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#and AGAIN i KNOW gender doesnt equal clothes but also like. i am Aware to the wider world it still works like that
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#damien.txt
#gender talk time 🤪✌️
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#screaming crying throwing up rolling around on the ground <- said completely deadpan
#uhm. as always. thinking abt gender. and questioning. my whole life. bc. i cant stop doing that
#soooooo like. my big thing. abt gender. is as much as im like. he/they-ing it here and irl. its kind of... complicated?
#as ive gone on ive realized more and more that i dont. really. feeling Anything towards those pronouns
#neither do i she/her. or they/them.
#and just generally the whole Concepts of male/female? so like. im always like hmm. whats happening here
#and other completely incoherent statements djbdhdbf sorrry anyways
#i keep having these moments where im like. hmm. maybe. im leaning too hard into the masc. maybe i am not. he at all.
#but ive like. really full committed to the bit yknow? like esp irl. all the ppl ive introduced myself to in the last 2 years have known me
#as 'he'. and as someone who wears mostly masc clothing and generally attempts to present masc
#and like. i bought a skirt a while ago and i was trying it on today and i was like oh. wait.
#and before u @ me i KNOW!! clothing does not equal gender!! but there was just something abt it
#and recently (the past like. year lmao) ive really been contemplating like. what i actually want out of transitioning or whatever
#bc like. increasingly its become more obvious how... fucking difficult that is.
#and the more i think abt it the more im like. bro its not even worth it for me? tbh? also like. sometimes i look in the mirror and am like
#hmm. this does not feel better than it did when i hadnt transitioned at all. yknow?
#like the last 10+ years ive been existing in this state w my body where im basically just. tolerating it. ignoring it. even.
#and that hasn't... changed. after t. and ik thats not like the fix-all but its got me wondering if some of it/a lot of it
#is just body dysmorphia? rather than dysphoria? bc like. god knows i have that too.
#and just. idk. i feel Really Really anti-gender most of the time. would in fact. not like to be conceived of at all.
#but on some level im trying to think abt it practically bc if that ^ is my thoughts on gender fr. i have to decide whats worth it
#and like. i miss cool clothes. god men's clothing is so fucking boring. holy fuck.
#and AGAIN i KNOW gender doesnt equal clothes but also like. i am Aware to the wider world it still works like that
#and truly if i rocked up to work/class in a skirt everyone would be like What The Fuck
#and i kind of want to!! but im also scared of that reaction lol
#AHHHH why must gender be so complicated. i want to lay on the floor
#lol there was literally more but i ran out of tags LMAOO sorry everyone. gender complicated. peace ✌️
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