- Communication doesn’t work on bullies. Telling a bully they’re making you feel bad is the wrong way to go. They want to make you feel bad. That’s the point.
- being kind to a bully doesn’t always mean they’ll stop. Sometimes it means they’ll just use your kindness to manipulate you while still continuing to bully you.
- not every bully has a sympathetically tragic home life. Sometimes people are just mean. Sometimes people just get off on hurting others.
- on that note, a tough home life is a reason, not an excuse. You don’t have to put up with bullying because somebody’s life sucks, just like you don’t have to let someone mug you because they’re broke.
- in order to forgive someone, they have to apologize first. If your bully has not apologized to you, you do not owe them anything.
- getting bullied as a kid can still mess you up in adult life. Maybe kids grow out of being bullies, but the marks they left often don’t go away.
- there are ways to get people to stop bullying you, but they almost all involve being mean back.
- as long as parents keep raising shitty bullying kids, there will be bullies. No amount of assemblies and hand-drawn posters will fix the problem. It’s the parents’ fault.
🏵️🦋I did it for deviantart's Valentine's event, but partly because lately I feel far from well. I drew him because in 2019 when my life became complicated, reading this book helped me a lot I don't know how to say it, it gave me a lifeline when I didn't really want anything (it even made me really think a little that it is love) and lately it's been like this and well it's made me draw again the most important thing, according to me like this in my imagination it's my hua cheng I hope you like it (it's the first hua cheng I draw 😶 I have more tgcf drawings but my anxiety to show them is greater ✨I hate my anxiety ✨🌼)🦋🏵️
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here is my deviantart account where i initially uploaded it:
if you notice the color change it's because I only scanned it today ☺️ very traditional 😂🤣
Good morning this is your reminder that Dragon Age 2 is the best Bioware game bc Everyone Is Bi
It's literally just the epitome of "be bi do crimes" the video game
Going on adventures with your queer friend group of dysfunctional assholes who kinda hate each other half the time but will ferally attack any outsider who says anything against a member of the group
I want a return of the DA2 formula: every romance option is bi, we're a bunch of fucking idiots getting wasted in a seedy pub and fucking around, and accidentally end up important through no fault of our own
Andaran atish’an, falons! Na nuvenin o dirthara elvhenera? Ara a ma metueluse!
Finally, I am excited to introduce my elvhen dictionary. Please keep in mind it remains a work in progress, but at this point I think it is expansive enough to start being of use.