#and thennn with the extra time we went to a coffee shop

[hoeterra]

“If I met you in real life” I’d want to ask you out for coffee or drinks or something, whatever you want to do?

Oooh yesss either tbh I’m easy if someone plans stuff for us to do (ideally with some (very minimal) input from me) I’m already into it. The fewer decisions I have to make the happier I am

#I’ve literally ‘been out to drinks’ once in my life 🥲 #’gone out for coffee’/something equal like thrice #honestly if a man puts even a modicum of effort into #planning something for us to do I’ll be putty in his hands #(with the obvious caveats around red flags and such) #personal #anonymous #answered #the best first date I ever went on the guy planned time for use to get food and drinks then walk over to see the trans Siberian orchestra #and thennn with the extra time we went to a coffee shop #all his ideas I loved it #I also didn’t pay but I’m indifferent to who pays #it’s just the fact that I didn’t need to decide like he already had ideas and just confirmed that they were good with me