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hey besties friendly reminder to drink water, feed your lab rats, turn off your evil nuclear generator, change out of your dirty lab coat, go for a walk and take care of yourself <3

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sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.

“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.

“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.

when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.

if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.

you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.

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When your run out, of cups… no prablem for me 😎 My milk apple cup

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willem dafoe age 14

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I HAVENT BEEN HERE SINCE I WAS 16 HI FOLKS HIII!! 17 now whats up

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More icons for my partner

Art by me Characters belong to @cageb1rd

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Hm. *debunks you*

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how did I lose my house twice ah. I love Louisiana. Anyways I’m alive and moving to Arkansas. I’ve been staying with my dad because that’s the only fucking place still standing

#yurispeaks #personal #Yuri.txt #anyways also I don’t feel good and I do not like my ex #I’m so fucking glad he’s out of my life I feel so much better. better than I ever have #I have a loving and caring boyfriend now who isn’t pointlessly argumentative and he’s so communicative and I just #love talking to him so much #anyways thanks for traumatizing me I’m still healing from what you did to me :D #but I have loving and supporting friends now

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idk about you guys but I think this is the best video to ever exist

posted by: @gekiomi

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if you’re still a harry potter fan im just gonna start swinging, i dont care what your justification is, i dont care if it was a big part of your childhood. it was a big part of mine too but i got the fuck over it

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שנה טובה! 🍎🍯

Wishing all my Jewish followers a happy, healthy, and sweet new year this Rosh Hashanah! 💛

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messy yri and ugly baground

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some songs that remind me of the Him

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEfTNcM-HY0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_MvHkohwxw

#my art #yuri

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im so excited to read the draft of matroyshka i cant breathe   😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳

#warchild #yuri.txt

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