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PositiveSingles: A Supportive Online Community for Singles with Herpes in Boston

People living with herpes often face challenges in finding support and understanding from others who can relate to their experiences. PositiveSingles, an online platform dedicated to singles with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including herpes, serves as a valuable resource, especially for those in Boston. Here are several reasons why PositiveSingles is particularly beneficial for individuals in Boston seeking support and connection.

Overcoming Stigma: Herpes, like many other STDs, carries a significant social stigma that can lead to feelings of isolation and judgment. People with herpes in Boston may find it difficult to discuss their condition with potential partners due to fear of stigma or rejection. PositiveSingles provides a safe space for individuals to connect without those fears, which is crucial in a city known for its active social and dating scenes where disclosing one's STD status can be challenging. Building a Supportive Community: PositiveSingles offers an online community where members can share their stories, experiences, and advice with others facing similar challenges. This sense of community helps individuals in Boston realize that they are not alone and that their feelings and concerns are shared by many. Having a supportive network can significantly boost self-esteem and improve mental well-being. Dating and Relationships: PositiveSingles provides a platform for dating and forming connections. This feature is especially meaningful for people with herpes in Boston. The platform allows members to search for potential partners who are also dealing with similar STDs, making the disclosure process more manageable and increasing the likelihood of finding understanding and accepting partners. Education and Information: PositiveSingles offers accurate and reliable information about herpes and other STDs. This knowledge empowers individuals in Boston to make informed decisions about their health, including managing their condition, reducing transmission risks, and seeking appropriate medical care. Local Connections: PositiveSingles facilitates local connections within Boston, enabling members to find others in their area, participate in local events, and engage in discussions about city-specific resources. This localized approach enhances the sense of belonging and helps individuals discover relevant support services nearby. Conclusion: In a vibrant city like Boston, where people lead active social lives and seek meaningful connections, PositiveSingles plays a crucial role in providing a non-judgmental space for individuals with herpes to connect, share, and build relationships. However, it's important to note that while PositiveSingles offers valuable support, individuals should also consult healthcare professionals for medical advice and treatment options.

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Is dating a person with herpes worthwhile?

Put simply, herpes should not be seen as a major obstacle because it isn't. With proper treatment and management, genital herpes should not hinder your ability to date, meet new people, or have a reasonably typical sexual experience. Dating can present challenges when you have herpes. Discovering that you have the virus can significantly impact your self-esteem and your desire to meet new people, despite its high prevalence (approximately two-thirds of all adults have HSV-1, and 11 percent to 20 percent have HSV-2). It is crucial to maintain a positive mindset if you have recently learned that you have herpes or if you are considering dating someone with HSV-1 or HSV-2. By using the appropriate medication, engaging in open communication, and fostering understanding, it is still possible to establish and maintain normal romantic relationships.

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I have had HSV2 for going on 2 years now. I started taking Valtrex after my first outbreak. I got sick of going to the pharmacy for this drug every month, and decided to try something more natural. I started taking Siberian ginseng and found out it works just as well for HSV2

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I was told by a doctor that if you have HSV 1, you can still get HSV 2. If you have HSV 2, you can not get / transmit HSV 1. So even if you're having a casual or serious relationship, it's important to know which one you have. And always use protection.

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Dating someone with herpes is a personal choice that depends on your comfort level, your values, needs, and preferences when it comes. Don't let herpes define you.

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I was diagnosed with HSV-2 about a week ago

I was diagnosed with HSV-2 about a week ago and I'm having a difficult time coming to terms with it. I'm confused about where I got it from since I've been with my partner for 4 years and he doesn't have it. However, my ex-partner before him had contracted it from a girl with HSV while we were together, but I didn't find out until later. He was sleeping with her for at least 6 months while we were together, and it's been 5 years since I was with him. I never really had any noticeable symptoms apart from a small rash that I assumed was razor burn or a shaving cut. However, I started experiencing actual outbreaks about 6 months ago, which prompted me to get tested and diagnosed with HSV-2. I'm confused about how I could have contracted the virus. I talked to my mother about it and she mentioned that she had always thought she had it but was too afraid to get tested. I've accidentally used her razor a few times in the shower, so I'm wondering if it's possible to get HSV-2 through something like that. Alternatively, it's possible that I contracted it from my ex-partner, but I'm confused as to why my outbreaks only started 6 months ago when I haven't been with him for 5 years. I'm going through a lot right now and feeling very stressed and emotional about it. Any advice would be appreciated.

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Would you date someone with herpes?

Although I shouldn't have to justify myself, I feel like I need to provide some context because of the negative stigma around herpes. My ex-boyfriend didn't tell me he had herpes until about a month after I moved in with him. At the time, I felt like I didn't have many options and was also deeply in love with him, so I made the foolish decision to stay with him even though he had kept this information from me for over a year. He promised me marriage if I stayed, among other things. Long story short, he was reckless and irresponsible, and now I have herpes too.

I'm sharing this not to deny my own promiscuity, but to show that you can be in a relationship, take precautions, and still contract herpes. So please, don't judge anyone just because you hear the word "herpes."

The truth is, I trusted someone I shouldn't have, and now I have to live with the consequences for the rest of my life.

Since I started dating again, I've promised myself that I won't make the same mistakes my ex did. If there's a potential for things to become physical with someone, I always disclose my condition. I try to give as much information as possible without overwhelming the person. For example, I take suppressant medication, which theoretically halves the risk of transmission. I'm open to pursuing any other methods that can lower the risk to my partner, but the risk, however small, will always be there. At the end of the day, herpes is just a cold sore in an unfortunate place.

Typically, people with weakened immune systems are most affected by the virus. However, as someone with a weak immune system, I rarely get outbreaks. I haven't had one since January 2021, even though I was diagnosed in September 2020. In fact, most people don't realize they have herpes because they don't show symptoms, and it's not screened for during standard sexual health checks. My local GUM clinic advised me against taking suppressant medication because of the small number of outbreaks I've had since being diagnosed. They told me not to worry because supposedly 1 in 4 people have some form of herpes. They also said that I'm much better informed about how the virus can be transmitted than those who don't know they have it.

The sad truth is that the worst part about herpes is the stigma. In terms of my general health, it doesn't really affect me. So far, the responses I've received have been mixed. Some people have politely declined but appreciated my honesty and responsibility. Others have said things like, "I'm worth the risk" and want to pursue a relationship with me.

To conclude, if someone you were interested in revealed all the information I've shared here, would you still want to pursue a relationship or sexual encounter with them?

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How do you catch HIV if you are not an LGBT+ gay person?

HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is a virus that can be transmitted through certain body fluids, including blood, semen, vaginal secretions, and breast milk. The most common ways that HIV is spread include: Unprotected sexual contact: HIV can be transmitted through unprotected vaginal, anal, or oral sex with someone who is infected with the virus. Sharing needles: HIV can be transmitted through sharing needles or other injection equipment with someone who is infected with the virus. Mother-to-child transmission: HIV can be passed from an HIV-positive mother to her child during pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding. Blood transfusion and organ transplant: Although rare, HIV can be transmitted through blood transfusion or organ transplant from an infected donor. It's important to note that HIV does not discriminate based on sexual orientation or gender identity. Anyone can become infected with HIV, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Therefore, it is important for everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, to practice safe sex and take other precautions to reduce their risk of contracting or spreading HIV.

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Me and my gf both have HSV-2, can we never give each other oral ever again? Do we have to do it in between outbreaks or is oral sex out of the picture completely?

If both you and your girlfriend have HSV-2, it is still possible to engage in oral sex. However, it's important to take certain precautions to reduce the risk of transmission. HSV-2 can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact with an active outbreak, even if the outbreak is not in the oral area. So, if one of you has an active outbreak on the genitals, it's best to avoid oral sex until the outbreak has healed. If neither of you have an active outbreak, the risk of transmission during oral sex is relatively low, but not zero. It's possible to transmit the virus even when there are no visible symptoms or outbreaks present, through a process called viral shedding. To reduce the risk of transmission during oral sex, you can use a dental dam or a condom cut open and laid flat to cover the vulva or anus. This creates a barrier between the mouth and the herpes lesions, reducing the risk of transmission. It's important to communicate openly with your girlfriend about your concerns and to make informed decisions together about your sexual activities. You may also want to speak with a healthcare provider about your specific situation, as they can provide personalized guidance and recommendations.

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Why We Need STI & STD Check and When Should We Go for It

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are infections that are transmitted through sexual contact. They can have serious health consequences if left untreated, including infertility, chronic pain, and an increased risk of certain types of cancer. That's why it's important to get regular STI/STD checks.

Here are some reasons why we need STI/STD checks:

To protect ourselves: Getting regular STI/STD checks can help us protect ourselves and our partners from infection. Many STIs/STDs have no symptoms, so it's important to get tested even if we feel fine.

To detect infections early: Early detection of STIs/STDs can lead to more effective treatment and a better chance of a full recovery. Many STIs/STDs are treatable with antibiotics or other medications, but they can be more difficult to treat if they are left untreated for a long time.

To prevent the spread of infection: Many STIs/STDs can be spread even when there are no symptoms present. By getting tested and treated, we can prevent the spread of infection to our partners.

To promote overall health: STIs/STDs can have serious health consequences if left untreated. Getting regular STI/STD checks can help us maintain our overall health and well-being.

So, when should we go for an STI/STD check? It's recommended that sexually active individuals get tested for STIs/STDs at least once a year, even if they have no symptoms. However, it's important to get tested more frequently if we have multiple sexual partners, have had unprotected sex, or have been diagnosed with an STI/STD in the past.

We should also get tested if we experience any symptoms of an STI/STD, such as genital sores, discharge, or pain during sex or urination. In some cases, it may be recommended that we get tested for specific STIs/STDs based on our sexual history or other risk factors.

It's important to remember that getting tested for STIs/STDs is a normal and responsible part of taking care of our sexual health. Testing is confidential, and healthcare providers are trained to provide non-judgmental and supportive care. So, don't be afraid to get tested and take control of your sexual health!

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It's understandable that you may feel the need to vent about your recent HIV diagnosis and your relationship in a safe and anonymous space. Using Tumblr as a platform to express your thoughts and feelings can be a good way to do that. It's important to remember that you are not alone in your journey, and that there are many resources and HIV support groups available for people living with HIV. You may find it helpful to connect with other people who are going through similar experiences, either online or in person. It's also important to seek medical care and treatment for HIV. With proper treatment, people living with HIV can lead long and healthy lives. Your healthcare provider can provide guidance and support, and can help you to develop a treatment plan that is right for you. Remember that living with HIV does not define you, and that you are still the same person you were before your diagnosis. With time, patience, and support, you can learn to manage the condition and live a fulfilling life. Take care of yourself, and know that there are people and resources available to help you through this difficult time.

So, I just noticed this Tumblr account I haven't touched for like, ever, may be the perfect place to vent about my recent HIV diagnosis and my relationship after that without people I know noticing because no one in my social circle uses tumblr, let alone know that I use it. So yeah, maybe you'll see more of me. If there's someone reading, of course.

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I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing frustration and inconvenience in trying to access the medication you need to manage your herpes outbreak. It's understandable to feel frustrated with the healthcare system at times, especially when it seems like it is making things more difficult for you. I hope that you are able to get the medication you need soon and that it provides you with relief from your symptoms. In the meantime, you may find it helpful to take steps to manage your symptoms and promote healing, such as practicing good hygiene, avoiding triggers like stress and sunlight, and taking over-the-counter pain relievers if necessary. If you continue to experience difficulties in accessing healthcare or managing your herpes symptoms, you can join our herpes support group it may be helpful to meet someone with a similar condition and help you manage your condition and improve your quality of life.

So because apparently you can’t get STIs on a bank holiday, I’ve had to wait until today to try and get an appointment for some accclovir and I’m having to travel 40 mins out of my city to a different hospital to get it because system is a joke. Like I know my herpes better than you do, I just need some goddamn tablets ffs

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I'm sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time with a herpes outbreak. It's completely understandable that you are experiencing a range of emotions right now, and it's important to take care of yourself both physically and mentally during this time. While waiting for your prescription of valtrex, there are several things you can do to help manage your symptoms and promote healing. You may find it helpful to keep the affected area clean and dry, avoid touching or picking at the sores, and take over-the-counter pain relievers to help ease any discomfort.

Additionally, try to get plenty of rest, stay hydrated, and eat a healthy diet to support your immune system. Stress can also trigger outbreaks, so it's important to take steps to manage your stress levels and practice relaxation techniques like deep breathing or meditation.

Remember that you are not alone in dealing with herpes outbreaks, and join our support group to help you cope. I am sending you positive vibes and wishing you a speedy recovery.

I think I’m getting an OB

And this is the first one since my diagnosis and I was NOT prepared for all the feelings to come rushing back. I’m hoping it’s quick. I can’t get my valtrex until Friday sooo I’m basically just doomed to ride this one out 😔

All the good vibes please

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I’m sorry I’m new to this my first outbreak was anal blisters that were so painful. I’m not sure if I’m having one right now. I get waxed down there so I get a lot of ingrown hairs. How can I tell ingrown hairs or white heads from an actual outbreak?

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Oral herpes is often referred to as "cold sores" or "fever blisters," but it is a viral infection caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV-1). Oral herpes is a common condition that affects many people, and it can cause painful blisters or sores on or around the mouth.

The herpes simplex virus is highly contagious and can be spread through direct contact with the sores or blisters, as well as through contact with saliva or other bodily fluids from an infected person. Once a person is infected with the herpes simplex virus, it remains in their body for life, and they may experience occasional outbreaks of cold sores or other symptoms.

While oral herpes is commonly associated with cold sores, it can also cause other symptoms, including fever, swollen glands, and sore throat. In some cases, oral herpes can also spread to the genital area through oral sex, causing genital herpes. There is no cure for oral herpes, but antiviral medications can help reduce the severity and frequency of outbreaks. It's important to practice good hygiene and avoid close contact with others during outbreaks to prevent the spread of the virus. If you think you may have oral herpes, it's important to talk to a healthcare provider for proper diagnosis and treatment.

what is oral herpes if not cold sores????

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It's okay to feel sad, frustrated, or angry. However, it's important to remember that having herpes does not define your worth or your ability to have fulfilling sexual relationships. Reading smut and romance can be a great way to explore fantasies and desires, but it's also okay to take a break from it if it's causing sadness or frustration. It's important to prioritize self-care and to focus on your physical and emotional well-being during this time. Remember that you are not alone, and there are resources and support available to you.

You know how sucky I feel knowing I have genital herpes? I love reading about spontaneous sex scenes and being raw, open, threesome with no protection because *fantasy*, but knowing I can't have that? It fucking sucks. You can't be with me unprotected. You can't go down on me unprotected, (dental dams, anyone?)

I didn't want this. I never asked for it, and now I have to be okay being by myself forever. No one will willingly be with me, I wouldn't be with me. I don't want to be the butt of the joke, and we used protection, so that fucking sucks, okay?

I love reading smut and the romance side of it, but sometimes it makes me sad. Cause I won't have that and can't have that.

I've literally only slept with 2 people!! One was for 7 years and the other a one night stand! And now I'm fucking cursed

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It's great that you were able to receive antiviral medication to help clear up the current flare-up of symptoms. Regarding transmission, it's true that there is always a small risk of passing on herpes, even when it is dormant. However, there are steps you can take to reduce the risk, such as using condoms and antiviral medication. It's important to have open and honest communication with sexual partners about your status and to prioritize your sexual health.

It's great that your fwb is supportive and understanding about your diagnosis. Remember that you are not alone in this and that there are resources and support available to you. Take care of yourself and focus on your physical and emotional well-being during this time.

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✨genital herpes✨

Which is both good news (because it's not antibiotic resistant gonorrhea) and terrible (because I'll have the virus forever). But, this does mean this flare up of it will end, and I won't be in this state forever. Can't wait because it's fucking awful.

Had an actual appointment yesterday and the nurse gave me some mad dysphoria by basically calling me female, but that was soon overshadowed by being hit by the whole "you have herpes" thing. He's clearly delivered this news a lot and made me feel like it's not the end of the world.

Gave me some antiviral meds that should help it clear up. It's all on my skin now and it's painful and itchy and awful.

Greg's got a lot of feelings about this and is understandably angry and upset. And had been googling it. The nurse told me I can have sex as normal and not pass it on when it's dormant, but Greg dropped on me there's always a small risk of passing it on whatever you do. So that was really devastating to hear and really killed me over it to be honest. It had been a traumatic day already and I wasn't ready for that.

Apart from the current pain and discomfort, that's the worst part.

At least my fwb is chill about it, that's made me feel a little better. That and that it WILL clear up after hopefully 5 days of these pills. That's keeping me going right now. It's so painful to cycle I can barely do it.

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