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The “wore a skirt and a shirt instead of a dress on game days in middle school sports” to masc lesbian pipeline

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gold star is bullshit why do people gatekeep an orientation like most people hadn't been with guys to try to "prove that they were straight" it doesn't matter why do people care

Agreed. That anon is a copy and pasted thing that gets sent a lot and I tried to make a joke out of it lol

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Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had the sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

I was ugly before I came out so I wasn’t getting any offers anyways

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Becoming friends with a bunch of straight guys at school has honestly been the best thing to help me with self acceptance. They get me in a way that most girls don’t, and I’ve never felt more normal for being into girls than when I’m talking to them.

#also I’ve been talking to this girl recently 👀 #things are looking up

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I think I finally feel comfortable with people just knowing that I’m gay even if I wasn’t the one to tell them

#feeling very happy with my new friends at college too #got two straight boy besties and I love them a lot I feel like I can fully be myself around them

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Do you guys take your shirt off or your pants off when you get in you room?

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A gay couple and a lesbian couple outside the bank, Idaho, United States, 1941 by Russell Lee.

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Stop asking who’s the top or the bottom in lesbian relationships and start asking which one’s the “just one of the guys” lesbian and which one’s the “hates all men” lesbian

#and former sufferers of ‘not like other girls’ syndrome #lesbian

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Just curious are you out yet?

Yeah, i guess I came out this past summer. I still haven’t told my parents or extended family, and I have a couple of friends who don’t know and I don’t tell my coworkers, but I’m mostly out. I think I’ll always be more of a “I’ll tell you if you ask but I won’t bring it up” kind of person

#asks #anon

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If I liked men it would literally be so easy to get into a relationship…

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Made out with a guy to see if I would be into it. Was not into it. Felt like I was just letting him use my body like a sex doll. Was too ticklish to let him touch my body without squirming and laughing. I was NOT ticklish when my ex gf would touch my body. I now have to awkwardly tell him that I just want to be friends. Cant tell him I’m gay because he might hate crime me, and I don’t mean that in a joking way. I don’t want to hurt him tho :/

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Who wants to start a “lesbians against cottagecore lesbianism” club with me

#I fucking hate that shit man

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Being out is chill and all but I’d be lying if I said that I didn’t love being able to take a break from being gay while I’m at work

#(I’m not out at work) #there are no breaks from being gay at the liberal arts school #everyone just won’t shut up about it lmao

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The thing that really fucks me up about my sexuality is that there was once a time where I couldn’t comprehend having romantic feelings for a woman. For a long time I thought my attraction to women was purely sexual, and I didn’t start to desire romantic relationships with women until I accepted that I was gay. But like. Who’s to say that the same thing won’t happen with men? Sure, right now I don’t desire sex with men and I can’t comprehend having romantic feelings for men, but who’s to say that one day I won’t start having those feelings? Maybe if I felt like men were attracted to me, then I would be attracted to men. I feel like I’m always holding onto this hope that I’ll develop feelings for men one day, but every time I try it just doesn’t feel as good as women do.

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Currently in the “would he like me more if he knew I was a lesbian or would he treat me differently and not want to be as close anymore” phase of a lesbian-himbo friendship duo

#he’s catholic but not THAT catholic #I’ve had guy friends like me more since I came out to them but ehhhhh idk about this one

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here's hoping that dude's not gonna hit on you <3 and here's hoping if he does he gets his nuts eaten by a bear <3

Lmao thanks. He’s very sweet he just doesn’t like gay ppl very much ❤️ have not told him that I am a gay people ❤️❤️❤️