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also gonna put this out there cause I got an ask on it:

I support people with low/no empathy. Personally I have very little empathy and it's usually very conditional, so yeah. Having no empathy doesn't make you a bad person, being a bad person makes you a bad person

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SO TRUE

So I’m on a trip with my robotics team and there’s only two “girls” (me, an enby, and a cis girl), so we get our own beds in our own room, but the guys are rooming four to a room, but there’s only two beds in each room. Which means that two guys are sleeping on the floor every night.

I’m not joking. They were literally arguing over who’s sleeping on the floor tonight (apparently they plan on rotating).

And I asked them “why don’t you just share a bed?” And they all gave me the same answer:

“No, that’s weird! That’d be gay!”

And I just looked at them and I decided to break the bad news to them

“If lying next to another guy makes you wanna suck dick, you already wanted to suck dick.”

I’ve never seen so many Straight Guys™️ enraged by a single sentence before

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Big hot take when it definitely shouldn't be:

DISCLAIMER & CW: I'm strictly speaking on systems in adult bodies and only about littles who are stuck presenting as a little despite not being mentally one. Also, mention of pedophiles.

People need to stop being weird about littles who are dating other alters, adult presenting or not.

We personally have littles who can do anything an adult presenting alter can do and sometimes even more. Some adult alters can be even more mentally a child than some littles. Stripping the alter of the right to personal autonomy just because they're stuck presenting as a little is messed up. Especially making them or their partner feel like horrible people for doing so. No, it does not make anyone a pedo for anything. Like actually grow up.

It all depends on the specific system and alter whether or not their little/littles can or cannot do certain things. If it just so happens that a little presenting alter is not stuck mentally at a little age, it is no ones else's business besides their own system and themselves on what that they get up to.

Sometimes these types of littles being able to have that personal autonomy is healing, and making systems feel horrible for that is not only terrible to do but is also super anti-recovery.

Everyone's different and the community needs to stop harassing systems for healing in their own unique way.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

^^ yea. All littles are different , some littles aren't actually children, only appear as such. Some littles are kids, sure, but not all littles are and it's important to keep in mind the difference between alter age and alter maturity. They aren't the same. sometimes an alter may appear as an adult age wise but may be as mature as a kid and thats fine! same goes for alters that appear as kids but are as mature as adults.

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this is your friendly reminder that faking is a conscious choice. you can’t fake unintentionally.

you can be mistaken, and that’s ok! there’s no shame in that. you chose the label that best fit the information you had at the time. that’s just part of life, and that means you’re growing and learning more about yourself.

it’s ok to be unsure, don’t be too hard on yourself. you’ll figure it out, in time. <3

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don't tell my girlfriend this but i think i like girls....

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guys please we need consistent fronts please im begging on my hands and knees guy guys stop fronting and then dipping for months

#osdd 1b #osdd system #did osdd #endos dni #questioning system #osdd #dissociative system #system #anti endo #did

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FEMBOY WHAT NOW??

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2021 us: "so.. youre telling me being genderfluid usually doesn't include having different names for each pronouns and different personalities depending on the gender??"

2024 us: "bestie how have you not considered youre a system."

#osdd 1b #osdd system #did osdd #endos dni #questioning system #osdd #dissociative system #system #anti endo #did

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ENDOS DNI

who thought they were genderfluid before system discovery but it turned out to just be alters? this does not have to do with your current identity! reblog for bigger sample size please ♡

#osdd 1b #osdd system #did osdd #endos dni #questioning system #osdd #dissociative system #system #anti endo #did

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i fully agree, some system communities are so gatekeep-y , esp on syscord

singlets need to get a grip,

we are not something broken

we do not need to tell you who is fronting

we do not need to tell you our names

we do not need to tell you our roles

we do not need to tell you our traumas

we do not need to tell you anything.

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guys i love our girlfriend!!!

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axtually its 11am on a tuesday..

this one goes out to all you sickos on tumblr at 10 am on a monday

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the brainrot is back HWLP US

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f slur

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oh jeez, people are actually liking my posts :0