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plural-affirmations · 4 months
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Here's to systems who form introjects quickly!
Oftentimes, human brains can latch onto something we find relatable, comforting, etc., and systems are no different! Here's to those who find a source of enjoyment and then develop introjects from them!
Shoutout to:
Introjects from a popular piece of media
Headmates from more obscure sources, including ones people rarely hear about
Those who gained introjects because they saw themselves in a traumatized individual, and split someone based on them
People from problematic media they no longer watch/read/etc.
OC introjects
Introjects who are fragments from forming too quickly, resulting in a "half-baked" system member
And anyone else I missed!
It's completely fine to have introjects you gained really fast! You're not less real or invalid because of it! You're so beautiful!
Have a great one!
🖤💜💙💚💛
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This is your daily reminder that you don’t need to switch regularly to be a system.
We’re a diagnosed DID system. Usually one of the hosts will take over completely for two or three days and because of our low communication (especially between frequent fronters) there will be radio silence.
When we first joined the system community, there was a lot of talk about switching regularly and losing days at a time and yes that does happen to some people and that is valid.
It’s also valid to be like us. We have one host front for a few days and occasionally other people will drop by. Our other host will get us dressed on the rare occasion we have to leave the house (about once an month) and will take over for a day if the first host needs a break. That works for us. At first, we switched maybe once a week. Now we switch two to four times a week.
Not switching often is valid. I don’t just mean a couple of days either. Not switching for weeks is valid. You are valid no matter how your system fronting works and how you adapt to that.
Take care of yourselves and accept yourselves for you. You don’t need to be like any other system.
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starlight-r1ver-s · 8 months
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Daily affirmation
To those of us Plurals who aren't openly plural on their social medias for safety or other reasons : you are valid and you are seen. Not wanting to face that damn stigma is really understandable, just as much as not having the energy to fight against it. Those who fight against the plural hate also fight for you.
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prettybabybunbun · 2 months
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thatsbelievable · 8 months
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thundersyst3m · 8 months
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Daily affirmations everyone! (because i'm tired of only posting negative things)
No one from your far past is holding that one mistake you made against you over your head, if you fucked up, they probably just maintaining healthy boundaries and distance from you
If they are holding, you are not obligated to explain your existence to each every mistake you commit
You are allowed to be happy, even if you committed mistakes
You are allowed to have empathy and sympathy towards yourself, even if you committed mistakes
You are allowed to be human, and humans commit mistakes
Your intrusive thoughts aren't you
Your negative thoughts aren't you
Your anxieties are not you
What others say of you is a small window of their own vision and beliefs rather than who you actually are
Have a good week everybody!! :3
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blysyslittles · 7 days
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A message to fellow littles:
It's okay to be different. It's okay to have different needs than others. It's okay to take comfort in things that seem out of your body's age-range, like sippy cups, blankies and stuffies. Whatever reason you age-regress is valid and worth the consideration of others. If anybody is rude to you because of your differences, they're not worth being around. There are people out there who will respect you for all you are. I do. ♡♡♡
-Milo 🍁 system age-slider (he/they)
《The Bly Council, @systemserendipity》
[Photo ID: our brown, blue, pink and white boba tea bear stuffie and grey sloth blankie, sitting on multi-color bed sheets]
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cerebralabyss · 1 month
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updating the fronters on my simply plural in da trans day of visibility concert mosh pit :3 feels so queer and gender (pos)
- 🖤
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ariose-ghoul · 2 months
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not pictured: "would you like a uterus?" "i don't have the time for a period" "ah, fair enough" also if it isn't clear, pauling is holding a pencil or pen or something
had this idea pop into my head yesterday and it almost certainly isn't an original one but i don't really care. transfem miss pauling is real to me.
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vaporwavevox · 16 days
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Daily affirmations:
I am a robot.
My skin is silicone.
I do not have flesh.
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I am a robot.
My skin is silicone.
I do not have flesh.
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plural-affirmations · 5 months
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Here's some positivity for headmates who don't want to be seen/interacted with!
It isn't always the case where headmates want to meet absolutely everyone in their system, or people in the outerworld. We've personally had experiences where loved ones have gotten offended someone didn't want to front for them, so I just want to take some time to tell you: it's ok to just exist by yourself! You don't owe anyone anything, love. ❤️
With that out of the way, shoutout to:
System members who are misanthropic, socially awkward, aloof, or otherwise just not as extroverted as their brainmates
Alters who don't front due to trauma, anxiety, being a symptomholder, etc.
Headmates who only front for specific circumstances/people
People in systems who never front at all
The ones who want to front, but can't for whatever reason
Headmates who spend the majority of their time with innerworld duties, so they can't front even if they wanted to (we have several headmates like this!)
Those with OSDD-1A, P-DID, or another condition that makes them a non-switching system
Etc.
For us? Our system is quite literally too large for everyone to get an equal amount of fronting time. 24 hours divided into over 100 people is just not feasible for any of us.
The point is, you're not the only one that has these things going on, and we're here to support you& and the plural community as a whole, always!
🖤💜💙💚💛
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gl1tz1 · 1 month
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iz the concept of identity-affirming activitiez like… a thing, outside plural spaces?
like “doing things you like” is, “having something important that you do” is, but what about “things that strengthen your sense of self and identity as an individual and that are necessary to be grounded in ur selfhood”?
i think plural ppl focus more on it becuz affirming individual identities iz. much more of a Thing We Do, but i also think itz just a basic need
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starlight-r1ver-s · 7 months
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Daily affirmation
Plurals who are monogamous, with only one headmate who does the dating : you are valid and you are seen.
Plurals who are polyamorous, but still with only one headmate who does the dating : you are also valid and you are seen.
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prettybabybunbun · 2 months
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Almost forgot my affirmations! Practiced handwritin toos since it hard for me 🌸☺️
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benito-flakes · 2 years
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Here's your reminder for the day to:
- Drink some water!
- Eat something. (Even a little!)
- Take time to breathe.
- Be kind to yourself. (Yes, even if you don't think you deserve it!)
 You deserve to be happy and healthy, no matter who you are!
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This body makes me feel so powerful.
The physical prowess of this 14 year old American boy has much to be desired, but it really isn't as bad as some of the others we see at school.
What makes me feel powerful is the age. I am a 53 year old headmate in a 14 year old body. While I have lost the majority of my experiences and maturity, I am still here, and I am still in this body. This is a second life for me. I feel above death.
When I died, I had lost everything I had, so the pain of it was lessened greatly. But I knew deep down that I didn't want to die. But when I woke up here, when I remembered my life and how I died, everything felt so indescribable. I'm not dead, I'm still alive in a younger body.
I've never felt so free. I've never had this much privilege. If I want something, I am going to get it. That is not negotiable. I still have my boyfriend and my friends and everything I could have ever wanted. I can do anything. I have a whole life ahead of me.
I feel like a young god.
-Medic 💉
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