#this has nothing to do with ships

[rorah]

The mentally stable Dimitri Fire emblem 3 hopes.

It surprises me that there's still ppl claiming so, but then I remember we're talking about 3h interpretations and I have to make peace with it.

But that doesn't stop me from venting a little bit in this little space I have lol. Actually, it dries me and makes me feel bad to bring this up because I will have to talk bad about Dedue, and I don't want to talk Bad about Dedue. He's a genuinely good boy. But "Human" nonetheless, which means Flaws. I like Felix too but he's become some sort of a clown that doesn't make me feel too bad. I like Felix tho, In a different way.

Mostly talking about these two because the take that "Dimitri has better support system" baffles me because, technically, these two are his support system in HopesVerse. The persons who Dimitri relays on and seek solace/advice/support. The rest doesn't really tackle any of his personal struggles (aside from the Mage!Mitri frustrated dream, but that's out of the bad equation in our 'mentally unwell' set of pixels, and Shez only has a glimpse). Contrary, to Houses verse where the whole blue lions cast knew about his shit, didn't know what to do, but didn't leave either.

I tackled this topic with other person on Twitter who was (or still is) on board with this take and the phrase they used was They contained him better, which of course I agree and remarked that was exactly the problem. Contain him is gonna be contra productive. I used a water dam analogy, where the structure of such dam is damaged, and the pressure of water keeps accumulating. Causing a foreseeable damage for the dam itself and the surroundings. You don't need to be a genius to understand it, you need experience or knowledge for mental ill topics tho.

I really don't want to extend so much on here because it's mostly just, rant format more than a proper analysis so I just want to point out these two things in their support conversations.

First, Dedue. Encourage him to keep on the vengeful path. Which we know was the final goal of Azure Moon and if you payed attention to 3 houses message. The whole Vengeful argument was something Bad, to keep it simple. Despite Dimitri actively looking for answers/guidance for something that, in a rational state he can see clearly like vengeance will consume his life (also Shez and Felix called out this behavior). Dedue answer only encourage him to keep on that path, because he would do that 💔. Presenting 2 oposite views is a great formula for confusion and disorientation. Now, Dedue's role is primary SUPPORT, not guidance nor orientation. He will support his shit no matter what, and we are quite aware of that if played Houses.

Second, Felix. Felix is a special case. He is smart but also an idiot lacks A LOT of soft skills to actually be of help. He's the only one who knows in this verse about Dimitri having a mental issue. In their A support to say the least, so they don't close or solve anything. What makes it more worrisome is the fact that Felix conceals the issue as a secret.

"So try to keep that whole "removing their heads" thing in check, yeah? We can just call it our little secret."

this extract here makes me feel so unwell 😭help

The whole burden falls over him and his lack of skills and wisdom on the matter will be too much for him later on. He at least, will be able to recognize that the problem is beyond of his capabilities and will look for help. Felix himself has his own issues and journey where he needs to learn. He's forced to get pass beyond some of his angry teen behavior but hasn't completely get over it.

There is a lot more to tackle, but that requires more work and time. What are the topics some of you think is important to cover around understanding the Hopes verse resolution? Dimitri's route? something? Do you think the route without Byleth is better? With that being said, I would like to delve deeper into character analysis, and the role each played for the Lords too. That also requires to talk about the Byleth and needs a whole analysis on their own, which requires time (which i don't have much lol) To end this vent, I would like to encourage people to do a little research for the terminology they're using like "Support System". Who makes it up and how it operates successfully. The fact that ppl saying "he has better support system" only because he didn't go feral on the run alone is not entirely valid. A reminder that people can feel alone with or without people around them. And containing the issue within doesn't solve any problem. At best, it's presented later. At worse, it gets worse.

#dimitri alexandre blaiddyd #my lil blorbo with mental health issues #few3hopes #fire emblem warriors 3 hopes #Today I woke up and felt like venting #BUT Just to make myself clear #this has nothing to do with ships #you can ship whatever you want #You do you #Just in case someone has that feeling #This is an analysis from a mental health point of view #because it is one of the strong points of this character and with which many of us connect/relate #So I like to apply psychological and neurological (even psychiatric if necessary) perspectives #And I like to apply realistic theories to this fictional world because that is the good thing about three-dimensional characters #They feel so human that all these hypotheses can be applied #If some of you don't. That's cool too. You do you #Enjoy the game as you please lil fella #ALSO ALSO I'm taking into account what the intention of the developers was #(that would be tricky considering the inconsistency withing the developers' team >___>)

[boredbyler]

someone please explain to me why people are calling will ableist /gen question

I’m under the impression that it’s because he called El a “stupid girl”? Someone please explain

#will byers #byler #mileven #this has nothing to do with ships #anti will byers #I’m genuinely confused #if any arguments break out because of this #I will delete this post

[umblrspectrum]

i love learning cursive just to write text for exactly one character

#fun umbral lore. i can barely read cursive #if you want to hide anything from me then write it in cursive and i will literally never be able to read it #or write it. i had to google cursive text generator and copy it for this #ill settle on textbox designs also eventually #god its been so long since i've drawn the manor gang i think #saw this post and i immediately thought “cyn” #it has nothing to do with her being my number 1 blorbo. bite me #murder drones #art #murder drones n #murder drones v #murder drones j #murder drones cyn #serial designation n #serial designation j #serial designation v #they're so gay also they blushed immediately after this and made out probably im still torn between like 5 different ships #curse you fanfics for putting these ideas in my head

[blednokrov]

some more character studies ehe

#one piece #vinsmoke sanji #roronoa zoro #tony tony chopper #nico robin #art #the highest honor i can give to a character is to make them smoke when theres nothing suggesting the do it in canon #its like my personal art love language #sanji is leaning on the rail angstily type of a smoker. robin is squatting casually on thr ship deck type of smoker #also i grew up in the region that has active reindeer farming. i just had to color chopper closer to a real reindeer

[ohposhers]

they had to cut the entire crotch seam out of the shorts to make it work with his fins but JD always gets what he wants (trollex cant say no to him) idek man fishipping is such a goofy ship what am i doing

#what do you mean trollex has a unibrow #reality can be whatever i want it to be #i was so close to giving them both top scars when i realized i made the trunks trans flag colored #t4t fishipping amiright #im only referring to this ship as fishipping and nothing else #fishipping #fishipping trolls #trolls #trolls world tour #trolls band together #john dory trolls #trollex trolls #my art

[pro-sipper]

"- 'proshippers' or whatever the fuck you people are calling yourselves now -"

It's. It's still just "proshippers". It's you guys (antis) and the fence-straddlers trying to have their cake and eat it too that keep creating random new phrases to "other" and distance themselves from us. We're here, unchanging, same as ever, in our corner with our silly little stories. We aren't the ones interested in coming up with 500 new labels for people who know that fiction isn't reality.

#proship #proshippers #proshippers please interact #pro ship #proship safe #proshipper #sip rambles #anti anti #proshipping #i just see that on pretty much every dni that mentions proshippers #it's like... what do you mean? nothing has changed #then again they think that proship is the new form of ma/p or pe/ar so.... #obviously not good. obviously inaccurate. also nothing you can say to let them know they're wrong #they like their truth more than the actual truth and they aren't interested in correcting themselves

[im-totally-not-an-alien-2]

Cullen: *trying to distract Ras Al Ghul for his sister who he just found out was Blue Bird* Why do you worship Lazarus anyway? What does it give you?!

Ras Al Ghul: It gives me endless life and eternal youth.

Cullen: But I bet it can't give me a boyfriend.

*Lazarus green portal opens up in the sky and shoots a guy down at Cullen feet*

Ras:

Cullen:

Nightwing:

Bluebird:

Robin:

Cullen: Dibs

Robin: That is a demon. A pit demon.

Cullen: and I called dibs

Phantom: ????

Phantom: I know a place if you like burgers

#dp x dc #fanfiction prompts #prompts #danny phantom #danny fenton #batman #cullen row #cullen row x danny fenton #do they have a ship name yet? #i know nothing about cullens comic charecter other than he: #1 has a crush on tim #2 has low self esteem #3 seems kinda desperate for a boyfriend #somebody help this guy #with the self esteem issue if nothing else #the bats are gonna lose it if danny just disappears with Cullen #which he totally would #maybe he gets Phantom to fight Ras too #bad news #cullen is now seen as a possible Lazarus saint or something idk and the loa wants him bad

[ibenology]

I love being on tumblr in 2023 because you can have a literally minecraft youtuber tumblr sexyman competition and the content creators will not only see it, they will run their own election campaigns

#mcyt sexyman #tumblr sexymen poll #mcyt #hermitcraft #empires smp #3rd life #minecraft #literally Scott being like REMEMBER WHO GAVE YOU RACOONS SHIP CONTENT #and it has nothing to do with him being a TUMBLR sexyman or not

[tarucore]

screenshotting this one bc I can acknowledge that I’ve got shipper goggles on and op isn’t about that life which is fair but

I feel like batfam fans misunderstand the term parentification a lot and conflate it with Dick filling a parental role for his siblings, which might be part of the “oldest daughter syndrome” that’s so often pinned on him but that isn’t what parentification actually means

If I say that Dick Grayson was parentified, then that isn’t referring to him taking care of his siblings, it refers to the way Bruce treated him. As someone capable of taking care of his emotional needs and not as the child in need of care in the relationship

Parentification is a term that’s been around for decades, and while having to care for younger siblings might be a part of the definition, it focuses mostly on the role reversal of the parent-child dynamic. I’m not going to get into the psychology of it but being parentified has very little to do with if he actually acted as a parent for his siblings and everything to do with if he acted as a parent for Bruce

This is honestly why I prefer the term spouseification, which is less ambiguous than the term parentification and I feel accurately describes their “equal” relationship and the type of emotional abuse that Dick went through

Also from what I’ve read, Dick doesn’t act as a parental figure for any of his siblings except for Damian. While he might have given extra emotional support to Tim due to Bruce being Bruce, Dick still fits solidly into an older brother role. I’m not even going to touch on Dick’s relationship with Jason which is too weak to even be considered fraternal never mind parental

#cw abuse #cw emotional abuse #dick grayson analysis #dickie bird #idk why I went off like this but parentification really has nothing to do with the siblings #like that’s not the psychological term #eldest daughter syndrome is mostly a pop psychology thing #it might be a real phenomenon that is heavily influenced by parentification but they aren’t synonyms #I’m hesitantly tagging this #brudick #just because I mentioned I ship them and want to do anyone that blocks that tag the courtesy of ignoring me #bruce wayne #and another thing!!!! i don’t consider dick’s relationship with damian negatively at all #it was extreme circumstances as comic books often are and they have a very healthy parent/child relationship from what i’ve seen #*

[summerroseart]

When your hyperfixation's fandom dies down because it's been months since the last bit of content was released

I'm not used to small fandoms someone help me

#scu found family my beloved #I've read every fic that has nothing to do with ships bc... not for me #also #not trying to pick on anyone or invalidate this #but the number of E rated st*b*tnik fics on ao3 is... something #yall must really like mentally unhinged gays #but for me it gets even weirder when they're portrayed as a very soft/lovey-dovey couple. idgi. #anyhow. I'm gonna go back to making doodles for my underground/boom au #computer show me fortnite milfs meme #added an ID bc a few people pointed out that it didn't have one oops

[oceanwithouthermoon]

i hate when i get excited about someone posting about saiki k and then its just someone who only watched the first season and refuses to watch past that</333

#i dont actually care if u do this obviously but omfg they always act like theyre in the fandom- #but know absolutely nothing about saiki k and refuse to learn menakenrnsnns #'hehe saiki k is so silly and has no angst' '*sees saikechi* why r u shipping saiki with his brother....' RAHHHHHHHH #hits u with a truck #i SWEAR its the same people that go 'um🤓☝️that character is NOT gay so this is disgusting' on every mlm ship post #not even exclusive to saiki k #saiki k #tdlosk #the disastrous life of saiki k. #saiki kusuo #meows post

[coockie8]

Seeing someone worry that shipping lawlight would be PrObLeMaTiQuE™ because of the Age Gap™ will never not be hysterical because not only is Light already 18 by the time he and L meet in person but their Age Gap™ is, objectively, like the least toxic aspect of their relationship, canonically😂

#Death Note #lawlight #like you'd be hard pressed to find a ship in this show/manga that *isn't* toxic in *some* way #it's basically 'toxic people manipulate each other the Dramedy' #like especially any ship containing Light #and his *age* has literally *nothing* to do with it #the man is just toxic #he all but says out loud that he's only using Misa for her eyes and intends to kill her when she's no longer useful #like dude's literally a serial killer #the Age Gap™ is the *least* of your worries here XD

[direquail]

I don’t get this dichotomy of “do you see them as platonic or romantic”. Yes. I will read a zillion fics of them platonically. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking nasty and/or in love. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking platonically. Free your mind. Nice dichotomy idiot what lies outside it

#even as i’m writing this i know it’s because Not Shipping something has become a weird moral stance thing #have you considered that love is fluid and more gradations than our eyes can see??? #have you considered that sometimes love Has Nothing To Do With It????? #have you considered a relationship is a disco ball and babey we are dancing all night

[bumblingbabooshka]

Hey, Star Trek Writers... -taps the glass-

#star trek #the only people from Voyager's main cast I could see wanting to be a captain are Chakotay ??? maybe? and DEFINITELY Harry Kim #Harry Kim is the only guy on that ship who I'd actually cheer and scream and cry and click my heels if he became captain #bc it's actually something I think he'd be suited for AND it fits with his personality/goals...<3 #like I saw a clip from Picard and like...Seven of NINE??? Why would she want to be a captain?? I think in that case 'making captain' is jus #shorthand for 'we finally accept you into structured society and you're no longer an outcast' which I do NOT like #also Tuvok's a captain???? Why???? Nothing about Tuvok screams captain material or that he'd even WANT to be a captain #I imagine him being chief of security or a professor (or both) until retiring - MAYBE a first officer #OH same with Janeway only she would HATE being an admiral and loves being captain #like next they're gonna tell me that B'Elanna Torres is a starfleet captain* - NO ! she is an ENGINEER! #Sorry I can't get over how bad Tuvok would be as a captain - he's not suited for it and does NOT seem interested #*so that we can all go 'oh yay I accept this as shorthand for the federation accepts her' - HEY #if the only thing you can think of to show that a character has achieved true happiness & respect & peace is becoming a 'respectable' rank #in the future pseudo not-military: maybe think about that more deeply

[mickedy]

someone left this essay on my post about why shipping the disney brothers is bad and then blocked me. i dont even have the energy to refute it i just thought it was funny

#they're literally actually brothers oswald says out loud mickey is his brother it has nothing to do with walt 😭 #*in the one canon portrayal we have of them together at least #and its really weird to remove that aspect of their relationship to ship them :p weirdo

[professionallydeadinside]

Day 24: Plagued by the horrors

Girl who has never had a crush on another girl before thinks said girl has placed a fuckign curse on her

#YANDERE DEV IS SUCH A COWARD BTW FOR CANONIZING OKA LIKES SPYING ON THE SISTERS BECAUSE SHE THINKS THEY'RE DEMONS #AND THEN DOING NOTHING WITH IT #THAT HAS THE CAPACITY TO BE SUCH A GOOD SHIP DYNAMIC #femslash february #oka ruto #sakyu basu #yandere simulator #my art #fanart