#you all are so unproblematic

[bioswear]

I think more people should make peace with their dark sides, and I don’t mean that in an edgy way, I mean that in a “letting purity culture infect you to the point where you get frightened by even your own darker thoughts and impulses is NOT the healthy own you think it is” kind of way and

#you should be comfortable knowing you CAN get angry #you should be allowing yourselves to feel bad or angry or mad or even hateful without thinking you’re suddenly evil like #I think people who try to be positive and unproblematic and peaceful ALL the time are so unhealthy #personal txt #this isn’t about anything in particular I’m just sick of people thinking being angry is inherently problematic

[agrebel18]

I ADORE qpr Huntlow, and I’m happy on how many people are choosing to see them that way, ESPECIALLY since I recently discovered that I am on the aro and ace spectrum, but I ALSO REALLY LIKE THEM ROMANTICALLY because they kinda match the “girlboss x malewife” dynamic AND they’re QUITE DIFFERENT from some of the m/f ships I’ve seen IN A WHILE (and they’re probably both queer, or at least one of them is, let’s face it) and I haven’t seen enough of plus sized girls like Willow getting desired and found attractive like Hunter does (the fan fave white boy!!) plus I LOVE FRIENDS TO LOVERS. anyways, just feeling positive right now, and they’re just so neat to me. if you hate them DNI!!! 

#huntlow #toh spoilers #toh #just in case #but I also better not see people fighting over them because they're so unproblematic and cute!! #qpr and romantic enjoyers of them can all bond over some of the same things luckily #also I just LOVE them both as characters individually #one last thing: if you only see them as a qpr because 'they're not ready for romance' EVEN AFTER A FUCKING TIME SKIP THEN FUCK OFF #and even before the time skip they became good friends FOR MONTHS before the blushing and confession stuff happened in FtF

[kyshiwarrior]

i dont even ship zukka yet im rooting for ya’ll

#zukka #natla #its not that i dont like it im just neutral about it leaning on ‘nice lol’ #the zukka fandom is so unproblematic (for the most part) and chill i love ya’ll #i hope you get all the breadcrumbs xoxo

[yourqueenb]

This might seem like it’s coming out of left field, but I’m gonna say it anyway because it’s something that’s been in the back of my mind for actual years…

I feel like a good number of Choices fans on Tumblr specifically have this weird sense of hero-worship for Andrew Shvarts because he had a major hand in two of the most popular series (Blades and BB), because he can use basic symbolism, and because he is at least mildly aware that writers should be critical in both creating and consuming. And due to that, those particular fans think that anything he puts out is like the most groundbreaking thing to exist and is above criticism when it comes to the underlying messages. However, that could not be further from the truth. And I think it’s funny how those fans praise him for that last point about being critical when they clearly haven’t completely grasped what that means

#choices #choices stories you play #playchoices #choices app #tldr; your unproblematic fav probably isn’t unproblematic #just because someone knows that it’s important for people to check their biases doesn’t mean they always succeed at it themselves #and in the same vein just because someone subverts certain tropes doesn’t mean they don’t perpetuate others #consciously or not #so you can’t just stop being critical just because someone seems socially aware #that’s how harmful biases and stereotypes continue to thrive bc people think it’s possible to somehow be completely unproblematic #and this is not me trying to come for Andrew or saying that he has purposely written harmful things #its actually more of a fandom criticism #of the Choices one specifically because it’s the one I participate in #but tbh it can really apply to all fan spaces and society in general

[offtay]

name a better friendship that the beluca boys... oh wait you can't 😌💅

#beluca boys #offguntaynew #offtay #taygun #newgun #gun atthaphan #tay tawan #new thitipoom #off jumpol #thai actors #gmmtv #2023 #byofftay #you can barely see off but he's having the time of his life 😂 #honestly this friendship is so pure & unproblematic... I love them your honor 🥺 #they're all holding each other it's adorable 🥺 #give them a showwwww #also pond coming up to them with a big ass smile is me 😌😌😌

[tolerateit]

ily you know who you are was a very wtf moment in swiftian history. matty and taylor were very cringe 🥴

if i could erase that entire year from my memory i very much would

#you ask for the tab* #the funniest part is we don't know much about any of taylor's personal relationship dynamics #but instead of travis (okay he's new fine) and matty it's so funny that joe gets all the hate. #not saying people with decent morals and political views can't be shitty to their partners. but the public knows nothing about that lol? #whatever aspects of his personality he's presented to the public are so unproblematic?? And watch him get torn to pieces for a playlist

[worthyking]

jimmy and chelsea just out here taking turns to see who's the most insufferable my goodness

#like I'm usually all for the girls but. #how am I on his side now #she really causing a wholeeeeee deal because he. went out. for a drink? for an hour and a half? #so disappointed he didn't walk out :/ #now they're going to be all 'wE cOmMuniCaTe sO wElL' #y'all shouldn't have to be communicating nearly as much as you do #the ONLT couple I'm here for is the blond guy and his girl #unproblematic so cute so entertaining #kirastfu #love is blind

[robbinggoodfellows]

in light of how fucking shitty some parts of the rtc fandom have become I want to say a few things:

-rtc is my biggest hyperfixation, its bordering on special interest territory for me.

-I genuinely hate to see this fandom go to shit and I do not associate with the shitty people in this fandom

-Ricky Potts will always be disabled to me

-If you are one of the people who was threatening Richmond or saying horrible things about Kholby on twt, DNI.

-ALSO I don't know if this is still an issue since I'm not on TikTok but I saw someone a while back saying there was an rtc proshipper on TikTok. I don't associate with any proshippers in this fandom

-I am literally just here to have fun and think about spacedolls and be happy and it really hurts me how many people start discourse over different ships

-Can we please not become the Hamilton fandom? Thanks.

-While there definitely are ships that I don't personally enjoy, I want everyone to know that my acc is a place where anyone can come and just rant to me about a ship they like, ok? SO LONG AS ITS NOT BLATANTLY UNHEALTHY, I will always listen to you talking about different ships! I personally only ship the main three (Blackrose, Spacedolls, Nischalia) but yk Im open to hearing about other ships

-HOWEVER, if one more person writes a fic where they make Talia horribly abusive to Mischa or makes her a cheater, I'm gonna delete my acc istg. I understand not shipping them but Mischa doesn't deserve that

-Fuck Mccarter Theater

-I really only picture rtc as being the 2016 cast (I do also picture Ricky as being Yannick's version bc I really like them) because from what I can tell their the least problematic cast

-Why are people being so mean to Kholby on twitter? /gen

-I used to be on rtctwt but Im not active there anymore for obvious reasons

#ride the cyclone #sorry im kinda mad #for once could y'all let me have an unproblematic hyperfixation #I am genuinely just here for fun #so if you just wanna be silly goofy pals and never think about all the bad stuff then dm me

[horseshoemybeloved]

im interested in your m/cr rant but understand why not posting it lol. i like their music but the fandom rn for the most part is something i avoid. fans have such a "theyre not like other bands" mentality and will act like 15 year olds while actually being 24 when trying to "cancel" other prominent band figures but act completely innocent with their favs and chew you out if you so dare call out the band for being more complicated beyond their so removed from reality images of them.

I’m a lil scared to say stuff but I will cus I’m a mean evil lesbo bitch >:]

I think the problem is that a lot of mcr fans ( of course not all, I’ve seen a lot of really great lovely mcr fans ) have this mentality of “ you can’t consume problematic media “ so they Need mcr to be super unproblematic lil angels or else they can’t listen to them.

People will call out problematic stuff they may have said in the past, which is inevitable, they’ve been in the public eye for like 20 years. But a lot of mcr fans just Can’t seem to admit that because like I said, a lot of em are of the idea that “ if I love unproblematic media that makes me holy “

And this is more of a fandoms in general problem but Don’t even get me Started on how people will use queerness to cleanse a white man of all his sins. Sometimes it’s not even queerness it’s just suspected queerness or performative queerness. Yes your fav is queer but your fav is still a white man and you calling them a queer enbie icon is not going to erase their misogyny or racism or whatever shitty thing they’ve done.

I cannot claim to be an mcr fan, who knows these men well and knows how they feel ( although I think no one can really claim that ) But I feel as if they wouldn’t want people labeling them as perfect lil angles who have done no wrong? I don’t know many people who would want that.

That frank tweet was misogynistic, and trying to make it quirky is shitty. I’m not trying to persuade anyone to stop listening to them/ make people feel bad for listening to them. All I am saying is that it’s gross to coverup peoples wrongdoings just to make yourself feel a little more holy

#again I’m not saying mcr is evil and fucked up and anyone who likes them is evil and fucked up #all I’m saying is that you need to let go of the idea that they’re super unproblematic #and that’s fine! #hope this didn’t come across as aggressive #I’m autistic and so I can have some troubles with marketing sure my tone is correct #*making sure

[three--rings]

So let me get this straight. Some portion of GO fandom thinks that this season was really poorly written and lacked plot and development and stuff and ALSO that same group as far as I can tell thinks that secretly there's some secret conspiracy that means none of the bad things the main characters did was actually them doing bad things because Secret Mind Control or Secret Shenanigans the audience didn't see.

So...they think the real answer is that the season would be improved if all the character aspects the season was centered around didn't exist and there was absolutely no point to anything.

This season has no point. *Point happens.* No wait, we don't like that, take it back.

Honestly it just goes to underline my personal policy that people who are drawn to only the happiest of stories are not to be trusted. Like I'm saying this after a year and a half of this being exactly the issue in OFMD fandom but I always always find the people who enjoy dark stuff and problematic characters are better at media literacy.

People will twist and twist a narrative and characters to make sure their faves are not at all flawed and it's absolute poison to fandoms.

#it's not my fandom anyway #I just keep seeing things reblogged by people who are closer to it #and like damn okay #people went to such great lengths to make blackbeard the pirate a helpless victim after he onscreen feeds a guys toe to him #some people just go nuts when they disagree with a character's actions #whereas I'm just like oh things just got interesting #don't know if I should ask not to be reblogged or not #whatever #and like you can like happy things #but when so much emphasis is on liking things because they are All SunShine and Perfect and Unproblematic #that's a red flag #those people will always be disappointed when canon continues #because they can't tolerate characters in flux

[muirneach]

i very much think its bad how just about every single tennis player lives in monaco because yknow tax evasion 😑😑 but also i sort of get it like everyone lives there i would probably also want to live where my friends live? but yeah its definitely just the tax evasion that makes em move there 🙄

#and if they dont live in monaco they live in the bahamas (looking at you shapo and tsitsi). so theres no winning #shoutout to carlos for still living in spain my unproblematic king for real #now me personally if i had 20 million dollars i would be so down for paying taxes. like what am i gonna do with all that #booooo tax evasion is such a lame crime why are 97% of tennis players committing it #sportsball

[spacecrows]

hello fellow 'oh this food isn't supposed to be spicy/tingly/numbing?!?' people!!!

#somehow it never occured to me to stop eating fresh pineapple or celery??????? #(edit: i was informed pineapple is supposed to do that! i'm sorry for doubting you my tingly friend!! unproblematic fave) #i was just happily snacking on some celery #welcoming my old friend the comforting tongue numbness #and suddenly. i was like wait. is this bad????????? #i think its probably fine right???? #dont want to look this up though #so tumblr poll it is #if this poll doesnt reach the tingly mouth community i will take it as a sign to keep eating my celery #i think #also this is really just about mild allergies okay!! im so so sorry to all of you who have severe allergies :( that sucks #but i just assume you guys are not eating the bad foods???? #(i cant have too many tomatoes or oranges otherwise i get bad rashes and i do avoid those #wouldnt count them as a weird mild allergy although its not super severe either #i guess the cut off is really the 'oh i've been eating this all my life i DIDNT KNOW!!!!!!' realization???) #anyways. uhhhhh #poll

[nectaric]

damn, for someone who claims to want nothing to do with his "annoying, dramatic family", fanon hades sure has a lot to say about them

#every post abt him is just “hades never wants to be around them he thinks they're all RIDICULOUS and he is super unproblematic UNLIKE THEM” #but then every text post is him commenting on another god's actions #like is he hiding in the underworld to avoid them like you say or is he following them around to deliver mediocre insults PICK ONE #he's just SO not like the other olympians look at how SO NOT like them he is #fanon hades is a pick me :/// #its late i'm allowed to be a nuisance

[tennis-kittens]

Santa Clara collection • Denis Shapovalov and Felix Auger-Aliassime • Miscellaneous

For better or for worse 🥺❤️

#my two unproblematic canadian son #i know i say that for each single one of them but #I LOVE THEM YOUR HONOR #denis trying to comfort Felix... #you can literally see the pain in his eyes i'm sobbing #also Denis touching Felix' hair is so soft 🥺 #protect them at all costs #santa clara collection #denis shapovalov #felix auger aliassime

[erik-christine]

maybe it’s just me, but I think that you should have to read or watch the thing before you can criticize an aspect of something seriously and harshly

#this isn’t for like surface level opinions or things that are just objectively immoral #annoyed cause once again antis are trying to start discourse and act like they have an enlightened unproblematic opinion on things #when really it’s not that deep #and this is fiction #so its all fake #but the fact that some of y’all are coming for ec when you haven’t even SEEN or READ it like???? #sit tf down #elizabeth rambles

[benjinoff13]

anybody got some recent blackhill fic recs? 

#i want my blackhill obsession back #it was so unproblematic and fun #as opposed to some other fandoms that shall not be named #you all know who i'm talking about #blackhill #mcu #marvel #natasha romanov #natasha romanoff #is it romanov or romanoff #i never know #i'm getting off track #maria hill