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It’s a fair question.

Husband: for Valentine's day, I'm going to run a one-off Pathfinder campaign for you.

Me: Comedy, romance or horror?

Hubby: Think "Eldritch abominations."

Me: ...So comedy, romance or horror?

#pathfinder #I'll just play a bard

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Maybe I’m just tired.

I might just be getting a bit overly cautious with how close I get to people because I’m finding about 25% of people I meet immediately change when they find out I’m trans, but honestly, I’m too old and too tired to deal with hiding things from people anymore. Accept who I am or disappear from my life, I don’t have time for negativity.

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Well that’s dragging out.

I wonder if my family lawyer has ever been contacted before to find ways to make sure that an internet drama story you have doesn’t legally constitute slander or liable...

First time for everything.

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Still don’t really know much about this site.

I’ve got a massive amount of drama related to a homophobic incident directed at my absolutely lovely FC leader I feel like I need to get off of my chest, but it doesn’t seem like the people who are interested the FFXIV club/rp scene compared to twitter. But GODS this has spiraled out of control over the past few weeks.

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Was trying to take semi sexy, cougar-esque looking photos, and I accidentally captured my character having a midlife crisis.

#ffxiv oc #femmet selch #gposers #what the hell am I don't here

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I got the meme, had to.

#ff14 gpose #ff14 dance

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A year ago “I don’t think I’ll ever really get as into mods as my friends.” A year later.

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Looks like a good time to start coming back.

Twitter was “nice” since most of my friends were on there, but it’s a good time to start coming back here. Definitely a more hospitable place, just a bit of a higher learning curve.

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Not going to pretend I didn’t steal and alter the design for my FC room, but I’m liking my results so far.

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Been away, but I’ve achieved all of my pre-Endwalker goals at this point.

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It has been a while.

I’ve spent the better part of god knows how long raising a group of stray kittens that have all taken up my spare time. Only time I’ve logged in, in a while was to go to the opening of a friend’s club. I won a free avatar though, and I’ve got to say it’s lovely. https://twitter.com/fauvora Is the magnificent artist who made it, cannot recommend them enough.

#femmet-selch #faces of eorzea

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The Afterlife

Hunter and animal night.

The Afterlife - Brynhildr - Shirogane - W24 & P46 -11pm EST

#The afterlife #ffxiv #moose

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Raising MCH

Raising Machinist so I can follow around Graha Tia clones with my gun out. I love Graha, mind you, I just also like scaring Tias

#femmet-selch #FFXIV #machinist

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Cosplay Night at Underworld

I think I made a good Queen Beryl, and my FC leader Moose made an amazing Sailor Moose.

https://xxunderworldxx.carrd.co/

#femmet-selch #underworld #queen beryl

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I feel like I should start posting some of my FC and my club photos.

But honestly at this point 90% of them are me in almost nothing because I’m old, and it feels nice to look good. For example, a fighting game Cosplay night at Dancing Dragons https://dancingdragons.carrd.co

#ivy #femmet-selch #dancing dragons

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Someone seems to have commissioned art of me...

While it is not something I would have done, it meets my standards of “it is not porn,” and that’s fine. It was shocking at first to see, but it is by no means offensive in a way that offends me. I did used to work at a fetish club/lesbian bar when I was younger. I can say I know the style they were going for, and I appreciate the effort they put into it. It is in fact one of the outfits I wear in clubs, and I think it’s sweet someone out there put the time, effort, and potentially money into having it made... I will however just be rethinking the club glamours I wear when out dancing with my friends, since I am actually very shy about things. Again, not offended, just a bit shocked.

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Benefit concert for the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.

https://www.twitch.tv/djvioletwanda

If you don’t know who the sisters are, you should look them up. If you do know, give if you can.