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monachopsis111 · 1 month
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singlets need to get a grip,
we are not something broken
we do not need to tell you who is fronting
we do not need to tell you our names
we do not need to tell you our roles
we do not need to tell you our traumas
we do not need to tell you anything.
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finnslay · 5 days
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allegedlysilly · 7 months
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Just went “I think I’m faking. What do you think, guys?” internally. Yeah. So how’s your day been?
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plural-affirmations · 5 months
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Here's to questioning systems!
Whether you've been wondering about your plurality for a few hours or decades, you're a valid part of the plural community! Today's for you!
Shoutout to:
People who aren't sure if they're plural or not
Systems who know they're plural, but don't know anything else
Those figuring out whether they're traumagenic, endogenic, mixed origins, or something else entirely
Quoi/crypto/congenic individuals, or those with similar labels
People who aren't sure if they "count" as plural, such as someone with psychosis or imagimates
Those who are plural, but find themselves doubting their system often
And anyone else I missed
It's perfectly normal to not be 100% sure about things! I'm sure you'll figure it out eventually, but, even if you don't, you're still incredibly valid, and we support you! You deserve to take some time for yourself and think about things, but please don't feel rushed to find a label!
We wish you the best of luck on your self discovery journey!
🖤💜💙💚💛
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magicbungelic · 9 months
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If in one post I'm fully accepting my plurality and in the next I seem to not believe at all that it's the case for me it's because I literally forget everything about it if I'm not actively experiencing it
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sysboxes · 2 months
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[Text: This user is currently questioning if they have DID.]
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[Text: This user is currently questioning if they’re a DID system.]
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Here’s some positivity for systems who feel they aren’t “plural enough!”
Whether you:
🍃 have little to no interactions or communication with others in your system
🍃 have a host who is always fronting, don’t switch at all, or switch very rarely
🍃 have a system which goes through unexplained long periods of silence or dormancy
🍃 have a system with covert, subtle, or hard to notice switches with little visible differences between headmates
🍃 are part of a nontraumagenic, p-did, median, or other kind of system that does not get much focus or representation in mainstream media or research
🍃 deal with insecurity or trauma about your plurality due to being not taken seriously fakeclaimed in the past
🍃 or struggle with anything else that makes you or someone in your system feel as though you aren’t “plural enough”
We want to reassure you that it’s okay to feel insecure or worried about whether or not you’re actually plural. That doesn’t mean you’re not actually a system or experiencing multiplicity by any means! It’s quite common for systems to experience doubt - especially in a world where plurality is not widely understood or accepted!
There’s no such thing as not being “plural enough.” Even if you’re a little bit plural then you’re plural enough and you belong in this community! And if you’re not, well, that’s okay too - we live in a singlets’ world, after all.
So please keep your chin up and take pride in your plurality, however that manifests for you! We’re rooting for you, and we’re so proud of how far you’ve come. We wish all of you the very best as you continue to grow and learn as systems (questioning or otherwise)!
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(Image ID:) A pale orange userbox with a cluster of multicolored flowers for the userbox image. The border and text are both dark orange, and the text reads “all plurals can interact with this post!” (End ID)
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dark-full-moon-system · 4 months
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So, we're looking for traumagenic systems/collectives who would like to be our friends
You know who we have in our system, it's only a list but I hope that's okay for now, and we'd love to learn about your alters!
We don't have anyone irl to talk to about the system or about the alters and we know some of us have the need to do so
So, don't hesitate to hit us up!
~ Millie (watched over by Sadie)
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amethysthaunting · 9 months
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feel free to add whether ur like OSDD-1a, 1b, P-DID, DID, polyfragmented, recently discovered, or any other notable distinction
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🌹💄INTRODUCTION / MASTERPOST 🚨🚩
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Hello, you can call us Avioa. Avi for short. We are a (Questioning) RAMCOA/TBMC system. We have some problematic alters who wish to talk. Though we dont want to be cancelled on our main blog.
Anybody is free to send in asks about their experience about being a problematic system, having problematic alters, being a problematic alter, etc.
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Our DNI includes endos + endo supporters, endo neutrals are fine. When we say endos we mean non traumagenic systems in general, we just cant be bothered to list every name for them. Trans-IDs and radqueers DNI aswell. If you support acting on things such as incest, pedophilia, zoophillia, etc. DNI.
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TWs may include - Pedophilia, incest, torture, rape, CSA, SA, abuse, child abuse, hypersexuality, self-harm, murder, violence, blood, and more.
BE CAREFUL ON OUR BLOG.
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If RAMCOA and related topics make you uncomfortable or cause pain we also recommend you take precaution or leave.
Thank you for coming to this blog!
*While we dont have a set regulation on what you can or cannot send in if your ask goes unanswered you're free to ask what happened! We are very nice we promise!! We understand when rules arent clearly set you dont know what is too far, we wont get mad if you send something we cant publish! Just ask!
(P.S. Yes this blog is going to look edgy. We enjoy edgy stuff. We're emo and also enjoy goth stuff. Oh and also cringe culture is dead [or should be atleast] anyways so yeah)
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monachopsis111 · 24 days
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2021 us: "so.. youre telling me being genderfluid usually doesn't include having different names for each pronouns and different personalities depending on the gender??"
2024 us: "bestie how have you not considered youre a system."
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finnslay · 24 days
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Headspace lore is so real
Feel free to reblog with a random, our of context peoce of headspace lore it you want
(No fake claiming please)
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souperstition · 1 year
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Appreciation post for systems who:
(syscourse please dni for this post)
Feel very connected to the core
Don't know if they're a system
Don't like medical terms
Don't feel comfortable labeling their system
Consist of headmates who are all one gender, colour, species, etc...
Don't switch everyday
Don't "hear voices"
Have similar interests among headmates
Have fictives that don't have source memories
Have factives
Consider their system small
Don't tell people they're a system
Tell people they're a system
Don't have littles
Have a host that is always in the front
Don't have a set host
Don't assign roles to their headmates / alters
Are confused by system roles and labels
Struggle with understanding if they have trauma
Who have alters without a set face claim
Who don't have an inner world
Who have a hard time hearing each other
Have alters that can't tell if they're the same person as the host
Can't get medical help, or are scared to get medical help
Don't think they'll tell their romantic partner about their plurality
If you're plural; you're valid.
We see you, we love you. You're doing so well. Even if you're unsure of your origin / labels / if you're even plural, it's fine to experiment and it's fine to be wrong.
Being a system isn't easy. We see you.
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willows-woes · 2 months
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system groupchat [there were about six more alters that said no but one is from a very problematic source]
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plural-affirmations · 6 months
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do you have any tips for an exhausted person questioning being a system? /gen /nf
Honestly? Take it slow.
I know system spaces on the internet tend to place this huge importance on stuff like Who Formed When and Why They Split and Roles and Knowing Who's Fronting, etc. etc., but. None of that is really... necessary? I mean, sure, info about your (potential) system is always going to be useful later down the line.
But that doesn't mean you need to rush to figure everything out at once. All that does is stress yourself out. I know I definitely did when I first found out about my DID, and I really wish someone was there to tell me that it's ok to go slow. It's ok to take things a day at a time. This sort of thing, especially disordered and/or traumagenic plurality, is incredibly complex. It's practically impossible to know everything about it.
There's always going to be new discoveries to make, new revelations, new "oh, I get it now" moments. There's absolutely no shortage of them. Even now, years after my diagnosis, I still get confused.
It's hard to see the forest for the trees, so maybe just... sit with it for a while. Allow yourself rest. You yourself said you're exhausted, right? So, take care of that first. Your systemhood, if you have it, it isn't going anywhere. Put your feet up, read a book that's not on multiplicity case studies, listen to music, enjoy life. Everything else will be there when you're ready.
I hope this helps you, anon. It's gonna be ok. ❤️
🖤💜💙💚💛
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magicbungelic · 10 months
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Any tips on trying to improve communication between alters ? Or just trying to have any communication at all ? Especially as a p-did system host (which is what I believe is the case for me)
I can't access headspace (if we even have any), can't communicate with any of them at all, I just feel them when they're there with me and the changes they cause in my behaviour, but whenever I try to make any effort to acknowledge they're there they just retreat :(
I don't even know their names (besides an introject with a very strong presence), please send any tips if you have any !
DNI transharmful/transid and pro para
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