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Saw this on a door at work.

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Mei Changsu with loose hair and plum blossom for @aoya

Her art emperor Xiao Jingyan 🥰 for me you can find there

#nirvana in fire

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Poll: if your mom remarries when you’re 26 years old is that guy still your stepdad or is he just your mom’s husband.

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Batter up!

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y’all are sleeping on the fact that in a percy jackson crossover shinsou would be a son of aphrodite

#100% #pjo

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You were so young

#tgcf #oh gooood

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🍷💫🎀🐇🪄

#chappell roan

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what we really need is a femininomenon! ✨

#chappell roan

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dating simulator where it starts normal but it slowly becomes clear that all of the romanceable characters are attempting to cover up an extremely specific murder they committed a year ago before you arrived

#echo?

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survived the semester

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The Midwestern Princess

#chappell roan

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It felt weird not drawing him a lot ever since Aventurine’s banner came out.

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Perhaps a true love kiss could wake the sleeping beauty....

...Or maybe not

#HAHGABSBDHSVSBD #bkdk

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That post-save-the-world clarity is craaaaaazy

#bkdk

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I would be the worst spy of all time because on one hand I overshare like hell, but on the other hand I also have THE shittiest memory so it’s really a lose/lose scenario for everyone involved.

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When I see people sharing so much of their kids' lives, I think about that one time my child told a joke, I shared that joke with ONE FRIEND in a private conversation, and my child said "can you please ask me next time, before you tell people something about me?"

And, yes, I absolutely should. So I apologized, and now I ask.

"I love that video of you, can I show it to a friend?"

"Can I tell a friend about how clever you were just now?"

"Can I share this in the family group chat?"

"Can I show your art to grandma and grandpa?"

And it's not like my kids don't like when I share their jokes and puns and fun moments. They love it! But they want to have control over what I share with people. Even without their faces or their names. Even people we know and trust.

And they deserve to have that control.

My children are small so the examples are small. They wanted me to ask, so I ask. Just like being told to kiss my grandma's cheek when I was a kid was far from traumatizing, but I don't do that with my kids because it's a way to practice consent and become aware of bodily autonomy.

It gets both me and them in the habit of asking for consent and drawing boundaries and seeing the lines between their life and my life, their stories and my stories.

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while you were studying girls i was kissing the blade

#dungeon meshi