relationshitandwhatnots

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One of the most satisfying experiences I know is just fully to appreciate an individual in the same way I appreciate a sunset. When I look at a sunset … I don’t find myself saying, “Soften the orange a little on the right hand corner, and put a bit more purple in the cloud color” … I don’t try to control a sunset. I watch it with awe as it unfolds. It is this receptive, open attitude which is necessary to truly perceive something as it is.

Carl Rogers (via quotemadness)

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Me and my mutual followers that never seem to actually talk but we like and reblog each other’s posts:

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u can tell who the ancients of tumblr are bc they’re the ones not posting anything abt where to find them if this site collapses…we know this site isnt going anywhere….the apocalypse couldnt stop this garbage…..it has the cybernetic code of a cockroach

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My aesthetic: Books. Books at the bookstore. Books on bookshelves. Books coordinated by color. Books coordinated by series. Books with fantastic covers. Books that are small. Books that are huge. Books. BOOKS.

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Break a prop? Just put it back and walk away… ha ha!!

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…I almost killed myself

I put on my sunglasses, to hide my swollen eyes, over my tears. I cried all my makeup off. Went inside to have a milkshake. I don’t know why. I wanted something to drink as I figured out what I would do. I got a soda and a milkshake. Medium. The cashier looked at me and with a line around the corner of the counter he rushed away from the counter “Hold on “ he yelled to a coworker.

I filled my soda and went back and saw him looking all over. I go up and he gets close and says “I made it a large”.

That was seriously enough for me not to do it. His kindness. Someone went out of their way and as I went back in my car to cry I realized I could muster through a few other days. A few more weeks. Then I came down from that panicky high of anxiety, depression, and pain. I finished my shake. And it was enough time to let me feel better. I… I’m alive. I’ll make it through.

Try and be nice today. Tomorrow. Something as much as a smile. It helped so much.

Thank you man at McDonalds.

The milkshake saved my life

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#typography

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me: *overthinks everything and cries*

*5 minutes later*

also me: *sees funny post and laughs* oh okay im back

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“That’s what people do who love you. They put their arms around you and love you when you’re not so lovable.”

— Deb Caletti

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“Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside them they’ve all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.”

— Neil Gaiman

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Any of these things can instantaneously cheer me up. >w< Also, bubbles.

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Ay caramba. (via Duck_Sparrow)

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It’s ironic.

When I worked in fast food for minimum wage, they would yell at us and lecture us about “stealing” fries and burgers (while we had to throw out TONS of food every day) as though the giant billion-dollar corporations of McDonald’s and Sonic couldn’t afford to give their employees something to eat (while not even paying us a living wage).

Now I work at an upscale restaurant (it’s fancy, like celebrities eat there fairly often) and not only do I make WAY better money but they give us 2 free meals a day (eaten on the clock) and they’re GOOD. Today I got baked cod, spring rolls, rice pilaf, stir fry, and mashed potatoes and eggplant. Oh, and free espresso and juice. From this restaurant owned by a local man who is in no way a billionaire.

Obviously money is not the issue, valuing your employees as people is.

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this is the money dog, repost in the next 24 hours and money will come your way!!

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This is not the first, nor is this the second time you did this.

I don’t know why you just can’t stop messaging that girl. I mean, you do know I have issues with her and yet you still continue doing exactly what I told you not to do. Why? Don’t give that lame excuse that it’s all about work and nothing more. That’s fucked up and should I dare to say, bullshit?

I believed and accepted all your crappy reasons why you kept on talking to her. But please stop. You told me not to message my ex, I did. Even before you told me, I already stopped messaging her because I respect you, and I respect our relationship. If you cannot do the same for me, if you cannot compromise, then this relationship isn’t worth it anymore. You’re not worth it anymore.

#personal #rants