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ameliaily · 4 years
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Tԋҽ Qυαɾαɳƚιɳҽ Cɾҽɯ⁣ ⁣ ✨ In life, it’s easy to forget how amazing you are (especially during tough times).⁣ ⁣ 👯‍♀️ Surround yourself with people who remind you of your greatness (and also know when to not cockblock your selfies 😉).⁣ ⁣ Here are a few of my people. 🥰 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCi9sAyjWL6/?igshid=1p6ruflnv64sa
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ameliaily · 4 years
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ᖴEEᒪIᑎG ᔕTᗩGᑎᗩᑎT?⁣ ⁣ 💃🏻 A sensual movement practice is a key tool I use for maintaining my physical, emotional, and mental health.⁣ ⁣ ⚡️ Plus, it gets me MOVING when I’m feeling stagnant, lazy, impostor syndrome, fear of success, heartbroken, frustrated, rageful... all the things.⁣ ⁣ INGREDIENTS:⁣ ✅ Music that makes your body come alive ⁣ ✅ Clothing that feels amazing on your skin ⁣ ✅ Fragrances that ignite eros energy⁣ ✅ Mood lighting ⁣ ⁣ PRACTICE:⁣ ▪️ Spend at least 15 minutes (approximately 3 songs) letting the music guide your body into movement that feels juicy, yummy, and delicious.⁣ ▪️ Touch and caress your body through the movement (especially the parts of your body that need more love - tummy, love handles, booty, thighs, heart center, breasts, neck etc.)⁣ ▪️ Focus on your breath and feel the oxygen moving through your entire body as you move.⁣ ▪️ Don’t worry about how you look. If it FEELS good, it LOOKS good.⁣ ⁣ BONUS: ⁣ 📷 Record yourself and/or take photos! Enjoy your glorious body.⁣ ⁣ ❓Got questions? Comment them below and I’ll do my best to answer them. (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCi7dmnDyOc/?igshid=ho6089fkpkjq
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ameliaily · 4 years
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My baby nephew, @ace.is.ace, put this hat on me and told me to take a picture. And one simply does not say no to a handsome little boy named Ace Huntington. (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCi59XBDRcB/?igshid=emcybsrjvmuo
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ameliaily · 4 years
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As the Universe expands... so it contracts.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Our last global pandemic of 1918 was followed by the roaring 20s... and then by the Great Depression.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Expand. Contract. Expand. Contract. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ This process is the inherent in the natural flow of the Universe and all things in it - like breathing.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ The last few months have been a deep, profound, and life changing contraction for ALL of us... it is only natural for there to be a huge expansion on the other side of it.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Are you ready for yours?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ✨ What foundations are you laying right now in order to prepare for your next big breakthrough?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ✨ How have you been spending this time?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ✨ What is being revealed to you?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ✨ Are you paying attention to your inner cosmos or have you been numbing out with distractions?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ No shame. No guilt. No regret.⁣⁣ Just pure awareness and curiosity.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Journal or meditate on the above questions and let me know what you come up with!⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I'd love to hear how you're doing...⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Lots of love,⁣⁣ Amelia⁣ ⁣ 📷 @rossbphoto⁣ 📍 North Shore, Oahu, Hawaii⁣ 💃🏻 Me & the Moon 🌝😍🥰 (at North Shore, Oahu, Hawaii) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBfw1jaJkEY/?igshid=uiy4b6cdhyp2
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ameliaily · 4 years
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😱 Did you know that I always feel confused when people find me attractive? (Yes, still! To this day!).⁣ ⁣ A man told me recently I was beautiful and my first thought was that he was messing with me... 🧐⁣ ⁣ 🤔 I couldn't believe that "someone who looked like him" would ever want to look at "someone who looked like me". (Whatever that means, use your imagination).⁣ ⁣ This is just one effect of racism and lack of representation in Hollywood/media. 🙅🏻‍♀️⁣ ⁣ 👯‍♀️ I grew up on 90s movies where lean torsos, huge breasts, light skin, and narrow noses were default hot - Think: Rose McGowan, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Alyssa Milano...⁣ ⁣ 💃🏻 I looked nothing like the women who were praised for beauty on TV and in movies... so I was never able to see myself in that role.⁣ ⁣ I always assume, by default, that I'm too short, brown, broad nosed to be seen as "the hot girl". 🙇‍♀️⁣ ⁣ 🧠 This isn't something I consciously do. It's a belief system programmed into my DNA. Programmed by millennia of torture, dehumanization, and othering of my ancestor's colonizers.⁣ ⁣ 💕 Consciously, I'm happy with how I look. I think my family is beautiful... I think I am beautiful...⁣ ⁣ 🧬 But there is something deeply ingrained that doesn't allow me to fully receive or own it.⁣ ⁣ It has nothing to do with intelligence or logic. 🧠 ⁣ ⁣ 🙅🏻‍♀️ It has everything to do with institutionalized racism, colonization, and lack of representation.⁣ ⁣ 🎥 If you are a storyteller of the visual arts... Please consider diversifying your casts and show the world the many forms of beauty that exist.⁣ ⁣ Little girls (and boys) need to see themselves depicted positively on the big screen. 👫⁣ ⁣ 🧍‍♀️ My little girl certainly needed it... and she still does.⁣ ⁣ Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk⁣ ⁣ #WorkInProgress⁣ #LoveYourself⁣ #SelfLoveLifestyle⁣ #SelfLoveMastery⁣ #RepresentationMatters (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBcCrn8jWWq/?igshid=1rcgsm1xa4jq1
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ameliaily · 4 years
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#BlackLivesMatter #JusticeForBreonna #JusticeForBreonnaTaylor #SayHerName https://www.instagram.com/p/CBcCPlBj09b/?igshid=6gjptnjxd4j0
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ameliaily · 4 years
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@realdonaldtrump #ObamaDay https://www.instagram.com/p/CBa2xf0D4fd/?igshid=y5l3r98jcewn
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ameliaily · 4 years
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👫TOP 3 REASONS I LOVE MEN⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I felt inspired to go even deeper into the reasons why I Love Men (& no, this isn’t about sexuality or sexual orientation... it’s about Divinity).⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 💕 I know in a “radically feminist” world, it can feel like men are being bashed left and right — accused of mansplaining, misunderstanding, toxic masculinity, and overall just plain getting it ‘wrong’.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ While all the above things DO exist, there are infinite others I prefer to focus on when I think about men...⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ There are so many, but I’ll share my Top 3...⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 1️⃣ First and foremost, men have a natural penetrative nature that allow me to open to God...⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ When I give myself permission to surrender to that force, I can open and blossom in ways I could never possibly do alone. I become soft, vulnerable, open hearted. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ My presence becomes a loving force that inspires people to be the best of who they really are... and the impact is immeasurable.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 2️⃣ Second, the strength of men is deep, sacred, and holy. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ “The masculine is the rock upon which the feminine can crash her waves.” and honey, I’ve got waves to crash!! (quote by Mama Gena).⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ When I allow myself to be held by a man’s structure and grounding presence, I experience the vast extent of my power, joy, pleasure, and love... I experience the boundless depth of my darkness and limitless height of my light... the Divine Feminine force within is able to pour out of me uninhibited and radiate sparkles around the entire Universe.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ A woman’s love knows no bounds, and the structure of man helps her get there in ways she could never do alone.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 3️⃣ Lastly, the laser focused, problem solving capability of men is brilliant, intelligent, and second to none.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ When I allow myself to be penetrated by the dense heat of his laser-red focus, I am alchemized and transmuted into the Queen and Goddess I know myself to be.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ The throne upon which I sit and the scepter with which I govern were built by men.⁣ ⁣ (continued in comments) (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBXys2Njglq/?igshid=32zllva3ajp1
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ameliaily · 4 years
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Let life pleasantly surprise you. ✨⁣ ⁣ How often do you try to control outcomes or take grueling action from ego?⁣ Is it more often than you’d like to admit?⁣ ⁣ Trust me, I get it...⁣ ⁣ For YEARS, I was an often frustrated and overwhelmed controller....⁣ ⁣ ...until I learned the ART of BLISSFUL Laziness... and baby, it’s my favorite way to manifest!⁣ ⁣ It’s that magick sauce that makes you irresistible... magnetic... and effortlessly striking. 🧲 �� ⁣ Do you have that capability?⁣ Of course you do!⁣ ⁣ 🎨 You are a masterpiece of nature...⁣ Profoundly unique and inspiringly beautiful. ⁣ ⁣ You know that, right?? ⭐️ ⁣ ⁣ “The Flower does not dream of the Bee. The Flower BLOSSOMS and the Bee comes.” -Mark Nepo ⁣ ⁣ 🌸 Be the Flower.⁣ 🐝 Not the Bee.⁣ ⁣ I love you,⁣ Amelia ⁣ ⁣ #SelfLoveStory⁣ #SelfLoveLifestyle⁣ #SelfLoveMastery (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBWwnkEjjza/?igshid=1sgt4tcyadpf6
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ameliaily · 4 years
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LOOK WHAT I GOT IN THE MAILLL!!!!! ⁣ ⁣ I am LITTY TITTY IN THE COMMITTYYYYYY.⁣ ⁣ Thank you Grace Lever @TheDoersWay for inspiring me to new heights in my business and in my life!⁣ ⁣ For those of you that don't know what this is -- A couple of weeks ago, I was selected as a TOP 5 ACHIEVER out of about 700 people during a Virtual Business Conference with Grace Lever and The Doers Way.⁣ ⁣ The sent me this gift as a Congratulations.⁣ ⁣ Y'all know I work hard and lead and bleed with an open heart.⁣ ⁣ It isn't always easy, but it's always worth it.⁣ ⁣ What's the life you dream about?⁣ What do you long to create?⁣ What's a moment you never thought possible, but you can actually LOOK FORWARD TO?⁣ ⁣ My company, Self Love Story, turns 4 years old this year and it has been the greatest blessing, lesson, and challenge I've ever faced...⁣ ⁣ But one thing is for certain... through this process, I've met the most amazing people and am becoming the best of who I ever thought I could be.⁣ ⁣ Is it hard? Sometimes, yes.⁣ Is it worth it? Always, YES!⁣ ⁣ Thank you for being here and supporting my journey.⁣ ⁣ TO my clients... I FUCKING LOVE YOU! You all represent the best parts of me and my heart.⁣ ⁣ Here's to A HUNDRED more years of Self-Love!!!!⁣ ⁣ I love you deeply,⁣ Amelia (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBUiVTwDaW_/?igshid=1791425fu1qa5
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ameliaily · 4 years
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🌀 H E A L I N G is what we need right now. 🌀⁣ ⁣ 🥀 Our hearts have been broken in so many ways.⁣ ⁣ Anger.⁣ Fear.⁣ Sadness.⁣ Desperation.⁣ Hopelessness.⁣ Isolation.⁣ Sickness.⁣ Death.⁣ Brutality.⁣ Murder.⁣ ⁣ In such a short period of time.⁣ ⁣ It would be silly to think that any of us are "okay".⁣ ⁣ Some of us may be in denial, but the collective needs to heal. NOW. 🧬 ⁣ ⁣ 💜 Find an afternoon, evening, or early morning to yourself.⁣ Put on some loose fitting clothing that makes you feel alive.⁣ Play sensual music.⁣ Place your hands on your body.⁣ Feel your heart.⁣ Your belly.⁣ Your fire.⁣ Your aliveness.⁣ ⁣ The pain is great, but you're still here... because you, my dear, are UNSTOPPABLE.⁣ ⁣ You are RESILIENT.⁣ You are WORTHY.⁣ You are LOVED.⁣ ⁣ Keep going. You got this.⁣ ⁣ I love you deeply,⁣ Amelia 💕 (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBTmwKtjRub/?igshid=1qpdrkvyqzpn8
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ameliaily · 4 years
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Are you a WEAK MINDED person?⁣ Anti racism work is not for weak minded people.⁣ ⁣ So if you’re weak... stay racist 🤷🏻‍♀️⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... keep intellectualizing and justifying brutal beatings and deaths.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... keep coming with your “Devil’s Advocate” responses to blatant injustice.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... keep blindly following what your pastor/priest/politicians say without doing any critical thinking for yourself.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... stay silent from the comfort of your fluffy pillowed microfiber couch in your second home.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... ask questions of POC that are easily googleable and researchable.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... keep whitening your skin in the name of beauty.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... keep that spray tan while in the same breath you say you “don’t see color”.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... keep thinking Candace Owens speaks for all Black people.⁣ ⁣ If you’re weak... Do. Nothing.⁣ ⁣ Are you doing nothing? YOU’RE WEAK.⁣ ⁣ The same way you challenge your beliefs about money, God, and relationships to elevate your bank account, spirituality, and sex life... ⁣ ⁣ Bring that same unpacking energy to White supremacy and Anti Blackness.⁣ ⁣ YOU HAVE IT. Unpack it.⁣ ⁣ - Wanna know what books to read? GOOGLE IT⁣ - Wanna know what podcasts to listen to? GOOGLE IT⁣ - Wanna know how to be a good ally? GOOGLE IT⁣ - Wanna know how to not be a r@cist business owner upholding White supremacy and Anti Blackness? GOOGLE IT⁣ ⁣ Wanna know what something means? GOOGLE IT⁣ ⁣ The same way you know your favorite celebrity’s blood type, dick size, and last 3 spouses....⁣ ⁣ BRING THAT RESEARCH ENERGY TO YOUR ANTI RACISM WORK.⁣ ⁣ Thank you for coming to my Ted talk. (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBNLq9AjdYS/?igshid=yedofsmjvhdd
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ameliaily · 4 years
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A letter to white woman owned businesses...⁣ ⁣ Below is an actual email I sent to a white woman owned business who asked their email list (I’m on the list) for feedback on what they can do to support BIPOC.⁣ ⁣ The email contained other things (it was a beautifully written email with many components and wasn’t just a tone-deaf request for labor from BIPOC), but that’s all you need to know for this context.⁣ ⁣ I decided to share it here publicly (with the names and offerings redacted) because this is actually how I feel about a LOT (ok, MOST) white woman owned businesses especially those in the “wellness” and “personal development” space.⁣ ⁣ This is not an attack on white women, this is an HONEST reflection of how many BIPOC people feel in your spaces - if they even bother to enter your spaces.⁣ ⁣ If you truly stand for anti racism, hopefully this inspires you to do the work and do better to truly create “safe spaces” for ALL bodies.⁣ ⁣ Many white owned personal development spaces don’t even NOTICE that their leadership, spaces, and friend groups are monochromatic and inherently unsafe for BIPOC- and that is part of the problem.⁣ ⁣ Anyway, here’s the email I sent ⁣ 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇⁣ ⁣ Hey *********!⁣ ⁣ In response to your question addressing BIPOC,⁣ ⁣ I would love to see an anti racist component led by a Black woman (well paid) at your retreats as well as speaking about it and offering resources as a regular ongoing thing long after the topic is “trendy”.⁣ ⁣ I would love to see how these new learnings transform the brand and offerings to not only be more optically inclusive but also more inclusive at the core.⁣ ⁣ I’m not sure exactly how that would look but admittedly, I’ve never been interested in [any of your offerings] purely because I didn’t feel safe as a WOC.⁣ ⁣ IDK what that means to you or what creating safety would look like, but just thought I’d say something this time since you asked.⁣ ⁣ Let me know if you need anything else or have any follow up questions.⁣ ⁣ Lots of love,⁣ Amelia (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBF-Y7RDyk6/?igshid=1q3wogk361771
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ameliaily · 4 years
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🎉 Happy Birthday, beautiful. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 💔 My heart aches for you today. You would have been 27.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 👆 Please check the link in my bio for actions you can take to support the cause to get Justice for Breonna.⁣ bit.ly/BirthdayForBreonna⁣ ⁣⁣ #BirthdayForBreonna #SayHerName (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBD1cruDLqq/?igshid=1o73w3mlu0g3s
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ameliaily · 4 years
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Do you go to a breast cancer awareness event and complain “what about pancreatic cancer?”⁣ ⁣ Do you interrupt someone’s award acceptance speech and say “you know OTHER people have won this award too.”?⁣ ⁣ Do you go to your friend’s birthday party and say “But, I have birthdays too?”⁣ ⁣ Do you tell someone with a broken arm, “well, my arms matter too”?⁣ ⁣ Do you tell someone whose mom just died “other moms die too”?⁣ ⁣ Do you go to a funeral and mention all the OTHER people who have died?⁣ ⁣ NO. YOU DON’T.⁣ ⁣ SO STOP SAYING ALL LIVES MATTER. We’re not stupid. OBVIOUSLY they do....⁣ ⁣ Your tone-deafness and righteousness are UGLY. ⁣ Your thinking is UGLY. Miss me with that bullshit. Check your privilege.⁣ ⁣ #BlackLivesMatter (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CA-Qaatj84i/?igshid=1a5paj2pqj0pd
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ameliaily · 4 years
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Do you go to a breast cancer awareness event and complain “what about pancreatic cancer?” Do you interrupt someone’s award acceptance speech and say “you know OTHER people have won this award too.”? Do you go to your friend’s birthday party and say “But, I have birthdays too?” Do you tell someone with a broken arm, “well, my arms matter too”? Do you tell someone whose mom just died “other moms die too”? Do you go to a funeral and mention all the OTHER people who have died? NO. YOU DON’T. SO STOP SAYING ALL LIVES MATTER. We’re not stupid. OBVIOUSLY they do.... Your tone-deafness and righteousness are UGLY. Your thinking is UGLY. Miss me with that bullshit. Check your privilege. #BlackLivesMatter https://www.instagram.com/p/CA-QOa_jAsb/?igshid=13o894t5p877g
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ameliaily · 4 years
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Top 10 Signs White Supremacy Impacts Your Actions & Thinking⁣ This WILL get uncomfortable... Are you willing to do the Anti-Racism work?⁣ ⁣ 10. You easily remember the names and personal details of white / white-passing actors and casually forget Black and Brown ones.⁣ ⁣ 9. You’re willing to date white 6s & 7s but to date a Black / Brown person, they must be at least a 9 or 10.⁣ ⁣ 8. Look around your dinner tables, healing circles, Sunday brunches, and community gatherings - almost everyone is white.⁣ ⁣ 7. When referring to non-white ethnicities, you’ve said things like “they’re such good people”, “ohhh, I love <insert ethnicity>, they’re so sexy”, or “Oh! I know someone who is <insert ethnicity>.” Bonus points if you’ve followed that up with “Do you know them?”⁣ ⁣ 6. When a prestigious role or profession is mentioned (award winning, doctor, lawyer, CEO, executive, managing director, leader, president, etc), you automatically picture a white person.⁣ ⁣ 5. Look at your Leadership teams and Executive boards... everyone is white. *White-passing Latinx don’t count as diverse in this scenario. ⁣ ⁣ 4. In front of and behind the camera, everyone is white. *White-passing Latinx don’t count as diverse in this scenario either, sorry (not sorry).⁣ ⁣ 3. A non-white race gets mentioned and you already have an idea in your mind of who this person is, what their personality is like, and what they do.⁣ ⁣ 2. When you discover someone’s non-white race/culture/ethnicity, you mention the ONE useless fact or ONE word you know in their language - example: “Oh? You’re Filipino? Maganda Ka!!!” or “Oh? You’re Mexican? I totally LOVE tacos.”⁣ ⁣ And the Top, #1 way you know White Supremacy impacts your Decisions & Thinking:⁣ ⁣ You’re here. Alive. and Reading this right now. Unpack that.⁣ ⁣ ⚠️ DISCLAIMERS BEFORE YOU COMMENT ⚠️ ⁣...continued in comments... (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CA5Sg5yjCq_/?igshid=v1c6c25dcuba
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