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#and there were some weird comments abt her being a strong woman or this woman doing so much and its like hm y do i detect a note of sexism
opens-up-4-nobody · 1 month
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#so my mom's wake thing was today and that was a lot. not in an emotional sense but in a im standing here talking for 3hrs#to ppl i dont kno or barely kno. ya kno? but it was good bc so many ppl showed up to talk abt her#so many people. my mom made a huge impact on the school system. so many ppl relied on her. she encouraged at least 2 ppl to get their#master. for one person to specilize in helping the dyslexic after her experience advocating for 3 dyslexic daughters. she wrote and was#awarded a 10000 dollar grant for special needs and intervention curriculum. which will affect so many lives.#everyone loved her. she's gonna get a track meet named after her and a scholarship created in her honor.#she was an amazing person and she affected a lot of lives and im glad she was my mom. and she raised at least one jem in my littlest#sister who is so sweet and is a great teacher. god but there was some weird stuff too. were pretty sure her old boss was in love with her.#and there were some weird comments abt her being a strong woman or this woman doing so much and its like hm y do i detect a note of sexism#y not say she was an amazing person? y the surprise? weird comments about how pretty i looked. which yes i looked great lol. my funeral fit#was cute. we did bright colors bc it was a celebration not a dower event. and im sure it was ment well but it was a lil weird. and then#everyone was telling my grandma what a great job she did raising my mom and like god fuck off she didn't do jack. my mom was great despite#her terrible mother. ugh. but altogether it was good that everyone was able to express their love for her. it was def a day that was for#them mostly. i mean partly for us but mostly for them. none of us even cried. ay but we have 2 more parties in her honor#bc everyone loved her so much we have to do one in her hometown too. plus a personal friends get together. ugh. im so tired#i wish i wasnt the most awkward. eye contact avoidant person in the room but like ya kno. what can ya do?#unrelated
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emsartwork · 5 years
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ask dump! Separated loosely by topic 
Questions and Comments
1. is this a homestuck thing. this is a homestuck thing isnt it  2. lol i love doing both!!! i love world building but i also like trying my hand at redesigning the mess that is canon fashion. @theoretical-artist​ 3. thank you!!! oritel and marion are in this post! 4. ayyyyy inginio hit me up (thank you lol) 5. Thank you! 6. maybe? i’ll see if i get around to it, i still have a few characters to get to so the school fairies and the last two selkies might show up with them 7. probably not.... it would be super fun but unless it was a commission i don’t feel like i have time haha 8. I’ve seen their blog around!! i can’t remember if i follow or not but i know who ur talking about and they cool @winxy-writing @winxys-written-world
Character and Worlbuilding
1. My brilliant nerd daughter!!! She sometimes gets so into coding or a video game she forgets to eat or drink so the girls watch out for her. She’s prone to dissociating, especially if the situation is emotional. Her hair is really soft. she actually loves sappy romantic things but has trouble accepting them or vocalizing that she wants them because they’re impractical/illogical. she discovered romcoms when she got to alfea and they are her ultimate guilty pleasure(only flora knows abt this and is always slipping recs to her) 2. They’re weirdly one of my fav couples??? like maybe its because i relate to and have projected onto both of them lmao. but any ways. Daphne and Thoren actually met when they were kids, but didn’t spend much time together because it was at a formal event. Daphne is technically 20 years older than Thoren(only a few years older than Sky), but they’re the same physical age because Daphne spent so long as a spirit. They probably wouldn’t get married as quickly in my version, especially with Daphne’s trauma. Daphne will have nightmares sometimes and Thoren has a whole routine for comforting her and helping her feel safe and grounded. Thoren gets anxious easily, and Daphne will use her magic to subtly change the environment so he feels more comfortable. they like to watch reality tv together and yell at dramatic people. 3. omg yes. this was the most frustrating thing i was watching through winx with my dad like a month ago and every time bloom called her adoptive parents by their first names i yelled at her lol. she would call Vanessa mama and Mike daddy(if you make a kink joke i will eat your liver). She would call Marion and Oritel mom and dad.  4. Yeah kind of! part of her exhaustion in Dowlland was the fact that she had been in fairy mode for so long, hiking underground, and tossed around in a river like??? anybody would need a pick me up after that. She (and all solarians) do have to live where there’s a lot of natural light as they require a high amount of vitamin d(or the equivalent of it for solarians). short trips usually aren’t a problem, Stella is just hella unlucky in the second season lmao. @moonpeachblossom 5. the short answer as to why she’s a blond (scottish??? in one of the dubs???) in an asian inspired culture/planet is because racism (or not so short bcus its a lot to unpack honestly). the answer in my version however is a pretty simple fix. She bleaches her hair. she’s paler than musa but she aint white.  6. I haven’t really yet!! Helia is struggling with his two fairly opposed cultural influences, trying to figure what he wants and whats right for him. He was raised on Lynphea but had frequent trips to Vaonaa. Lynphea is very grounded, they’re slow and steady and stubborn. Vaonaa is much more flexible, they’re flighty and spontaneous and easily adaptable. Helia’s dads love eachother and helia very much but they are VERY different people and both want different things from Helia(they try not to pressure too much but the expectations are still there). Helia’s Vaonaaj dad wants him to pursue magic, specifically wind or air magic. Helia’s Lynphean dad wants him to become a warrior. Helia feels like he’s kind of a misfit in both Vaonaaj and Lynphean culture. It took a while, but he did finally confide his feelings in Flora and she encouraged him to talk with his dads about finding his niche.  7. oooooooh fun fun relationshipsssss Bloom and Sky: so bloom and sky aren’t the most stable couple, and in my version it would take bloom a little longer to be ok with dating a prince. Bloom is fairly insecure in her relationships because of self worth issues, and tend to run away from problems instead of dealing with them. Sky on the other hand is confident but doesn’t really know how to handle people’s feelings and tends to push confrontation. I do believe that with better writing Sky and bloom could be a dope couple but as is in canon they’re VERY problematic.  Stella and Brandon: babies. they love each other so much its the best omg. Stella finds her worth in her appearance but she always seems to take brandon’s complements in a less.... arrogant way? if that makes sense? like she truly appreciates them and wants his support. i wish we knew more about Brandon but he’s legit such a good boyfriend. I think they fight mostly when Stella is being a little selfish, or when Brandon is too busy to meet her emotional needs. Flora and Helia: MORE BABIES. so Helia is more of a drama queen in the comics but we’ll ignore that for right now lol. Flora and Helia are probably the least problematic couple in the entire show. They met. Flirted a little. Confessed. and started dating with out any major problems. if i can remember correctly they don’t even really fight??? unless icy has frozen helia’s heart or something lol. I think both Helia and Flora’s love language is quality time so they’re fairly low key and just like to be in the same space and each other.   Musa and Riven: boy oh boy. Ok so, ignoring the several times Riven was LITERALLY MIND CONTROLLED his character is still difficult to deal with. I think Musa and Riven are both very intense people, and while that can be super fun and develop into a good relationship, it can also lead to LOTS of problems. I think my major problem with how they broke up was that Musa didn’t support Riven’s training? like i understand being upset you can’t see ur person often, or if they’re really busy, but Riven supported Musa’s music several times in the previous seasons it just seemed weird Musa was so unfairly demanding of him? Tecna and Timmy: nerd babies. They’re super cute honestly. I think Timmy was probably the one to instigate the relationship and bonded with Tecna over technology since she wasn’t super emotionally available at first. They have issues when Tecna is unable to voice her emotions and timmy needs to know what she’s feeling mostly, but after the first few times they’ve both learned to give the other space to figure their stuff out. Aisha and Nabu: ugh perfect couple. minus the kind of sketchy beginning lol. Aisha and Nabu generally don’t fight once they get used to each other. Nabu is a focal point that aisha is kind of bungee corded to if that makes sense? like obvi not in a restricting way. its just Aisha is hella active and needs her own space to explore and grow, but Nabu is her solid ground that she relies on.  Aisha and Nex: i actually don’t hate nex as much as the rest of the fandom lol. so like i said Aisha is an active, independent woman, and if Nabu was a separate, stationary, focal point for her, I think Nex is related, moving, counter point. So like Nex can actually keep up with Aisha, and push her and challenge her. Which isn’t a bad thing in relationships so long as a mutual respect is there.   8. well. canon is a little..... messy. My version of the girls definitely retain their individualism. for other differences... they’re just a little more fleshed out? i guess? like Bloom’s moody behavior in the show i think is because of her insecurity issues, so that plays a part in how i draw her and think of her.  9. ok wow this is gonna be tough well here we go Sky: I think sky is an ESTJ he’s not super emotional(inf Fe) but can lean toward controlling(dom Te). he seems to like tradition and think social promises are important(Si). Brandon: ESFJ. Brandon is the mom friend of the boys ok. He goes along with sky’s crazy plans, tries to subtly set Riven up with musa(season 1 i think?), some how managed to land a social butterfly like Stella and seems to just navigate social situations REALLY easily(dom Fe). he also seems to hate being disrespected or taken for granted(Si) stella does this occasionally.  Timmy: ISFJ???? thats the vibe i get hear me out ok so in season 2 Timmy gets tecna the exact computer part she needs because 1. He knows they both like things to be practical(Si) 2. He knows and remembered the part she was talking about and filed it away in his brain(Ti) and 3. He and Tecna bonded over tech (Fe) Riven: honestly he’s a tough one.... Maybe a really stunted and angry ISFJ? (speaking from personal experience i am an ISFJ) i don’t have a real reason why but riven’s behavior is really confusing in the show so it makes typing tough..... possibly INTJ as well....... Helia: ISFP. Lmao I might be basing this entirely off of stereotypes but helia has a strong pacifist belief and can be moody(Fi, and more in the comics lol) is attuned to his surroundings(Se) seems pretty focused??(Ni) and i can’t think of his Te showing up be it is an inferior  Nabu: ISTJ weirdly a good fit with Aisha(ESTP) tho?? even though he’s an Si dom, he doesn’t go along with the arranged marriage because its not what he believes(Fi) and he’s stubborn about it(Te). Roy: ENFJ honestly just a cutie. He’s personable(Fe), focused for the most part(Ni), and is comfortable in his environment(Se).  Nex: ENTP? maybe?? He’s pretty impulsive and has that “work around” mentality I associate with ENTPs.... idk this one doesn’t seem to fit super well...  Thoren: Maybe INFJ?? i mean thoren honestly doesn’t have a lot of screen time but he’s attentive(Ni), and tries to take care of people(Fe). most of the infj’s i know are fun but weird lol, but i think thoren has anxiety so that could play into him being less “out there” in his behavior.  if any of yall have input on this feel free to let me know. 10. ooooooh good question. So I’m basing these on their parent’s name and the names of people from their planet. Bloom: Hestia or Enya, i also think she got sent to earth with an article of clothing or a blanket that had her name on it, which is why her name is the same lmao Stella: Stella is actually named pretty appropriately considering the other names we have are Luna, Radius, Nova, Chimera, and Casandra, all of those are fairly latin/roman based names.  but she could also be called Clara, Aura, Venus etc. Musa: Her mom and dad have very asian sounding names but the princess of melody is named Galatea, so honestly anything is on the table. Aulos, Hee-Young, Jia Li, Kaida, etc. Tecna: lol everybody on Zenith has ridiculous names so im just loosely basing them off of sciencey stuff. Nobelia, Xenon, Titania. Aisha: I actually really like Aisha’s name! Ayize, Sizani, Mehrbano would work tho. Flora: what even is the naming system of Lynphea i don’t understand it. Im gonna make them vaguely naturey and European-ish?? Calla, Terra, Rowan, Willow, I could go on and on there are so many plant names. 11. Hmmm yeah, so basically in my world a person with TOO MUCH magic gets overwhelmed and kinda goes a little crazy(the ancestral witches) the same thing happens with tritannus when he gets the emperor's throne power. He’s loyal to icy and she to him until he looses his ability to think clearly and turns on icy, icy gets freaked out and leaves with her sisters when they swoop in to rescue her. they don’t so much “break up” as they are “broken up” by the circumstances. In general Tritannus does really like Icy, hes attracted to her ambition and powerful personality. Icy started out just manipulating Tritannus but caught feelings oops 12. Yeah so, humans in general can withstand a lot of wild magic as their body “metabolizes” it quickly. Kalshara(the cat lady you don’t know the name of) used extremely concentrated samples, combined with other spells to keep the wild magic in her body permanently. If a human with out a properly developed magic biome (a lot of earthians only have a low functioning one) get exposed to a wild magic source they would probably gain some aspects of fairy animals, probably not like, fur, or anything but eye and hair color changes, maybe some patterns on the skin. but there’s also the chance that they would just.... die..... cus that happens with animals too lmao sry. @weirdghostly
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dongsooks · 7 years
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Dating Mark Tuan(Got7)
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THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!! Hope you like this! I want to say sorry in advance incase this is weird I might rewrite this bc I am on too much caffeine right now and a little hyper in general today
okay let's start way back when he started crushing on you
You'd start off as friends
but then one night, let's say three a.m y'all got some burgers
Caps, hoodies, facemask and everything, not looking fine at all
you stuffed your face ugly eating your burger
ending up with a little sauce in the corner of your lip
and he was like “C'mere I got u”
and then he was looking at your lips
a napkin in your face
initally trying to remove the sauce but damn your lips looked kissable
and you're just like
“Bruh u done or?”
and he suddenly blushed and was like “wtf Mark” to himself and just laughed it off
”I was just mesmerized by how chapped your lips are. Use a chapstick smh”
”You're not Jinyoung stop trying”
so and after that he would look for more physical closeness but if anyone commented on it he would get all defensive like
*puts arm around you*
“Aww Markie-Pooh is hugging his crush”
and suddenly he drop kicks Jackson to the ground and is like
“Ew!!!1! Crush??? on thEM????”
cue awkwark silence and whimpering from injured Jackson and everyone is just like “wtf Markus”
and he would always stare at you for longer than necessary and think about how pretty you looked and how he'd like to trace your face with is fingers and how your lips look so soft
and suddenly he would just shake his head and mutter under his breath and everyone is concerned because he be acting like a psycho
and then he would tell Youngjae some night while they were laying in their room
and because it is Youngjae he would just kind of scream and be like
“YOU LIKE Y/N?”
and the whole dorm heard it
great Youngjae now Mark is annoyed and embarrassed :/
So then the whole band knew and pressured him to tell you
and he did
he just took you out and was like
“I like you”
and you were like “lol ok. I hope the fuck you do”
but he was serious an suddenly you were like “oh”
but then you told him you liked him too and he was like “GRReAT LET  ME TAKE U OUT ON A D8?”
and you went to that burger place and then he asked you to be his gf and you said yes
fast forward:
there's dead silence or you two laughing like dying seahorses
nothing in between
”are you ever jealous?”
”why?”
”because...”
”Mark don't”
”Every lady wants a piece of me”
”One more time and I will break up with you I am not even kidding”
when you two fight it's like
are you giving each other the silence treatment or just chilling already?
no one knows
sometimes you don't know
and then other times
especially when he messed up and you ignore him
he'll just
take off his shirt hug you from the back and whisper
”I know you want me, let's start talkin”
and you don't know wether to slap him bc what a fuckboy or well...fuck him
both if y'all kinky
I’m so sorry
Papa Tuan loves u probably
also probs send you baby pics of Mark
or tells you things you can use to roast Mark
like 'little cock'
”Hey little cock how you doin' today?”
”I'm good how ab- HEY”
“You sure weren't complaining bout that cock being little last night ;)”
he is very possesive of you
and gets jealous easily
”Did he just look at you?” while throwing his arm around you
”Mark he was like 8 and we're at the candy isle”
leaves so much of his stuff at your place
not his shirt so you can wear it but like
his socks
”Mark I am sitting next to you, you could hug me instead of Jinyoung”
~insert sassy Jinyoung comment abt you being jealous~
having a cuddle threesome bc Jackson
”Stop bullying Yugyeom. No wonder he is becoming just like you, Jesus”
as he said he wouldn't want to annouce his relationship until he got married most of your dates would be pretty lowkey
neither of you would mind though
If you two are alone at the dorm or your place and you see a spider it's over
”We should call JB”
”Or you could be a strong woman and go get that spider”
”Why me?”
”Feminism”
hearing him swear
often
like... very often
”if I die I want you to date Jinyoung”-You
”if I die I want you to live alone with your 6 cats”-Mark
always slapping your butt
and grabbing it
and squeezing it
and stroking it
and you get the gist
gives you his hoodie
”I'm not even cold”
”Take it that's romantic”
then when you put it on he pulls the strings of the hood until he only sees the tip of your nose
and laughs and you're just like
”Wow very mature Mark” :/
but it's funny tho
according to the members he farts the most so you're probs comfortable farting around each other
burping contests
he’d be proud when you win
”Hey Mark can you bring Coco next time you come?”
loving Coco and giving her all your attention
”Yeah now that she is here you can leave btw. Love u. Bye”
having some reeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaally inconspicuous couple item
like rings
but like silver rings that could be from H&M that have your initials on the inside
no one will ever know or suspect though
romantic Mark
like when he got you said rings for your anniversary
fuckboy Mark
”Hey lil lady, wanna play Titanic? You'll be the ice berg and I'll go down” ;) ;)
”Hey babe, my parents aren't home”
”Mark you live in a dorm with ur band members what are you on?”
being able to tell he spent too much time with Jinyoung when his disses get better
baking together
”Let's start being healty”
”Does homemade burgers count?”
”Absolutely!”
watching movies together
”Mark I don't want to watch a horror movie!”
*slowly puts the movie on staring u dead in the eye*
”I will pour Sriracha into your anus while your asleep. Try. Me. Little cock”
Suddenly a sappy movie seems like a great idea to him
asking you if the selfie he shot is too hoe to post on Instagram
”yes”
”If that's what you think I will post it :*”
posting really lit or racy pics when you want to see him suffer
or make him jealous
but when he sees thru your lies he'll be like
”if ur tits are falling out of all your shirts I can buy you new ones babe ;)”
dammit
buying wigs for the two of you so you can have dates outside
”My handsomeness is so striking even if they don't know I'm an idol they want to know me because I am so beautiful”
teaching you how to skate
laughing when you fall
throwing your shoe at him in return
”I wanna bang you on the table”
”But it's stuffed with my paperwork”
Pouty Mark
”And it's where we eat”
poutier Mark lifting his Shirt
*sigh* “FINE”
”I wanna have sex but I don't wanna move”
”We could nap now for half an hour and then commit later?”
”Sounds realistic”
no it doesn't y'all sleeping through
Overall: Having a lot of fun with each other and feel no need to have constant conversation and you two are loving towards each other in your own way that no one else needs to understand
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