#plural

[oursystemblog]

ALAS

#dissociative #osdd system #plural #comic

[cerebralabyss]

i don't think i'll ever get used to that feeling of pure happiness when the people around me acknowledge my system/plural identity .. in a good way, of course.

it's just not the same as someone remembering things about you collectively. it tells me that i matter to those people enough for them to remember and recognize me as different people.

whether its "subtle" like how my partner tends to greet us by our specific name when we text them, or a friend being able to remember things a specific alter said/did as an individual. or more specific things, like the times our boyfriend/partner sys forgot for a second we aren't in separate bodies. and how he sends us random images near daily captioned "this is so (alter name)"

really, no matter how subtle it is, we do notice. and it makes us just as happy every single time. every little thing adds up and makes us feel happy and comfortable being "we" and not "i."

plural validation matters!! whether coming from a non-system or another plural, it all means a lot.

this has been sitting in my drafts for weeks, oops. i remembered it because another friend specifically wanted to show reffy something because they knew he’d appreciate it (they said “get the goober” lol) and it made us both really happy. so i wanted to add that.

- 🥀

#pluralgang #plurality #plural system #plural #system #multiplicity #plural community #plural positivity #actually plural #plural culture #plural things #system things #system stuff #sysblr #system community #plural stuff #system positivity #endo safe #endo friendly #pro endo #crbrl jax

[cavityinmybrain]

it is so ironic that there are people who will take posts made by endogenic systems that are spreading positive messages and repost the exact same post but add ‘endos fuck off’ to the tags.

‘if you tell me youre a system i will believe you, unless youre a gross endogenic system in which case i hate you.’ my brother in christ how do you NOT see the irony.

#syscourse #sorry im ranty today #system #plural #sysblr #sadie adjacent #pro endo

[deadeyedfae]

Okay so Saturday uploads, today its one short comic later today and this: Juniper and Valerie... The characters my lovely followers named!

Juniper and Valerie are a stand in for things i don't feel like i can express myself, they are both me and neither are me, they are all my friends and my romantic interests, my fears and my desires. They are whatever i need them to be for now...but maybe one day they will get thier own full stories, who knows?

#plurality #plural #plural stuff #plural art #transgender #queer artist #lgbtq #transfem #artists of tumblr #small artist #furry #lgbtqia artist #furry oc

[sophieinwonderland]

Warning for the POSIC community: Watch out for @/yourfaveisobjectum

An anti-endo, following the trend started by #AEMOGAI, is trying to make #AEPOSIC a thing.

For those that don't know, AEMOGAI is a tag for anti-endo MOGAI. The tag devolved into hate and, as I recall, was eventually rejected by its own creator due to how toxic it became.

@/theskulksys is trying to take this hate into the POSIC community.

After posting that, this same system started an exclusionist blog called @/yourfaveisobjectum

One of their headmates also runs @/thebigcrow, a blog dedicated entirely to plagiarizing posts made by endogenic and pro-endo systems.

The above "remaking" post is one of many they've done that is copying and pasting posts by endogenic and pro endo systems. They're also using the #plural and #pluralgang tags, which are intended to be safe for the inclusive plural community.

Given that many in the POSIC community are pro endo, or even endogenic themselves, I want everyone in the POSIC community to be aware of this user so they can block their blogs if they need to.

#syscourse #posic #posicblr #objectum #objectum community #pro endogenic #posic community #posic+ #pro endo #sysblr #multiplicity #endogenic #plural #plurality #actually plural #actually a system

[pluralasking]

#Twenty-Three

[pt: #twenty-three]

#[question] #[poll] #🕊💞 #endo safe #plurality #system #plural #plural system

[cilan-radical]

A fun fact to anti endos who I know probably scroll these tags!

Someone you think is anti endo, too, could be endogenic themselves! We would know, we have anti endo friends we made before realizing our origins! We love them deeply though and just play the part instead of losing them. That doesn't make us any less non multigenic now does it? Exactly >:)

#[[ramble]] #~ beppi ~ #endo positivity #endogenic #endo safe #pro endo #endo system #endo friendly #anti endo dni #multigenic #multigenic system #plural positivity #plural #actually plural #plural system #plurality

[antiendovents]

abt discussion "is functional multiplicity a way of being non-disordered system?" if no one minds, am gonna add my opinion too.

functional multiplicity isn't non-disordered way of being system. it's like remission / recovery.

when you have some chronic condition, you can manage it and feel fine. you can show fewer symptoms or don't show them at all. but you still have this condition.

if you are on meds for arthritis and don't have active inflammation now, you still have arthritis. you may still have some impairment of damage that was already made. it may flare up. your meds may stop working or start working worse. and your symptoms will return.

also, if nothing of above happens, your life, needs, and experience are not the same as life, needs, and experience of people without arthritis. you need your meds to feel good. you need to go to appointments. you need to be careful with some things. you have different risks and so on.

and also. you have experience. you know how it feels. you know what it is. your life was changed by having arthritis, and you don't lose this experience when your symptoms leave.

so same with osddid. if you reached functional multiplicity. you still have some symptoms (having alters is a symptom). you still may split more alters, get more amnesia, get more other dissociative symptoms. and you still have experience. very personal-forming experience, don't know how to word it better. your brain doesn't work like singlets brains. your alters (in functional multiplicity case) aren't like singlets parts of personality. you can't close this door and unteach your brain to dissociate, split, create amnesia barriers. you also can't erase trauma from your brain development. (early life trauma makes HUGE influence on brain development, and even not only brain but the rest of the body too).

osddid is a super complex experience. it's early trauma. it's very specific experience of not being singlet, of not having singlets personality. it's alters (if we talk abt systems). it's amnesia (not always). it's dissociative symptoms. it's cptsd. and more and more and more.

it's super complex, super influencing. endos often see osddid like "cool dudes in your head and nothing more", and it's offensive exactly because of these reasons. because osddid is WAY more. and functional multiplicity is not "cool dudes in your head and nothing more" too. it's sad, but there's no such thing as "cool dudes in your head and nothing more".

that's why people don't lose osddid diagnosis when reach functional multiplicity.

sorry for being long, boring, and complicated.

nod, nod. That's what I thought, I'm glad to have others agree. Even once you've healed and reached functional multiplicity you still have alters, which are a symptom, and probably a few other symptoms too, which means you have the disorder. Even with final fusion, you're still disordered because your brain can always split again, since splitting is a coping mechanism that cannot be unlearned

#anti endo #did #did system #endos dni #plural #actually did #alters #system #endos fuck off #did osdd #I don't know too much about final multiplicity or final fusion #Only basic information #So correct me if I make any mistakes guys 😭

[fictive-culture]

fictive culture is getting stuff wrong about canon because you got so used to your version of events. the fuck do you mean his eyes are blue

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#actually plural #culture is #endo safe #fictive #fictive culture #fictive culture is #plural #plural culture #plural culture is

[gremmything]

I find it VERY funny that I'm posting abt Alucard on here and he is. Literally my cohost. Bro is always in front. He sees me. He sees you. He sees your replies.

He is laughing as I type this and telling you to fear him and all his knowledge of himself.

#alucard #hellsing #hellsing ultimate #hellsing abridged #hellsing anime #hellsing manga #alucard hellsing #hellsing alucard #vladcard #system #system tings #did #endos dni #plural #osdd #pdid #cohost #fictive

[kaijugender]

why the fuck is so much relatable fictive shit tagged anti endo

you don't know me you don't know why i am the way i am. maybe i'm traumagen maybe it's fucking maybelline but i'm here now. doesn't mean i don't HAVE trauma. why am i not valid like you? why is your world so goddamn binary?

#endo safe #endos please interact #plural #plurality #actually asuka langley soryu

[mindotaur]

Considering strictly traumagenic/disordered plurality, I feel a lot of young systems are trapped in toxic cycles, whether they're stuck living with abusers or don't have the support they need to recover. When you do have that support and start crawling out of the hole caused by trauma, you start appreciating plurality a lot more - because in these cases that's often what saved you+ from descending into darker depths.

That's of course reductive when considering untreated persecutor alters and ongoing adult trauma, but at least for us there was a moment of "oh, this is actually a good thing". Do we still have stressful cycles of rapid switching, flashbacks, triggers that send us spiraling? Sure, but we've learned how to work together to get through that and recover each time it happens, and it's been happening less and less.

#plurality #dissociative identity disorder #pluralgang #traumagenic system #plural community #plural #endo safe

[anti-endo-safe-space]

i hate when pro endos reblog my posts to "debunk misinformation" and REBLOG IT SAYING DID CAN DEVELOP WITHOUT TRAUMA??? LIKE NO IT CANT??? and i have endos and pro endos on my dni anyway. the fact they disrespect boundaries for their own agenda is enough to show you what their community is about.

Abuse mention ahead!!

Yeah we have that happen a lot to our posts or they'll quote us or some shit. DID requires trauma. It does not require it to be abuse, cases have been found of systems who formed from just being violently taken from parents (that's honestly part of why we split in the first place).

Endos and pro endos don't care, there's literally one who will hunt down people with dni's because they brag how stupid they are meanwhile if you call them out they sit there and try to trigger and bully soooo what do we know.

#system #actually plural #plural system #actually system #actually dissociative #endos fuck off #anti endo supporter #endos aren't real #endos dni #anti endo #plurality #did plurality #plural #dni endos #endos do not interact #tulpas dni #tulpamancy dni #tulpa dni #sys #sysblr #dissociative system #syscourse #sysconversation #syscussion #syscource

[ashesoftheseus]

we feel like functional multiplicity in itself offers much better stress resistance than if we were a singlet person

#endo safe #plural #plural stuff #plurality #actually plural #plural community #plural system #pluralgang #actually polyfrag #polyfrag system

[sophieinwonderland]

do you think plurality will become widely accepted any time soon? i fear that my plurality will have to be hidden from most people my whole life. i wish i could tell our parents but i feel like they would immediately take me to a mental hospital..

i wish plural education could move faster lol

Widely accepted? I wouldn't count on it anytime soon. Sorry.

As Ghandi never said: "first they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”

While the quote isn't from Ghandi, it is still a pretty accurate one for how movements tend to go. And the problem is, we're still in the ignoring stage with a side of mockery.

Before we can get widespread acceptance, we need widespread awareness. And when we get widespread awareness, the biggest roadblock we'll encounter is direct opposition. Because then we'll be a threat. We'll be trying to change things. We'll be demanding our headmates be acknowledged as individuals and called by their names, and that's going to make certain people, especially on the Right, extremely uncomfortable. I'm sorry to say that they will lash out.

When Tulpamancers are being smeared not by randos on Tumblr or r/systemscringe, but by Sean Hannity, that's when you can know that the real fight for plural acceptance has started. And everything we've gone through before that has just been a prelude.

And then it will probably drag out for years after that.

But while that prospect is scary, I think it will be necessary for getting to where we need to be.

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But just because society isn't there yet and won't be for a while, that doesn't mean your parents won't be. Plenty of people have come out to their parents successfully. Others came out unsuccessfully, and then their parents warmed up to the idea later.

I would advise waiting until you're an adult if you aren't already, because parents have a lot of power over minors in their care, and things could go very badly. Best not come out, if you think they would react badly, while they have power over you. Additionally, I don't know if your system is traumagenic or not, but if it is, coming out to parents who may have been involved in that is probably a bad idea. Caution is advised.

...

One more thing, while that quote wasn't from Gandhi, I really love the speech it's believed to have originated from.

Plural acceptance may not come quick! It may not come easy! But it will come, and we are all a part of it just by being here and being ourselves!

The future is plural!

No matter how far off that future may seem!

#pluralgang #syscourse #pro endogenic #pro endo #sysblr #multiplicity #system stuff #endogenic system #system things #plural #endo safe #plurality #endogenic #systems #system #tulpa #tulpamancy #actually plural #actually a system #the future is plural

[thattheater-kid]

Here’s my metaphor for systemhood that I tell my singlet friends.

Imagine you’re playing a first person video game. You have the controller, you control your character. It’s a normal first person game. You are an alter, the character is the body. This is fronting.

Other people live with you. Sometimes, they come into the room and sit and watch while you play. They sometimes try to guide you, give you advice on what to do next. They don’t always agree, and they can argue with each other. Other times they scream at you that you’re doing everything wrong and you suck at this game. This is co-consciousness.

Imagine how distracting it would be for people around you to tell you what to do, or to scream at each other or at you, even if they have good intentions. It wouldn’t be easy to focus on your game, would it?

Then sometimes, something happens in the game that prompts you to hand off the controller to someone else so they can play and you get a break. This is (some types of) switching. This can be good.

Other times, someone rips the controller out of your hand or fights you for it. This is (other types of) switching. And sometimes, six other players hook up their controllers, but there’s only one character to play as. So all of you have your controllers, but you’re all trying to play the same character. This is cofronting.

Imagine how difficult that would be. Imagine how hard it would be to try and play a game while someone is trying to take the controller from you, or while six other people are trying to play too.

There are also times that nobody is playing, or you can’t decide who should play. What’s happening to the character in the game? What are they doing if no one is playing? This is dissociation. The character is doing nothing. They’re stuck.

This is the best metaphor I have come up with for being a system. It’s something a lot of people get because they’ve played games before.

#did system #plural #actually plural #plurality #system things #actually did #plural system #system metaphor #traumagenic system #dissociative #actually dissociative #dissociative identity disorder #dissociative system #no syscourse #syscourse neutral