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i was definitely a bad person during my time on here, without a doubt ljdlgjhkfkjg trust me when i say i’m much better now. i still have some natural internalized issues as a result from undiagnosed BPD that i have to sort through, but i really do handle criticisms and dissenting opinions better, i promise. just wanted to check in if anyone remembers or even still follows this blog (i was pride-cat but i’m now moving that url over) who doesn’t hate me for who i was then and give an update after a year and some months.

#maybe there's a reason i kin catra so hard lmao #i actually kinda wanna deactivate this blog... #but sometimes i come back cause i need something from it that i'd (re)posted yk

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whats the new user?

i said ask off anon. /nm

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every day I grow a little more bisexual out of spite

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ok fuck it i need a new tumblr acc and i need it now like i really just need to start over................. except that’s gonna be hard because of sentimental issues but i’m guessing it’ll be worth it since i'll have more freedom with interaction. so dm or send an ask off anon if you’d like my new blog url and i’ll stop whining about petty shit all the time haha

#personal #moving blogs

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me browsing tumblr on pc because i'm blocked by just about everyone and can't see their posts on mobile 👀 also read my bio and please unfollow if if you're on dsmpblr thanks ✌️

#personal #dsmp fans dni

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Bisexuals are wlw and mlm. We’re not partially mlm, or almost wlw. Our love and attraction towards men and woman is equal to the love and attraction felt by gay men and women.

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“i’m uncomfortable with bisexuality” or “bisexuality just does’t feel right” doesn’t mean you’re not bisexual, it means you’re struggling with internalised biphobia

imagine if we told young gay people that they don’t have to accept they’re gay and can just make up a new label instead

stop telling bisexuals being uncomfortable with their sexual orientation is normal and help them accept themselves 

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Some of y’all should really just up and say you hate gender non-comforming people instead of trying to disguise it as some kind of tumblr brand “woke” shit

#someone's gonna hop on my tail for reblogging 'terf/radfem rhetoric' when it's literally not that #idk maybe read critically for once bc nobody said being gnc means you can't be trans #the thread just said don't dictate that for someone else lololololol #lgbt discourse

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everyone knows i'm 16 except porn bots huh ?!

#it's in my bio FREAKS !!! #y'all are the only ones who should care about dni lists (oh and pro-shitters)

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“i’m uncomfortable with bisexuality” or “bisexuality just does’t feel right” doesn’t mean you’re not bisexual, it means you’re struggling with internalised biphobia

imagine if we told young gay people that they don’t have to accept they’re gay and can just make up a new label instead

stop telling bisexuals being uncomfortable with their sexual orientation is normal and help them accept themselves 

#internalized biphobia

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bi people i love you so fucking much

#bi positivity

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I preach about my love for butches and my femme sisters but lesbians who don’t identify with either label? Valid af and ily

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just a reminder for butches: you deserve affection and soft, sweet love. you deserve to be spoiled. you deserve someone who makes you laugh and blush and feel warm and safe. you don’t always gotta be the cool tough guy.

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sapphics who have never dated a woman, you are valid. that does not define you or make you any less sapphic. you still belong.

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fulfilling healthy relationships are as varied as the people in them. you're allowed to build your own boundaries, your own definitions of what a relationship can be. you are free to choose what your relationships involve and exclude. you are allowed to ignore the templates that society gives you, and focus on what brings you joy and safety. relationships based on consent and acknowledging your wants and needs can be stronger and more nourishing than anything based on unspoken rules.

you can set whatever boundaries you want to on touching or being touched. you can set whatever boundaries you want to on kissing or physical affection. you get to choose what steps you take in your relationship, what your journeys together look like, and how you define them.

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good lgbt representation has room for 'stereotypes' without shame. all of us deserve to be seen and respected. the polyamorous bisexuals, the gender non-conforming lesbians, the androgynous and multi-gender transgender people, the promiscuous gay men. the young and old and disabled and fat and Black and brown. gender diverse people who hold tight to their religious and ethnic traditions, and those who buck them entirely. we all deserve respect. we all deserve to see ourselves in the stories we tell, to be recognized as fully human, and capable of joy and community and creating our own futures. we need to recognize the difference between harmful stereotypes, and ones that are simply society's way of separating us as 'other', and reject conformity as the only valid way to live.

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fellow bisexuals, the world is a better place for having us in it.

we deserve to be loud and proud about our love.

we deserve to be free to express our desires.

we deserve respect and recognition as the complete beings we are.

bisexuality is beautiful, our solidarity is powerful, and we belong.

#bi positivity