#these were rlly good!!!!! ty ella!!!!!

[strawberrytalia]

omg! i wanna do a few:

top 5 dc characters!

top 5 comic series!

top 5 animals!

OMG hi ella!!! 🫶 OH THESE ARE HARD

Top 5 dc characters (omg I feel bad ranking them)

Duke Thomas - who’s surprised 😭 no but he’s without a doubt my fave bat. i think there are just so many inspiring things about him, and he represents the aspect of comics I love most - stepping up and doing what’s right even when all odds are against you

Carol Ferris - I used to talk about her 24/7 when I was heavy in my GL phase, but I never stopped loving her. I love that she’s deeply flawed and angry and passionate, and she gets to be messy. Also she influenced me to be more comfortable expressing myself femininely which was hard as a brown girl ngl anyways carol <333

Ollie Queen - LMAO idk why but I feel so cliche putting him, but he’s my favorite Arrow and he always has been. I relate to him a lot. He’s really introverted, in his own head despite being is outspoken, he loves nature, cares deeply, and he isolates when he’s sad. I also like his very black-and-white thinking, esp when it gets challenged. live laugh love ollie queen

Talia Al Ghul - I won’t say much about her lmao bc talia stans are like sharks here, but she is also very important to me. Like you ever get that character that just seizes your heart???? Yeah that’s Talia for me 🥺 i don’t post abt her often either, but i love her sm

Khalid Nassour - it’s hell being his fan, but i’ll do it anyways 😭 so Khalid is rlly interesting bc i read his “cool” appearances first then read Dr Fate 2015 where he was more of an annoying 22 yr old. And it was so satisfying watching him grow from someone who was more narrow-minded and whitewashed to an intelligent, capable, and enlightened person. I really enjoy his character’s spin on what fate means in regards to one’s identity, heritage, lifestyle, and faith.

Top 5 comic series (THIS IS ALSO HARD OMG)

Day of Vengeance - this is the one currently living rent free in my head rn bc it’s so FUNNY and random, but also a really interesting storyline in regards to magic in the DCU. It’s just so enjoyable watching this group of mystics handle the hugest threat ever and barely get along, and they’re all weird, and then Lori joins and she’s like the group teenager and it’s so funny

We Are Robin - I honestly wish it was longer ngl but I really wanted to see more of the group together and their stories, especially Izzy and Dre. The premise and duration of this story is SO dear to me bc ofc Duke, but also I love watching kids band together against authorities bc they love their city sm.

Batman: Son of the Demon - as a Talia and sometimes Brutalia fan, how can I not 😭 It’s so sad and actually heartwrenching how happiness was so close to them but taken away, and how much Bruce and Talia sacrificed for each other because they are both loving people, they just love in the wrong way

Green Arrow: The Longbow Hunters - perfect Ollie. Perfect depiction of his mind. Really good storytelling. SHADOOOOO she served cunt and dc didn’t like that so they ruined her. Her initial appearance was so charming i literally made it my header. I like ethical dilemmas and the one in this story is so good. Also shoutout to Eddie fr

Green Lantern: Blackest Night - OKAY THIS IS THE ONE I WAS AFRAID OF SHARING 😭 I’m SORRY i love this for so many reasons, nostalgia mostly bc I re-read it over and over again at the peak of my hal obsession era idk why, I like the giant white entity, I like when all the Corps leaders have to team up and they’re all side-eyeing each other sm, and I also love when random heroes get involved and help save the day like Mera, Ray, Barry, Diana, Grant, watching them all try to survive it while battling grief in front of them. It is NOT THE BEST GL COMIC EVER but it’s one of my faves.

Top 5 animals (I love this question!!!!)

CATS 🫶 I used to have a cat when I lived in the states!! his name was austin, he was 8 years old, and he was the cutest thing ever. we had to give him away when we moved 😭 i still hate that my mom did that sm

SEALS!!!!!!! 🦭

Orcas 🐋🐋🐋 I like them a lot, they’re so adorable

Otters!!! 🦦

Flamingos 🦩 (hehe my username for a reason) they’re pink and i like all things pink also they’re so pretty

#these were rlly good!!!!! ty ella!!!!! #<33333 #you just reminded me that i have an ask idea abt kyle to send you soon omg #asks

[muwur]

Since requests were open I was wondering if I could request father headcanons for iwai + ushi + atsumu 🥺 btw your writing is vv tasty n I can’t wait to see you write more !! Keep up the good work n stay safe !!

haikyuu daddee headcanons

✧ hc’s ✧ for iwaizumi, ushijima, and atsumu

❧ gn reader

✎ 1.4k words

a/n: omg u called my writing taSTY Dx i cri tySM 💞 that is a high compliment for me AHAHAHAH ILY and ty for the request! 

also my lovelies i m back i m sry i was gone so long feojfe i miss yall <3 here u go enjoi, this was fun to write lmk if yall want more characetrs AHAHA

current listen: accidentally in love by sHREK AAHAH jkjk i mean counting crows, they cant take that away from me by ella fitzgerald and louis armstrong, love the way you lie by eminem and rihanna

requests: open!

iwaizumi

✧ prePARED daddy

✧ picked up on this parenting thing p fast, also does a lot of research so he’s ready to face any situation

✧ teaches his kids how to behave n respect others

✧ also makes sure they know not to talk to strangers and teaches them some self defense

✧ be warned these kids are packing a surprise can of whOOP ASS,, dont fuck w them,, plus u wouldnt want buff daddee iwa on ur tail

✧ honestly his kids would be ANGELS ,,, n thats cuz he treats them all so w e l l

✧ mans is ATTENTIVE. he asks his kids about their days, their interests, and encourages discussion about their fEELINGS 🥺

✧ always offers them really valuable and light-hearted advice

✧ and gives them the love and transparency we all wanted but never had--

✧ however his kids are easily (n negatively) influenced esp when uncle oikawa comes to visit--

✧ but mostly bc iwa gets annoyed and slips out a lot of curse words and a “shittykawa” and then his kids started calling oikawa that and now it’s ingrained in them forever fjoefefgfvi (*distant phlattykawa crying noises*)

✧ gives them LOTS of head pats and ruffles as signs of affection

✧ PACKS THEIR SCHOOL LUNCHES and ensures they eat a balanced meal

✧ attends all their games/events,, will get a bit rowdy hype them up

✧ def lets his kids sleep with him when they’re having a bad night or woke up scared from a nightmare (and waits for them to fall asleep before going to sleep himself fojref)

✧ when they were babies he usually succeeded to get them to stop crying by pulling funny faces, showing them their favorite cartoons, or humming a lullaby

✧ when they get older,,, u bet iwa would be suPER protective esp when their kids start being iNtErEsTeD in other people

✧ you: “iwaizumi, they seem like a really nice kid, though”

✧ iwa: *sitting with you in the car, across the street from the ice cream parlor your child said they were at, and spying from the window* “you can’t trust everyone, of course they seem ‘nice,’ they just want our approval”

✧ definitely did not interrupt his child’s potential first kiss at their house’s doorstep by slamMINg the door open “sUDDENLY” cuz he “hEard TheIR vOicEs and THougHt TO lET them In”

✧ effectively traumatized both kids

✧ tho he felt bad after n u made him go apologize so he did (and he was forgiven, only if he agreed to never spy on them again--)

✧ doesn’t stop him from scrutinizing every person yalls kid introduces to you tho

✧ overall a super supportive dad, 11/10

ushijima

✧ ok dEF does not know much about parenting ,, at first

✧ stared at his child like ???nani when you both changed their first diaper

✧ also had plenty of staring contests with his babies ,,, called it bonding

✧ was curious and tasted baby food once,,, immediately regretted it

✧ once put a volleyball next to his child, who attempted to bite it, and took it as a sign that they liked it

✧ after sum time n practice, his mind becomes split between “how to volleyball” and “how to dad”

✧ catch him in the kitchen wearing an apron and whipping up his kids’ favorite smiley face pancakes 😤😤

✧ has an amazing ability to get his kids to stop crying, does really simple things like give them their favorite toy or place a gentle hand on their hand or attend to their needs (mans can tell if they want food or needa poop) and they calm down immediately

✧ carried them on his shoulders once and now they never stop asking him for shoulder rides (not that he minds anyway)

✧ if theres two kids he can probs carry one on each shoulder cuz cmon ,,, have u seen this man

✧ always goes to every performance/game/event his child takes part in

✧ man smiles so soft™ when he goes to the 1st grade play and sees his kid’s name in the program next to their role as “townsperson b” (next year, they upgraded to “singing carrot” in a play about the food pyramid)

✧ if his kid ends up enjoying volleyball, he will teach them e v e r y t h i n g they need to know

✧ but is overall super supportive of anything else his child pursues and doesn’t push anything onto them, would rather let them choose what they want to do

✧ had n o idea what to do when his kid asked him about the birds n the bees asfghkl

✧ couldnt sleep one night thinking about it and just randomly asks you while yall laying in bed in the dARk like “so our child asked me how babies are made and I told them they came from watermelon seeds” (you: 👁️👄👁️ “come again”)

✧ you: *at the grocery store with your child*

✧ child: *hands you watermelon* “I want a little brother!”

✧ you: “haha of course honey” 👁️👄👁️ what do i do (*later to ushijima* “duhfojhguf we needa get another baby i promised our child a younger brother fohurof” ; ushi: “wat” ; you: “itS YOUR FAULT”)

✧ yall eventually tell them not every watermelon can produce babies only really special ones that are really hard to get fhuoefkfotfi theyre not ready for the truth

✧ another great daddee, we stan

atsumu

✧ knew parenting was stressful esp with bABieS but was like eh it cant be that bad right

✧ think again

✧ g o o d b y e  s l e e p

✧ develops phat bags under his eyes, responds with a weak “aha im fine just that parenting life and the kids ykNOW” whenever his teammates ask if he’s oKAY

✧ tried to tempt his kids to eat their mush baby food by trying it himself, nearly gagged but was able to say “eughh yuMM”

✧ loves to lift them high up in the air, even throws them up a little and nearly drops them (yall almost died from feAR but babie was having so much fun,,, yall agreed to be just a bit more careful)

✧ rlly bad at getting them to stop crying, gets very stressed when he’s exhausted every option he can think of then calls you over for some help/advice (you: *immediately calms them down* ; ratsumu: “how--”)

✧ calls up osamu a lot to ask him how to make food ,, then simps whenever his twin brother comes over and the kids are in love with this man and his cooking (”dad why cant you make stuff as yummy as this”)

✧ very affectionate with his kids, gives them lots of hugs and kisses on the forehead

✧ plays with them a lot! whether it’s sports, just dance, animal crossing, or UNO, yOU NAME IT WE PLAY IT

✧ also has no mercy when playing competitive video or board games,, has made them cry more than once LOL

✧ so sometimes he toned it down n let them win,, until his kids actually got better and DEMOLISH him every time

✧ is cool with his kids cursing, just as long as they don’t do it in front of their teachers LMAO

✧ plays innocent when he gets a call from school saying his kid was using ‘inappropriate language’ and is like “whaaat? my child? im not even sure where they learned that, maybe check if the other kids in class are saying those things, too--”

✧ reminisces how much nicer his kids were to him when they were younger and all the time they spent together,,, bc now that they reached their tEeNS they want alone time

✧ wants to be B) cool dad so he tries kinda hard, esp in front of their friends but his kid’s just like dad pls dofjrgjigtgro

✧ also very supportive of whatever his kids want to pursue and dedicates time to help them in whatever ways he can (whether that be to help them practice, make sure he can provide transportation, get them supplies, etc)

✧ always playfully competing with you to see who’s the “better” parent (you win by default)

✧ PROTECTIVE dad and will easily intimidate ANYONE who crosses his kids

✧ takes sum adjustment and mental resilience but daddee atsumu perseveres  😤 absolutely loves his kids and would do anything for them  

#haikyuu x reader #iwaizumi x reader #ushijima x reader #atsumu x reader #haikyuu headcanons #haikyuu x you #haikyuu daddies #LOL #iwaizumi hajime #iwaizumi haijime x reader #ushijima wakatoshi x reader #ushijima wakatoshi #atsumu miya #ratsumu #atsumu miya x reader #haikyuu reader insert #requests

[anything-advice-blog]

Submission about Dance

Urgent!! There will be some sort of dance rehearsal for the school event. I feel rlly okay for performing. I kinda enjoy it. But the thing is, the school has this mean scary adviser for the dance rehearsal. We would practice on stage but he makes comments harshly. for the better, they say. But, I can't help backing out. Plus, i feel really pressured. Plus, my physical stature (small) isn't really fit for this. This is my 1st time participating in such an event. Idk, i might quit. Ty!

Urgent!! time senstive! resending this again bc tomorrow will be stage rehearsal. This is my first time joining a dance. And, im okay w/ it. The thing is, we have this mean adviser who keeps harshly commenting on the participants(e.g. dance better! u shouldnt have joined if ure gonna be like that! etc). Its reallly making me pressured and scared. Im not really confident in my physical stature (small and kinda chubby). Idk, i might quit. Ty again! I hope u guys received my last ask!

Time sensitive(i guess). Just wanted to let you guys to know that i already quit the dance club. Idk why you guys didnt answer my ask when i sent it twice for the last few days. If u guys didnt believe some parts, im guessing it was the stage. Our school has this small stage. A really small one. They set it up every school event. It really hurts to quit something I really like doing. Thank you anyway.

Time sensitive ** (i guess) Im the anon that quit the dance club. I marked the asks urgent. I really needed advice that time. I just feel really sad right now. I hope im not a bother. Ty.

4 part submission_____________________________________________

 Hello love!

I’m sorry that we didn’t get to this submission as soon as we should have. I hope you can understand and forgive us. We are trying our best to get everyone but we have a lot of submissions daily and are trying to evenly proportion our answers to those who are still waiting and those who have urgents. We also have to attend to our own lives so we hope that everyone that sends their asks will be patient with us. Once again, we’re so sorry we were only able to answer to you after your dilemma.

First of all, I’m really sorry again that you quit the dance group. It takes not only a lot of confidence to just appear to the rehearsals and even more so to get up on that stage. I already admire you a lot because I would never even consider it despite it being my hobby. So some serious kudos to you.

I know that it’s hard to wrap your head around, but constructive criticism is the best type criticism. How you dance and how much you dance is something for you to enjoy and pursue no matter how many people are against it. You learn a lot about yourself through the guidance of others. If you are able to re-wire your thinking about how and why someone says something about your dancing, it’ll become a gift to you and something you can use to your advantage to improve instead of just being a weapon. Being a previous dancer myself, I know that it can be a hit to your confidence when you hear that you aren’t as good as you had previously thought, but that should push you to prove them wrong and be even better than even you expected. Remember, the only person who can beat you is yourself. Compete with yourself instead of others. There will always be a better dance come a day, but one thing they can never have is your dedication, your uniqueness and your will to keep going.

Coaches are always harsh, but they reason they do push you is really very simple. Think about it this way, if they are harsh on you, it means you have potential and they approve of you. If they don’t even bother to say anything to you, either it means they think your good for your level or they don’t think you’re worth the insight at all. Criticism from a professional is not because they don’t like you, but more like they actually like you. You will be able to recognize this later on when you go back to dancing or anything you do in life. Professionals will always put you down for good reasons, like reminding you of the importance of staying humble, being able to regain confidence despite hard times, and always overcoming and facing obstacles head on.

Build up your confidence until you feel ready to perform. If you are too uncomfortable with the thought of going to a dedicated dance group that has a harsh instructor, you can take classes so you can become closer with the professional. By dancing alone at first (try YouTube choreos and learn them yourself at home or in an empty studio) and eventually with friends, and even strangers when you rebuild your confidence. Try to remember why you love dance and rediscover your passions. If you love dance, then you’ll be able to face this obstacle and have the courage to overcome it.

Don’t be too disappointed with this missed out chance. There are always opportunities in the dance community, and since dance is internationally known, there is no such thing as not “being good enough” in the dance world. If you can move, you can dance, so don’t ever think you’re not good enough or worth it. If you love it, you will find plenty of chances to incorporate dance into your life and you will be warmly welcomed. Look for local bulletin boards, online forums and recreational clubs to join. Try to be open to any type of dance style and expand your horizons.

No such thing as only one type of dancer. There are skinny dancers, curvy dancers, male dancers, female dancers, tall dancers and short dancers. There are dancers of all shapes and sizes. Just because you don’t think you fit in a specific genre, you’re very wrong. You don’t have to be slender to be a ballerina, and you don’t have to have a specific attitude to excel in contemporary. Dancers come in all different types of body figures and sizes and that includes you. Don’t think that just because there’s a regularity in different types of dance that you have to fit in it. Dance is an internationally known form of art and is very accepting of people. In fact, many famous choreographers end up being completely different from their original chosen specific genre of dance.

If you truly love dance, you don’t need a club to do what you love. I suggest trying to find a more recreational group or form a group of your own, if the stage isn’t your thing then just learn dance for fun. It important to be able to learn dance in a safe environment where you are comfortable, criticism is great but if you are judged all the time you’ll be too afraid to dance and that would be worse. You could find a cheap-ish dance class too perhaps, and get some friends to join. All I’m trying to say is find a way to keep dancing, no matter what happens.

Good luck!

~Ella  ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ

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