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THAT DAMN LETTER ALMOST HAD ME IN TEARSSSSSS

How could they 😭

#why is it always the ships i love the most #like i agree they both have to grow and figure things out before they get back together #but this was TOO FAR #suing for emotional damages #heartbreak high #heartbreak high season 2 #heartbreak high spoilers

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Obligatory daisy post 🌼

#the daisies are back so my serotonin is back #thats how it works #scientifically proven #personal

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I miss you so much too! <3 How did your piano teaching go?

Aw hi cutie!! You're so sweet 😭

It went really well actually! I don't think I mentioned it but it was two little girls that I was teaching so that doubled my panic lmao but yeah I was really pleasantly surprised

They were both so interested in learning and listened (mostly jsks) to the things I told them... and actually retained the information?? Like I went back last Monday and they had been practicing everything and reciting all of the words I'd taught them, it was so cute

But yeah, it's a regular thing now that I'm gonna do which is really exciting!!! And idk how long I'm gonna be doing it for but I'm enjoying it a lot so far 🥰

Hope you're doing well cutie and life is treating you the way you deserve!! Have a good day/night <3

#thanks so much for asking too thats seriously so sweet of you #asks #anon

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the first meeting to the final day of filming

EDVIN RYDING & OMAR RUDBERG YOUNG ROYALS FOREVER (2024)

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Surrounded by fakes 😔

(Nobody will buy me sour patch kids)

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aahh good luck caitlin!!! youve got thiss im sure ur students are very lucky to have u as a teacher <3

Ahh sas hii!!! thank you so much 🥺 this honestly made me so happy when i read it you have no idea

#asks

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Doing my first private piano tuition today??? Like who even am I???

Feels odd tbh like being able to say I have my own students that I'm teaching... idk how it's gonna go but please keep your fingers crossed for me because I'm literally terrified about it

I've never really taught piano before, so I just hope I don't screw it up haha

#also hi! feels like i havent been on here in forever but i miss you guys <3 #personal

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EDVING RYDING & OMAR RUDBERG Interview with Gay Times | March 8, 2024

#oh me? im terrified thanks for asking x

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Hi Cassie!! Sorry to bother you but I feel like Ty would be more likely to have panic attacks than Dru. I have evaluated the situation and Ty seems to have more trauma and anxiety than her. Adding onto that I’m hoping Kit and Ash don’t have too similar powers. I feel like Kit should be more powerful as Ash only as Ash didn’t get much powers especially since the king didn’t have the black volume the whole time he had Ash. I also think Kit she be more powerful than Magnus for reasons.

I've gotten a lot of emails about how Ty should be the one who has panic attacks, not Dru. Usually the idea is that he should have panic attacks because he has 'more trauma and anxiety' than Dru, specifically because of Livvy's death and Ty being "more close" to her.

The thing is, that isn't how characters work because it isn't how people work. “Amount of trauma” is not an objective measurable thing, and not everyone responds the same ways even to the same things happening to them.

Of course Ty and Dru have both experienced trauma. But it is not as if there is a certain "level of trauma", like "level 6" beyond which everyone has panic attacks, and Ty is a trauma 7 while Dru is only a trauma 5. None of that is how people work or panic disorders work or really how anything works. The question is a lot about, I think, an anxiety that somehow because Dru has panic attacks this means the narrative will consider Ty to have no trauma at all and be dandy about everything, and I can only say that that's not the case.

One thing I rarely see acknowledged in these letters is that Ty is not grieving Livvy currently. Everyone else in his family is, but he lives with her, she talks to him all the time, she's entirely present in his life. Yes, she is a ghost, but people can get by on a lot less than Ty has with Livvy. I think it's worth noting that what Ty is currently experiencing re: Livvy is not grief but denial.

At the end of the day, there are all sorts of ways of responding to trauma and grief. The acknowledgement that someone has been through trauma is not something they have to earn, nor are panic attacks a thing given to one character at the expense of another who has somehow deserved them more. What is important about how characters respond to loss and trauma is that it be consistent with the character and their growth, and that's something that can't be evaluated before a book is read. :)

As for Kit having the most powers of anyone, well, we will see. It's not really how power works in the Shadowhunter world. We don't spend a lot of time thinking about whether Clary or Magnus is more powerful because what they can do is so different, and what Kit and Ash can do is also very different. Also in evaluating who gets what power level I would say it's important to consider whether they will be friends or deadly enemies – which is something we don't yet know!

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Wait did someone send Cat hate? Tell her I miss her

I'm not going to get into it because that's Cat's business but yknow some people on here can be a bit pushy

Aww yes don't worry I'll be sure to let her know how missed she is ❤️

#asks #anon

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Hey Caitlin, do you know if Cat is ok? She turned off her ask box and disappeared

Hey cutie! Yeah Cat's fine don't worry 🥰

Also a polite reminder to everyone that an ask box is not for harassment. Let's remember we're all just people trying to post about our little shows on here <3

#asks #anon

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Sorry was nobody going to tell me we got tabarcode??? My ghost ship actually sailed???

#the shock i got when an edit of them came up on tiktok #like my macauchay heart is sobbing rn #dead friend forever #tabarcode #tempted to watch now jsjksk

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MAMMA MIA! 2008│dir. Phyllida Lloyd

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They just had the second week! All the potters are really good this year and I love Keith sm. Its a very easy, feel good show if you are looking for something to binge

Ooh ok good to know!!! If I have the time I'll definitely give it a watch!

Honestly love those type of shows, like bake off and stuff it's just so fun <3

Hope you're having a great day/night!

#sorry this took a while to respond cutie #things have been hectic #asks #anon

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NICOLA COUGHLAN as PENELOPE FEATHERINGTON BRIDGERTON | Season 1

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Are you watching Pottery Throwdown ☺️

Hi cutie!! Ahh no I'm not 😭

Honestly things have been so busy I haven't had time to watch much recently.. tbh didn't even realise pottery throwdown was on omg

How is it going??? Let me know, I might have to start watching 👀

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god im SO CLOSE to being done and then. bam. title

#REAL