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blumineck · 4 months
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Your videos are so awesome! Question about pole dancing:
I'm a trans man, and before I transitioned I did some aerial silks and trapeze at a school near where I lived. Then I transitioned, moved, and after a few years have wanted to get back into something similar. There are plenty of pole places around my house, but they're heavily oriented towards women. One's even marketed for ONLY women. I feel really weird about trying to attend classes as a man. Any advice?
OK, this is a tricky one. As this is anon, I need to post publicly, so here's some context for passers-by:
Pole dance is a heavily female-dominated activity, and because it's also frequently sexualised (either by design or by association), and requires fairly revealing clothing, many women feel less comfortable in classes with men. Some studios might then attempt to foster a safer environment by excluding men altogether (and even if they don't, the vast majority of students are usually female anyway, so pictures on the website, etc rarely feature men even if there's no actual policy).
And I GET all that. But also, I feel like it's ok for men to want to do pole too. I was literally drawn to pole in the first place BECAUSE it defied traditional gender expectations. So here's my advice, to you and any other men who might want to start:
1) Ask. Drop the studio an email, see if they take male students. The way they respond will tell you a lot about whether this will be a safe/welcoming space for you. It might feel weird and scary, but they don't know you yet, and if their answer is off-putting, they never have to!
2) Be prepared to be in a minority. Even if the studio is welcoming, you are unlikely to be in a class with more than 1 or 2 other men (at most!) and reasonably likely to be the only one. You may find different moves easy/hard, and you may find it takes a little longer for other students to relax/open up around you. This can be hard for some men who aren't used to that dynamic, but it /is/ a predominantly feminine space, so it's worth being thoughtful in how you approach things.
I'm not saying this to put you or anyone else off! IME most studios are happy to take male students, and most students are reasonably open and welcoming, and once you get settled, you can have a lot of fun and make lots of friends. As long as you check in and make an effort, I absolutely recommend giving it a go!
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aerequets · 9 months
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reading once more with feeling by @sometimesiship and this scene from the latest chapter has me in pieces for no reason.....
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somerandomdudelmao · 1 year
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Idk anything about dnd BUT
Also, MNMC Leo and OMO Leo are besties, you can't change my mind~~
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fellshish · 5 months
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Trial & error, the fic where crowley stands trial in heaven for ‘demonic temptation of an angel’
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thelightintheattic · 2 years
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ok back from the dead, made this:
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[ID: A digital painting of Gerard Way wearing a cheerleader uniform and standing with their arms grandly spread. They are dramatically lit by a spotlight shining above them which cuts through the blue smoke behind them. End ID]
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spectra-bear · 1 year
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(first comic's coloring was done by my beloved friend @r0b0t1me)
And thus this story comes to a close... Thank you so much to everyone who's been following up since the beginning, and to those who hopped in along the way til the end, and to @apatheticrobots for allowing me to participate in the making of this fic (be sure to drop kudos and a kind comment when reading, and check out more of his other works!!!),
Sal and I have never stopped appreciating the endless support coming from both ends 💜
Alt versions of the comic + t&e fleo ref!
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Dont forget to check out the extra snippets that comes along with the main story! A visual of chapter 2 from another perspective~ ∠( ᐛ 」∠)_
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zanephillips · 14 days
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ADAM HAGENBUCH Trial & Error 1.08 "A Change in Defense"
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darth-sonny · 1 year
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none of them have ever used money before
(quote from it's always sunny in Philadelphia)
Odd Man Out © @cherrytraveller | @threestripeslider
Mutant Ninja Midlife Crisis © @mutantninjamidlifecrisis
Trial and Error © @apatheticrobots
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Novice sewing pattern: Cut out shapes. Line up the little triangles on the edges. Stitch edges together. We've also included step-by-step assembly instructions with illustrations.
Novice knitting pattern: yOU MUSt uNDerstANd thE SECret cOdE CO67 (73, 87, 93) BO44 (63, 76, 90) 28 (32, 34) slip first pw repeat 7x K to end *kl (pl) 42 * until 13" (13, 13, 15) join new at 30 pl for 17 rows ssk 27 k2tog mattress lengthwise BO and sacrifice a goat to the knitting gods. WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU WANT "INSTRUCTIONS," I JUST GAVE THEM TO YOU
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k-yujin · 8 months
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❂ ⠀﹒ ⠀ ➣ ⠀ (⭒ ˘˘) 🎗 ⠀ ⠀ ⏖
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❂ ⠀﹒ ⠀ ➣ ⠀ (⭒ ˘˘) ⛳️ ⠀ ⠀ ⏖
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ruushes · 2 months
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dark urge -> creative outlet
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kathaynesart · 1 year
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The truth is they just all feed off of each other’s stupid.  I love all these stupid Peepaws so much.  
Gotta credit all these amazing creators: Odd Man Out @cherrytraveller Mutant Ninja Midlife Crisis by @mutantninjamidlifecrisis Trial and Error by @apatheticrobots We’ll Meet Again, Soon @chiangyorange
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cherrytraveller · 1 year
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all i wanted to do was do a warm-up...
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Mutant Ninja Midlife Crisis by @/mutantninjamidlifecrisis We’ll Meet Again Soon by @/chiangyorange Trial & Error by @/apatheticrobots
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somerandomdudelmao · 1 year
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I’m having too much fun with this concept lmao
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sarcasticmothdraws · 4 months
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You've seen these sketches before but I'm planning on tempting fate to practice watercoloring
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felsicveins · 1 year
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And then he laughed so hard he threw up
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