#because I'm an ASSHOLR

[fadetality]

Sometimes when I'm drunk I queue things with shocking and bad commentary in the tags just so that when it comes out of the queue like a week later I can be shocked and horrified at myself

#I did that just now #because I'm an ASSHOLR #to myself #usually I call some mother fucker 'daddy' but please don't look into that or psychoanalyze me #hunter // ooc

[noctumbra]

wtf guys am I just a brutal assholr or something because I thought he would ask her about abortion?😳 I'm sorry if I'm brutal but I would appreciate if someone asks if I ever gonna keep it and ruin my education, carer etc

when he runs away, he sort of lets you to do whatever you want. the previous ask was about "if you were to have the kid" one. but since he runs away, he lets you to choose about whether having the kid or an abortion, so of course you can have an abortion.

he doesn't ask because he's panicking. he's panicking bad, so he thinks running away will fix it.

well, it doesn't.

#answered asks #fuckboy!bucky

[sereniv]

Yknow when I say not to support AniAg because of many reasons one including the mistreatment of undocumented people, I include not supporting these places that also are going to or have already made plant based food like vegan meats and cheese.

Because your money is still funding it and supporting it

Vegans and non vegans alike need to do this

Obviously not everyone is going to do this, but no matter what comes out no matter how delicious and enticing something is, I vow not to support it purposely.

Not until these companies 1. switch to plant based production with the help of the government substities and our encouragement (pressure) and 2. treat their employees correctly

But of course before that happens we need laws in place for these situations

We need laws that protect undocumented people from every type of abuse they can experience from corrupt corporations

And we can do that first with voting in elections and boycotting and being loud and being seen

Learning how things work like law, to see if those who have the means, to help people organize a union

I cant do much, but what I could do is cut out animal products. And every day I try to switch to better alternatives of things if I can.

I also make sure I'm educated as best I can, by listening by researching, and by using my best judgment based around the idea that we need to learn about everything we've been taught from scratch especially if it's political and that includes the rights of any sentient being, human or non human animals

But yeah

Im really tired seeing people fight against this instead of being curious. Instead of taking a breath and recognizing their anger and asking why

You NEED to ALWAYS ask why you are feeling the things you feel. Because when you get to the bottom of it sometimes it blows your fucking mind. Either you're being abused, or you're afraid of change, or its a trigfer, or whatever

So instead of fighting against new concepts like ditching meat and dairy, something that threatens well, our happiness really I understand that- know that no one is forcing you

No one is MAKING you feel guilty

If you truly believe in what you do you won't be swayed. But if you are feeling guilty or angry or defensive- take that as a sign that you subconciously have put something together, or heard something that made sense, and conciously that foreboding of change makes you feel these emotions

If someone is being an asshole don't shut down. Like let's say I get angry explaining my side. If someone showed a misunderstanding, or confusing, or told me they respond better to non aggression, that helps me snap out of my emotions and realise that you WANT to talk

So give people a chance. If they continue to be an assholr, move on to the next person. Trust me, everyone has their own way of giving information and talking, you just need to find your fit.

And as usual this is way too long for anyone to stick with but oh well. I've gotten used to talking into the void anyway lol

#vegan #veganism #vegans

[anodyne-sunflower]

Please don't stop answering asks because other assholrs can't wait :( I'm so sorry

Oh, don't worry. Lol I don't believe in punishing the many because of the few. Haha

[tswatch]

1. Jen, I feel really bad. I know it's unhealthy and I'm trying not to get sucked into the depressed feelings but it's super difficult not to want to try to help. And I've been getting so angry often and leaving the room a lot. Partly because he doesn't tell me and I should respect his wishes but I hate it when he just doesn't tell me what's wrong so at least he's getting things it in the open.

2. I also get angry when I’m trying to give him solutions and he doesn’t want to do any of them. Most of his problems/worries are with school/homework I tell him to play a game or draw, and he says he doesn’t feel like it and just wants to get back to work and then I get mad and feel like an assholr be cause I’m getting mad at him for getting depressed I guess and it’s just so fucking hard to not get dragged into it. Sorry for the cursing and for forgetting to tag my previous ask. ~emp~

Hi love,

I’m so sorry for the late response. Do you still need a response to this? How have you been since you sent this message in? I’m so sorry we didn’t give you the response you deserved sooner. Do let me know if you still want an answer and/or how things have been since.