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All the chin scritchesss!! Your photo is soo soo Greeemm!!

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#sfw petre #rare petre #crocodile agere #cw crocodiles

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Rocking Stim emojis [ requested on server ] :D!

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red panda paw-ty!

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Frost reading to Gid!! Ahhh! So cute!

I need more LOA agere content but as far as I know no one else makes agere content for the campaigns

Any way here’s some baby Gid doodles

#agere art #agere friends

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Having a Little who was Emotionally Abused Means...

“Emotional abuse is one of the hardest forms of abuse to recognize, […] It can be subtle, covert, and manipulative. It chips away at the victim’s self-esteem, and they begin to doubt their perceptions and reality. […] An emotionally abusive relationship is one where there exists a misuse and abuse of power aimed at isolating, manipulating, and controlling the victim for the primary purpose of meeting the vacuous and stilted emotional needs of the abuser.” (Source)

Frequently reassuring them that you love them very much and will not hurt them

Reminding them that they are good enough and that they are amazing just the way they are

Praising them when they are assertive and/or stand up for themselves 

Understanding that their abuse may have caused underlying disorders (Depression, PTSD, Anxiety, etc.)

Learning what their triggers are and avoiding them as much as possible

Never yelling or raising your voice at them (You should never do this to your partner, regardless of regression or history of abuse)

Understanding that they may have self-depreciating mannerisms as a result of their abuse, and helping them to change those habits (ex. they may say things like “This thing is upsetting me but I know it’s stupid and I’m stupid for being upset. I’m sorry for being upset over it”. Try and help them learn that it’s okay to have thoughts and feelings different from yours and that it’s okay to express those thoughts and feelings)

Really, really, thinking before you speak (ex. Could this come across as mean or angry or passive-aggressive, even if I don’t intend for it to be?)

Reminding them that they are valid (Many people who were subject to emotional abuse feel as though what happened to them was “no big deal” because it was not physical. Their pain and experiences is just as valid as anyone else. Just because they don’t have physical scars doesn’t mean what happened to them was unimportant)

Understanding that sometimes they will need time alone, and knowing that when they need time alone it doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong, they just need some time to themselves

Never pressuring them to talk to you about their abuse. First of all this is just rude, because it is nobodies business but theirs, and second of all this could trigger them into a panic attack, depressive state, flashback, or other traumatic responses. If they want to tell you then they will, if not then remember to respect their boundaries

Understanding that they may be ultra-sensitive or easily hurt, and if so, treat them carefully and respectfully (It’s a result of abuse, not a quirk, they can’t just change it and not be sensitive)

Providing them lots and lots of love and support! Even though emotional abuse doesn’t leave any physical scars, it is still abuse. It’s very very harmful and manipulative. It can take a very long time to recover from emotional abuse, so remember to be patient as they are working towards recovery. Always always always encourage them to see a professional who can help them on their road to recovery, and teach them safe and healthy coping mechanisms!

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puppy dawg! reblogs > likes

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Epp epp! It's so cute! I love all the squishmallows and stuff!!!

Nook Kid Prompts #2- Someone else's blog!

if it isnt super obvious this is based off of @caregiver-twylas-daycare / @twys-little-corner theyve been so incredibly helpful and kind to me throughout the process of settling in here and learning about my regression.

#sfw agere #sfw age regression

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Wait, is there a difference between AgeRe and AgeDre? Newish caregiver here, I want to know for my own reference lol

@cloudscaregiverservice

Hello! Yes, there is! I will share my personal experience and how others have sort of shared how they regress (but vaguely)

For me i know i age dream. I have this sort of "two sides" to it. I have my "small" space, then of course my cg space. They're quite similar for me and really the only difference is how i text or maybe speak. Most of this time i am only age dreaming. So acting smaller even if i know for a fact i am an adult.

Many regressors will have that disconnect with their bodies, their mind will go to a smaller age and won't be as aware of their bodily age. Which is age regression! It's not really disconnected, but allowing your mind to be small, either typing, speaking, or going non speaking, is a way to know someone is small.

I bounce between my headspaces a lot, and even before i learned i age dream, i have always had "childish" interests.

I will gladly say anyone can add on to this with their own experiences or to correct me if i got anything wrong. This was just my personal experience and what i have talked with friends about how they feel when small.

Thank you so much for the question!

I have been very behind and not doing well recently, so i have not been able to be active on here with answering asks.

#sfw caregiver #sfw littlespace #caregivertwyla asks

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#cgtwyla reblogs

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hai! I was wondering if you could make me a moodboard? I've seen some you've done n would love one. gender-fluid, with decorated pacis pls, can you incorporate pandas? age 5, light purple and black color scheme

Here you go!!

#cgtwyla reblogs

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🦴SAMOYED PUPPYRE🦴

I finally found what dog I think I pet regress to!! A samoyed!!

#sfw caregiver #cgtwyla reblogs

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ok so you support the disabled, disordered, and mentally ill. but are you normal when someone takes long to respond to you? or if they have a hard time listening to you? when someone has a hard time giving you their attention? or when their manners aren’t perfect? or when someone makes mistakes that may be obvious or simple to you? or when someone talks loudly or “causes a scene?” are you normal when people have to think really hard to explain things? or when they have a hard time putting their thoughts into words?

are you normal when people’s hair is unkempt or oily or visibly unbrushed? or when their face might be full of acne? or when they don’t have deodorant on for one reason or another? how about if their clothes are dirty? 

are you normal about disabled/disordered/mentally ill people when they make you a little uncomfortable?

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Hi friends my commisions are still open!

Hello! I wanted to finally make a post about commissions! All of the details are on the first image, and the rest are drawing. I have made myself for references!

Please DM me here or on my Main @twyla19 or my art Instagram at twyla_anita_art for any questions or if you are interested! I do have a cash app and venmo! I will currently look for 2 slots since I am new to commissions.

I will take anything from the fandom. However, especially for this account, it needs to be sfw only!

We can discuss in DM what you want, any references you might have in mind, and more in-depth discussion! I will be going back to school by August 21st, so I will need empathy if things will be late or delayed. I will stay in contact with you throughout the process to make sure everything is good and what you like.

See more about my drawings below!

#twylaanita art #commissions

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chillin! got my fave snacks, fave plushies, and number one fave blankie!

#agere art #agere friends

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a very personal piece i've been working on!! to celebrate tryin out alphagators for the first time (i rlly like them!) they're rlly comforting for me and are soft and cozy and just.. help relieve some of the bad, lingering feelings from past trauma.

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everyone please block @dasylveonrosen they are purposely going through alterhuman and agere tags to harass and bully people in those communities! a sad person who bullies others to feel better isnt worth your time, no matter how much you think you can change them. dont take their words seriously they just want to make you upset.

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hooray! (a bingo heeler stimboard)

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