#can somebody pleasr help?

[icefrozendeadlyqueen]

I was just reading an amazing post I forgot from whom. I know it was a reblog.. something about italy specific volterra on fire with demetri or felix as a mate. I was compalled then my finger slipped, and I rush back into tumblr. My feed refreshed, and I am devastated because I will probably never see that again.

It will bug me for the rest of my day. 🫣 I will keep searching!

#volturi #twilight #volterra #felix twilight #felix #demetri volturi #demetri #can somebody pleasr help?

[pathologising]

there is a level of self responsibility in recovery, like you genuinely have to try at some point! And I'm not saying its easy because I'm literally somebody who is struggling through it but there comes a point where outside influence can only do so much. Once you have been given the tools to heal its up to you to practice them. Nobody can force you to practice your coping mechanisms and nobody can force you to challenge your thinking. Outside influence and help can only go so far, and this is important to understand. Recovery is a mix of outside help/support groups and you working on yourself. This doesn't mean its easy, this is a difficult journey but you need to stop telling yourself that you can't do anything to manage it.

#recovery #u can reblog these if u want this is literally me yelling at myself but if somebody finds it helpful well <3 I'm glad #but also this is something I have come to realize through therapy. we have to stop saying it cant happen. it CAN #stop telling yourself you won't recover . stop it . that's easier said than done bit seriously you aren't helping yourself pleasr please #for yourself stop it . okay?