, you’re most likely committed. (Not saying you don’t move & groove, but you sign on to things for the long-haul, unlike Lilith in Aries/or Gemini.) Your unapproachability is what makes you so appealing. If you show up on someone’s arm, everyone knows they had to earn their keep or else you won’t be there. You are mysterious, only showing yourself to the most powerful & you are dedicated— this combo alone makes you one of the most sought after Lilith placements, even if people don’t realize it upon meeting you.

At its worse, this Lilith placement can cause you to be so restrictive that you can go years & years & years without any romantic relationships, putting all of your sacred energy into your work/career. This Lilith is the most likely to go through a celibacy spell, which isn’t a bad thing at all, but just be aware that your standards aren’t so high no one is able to impress you. This Lilith can also be very addicting & is another strong Karmic placement. Because the ruling planet is Saturn, the planet of Karma, chances are, you actually have karma with the material world & gains. You may find that this life isn’t all about what you have, but rather about who you are. You can be too self-critical in proving your worthiness through your outside appearance, that you may forget that your inside is really what counts! Don’t get caught in the trap of material luxury & your public reputation defining who you are…YOU define who you are, the material things are just an extension of you. You deserve to sleep in Gucci because you’ve worked hard enough to do so…however, if you’re still on the path of working towards your goals, you are STILL equally as impressive & deserving. It will come in time, don’t let it make you feel less then.

Capricorn energy in general may really struggle with understanding their sexual power because Saturn is so restrictive. Capricorns really don’t get their shine when it comes to being sexy, intriguing & tempting. Normally your own ambition blinds you from onlookers, but trust, they are there. Once you are able to see how glorious your discipline actually is to the outside world, you’ll be able to capitilize & rarely hear the word “no” again. You are the entrapping seductress of the zodiac as much as your opposite sign, Cancer.

All in all, Lilith in Capricorn/10H is a placement willing to do anything to maintain their status & power in life. They will work their way from the bottom to the top, using their sensuality & sexuality almost subconsciously, in order to take their rightful place at the top in their business affairs or their romantic relationships. You know how the world works & you’re not afraid to be brutal when using your feminine gifts to get what you want— the good way or the bad way.

🎶 Lil’ Kim, a Lilith in Capricorn native, is one of the first (if not the first, other than Foxy Brown) to bring raunchy female rap to the forefront in popular culture w her debut album, “Hardcore”. Most people only hear her vulgarity, but if you listen closely, she is really talking about using sex to get money from the men around her— no questions asked, on her quest for power & security under difficult living conditions. Growing up in Brooklyn, New York, Lil’ Kim’s persona is actually a true part of who she is. She is scrappy & talented, stopping at nothing to secure her pocket in any romantic rendezvous. At the same time, she spoke of rocking only luxury brands & riding w the riches & the most powerful, regardless of the circumstances that got them there. She is truly ICONIC when it comes to the “f— you, pay me” attitude we see so prevalent in music today. Whether you like it or not, you must respect the hustle. It is also worth noting that she was L.O.Y.A.L. to Biggie Smalls, even after his untimely death. He was not the best partner, but she took a lot of pride in her ride-or-die attitude, knowing that true love requires a real level of loyalty & commitment through thick and thin, for better or for worse.

In another instance, we see Hillary Clinton, a fellow Lilith in Capricorn native, married to one of the most influential U.S. Presidents in modern history. She was a political weapon behind the scene & maintained a loyalty even after the Monica Lewinsky scandal. She attempted to run for U.S. office twice, wanting to continue her power, & even after losing, she still holds a lot of political power. Whether you agree with her politics or not, she has stayed in the public eye & is undoubtedly one of the best female political minds we’ve had in the last century. Her close proximity to power & standing beside her husband amid a HUGE scandal are some of the things she is most known for. Some of the most political woman have this Lilith placement. It’s kind of ironic that hardcore female rappers & successful female first-wives have the same Lilith. Legal or illegal, baby, everybody gotta make it! Or we need to look at what we consider legal and illegal, if you know what I’m saying…no shade, all tea.

🎵Queen Bitch- Lil Kim

“I am a diamond cluster hustler

Queen b—, supreme b—

Kill a n— for my n— by any means bitch

Murder scene bitch”

🎵Money Power & Respect- The Lox (ft. Lil’ Kim)

“See, I believe in money, power, and respect

First You get the money

Then you get the m— f—, power

After you get the f—‘ power

M— F— will respect you

What's the key to life?

Money, power, and respect”

🎞Evita Peron

(They need to remake this movie, NOT with Madonna. )

👑 Honorable Mentions:

Amy Winehouse

Mila Kunis

Selena Gomez

Demi Lovato

Nancy Reagan

Trina, The Diamond Princess

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✨Lilith in Aquarius/Lilith in the Eleventh House

The Unorthodoxy of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Saturn & Rahu/North Node (Western: Uranus)

Tarot Card: The Star

Lilith in Aquarius/11H can be seen in two ways— either as a rebellious feminine energy that requires ultimate freedom and female expression or as an extremely traditional feminine energy that is tied within it’s own restricted box…but the ultimate answer is, this Lilith is a mixture of both. Here she is a rebel. Being a masculine Lilith placement, she is able to use her sexuality objectively, like her co-sign Capricorn, who is also ruled by Saturn. (You may want to read that Lilith placement as well.) She feels no need to fit her sexuality into a box. Wanting to explore different relationships & people, but is also willing to use her sexuality to be known on a public scale. One thing is for certain, this Lilith placement is by far the most unpredictable & no two Lilith in Aquariuses will be a like. You could almost look at this placement like Lilith in Capricorn on steroids— encapsulating feminine energy in a bottle & selling it to the highest bidder. But instead of using it for power & status, it’s mostly used for fame & attention— usually on a large scale.

If you are a Lilith in Aquarius or Lilith in the Eleventh house native, your seduction style is obviously, quite unique. No one can pin-point what exactly it is that draws them to you, but they know it’s something. You have a certain star quality about you that people just feel within you presences. Opposite of Leo, you still gain a lot of attention, but rather than be regal, you are so out-of-the-box, people’s mouth’s drop at you version of feminine expression. With almost a cool detachment, you are probably very comfortable in your body (OR extremely uncomfortable in your body—this is a Lilith of extremes) so you don’t mind flaunting what you got to get what you want. You look good in whatever no one else is wearing at the time. You ARE a trend setter & you may have a signature look that people will always associate w you, even if you’ve experimented and switched it up over & over again. This can be a blessing a curse.

As stated earlier, in a constant state of rebellion against the ordinary, you can end up getting trapped within the very thing you were trying to get out of. This is ultimately a placement of sacrifice. In order to receive the attention that is desired, it’s almost like you have to give up a level of you that will never truly be understood. Think celebrity culture— yes, we all get to be entertained by their larger than life persona’s, but they lose so much of the day to day living as people project their wishes & dreams onto them (11H), thinking they know them, but rarely ever do. Whether you are selling out arenas w this placement, or just trying to date around, you will always seem bigger than the room you’re in.

A great date for this Lilith placement is something fun & rememberable. You would be the type to take your lover into an underground club in a warehouse & rave/party all night, pop a molly & end up in an *rgy…OR you stay your ass in the bed for a quiet evening binge watching Netflix & go to church on Sunday…it just depends how you’re feeling. Because you tend to be a natural philanthropist & care about humanity as a whole, you could also take your lover to some sort of volunteering activity & community service work. Like I said, you’re unpredictable. Who knows what kind of dates you have in mind. This placement is also very likely to experiment w their sexuality— being attracted to/attracting all kinds of interesting & unique lovers, no matter the gender, race or religion, but who knows what lovers will be able to keep up. You’ll be on to the next if the spark dies out. On the other hand, just like Saturn, once you’re committed, you’re committed. You may want an open or polyamorous relationship, but you tend to value friendships & are extremely loyal to those you care about.

You are also most likely to seduce a friend rather than a stranger. Because you are so unorthodox & otherworldly, trust & understanding it something you deeply value in any of your connections. You want to be able to laugh w someone who gets your quirky sense of humor & although you may wear your sexuality on your sleeve, you are very choosy about who you decide to give yourself to. This is a very subtle way of seduction, but if you have your eye on someone, you’re almost best to start off as friends and woo them w your own personal brand of sexuality from there. Once in a relationship, there can be an unusual quality to it! Your relationships are almost like they are tailor made for you and your partner. It’s almost always going to have an element to it that outside people may not fully understand.

Lilith in Aquarius/11H has to be careful not to ostracize itself by being too unrelatable or too rebellious that people are turned off. You have to be mindful that you are not hiding behind being different or marching to the beat of your own drum, as if you’re creating an isolated island for yourself, rejecting the public as a whole because you feel it’s rejected you, but instead you should be embracing your uniqueness & showing it to those who value what you’re bringing to the table. The girlies who get it, get it. The girlies who don’t…don’t. You find your power being unique & cutting edge, but always remember, the world may not be ready for where you are quite yet. If you feel a sense of rejection, it’s not because you so far behind everyone else, it’s because you’re so far ahead that people can’t always comprehend where you’re coming from. That is the delicate dance between Saturn (restriction) and Rahu/North Node (Untamable energy)— that is the sacrifice of Aquarian energy. You must alway obey the laws of Saturn, or the impulsiveness of Rahu will lunge you into some scary territory. Always maintain a level of groundedness and self assuredness & your won’t feel as if you’re battling the world. Instead you find a trail of people, just like you, wanting you to usher in the next wave of “cool”.

Another complexity of this Lilith is sacrificing personal relationships for the greater good or for friendships. Because you tend to think on such a large, worldly and humanitarian scale, it can be hard for you to recognize people on an individual scale. Yes there is tragedy all over the world, but the people closes to you can also be struggling & need your one-on-one attention too. There is a thin line balancing the needs of the world & the needs of your personal relationships. Always remember to take a step back & nature your intimate relationships as you climb the social ladder. You may mean nothing by it, but people truly care for your personal attention because it’s so few & far between that you are able to give it to them. On the flip side, you may find yourself losing friendship, relationships & people because your calling took you out of their realm.

All in All, this Lilith placement is one that can’t really be described, but rather lived! Each person possessing this Lilith has such a unique and unorthodox way of looking at sexuality, sensuality & femininity. You are definitely the tastemakers for the next generation. People are drawn to you because you don’t look/sound/or think like anyone else. You also have a magical way of using the internet, social media & connections to build a brand for yourself. Interestingly enough, some of the most successful recording artist possess Lilith in Aquarius. After all Aquarius/11H is the house of gains, wish fulfillment & fame!

🎶 Cardi B is a Lilith in Aquarius native & a beautiful example of this placement in action. Not only is she one of the most successful artist within the last decade, she was masterfully able to use social media & the internet to garner attention. Aquarius/11H rules technology. She has always been very open w her sexuality when it comes to her lyrics & visuals. “WAP” is one of the all-time highest streams songs in like this history of the internet. She’s never shied away from her past as a stripper & uses this as a part of her persona, always cutting edge in her videos. When you think about it, her fashion sense really can’t be described. She uses lively colors, never looks the same, but manages to stand out from the rest. She’s unique & unapologetically herself.

I also want to point out, & some of you may disagree, that although she always gets cast as being dumb, she is obviously HIGHLY intelligent. She has been at the forefront of breaking political news & voicing her political opinions without holding back. She has been one of the main critics & rebels of the American political system & we will all remember “CORONA VIRUS!! S— IS GETTING REAL before anyone even knew to take it seriously. In this way, her overt sexuality has become a mass for her actual high level of thinking. This is the paradox I’m talking about w this placement. She’s an extremely successful artist…dummies don’t make it as far as she has, no matter how she “talks”.

🎵Bodak Yellow- Cardi B

“Honestly, don't give a f—

'Bout who ain't fond of me

Dropped two mixtapes in six months

What b— working as hard as me?

I don't bother with these hoes

Don't let these hoes bother me”

🎞 Pariah

👑 Honorable Mentions:

Tina Turner

Halle Berry

Fergie

Cindy Crawford (Genuinely one of the smartest super models known on Earth. She’s literally a genius person, she just so happened to make more money being beautiful)

Angelina Jolie

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✨Lilith in Pisces/Lilith in the Twelfth House

The Mystique of Lilith

Ruling Planet: Jupiter (Western: Neptune)

Tarot Card: The High Priestess/The Hanged Man

Lilith in Pisces/12H is a placement of deep mystery & hypnotic power. Here, Lilith can cast a spell w just a glance, sending her suitors into a spiritual whirlwind, blurring their reality & lunging them into a completely new dimension. She doesn’t even have to say a word to open this portal either. Her lover’s project all their desires on to her, making Lilith in Pisces/12H the ultimate fantasy girl. Much like everything in life, this placement is a double edged sword. On one hand, it’s magical & wonderful & sexy & other worldly…on the other it can lose itself in the 5D, not ever fully being comfortable in 3D reality. This placement, more than any other, has to be careful not to lead or follow a lover into a spiritual dimension they may not find their way back from— be it through drugs or other worldly spirituality practices.

This placement of all placements has to remember it IS having a human experience for a reason. You won’t be able to cheat yourself out of you human body, no matter how hard you or people around you try to escape into fantasy world. You are powered by your dreams, but also your illusions, so you will have to be extra careful when navigating your way through this life. It could be extremely easy for you to get lost in a reality of your own making.

If you have Lilith in Pisces or in the Twelfth house, you look best in loose fitting & bohemian style clothing. The more ethereal, the better. Flowy dresses, maxi skirts, and oversized sweaters are where it’s at for you. You may not be a huge fan of tight clothing. Anything that is restricting or limiting to you, won’t allow you glide through the void the way you are inclined to. Now, that doesn’t mean that you can’t pull of any look! After all, you are the dream girl, and just like water, you will flow into any fantasy your lover can imagine!

Your seduction style could be quite underdeveloped, but not in a bad way. You honestly seduce those around you without trying because you are so mesmerizing. If people are in a room w you, you catch their eye, and only the brave will be willing to see what lies beyond your calm waters. Sometimes people who aren’t meant to be attracted to you, will be, so the fantasy of you will linger in their mind for eternity. You may always possess a certain awkwardness when it comes to your sexuality, because as stated earlier, you may never ever feel comfortable in your human body. You could constantly feel like you’re swimming against yourself, but somehow this makes you magnetic & alluring to the outside world. Just like your co-sign, Sagittarius, also ruled by Jupiter, you have an exoticness about your presence. People have so many questions about you when you cross paths— “Who care you? What are you? Why are YOU?”— and if they are not willing to ask, they are more than comfortable answering these questions for themselves. You may find this quite frustrating throughout your life, as people always tell you things about yourself that may or may not be true. Remember, this placement is all about projection & illusion. Not everyone really wants to know how the rabbit came out of the hat, they just want to be entertained.

An ideal date or night out would be a hot yoga session, a trip to the museum or a night in talking about philosophy & occult practices. Don’t ever be afraid to share you inner wisdom of occult knowledge to those you are truly attracted to. The right mate will want to listen & know more about what you know because you have such a sexy & graceful way of explaining out of the ordinary type things. You will always draw in your desires by presenting the mysteries of The Universe. Remember, Jupiter is the teacher after all. You possess the key of lifetimes & lifetimes of knowledge…don’t ever forget or be ashamed of that.

I cannot stress enough how this Lilith placement will have to be mindful of not getting so lost in their own world that they forget this world exist. It is easy for this Lilith to drift away to La La Land & loose touch w reality if not careful. Lovers can first find this fascinating, but then find it exhausting as if they feel they will never truly be able to keep your feet on the ground. You may also feel as if you get lost or swept up in relationships as well. This could be because you attract such dominate partners because you are such a feminine energy. It is imperative for you to know what you want in your relationships & what you want for your life in general beforehand so you don’t get stuck in a wave of people defining it for you.

All in all, Lilith in Pisces/12H is the placement of the dreamer & the mystic. You are able to easily hypnotize your lovers by just looking deeply into their eyes. You exude mystic powers & people will almost always feel as if you put a spell on them. The funny thing is, you never have to put a spell on anyone…your essence is intoxicating enough on its own— no witchcraft needed. Although you probably know a little voodoo/witchcraft on the side! You are mystically magnetic.

🎶 Katy Perry is a Lilith in Pisces native & embodies the dream girl aesthetic perfectly. Her biggest selling album “Teenage Dream” is literally her floating, wrapped up in a pink cloud, naked. If that’s not dream girl, I don’t know what is. Katy Perry was the IT girl of the teen 2000s, playfully using her sexuality in almost a girlish type way. “I Kissed A Girl” was so tantalizing to the listener, painting a picture of a girl on girl love affair— yet no one ever really saw her w a girlfriend. Another reason why Katy Perry is a perfect example of this placement is her relationship w Russel Brand. They married, extremely quickly. It’s safe to assume that he was so caught up in her allure, he wanted to capture her as quickly as possible without fully getting to know her. He was satisfied w her celebrity outside & didn’t have the chance to get to know her inside. However, I really want to focus on Russel Brand now. After his relationship with Katy, which was at his peak of sex & drug addiction, he turned to self-discovery (12H) & is now one of the leaders in yoga & new wave spirituality. Who would have thunk it? That’s the power of this Jupiter ruled Lilith.

Today, we have Ariana Grande taking up the torch as our Lilith in Pisces pop star native! Again, maintaining an extremely girlish feminine persona, her whistle tone & light voice is almost hypnotic to the listeners. Her love life is— dynamic— to put it lightly. This placement has to battle the “do you love me for me or do you love the idea of me” more than any other sign.

🎵Teenage Dream- Katy Perry

“You think I'm pretty without any makeup on

You think I'm funny when I tell the punch line wrong

I know you get me, so I let my walls come down, down

Before you met me

I was alright, but things were kinda heavy

You brought me to life, now every February

You'll be my Valentine, Valentine

…

You make me

Feel like I'm livin' a teenage dream”

🎞 Memoirs of a Geisha

👑 Honorable Mentions:

Elizabeth Taylor

Ariana grande

Madonna

Keke Palmer

Ana Delvey (she “scammed” very far w projection ALONE)

Pam Grier

Caitlyn Jenner

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Author’s Notes: Thank you all so much for checking this out. I hope you found this information insightful & helpful as you continue on your journey of sexuality, sensuality & seduction. Always remember, we have different styles, but each is as effective as the next. There is no right or wrong way to be a woman or to be sexy! Embrace whatever your given gifts are and make them work for you. I tried to be as inclusive w examples as a could be, but if you have anymore you’d like to add, please feel free to share them in the comment section. This piece took me several weeks to research and over 10-hours to write. I am more than happy to listen to honest feedback & criticism, HOWEVER, I will not tolerate non-sense. If you don’t have nice things to say, I will not hesitate to hit that block button and keep it pushing. It will be sad for you if you like this kind of content, because I have some really cool ideas that you’ll miss out on. So please think twice about what you say, but more importantly, think twice about how you say it! I want this page to be an open dialogue and a safe space for people to share their journeys and stories! I’m open minded and I hope to attract open minded people. I just put too much work and effort into my craft to be disrespected and I won’t have it. Not even a little. Thank you for the support! I hope we keep rocking & rolling! Let me know what you think!

Stay Sexy,

A-D 🖤💋

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