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god i know ive said this before but its SO nice that i can go into the bi lesbian tag and just see it FULL of support and fellow mspec lesbians. a few years ago there was nothing, then just me posting about it, and then SO MUCH hate from so many people. its crazy how much more widespread support has gotten for it after i made my mspec lesbian flags and started posting a lot of explanations and postivity for it!
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"Homoromantic bisexuals are valid but bi lesbians aren't" so close! You are actually just Fucking Stupid
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lots of times if I tell my boyfriend that I am proud of him for dealing with a situation, or that I'm sorry he's having to deal with a situation, he will say "no it's my own fault." meaning that he feels like he doesn't deserve praise or comfort for dealing with a situation that is his fault. (for example a financial problem caused or exacerbated by him having been too anxious or absentminded to deal with the situation sooner.) and I tell him this and I will tell y'all this, that I don't believe that. I think you are even braver and stronger for taking steps to deal with a mess that is of or partly of your own creation, because you have to cope with guilt and shame on top of the thing itself, and because you're fighting against the same ingrained dysfunction in yourself that caused the mess. that's like the bravest and most constructive thing you can do and you should be proud and I am proud of you.
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Originalists identify with the misogyny/racism.
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love it when a nondog baby animal is called a pup anyway
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