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The more I've been meeting trans women online the more that I'm realizing like... Why we share so many little threads. The whole "all trans women are the same" jokes are funny as bits but also. Like.

The heavy lean into petplay because existing in a world that hates us is too much, and it's so much easier to just let go and be an animal than to keep being a human that gets attacked. The lean into fauxcest to build a family that loves you unconditionally, family members who will provide for you without judgement. Paraphilia in general is so popular because we're so ostracized from society at large and even queer culture at large, to the point where we bond with the strange and downtrodden and realize we have more in common than we thought.

Trans women are teaching me new ways to love. New ways to *live*. Some transmasc and non-binary people too, of course, as is always the case, but like. We have a shared identity, not even necessarily through upbringing or similar interests, but due to the way we're treated like shit by everyone. We're demonized together and it does nothing but galvanize us and make us stronger.

We are forged in fire, together. Brothers and sisters, across the world, bound by a need to survive, and coming out the other side by loving each other so much that we're bursting with it.

I love you trans women. I love you. I love you i love you i love you i love you.

#i love being transfem and having paraphilias #honestly i struggle sometimes cause i dont really know that many other trans girls most of my friends are transmasc but its weirdly #validating that i can relate to all of this #i love u transfems

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Just the dualities yk

#literally me

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people talk about missing their source partner or source friends, not me i miss my source money the most /j

Funny to think about how my source's net worth is probably like..you know, YouTuber sized; not RICH rich like Elon Musk (though some people seem to think they are which....no, even the richest YouTuber ever has a huge gap between them and like the Uber rich people) but also definitely either upper middle class or upper class but on the low end you know? Like you're not buying a private island or some shit but you're not in debt and can retire at a reasonable age. No gold Lamborghinis but you paid off your college debt and can afford a nice vacation semi-regularly.

Meanwhile I live with my parents and my bank tells me my current net worth is less than 200 dollars

What's T0mmy1nnit's net worth? Uhhh a little less than a Nintendo switch

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its really funny you say this because we are collectively aromantic and yet we CONSTANTLY flirt with friends as a joke or just because we dont really know how to express affection in a way that doesn't come off as flirty, we like things that are considered "romantic/flirty" even though we dont experience 'normal' romantic attraction, but we have such a hard time separating being flirty with being silly with your friends

i blame growing up watching YouTubers who acted gay for each other as a bit /j

It's so interesting knowing how common it is to jokingly flirt or to platonically kiss or say "I love you" to someone when I can't relate at all. I am in full support of it!! Be friends with benefits!! Be in queerplatonic relationships!! Express affection in the ways that feel natural to you!!! Hit on someone as silly banter that doesn't mean anything!!! I'm 100% serious about that, it's wonderful and beautiful and valid.

But If anyone hits on me who isn't Seán I'll literally die

#dovebugs.txt #aromantic things

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I used to know someone who i showed the coffin of andy and leyley because im obsessed with it and they played it and loved it and even ended up having an andrew fictive but they were, an anti??????

and would get really mad when me n my partner would mention like how the ~undertones~ (well more than undertones) are actually really important to the plot and story as a whole

people be crazy

-dove (she/he)

#the coffin of andy and leyley #coffincest #gravescest #proship #antis dni #dovebugs.txt

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proship because i ship people with a 1k follower gap sorry guys dont cancel me 3:

theyre cute as a couple but the follower gap between them is a little ..... uncomfortable??

#funney #dovebugs.txt #proship

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Im a T0mmy dating a Dr34m and anytime we exist together in public im like "oh no theyre gonna realize we are freaks" and then i remember we dont look bodily like source anymore

at least i dont have to juggle keeping the people who know we are dating and the people who know he's my brother seperate anymore, well not in real life at least i still do that online sometimes.. mostly no one knows though

-R she/he

#tw incest #bowspam #problematic fictive #dovebugs.txt

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I MADE A FVUCKING STORE

w the power of printify i present to u,,,, TommysSuperCoolStore!!! where i sell things!!!! three things right now!!!!!!!

"Emotions R Melting" Sweatshirt

Best Catboy Ever Tee

Best Catgirl Ever Tee

I fully intend to make a nonbinary/general version of the Cat shirts as well, but i'm a little burnt out after designing all of these today and I'm really excited to share the store. Once I've made the gender-neutral version tho, it'll go up ASAP!!!!

I'll also continue to do normal commissions!!

Thank you so much for ur support!!!! <3333

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Draws a Scene from Our New Fic Cutely

SCREAMS. u can read it here if u want uwu /nf

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anyway alloaros are cool as fuck and hot as hell actually.

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There should be a form of body modification where you can make your entire torso clear so everyone can see your insides

#I want this too #ghostbvr gender transition goals

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Cute collage I made

#i love this fucking game im insane about it #i should draw them but i dont know if i could do them justice #theyre just perfect 2 me #andy and leyley #gravescest #the coffin of andy and leyley #coffincest

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self portrait (sorta) ^_^

-Wy they/he

#ghostbvr #suggestive #sootcest #(pretend like its implied) #tw: blood #dovebugs.jpg #tw: suggestive

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oh also hi bitches im alive, a certain thing happened about my um ex-favorite CC, and i just was really deep in a depression for a while. im getting better though, ill probably still post stuff about him especially like tombur and sootcest stuff cause, i mean you can pry those from my cold dead hands. but yeah im back and if anyone cares im doing better <3

#yes it took t0m coming out as bi to bring me back #idk if this will apply to anyone but i do not like discussing the W1lbvr situation and i will be avoiding any discussion of it #its a hard boundary for me as of now im going to continue living in delusion where hes just this little character in my head /silly #dovebugs.txt

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ok so t0mmy's bi-curious, who has he been experimenting with hm???? who do you suppose???? tvbb0 is definitely an easy answer i mean theyre literally husbands duh, but i def think he's messed around w fr3ddi3 and 3ryn when they were younger and maybe currently as well

#poppyblr #t0mmy #3ryn #fr3ddi3 #tagging them incase i make more stuff that mentions them and i wanna read back teehee #im a big 3ryn fan he might crop back up in my posts... #💐blr #dovebugs.txt

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