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How to (Properly) Play Hard to Get
POV: You are a nightclub, a nightclub that’s hard to get into
Dress code
Selective entry
High price to get in
You’re not playing hard to get. You’re simply hard to get.
Your standards ensure that entry into your life is hard to get.
Your boundaries = the bouncer
People can gain entry and still act up later. Your bouncer (boundaries) are quality control to preserve the quality and reputation of the club.
Cheap/Bad Behavior
Many upscale clubs require you to buy bottles over a certain amount
Time limit
You cannot buy that one bottle and idle in the club all night. You must continuously purchase rounds/bottles or you get the boot
Miscellaneous
Your club, your standards rules. Your misc. can include suddenly having a bad vibe from a patron (potential partner) therefore you call your bouncer (boundaries) to boot the patron from the club (you).
Listen to this 16 min podcast episode “How to (Properly) Play Hard to Get” for further elaboration
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One ☝🏾 of the prettiest setups I seen… 
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Love is patient, love is kind, be like that towards yourself… 🫶🏽✨🌻
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Sunflowers from Chartres - Ferdinand Finne , 1985.
Norwegian, 1910-1999
Watercolor, 60.3 x 71.6 cm
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