#you can unfollow idgaf

[ecstasydemon]

i havent jrwiposted here or on twitter in a while but wowww the way jrwiblr act when jrwitwt even show a lil interest is actually so pretentious and annoying. i get not wanting twt users on tumblr but also shut the fuck up lol

#i have a lot of jrwitwt friends and seeing annoying fucks shittalk them for no reason is soo lame #like get a grip #also the bi lesbian lizzie shit. fuck that #you can unfollow idgaf #sorry this is my blog and i will complain abt whatever i want #also dont go assuming im some twt freak or whatever ive literally used tumblr longer

[futurewife]

I should be giving out selfship agony aunt advice sometimes I feel a little too unserious and unbothered by it all and am very secure in and quite internally validated by my own selfships. however I am thankful for my biggest fans xxx like you do not have to follow my goofy silly fictional boy chronicles. But you do and hopefully part of this is you enjoy my vibe and personality even without the selfshipping. I'm just here to broadcast my massive crushes on guys and fantasise and virtually scrapbook in my e-shrine. me and my fictional boyfriend who loves me forever and ever cause I dreamt us up perfectly :)

#interested in life long selfshippers vs. people introduced via tumblr comm mindsets? #im defs the 1st one by nature and have selfshipped since I can remember I was imaginingggg baby #wonderful to now know people who engage in the things I do! my experience in the comm has been very positive #but I spent more years making and imaginging things for my own personal gratification than I did in public view #so I wonder if this changes how individuals approach the self ship community #for me it's like being in a reddit hobbyist group idk hahaha like cool we all like doing the same thing yaaay funtimes #and a REALLY niche reddit hobbyist group too. #1 thing about me is i feel zero guilt unfollowing or blocking if I feel 1 iota of something encroaching on me having fun #like promise me you will walk away from the internet and log tf off from time to time 😭 #i have always had a strong but quiet idgaf im doing what i want to do and like attitude in life so... maybe that's helping 🫤😬

[vantasei]

they dont even know about gustava heffner....

#I HATE THE MGS FANDOM SOMETIMES I REALLY DO. #LIKE I GET IT. IDGAF ABOUT MGS5 THE WAY YALL DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THE OGS #I GET IT #BUT ALSO. :strangle: YKNOW? #THATS MY FUCKING WIFE YOU GODDAMN HEATHENS #me flat out unfollowing people for hating on naomi also. #if yall are ever mean abt my wife or my sister. you will choke on your water in 3 days #and have an embarrassing time trying to recover from it #<- the nicest way i can put my inexplicible rage about this matter btw #it has been DAYS since this incident and i have not recovered #and i never will #vans.txt

[azulpitlane]

vicious I ln4

pairing: lando norris x reader, a little of charles leclerc x reader🫣 summary: lando's fans always attack you yet he does nothing to defend you, inspired by vicious by sabrina carpenter notes: if youre the anon that requested this sorry it took so long lol! but you were so sweet ty masterlist, part two

yourusername

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yourusername lil getaway

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user wait is she dating lando??

user there's been rumors of them dating for months but neither of them have confirmed user hopefully not lol

user i had no idea she went on this trip

user yeah cause lando never posts her or even likes her posts lmfaoaofda

user am i the only one that finds her annoying...

user nooo everyone else does lol shes always leeching off lando

yourbff ur perfect babe liked by yourusername

user pls dont let this be a hard launch🧎‍♀️lando get UP

user of course she has to post lando🤣she needs him for the likes

maxfewtrell spent more time on the ground than actually skiing

yourusername SHHHH it was my first time

user why are all these comments about lando?? im only looking at her😍

f1gossip

302,837 likes

f1gossip Y/n Y/l/n spotted in Bali celebrating New Years at Martin Garrix's show, possibly with Lando Norris. The two have sparked dating rumors for a few months now but no confirmation has been made from either of them.

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user we might have to start accepting that theyre dating☹️

user I REFUSE

user wait im new to the fandom, whys everyone hating on y/n i love her music...

user shes always posting lando for attention and he clearly has no interest in her, he doesnt even like her posts user plus his ex >>>>>>> y/n

user she doesnt deserve him, he needs someone lowkey and y/n is such an attention whore

user not surprised shes there, always leeching on him

user right like girl give him space, he aint yours

user im a y/n defender idgaf. everyone in these comments are just jealous liked by yourbff

user yikes... user defending someone who needs a man to stay relevant lol ok

user i miss luisinha😭

user im convinced theyre still dating and shes using lando for pr

y/n hey lan, i safely made it back to the hotel

lando 👍

y/n i still dont understand why you wanted me to leave early though, its not even midnight :(

lando y/n, we talked about this. there was lots of paparazzi there and if they saw us together on midnight they would think we're dating

y/n we ARE dating... why are you acting like we arent?

lando yk what i meant im just trying to protect you from the craziness that comes from dating me baby

y/n im already getting hate, hows hiding me any different?

lando lets just not do this tn. yk how much worse its gonna get it if we confirm anything listen i love you, isnt that enough?

y/n yeah, ily too

lando ill see you later tn❤️

lando baby where are you? come on it was a drunk mistake, yk i only love you it was just martins friend, you know her

y/n oh the girl you told me not to worry about?

lando it didnt mean anything why are you acting like this?

y/n because you fucking cheated. im leaving and im moving out of the apartment

lando please dont, im sorry baby i love you

y/n you say you love me but you can never prove it you hid me away for a whole year, was it so you could hook up with other girls?

lando of course not wth but since there's clearly no trust in this relationship maybe we should end it i wish you the best y/n read

yourusername

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yourusername new year same me, wasnt ever the problem

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yourbff YES WIFEY liked by yourusername

user she unfollowed lando omg.

user WAR IS OVERRRR

pietrapilao out of sight out of mind🧘‍♀️ liked by yourusername

user is this about lando omg...

luisinhaoliveira99 😍😍 liked by yourusername

user ARIANA WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE??? user WHEN DID THEY MEET??? user I NEED THE TEA RNNNNNN

charles_leclerc 🖤

user OH?

user what is going on in these comments omg??

user shes finally realized lando will never date a girl like her

user hahaha fr she finally deleted all her posts with him user probably gonna go for piastri now🤣

yourusername

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yourusername took some time off music but dont worry, im back and ready to prove i dont need anybody to stay successful

vicious is out now💌

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user OH NOWWW LANDO LIKES HER POST

yourbff sooo back baby

user this has to be about lando...

user the lyrics are heartbreaking omg

user you all owe her a big apology for the way you treated her

charles_leclerc you look good in red this comment has been deleted

charles_leclerc love it! this comment has been deleted

charles_leclerc congrats on the new song!!

taylorswift 💌❤️

user yall better not start switching up!! if you were hating on her, stay away

user are we just going to ignore charles' deleted comments??

user bro was NERVOUS

user we dont know if this is about lando!! they were just friends

user you toxic lando fans need to stay away🙄 she was never seen with anyone else this past year so its clearly about him. hes not some saint you paint him out to be user exactly!! you guys are acting like you know him

user her shirt saying loyal🫣thats gotta be a diss

landonorris

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landonorris pretty vicious life im living rn

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user the caption??? the hard launch??? oh thats not-

maxfewtrell bro. no.

user his own best friend doesnt approve of his behavior😬

user this winter break drama is something else

user lando i cant keep defending you. why would you caption it this.

user IS THAT NEW YEARS KISS GIRL ON THE THIRD SLIDE???

user yess i found her @ shes martin garrix's friend and she was at that party

user anyone else notice luisa unfollowed him??

user she chose her side HAAHAH user pretty ironic cause so many fans were comparing y/n to her and now theyre friends🤣

user whys everyone mad?? its his private life why do you guys care

user oh so now you guys are giving him privacy?? but when he was rumored to be with y/n you were hating...the hypocrisy

yourbff alexa play obsessed by mariah carey🥱

user OOP user the girls are fightingggg

user not even a y/n fan but this was a bit unnecessary...

user "you dont feel remorse, you dont feel the effects" 🫠

f1gossip

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f1gossip Despite hard launching their relationship just one week ago, Lando's new girlfriend has been spotted getting cozy with a different guy! The leaked pictures have already caused for her to go private on all social medias😬

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user karma is A GOD

user i know y/n is having a good day today

user omfg poor lando :(

user womp womp

user i bet he is regretting his decisions rn😭

user y/n nation won today, ln4 nation taking L after L

user we cant catch a break😩

user WHAT IS GOING ON WITH LANDO RN

user craziest winter break yet jeez

Instagram Messages

charles_leclerc hey y/n! i know we havent spoken much but ive seen how lando treated you the few times you were at races and i apologize for never speaking on it i just wanted to tell you you're a great person and your music is so amazing if you ever need anything please just shoot me a text!

landonorris y/n you blocked my number? im sorry about everything baby can we please just talk?

yourusername

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yourusername im soooo sorry for your loss😊

my new single feather is out now!! special thanks to @charles_leclerc for helping me out in the music video, had so much making it <3

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user this mv was so hot omg

user I WAS NOT EXPECTING THIS BUT I LOVE

user i know a certain someone is FUMING

luisinhaoliveira99 on repeat already!!

yourusername 💋💋 user im convinced luisa reached out after she saw all the comparisons with her and y/n and they became besties user wait that makes so much sense

user f1 twitter is going insane rn

user Y/N NATION KEEPS WINNING

pietra.pilao AHH youre so talented bby liked by yourusername

charles_leclerc had the best time on set with you❤️

yourusername ❤️ user i ship it........

user i want them both

user ofc now shes going for another driver🙄

user oh you guys are OBSESSED with her, get a job user y/n still has them mad LOL

user l**** would never agree to anything like this

user im literally never getting over this, ive watched it 5 times in a row already

landonorris

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landonorris a toast to my real friends

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user if this is a charles sneak diss i will cry

user we got carlando content....but at what price

user oh he definitely got blocked by y/n😭

user dw we're on your side lando

user who is we?

user just take the L and move on bro

user the way 2 songs got everyone to switch up on lando HAHA

user not just that but his shady posts too

charles_leclerc posted a story

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user the girls are OFFICIALLY fighting oh gosh

user next season is going to be interesting...

user my roman empire

user IS THIS A HARD LAUNCH???

user what is happening.

user PARENTS

#lando norris #f1 x reader #lando norris fanfic #lando norris imagine #lando norris x reader #lando norris smau #lando norris x y/n #lando norris x you #ln4 #f1 fanfic #charles leclerc #charles leclerc x reader #charles leclerc imagine #charles leclerc x you #charles leclerc fanfic #charles leclerc x female reader

[777-maple]

How I manifest everything

From someone who has been doing this for 3 years.

Table of context

1. EXCESS POTENTIAL

2. DO NOT GIVE A FUCK

3. FIND THE METHOD THAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU

4. DISCIPLINE

5. YOU DO NOT NEED TO DO MORE

6. 4V1

7. HOW NEGATIVES ARE ACTUALLY HUGE SIGNS

8. AFFIRMATION TAPES

EXCESS POTENTIAL:

Every time I've been overly fixated on manifesting something, it never quite works out. I've come to realize that relying solely on a manifestation for happiness creates a sense of lack. So, when the manifestation seems elusive, and I start feeling hopeless, I remind myself that I can find happiness independent of that specific outcome. I can be content right now and for the rest of my life, even if this thing never materializes.

Take the scenario of people manifesting their significant others. Relying entirely on that person for happiness isn't healthy. Even outside the realm of manifestation, your partner shouldn't be your sole source of joy. If the idea of not having them makes you believe you'll never be happy again, it's time to shift focus. Instead of obsessing over manifesting them back, it's about working on your self-concept and having a healthier perspective on relationships. I love my boyfriend, but if he left suddenly, I'd be sad, not thinking my life is over. It's about having a mindset that even if this particular thing doesn't work out, I'm still deserving of happiness and that happiness will come to me one way or another. And this may seem counterintuitive, however this is not me saying that you won’t manifest your desire and that you should be okay with that. I am saying that you need to be happy with or without because the 3d should never dictate your happiness.

DO NOT GIVE A FUCK:

Mastering manifesting requires not caring about the drama in the 3D world. Imagine unwanted things happening, and you just shrug it off, saying, "I don’t give a fuck." Add a bonus of "This will work out anyway." If your specific person hasn't replied, don't panic. Embrace the "IDGAF" mindset. "I don't give a fuck that they haven't texted back; they love me, and they'll reach out any minute now." After dropping this wisdom, distract yourself from the negativity. Watch a show, dance, listen to music—anything to divert attention. It's about cutting the drama and letting the universe do its thing. Repeat this as many times as necessary.

I applied this recently when two friends were dating, and I believed they weren't right for each other and I hated the way she treated him. Despite seeing them be all couplely in the 3d, I persisted in imagining their breakup. I would affirm occasionally “They are in the process of breaking up, I know that they’re about to break up”. After a week, they stopped hanging out, and eventually, they unfollowed each other. It took about two weeks.

FIND THE METHOD THAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU:

Honestly, none of the typical manifestation methods clicked with me. Affirmations gave me a headache, visualization overwhelmed me, meditation wasn't my go-to, and scripting bored me. So why don’t I like the holy grail of robotic affirmations? I appreciate affirmations, but I can't do them robotically 24/7; it's too stressful. I tried robotic affirming for two years without success. The key is finding a method you enjoy, not just focusing on its efficiency. If you don't enjoy your chosen method, find one that brings you joy. I have seen probably hundreds of robotic affirmation success stories, but since I never enjoyed affirming 24/7 it never worked for me. Ill get into my preferred method in a bit. But find one you enjoy.

DISCIPLINE:

Discipline used to be a challenge, but I realized it's crucial for manifesting. I stay disciplined by choosing a method, setting a 90-day goal, and eliminating distractions. I unsubscribed from manifestation coaches, delete twitter, tumblr, fb, and block tarot readers. Manifestation shouldn't become a distraction. Don’t let manifestation become your new Netflix. I no longer follow my favorite manifestation coaches, not because I dislike them, but because they served their purpose. I honestly do believe this step is crucial but a lot of people may not want to do it.

YOU DO NOT NEED TO DO MORE:

One day, it hit me that I rarely entertain opposing thoughts like “This won't work.” Instead, I find myself thinking, “I need to do more for this to work.” Identifying your specific limiting belief is crucial. In my case, I fell into a cycle of trying new methods because I believed I needed to do more. The pattern went like this: new method -> progress -> less progress/opposite results -> need to add a new method -> progress -> burnout -> giving up. Manifesting operates effortlessly 24/7, so consciously manifesting should be the same. Pick one method, stick to it, and trust it.

1v4:

Here's the affirming method I swear by (shoutout to GOATEDMANIFESTING on YouTube and TikTok– the only coach I actually care about and relate to 100%). I maintain a mental diet by monitoring my thoughts throughout the day. If a negative thought contradicts what I'm manifesting, I stop myself and affirm the positive opposite four times. For instance, if I think "He's getting bored of me," I counter it with affirmations like "No, he loves spending time with me; he's always excited to be around me." Repeat that four times, let go, and continue with what you were doing, all while keeping an eye on your thoughts. It's like facing four opponents in a fight – depending on the strength of the limiting belief, it might take some hits. If four people keep beating you up, even if you survive the first round, you would eventually give up.

HOW NEGATIVES ARE ACTUALLY HUGE SIGNS:

Everything only has meaning if you give it meaning. After observing the process of manifesting something new multiple times, I've noticed I often hit a sort of rock bottom. In the beginning, it involved a few days of confidence followed by uncertainty and worry. But persisting through it always led to improvement and successful manifestation. I've learned to assign a new meaning to these tough days – they're a massive sign that what I'm doing is imprinting on my subconscious. It's like my subconscious is "fighting back" against this foreign idea, but if I persist, it'll absorb and manifest. The resistance might show up as opposing dreams, intrusive thoughts, or even the opposite appearing in the 3D. Take it as a sign that after persisting, your subconscious will be impressed and manifest. Just stand firm during this time. Stand on business.

AFFIRMATION TAPES

This is my preferred method but imma just link a video that explains it better than I ever could plus I am tired of writing.

CONCLUSION

There is so so much more I have learned like how I don’t listen to depressing music anymore just shit that makes me feel confident, motivated or happy.

I have been obsessed with law of assumption for 3 whole years now and I know I still got a lot more to learn however this shit got me movement with my sp in 9 days after 2 years of hot and cold. It got me an A in my college algebra class even though it should be a B. It got my friend to end it with his toxic girlfriend. It got my other friend to end shit with her toxic best friend. I change my appearance and my confidence is through the roof and this is the first time in a while where I am completely content with my life.

There is a lot more I could talk about but thats for another day, these are just the main 7 points.

#law of assumption #manifestation #manifesting #affirmations #manifesation #loassumption

[lipglossanon]

Alright, this is gonna be my last post on the matter. It’s long so I did a read more (and gets kinda vent-y lmao) but this is the last of it.

If I get any more asks (unless it’s from people I know who haven’t been online in months and are lost) I’m just going to delete it.

A few days ago I was deemed a blog to unfollow by some folks who felt I had crossed a boundary of theirs.

(Idk who, how, what, or why. That’s their own choice and all that jazz).

So they’ve asked others to unfollow them if they wanted to keep following me or vice versa (at least that’s the gist I’ve gotten).

There’s been no arguments or a big blow out or anything. We parted amicably because I was just booted out, unfollowed, and blocked lmao.

So with that said, there’s no reason for anyone to harass anyone else about the matter. Everyone makes their own choices in what they deem as problematic or not, so there’s no sense in being mean or hateful about it.

(Here’s the venting haha)

With all that said, you also can’t police/parent other people on the internet. That’s just ignorance (in my opinion). You can only control yourself, how you react to things or what you consume, and frankly it’s also no one else’s business (my body my choice, right?). I’m not here to babysit.

I guess I should also clarify (for the obtuse) that this doesn’t mean I’m a-fucking-okay with certain things. I’m just saying it’s really fucking dumb to think you can control someone’s way of thinking especially on the internet of all places.

If someone lies and comes into a mature space who’s underage, how am I gonna know? Call their parents? Lmao. And if I answer something vaguely that makes you uncomfortable, instead of assuming, just ask me. I’m not gonna be a bitch about it.

I’m always open to learning from my mistakes. I’m gonna fuck up at times, that’s just human nature. To pretend otherwise is stupidity.

I’m also not trying to be an asshole or anything either. I’m just putting out how I think and feel. If you don’t like it or are anonymously stalking my page just to send in hate, please block me and get a life. This isn’t high school. I’m not your mom. Idgaf what other people do. I’m just here to write smut and have a good time. ✌️

#vent post #lipglossanon #lipglossrambles #also a sort of PSA #just don’t be an asshole #don’t send hate to others

[myobsessionsspace]

Hi Lovelies,

I'm sorry but l'm heated today. So sis gets a little bit of my time but just 🤏

She's honestly not worth any energy or space in anyone's mind whatsoever. Especially people who don't know her from jack if it wasn't to do with her clout chasing and childish weirdos feeding into it and her.

She's the definition of a clout chaser through and through. She's what? An influencer? From a 'rich' family? An actress? What in? Who knew her before all of this? Who is she without this?

She says she wants not parts of this scrutiny, the fandom etc...yet...the most recent malarkey.

Nothing but sad pathetic clownery.

I don't have figures but I guarantee you every time she partakes in these shenanigans her follower count goes up.

And we all know more IG followers = ₩₩💳

Who followed her before all of this started? Miss Rona and everything post 2020 really brought out the imagination and unhingedness in so many😒

She's not saying or doing anything a typical bias fan wouldn't do. She's a fan like the rest of us, I can and do post member pictures too. I can post plushies, fans, plates n shit too. Heck gimme a budget and after watching some member lives and IG stories I can be dating each of them (maybe not Jin & Yoongi cos they keep their ish locked up tight!)

Anytime she does this we get rabid incoming on all sides, apart from those that really just don't give AF.

IDGAF about her or any other name thaf constantly gets brought up, the other that does the same, the old one that got replace by our rider Polyc, blonde haired, blue haired, any haired heiress, idol, model, BFF of idols, none of them.

I'm not fans of any of them. I'm fans of 7 members. I ult bias Jimin & Jungkook and I love Jikook's unique duo.

There’s so much to enjoy about Bangtan & Jikook.

She and the rest of them can keep their online games for the equally immature and unhinged to enjoy, seeing as what the members give us isn’t enough for them 😒

She's a fan. A somewhat 'famous' fan. But a fan nonetheless. The only thing I empathise with there is that little princess and the others like her are missing Jikook content as much as us. So they’re are making their own content. Cos that’s what it is, entertainment content, fiction, a fairytale with her and the others trying to be the main characters.

She’s unprivileged like us in the fact that Jikook have each other right now, like they always have, whilst we are on the outside looking in. Her and all the others like her. All those giving her and her ilk the attention.

The best thing to do with her is to reduce her following numbers, don’t follow her, unfollow her, ignore others boosting her content and keeping her name floating around. Stop giving all those spreading her BS views & clicks, even the comments and quotes, we don’t wanna see it or spread it, so don’t see it or spread it.

Just make her the non MF factor she is.

💜

#Jikook #Anonymous Asks

[m4ndysk4nkovich]

yet again i have people who hate debbie following me for some reason… so i changed my bio, and here’s an (un)friendly reminder:

this blog (m4ndysk4nkovich) is dedicated to debbie gallagher! yes, my url and current profile picture are both mandy milkovich-related, but overall, this blog is for debbie. a lot of what i post is meta- and a lot of that is about debbie (also my sideblog is @highbythebeach666 so that’s where my other shit is but anyways). i also post a lot about mandy milkovich and gallavich (a lot of my more popular meta is about gallavich or all of the gallagher’s but if you actually read it it’s mostly debbie). in fact, i post about mandy and gallavich almost as much as debbie, but still a lot of what many people know me for is my debbie defense/analysis. i like her for a myriad of reasons and i also relate to her a lot, and if you don’t like her that is perfectly fine, but don’t bother following me because my content will not please you- and regarding that, if it doesn’t please you, fuck off! i could really care less- i’ve been sent sooo many fucking essays by anons explaining to me exactly why i should hate debbie and it’s like… dude. ever since may this entire blog has really been about her- i mean, i even started watching the show because of her, but you expect me to change all of my views and delete my posts because of someone hiding behind anon? no, fuck that. someone said they followed me because they think i’m funny but they don’t like debbie, and thank you, but that’s also kinda stupid if you ask me. read the room. do the bio that says “queen debbie gallagher stan” and the many many many posts about debbie/debbie haters not make you think that i give a shit? ugh

but i am trying to make this blog more shameless-centric and i’m trying to organize it so that most of my non-shameless posts are on the sideblog, but even if it’s all shameless-centric, you will still be seeing things about debbie. a lot.

anyway- i post meta, headcanons, sometimes fanfiction, and weird other posts about shameless. my favorite characters are debbie, ian, mandy, and mickey and i do not tolerate almost any slander about any of them. if anyone does stumble upon my blog and thinks that i’m funny and wants to follow me that’s great and i’ll most likely follow you back, but i don’t understand the point of following me if you hate the majority of what i post about… that’s stupid and again, you don’t need to rant about it in my inbox you can literally just unfollow or even block me, idgaf.

#anyways #welcome to another episode of aria getting bullied by anons #😭😭😭 #it’s fine this anon was kinda funny but i’m not reading all of the ask it’s insanely long #shameless #debbie gallagher #info post #because a lot of people on here are idiots

[holyvirgilscriptures]

wait what happened now with follows/unfollows?

apparently noah (and brett) unfollowed joseph quinn recently, and people are saying it's bc joe is pro-palestine(?) or something idk. would love to know the reaches people can make. idk about brett cuz idgaf about him, but noah just randomly unfollows accounts afaik, especially ever since he's been on that social media cleanse.

it's also funny because every time noah is active on social media, you will have people screenshotting his likes or his posts and be like "DISCLAIMER: I HATE NOAH BUT OMG LOOK AT THIS!!!!" like if you hate this guy, why are you still following his content? and why do you care who he unfollows or what he likes omg 😭😭 do you guys have his notifications on or something??? what's with this level of obsession.

personally if i hate a celeb i block or unfollow and move on. i don't cultivate an obsessive parasocial relationship where i troll through each of their likes and follows. but maybe that's just me.

#virgil.ask #anonymous

[pr-incey]

Here's my (probably not) hot take on anti-shipping: it represents an instinct found in pretty much all of humanity, and that is the instinct to label anything that makes you feel a negative emotion as morally reprehensible.

We really, really cannot afford to condone or encourage this instinct. I can't stress this enough.

You think my incest non-con whatever shipping is weird? It makes you uncomfortable/triggers you? Well, no fucking shit it's weird! I assure you I know it is. I don't care if you think it's weird. I don't care if you think I'm odd or weird because of it. I am, and I've known this since I was very young. Your dislike or discomfort isn't the problem.

The problem is the reaction to this discomfort. In case it wasn't clear enough: SOMETHING BEING DISGUSTING OR TRIGGERING TO YOU DOES NOT ≠ MORALLY WRONG.

I've been in online arguments with antishippers who start from one of the typical talking points ("it normalises it in real life", "it makes people think its okay", "it's triggering to survivors", "it's not a healthy way of coping"), but eventually they get to "Well, even though you're right, it's still gross/you're still a freak!"

And every time I'm like, ah. Here's the real root of the problem.

Beloveds, please. Your disgust is understandable, but PLEASE. If a ship is so revolting to you for any reason, problematic or not, PLEASE just do what you can to make sure you never come across it again. Block. Mute. Unfollow. Whatever. This isn't even for my own sake; I couldn't care less about what people I will never meet in the real world think about what I do to fictional characters in my free time. I'm an adult with a job and responsibilities and your angry words online won't stop me from doing what I like to think cartoon characters.

I'm so passionate about this subject because I live in a country where queer people are harassed, raped, and killed en-masse because it is 'disgusting' to people. I have struggled with depression for years because of this.

And before you type "I can't believe you're comparing homophobia to not liking your fucked up incest pedo ships", I need you to actually listen to me. If you can determine what is morally wrong based solely on your disgust or discomfort, what's stopping other people from doing the same? Racists, homophobes, terfs and the like? You do know how many of their 'moral' arguments stem from disgust and discomfort, right?

If you can't confidently point to tangible harm being caused by the ship, individual or art, you're better off just avoiding it. Yes, this also includes if it triggers you, unless it was specifically made to trigger you.

Off topic, but this also applies to so much more than ships. I've seen people get dog piled just for being 'unfunny'. It's why I am so staunchly against cringe culture as a concept, why I don't care what labels other members of the LGBTQ community use, why idgaf about other people's consensual kinks. People are wired differently and are often weird or strange in one way or the other. The idea that anyone who deviates from what an 'ideal person' deserves to 'punished', even if they aren't actually causing harm to another person, is soooo dangerous.

#proship safe #proship #please think guys

[sayyourprayers]

Sorry if this is about your mutuals. Actually not sorry at all. But do y'all realise that they're now bullying an account they have blocked or don't follow and being on some high horse and you guys enable this bullshit? OVER A FICTIONAL CHARACTER.

Pls unfollow or block if you think this post is wrong or uncalled for idgaf. Aemiron henrysglock and their whole ass coterie are bullies. And so are y'all who will wax poetic and then be silent when it doesn't concern y'all.

I was unaware of the drama as I've been blocked but I'm glad I was made to see this shit cuz now I can make this post.

Real mature. Y'all support these people. And fellate their already inflated egos.

The fucking irony. LMAO. You gots to be kidding me.

Also all the bootlickers y'all know who you are including some ex-mutuals. Call me an ADHD baiter to my face you spineless cunt. What is your friend doing? Going on to posts not meant for them. You can't RB, you can't converse in tags and you can't make your own posts tagged "anti". Well anything to say to that? No. Don't think the higher ups have allowed that.

Get a life. Seriously. Try idk being at least half upright. So that your words mean something. Btw y'all condone bullying. It's one thing to have a one on one tiff when it is a tiff and another to send your hounds. How delicious are the Scooby snacks anyway?

Get well soon. You know who you are. Question is. How are you okay with it?

#fandumb drama #but it's just bullying y'all call drama to feel good about yourselves #byler

[viavolterra]

https://www.tumblr.com/viavolterra/731580761633865728/and-who-tf-said-it-was-a-game-as-someone-from?source=share

Nate Buzz (Kol), Candice King (Caroline), Claire Holt (Rebekah), Phoebe Tonkin (Hayley), are also pro Israel. Paul Wesley (Stefan) is pro Israel as well. Nate Buzz has repeatedly harassed Michael Malarkey (Enzo) by tagging him in islamophobic Insta posts and by tagging him in anti-Palestinian propaganda as well and he calls him a terrorist. Malarky has Palestinian ancestry (Grandfather was a Palestinian who left for Lebanon), and Malarkey is pro Palestine. Leah Pipes (Camille) is pro Palestine and Malarkey follows her on Insta, he unfollowed the others.

Malarkey and Leah are the only ones I like anyways

the rest are just….. nope for me

some ppl can say “well I’ll still like them” idgaf

like genuinely who tf are you, get out my inbox u little knob, stop begging it, go to ur momma for attention bc ur not getting enough here

but yeah Leah and Michael are the only ones with any common sense and no cowardice

the rest were deleting posts and tryna backtrack

Nate buzz can rot

#tvdu #the originals #bonnie bennett #tvd #cami o connell #leah pipes #klaus mikaelson #the vampire diaries #tyler lockwood #Michael malarkey

[gravedigginbbydoll]

I don’t know why the fuck I need to say this, because media is a thing. And you have google.

Unfollow the fuck out of me if you’re a Zionist, a Zionist apologist, or pro Israel.

Idgaf.

Isra*l is committing a GENOCIDE. A goddamn GENOCIDE.

Palestine has been a country since BEFORE 1948. I have goddamn friends who’s parents can never see their homeland because it’s now occupied Israeli territory. They can never visit family. They CANT EVEN VISIT.

It sickens me to see people who believe due to their suffering they have a right to mistreat others.

And I don’t give a shit if you think this doesn’t concern you, or whatever.

The blood of THOUSANDS is on the US government for weaponizing and militarizing Israel. It’s on Israel for not only Palestinians, but for the people AROUND THE WORLD that they have financially supported the genocide and oppression of.

I will not sit idly by while the country who SUPPORTED THE FACIST DICTATORSHIP of my mothers home country GENOCIDES Palestinians.

And whether or not you realize it, this is on going.

Colonization isn’t a thing of the past, it continues.

And honestly I’m tired of people pretending it’s something to ignore.

Especially in this fandom.

Y’all rally against the TINIEST things. I’ve seen hate for Eduardo and Argyle, hate for Lucas and Caleb, nothing but fucking arguing and bullying surrounding minor things like the book or even just someone’s writing style.

I’m not shaming people, I’m just tired of people turning a blind eye to others spreading harmful shit and being zionists.

Please educate yourself.

And it’s land back for everyone. From the river to the sea.

End apartheid.

(If you want to know ways to help, look into sending esims to Gaza or spreading awareness, along with emailing and calling representatives. Right now donations can’t be taken for good use bc the Israeli army is blocking aid.)

(And no, the duffers won’t ever get my money, I’m either not watching or pirating.)

#from the river to the sea palestine will be free #free palestine #palestine #stranger things #Palestine deserves freedom and peace #anti idf #anti zionisim #don’t use this as an excuse to be antisemitic #not what I’m doing here #free free palestine #it’s free Palestine til it’s backwards #land back #anti colonialism #anti colonization #anti israel #anti apartheid #end the occupation #end the genocide

[butchdykekondraki]

real talk tho. if you dont like me posting in german without translations just unfollow lmfao? i am not going to provide translations ever and there is nothing you can say to ever fucking change my mind on this!!! die mad idgaf

#[ren]

[distortiondragon]

i can already tell june is going to be actually unbearable on this site based on my experience this month. reminder that im on mount idgaf in the "if i see any discourse or references to discourse particularly of the assertive or argumentative or shaming style on my dash i will straight up unfollow you bc im tired" way. you arent getting a dni or a praxis chart for my takes on queer theory i straight up do not Care. anyways potato smile

[tobyfobywoahby]

some guy tried to argue that all other ethnic/non-white celebration months should be eradicated but there should be a white history month

I don’t care how much i like or respect you if you believe white history month is a thing OR you can be racist to white people/they are oppressed for being white they unfollow and block me idgaf

#jammy rambles #discourse #? #idfk