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Milo - Adult under 25 - Any pronouns except it/its

Transgender FTM, queer and polyam taken by 2 - labels depend on alter - do not use plural/multiple/you&/headmate when referring to us

Medium support needs (MSN) autistic with agoraphobia, C-DID, CPTSD, GAD, MDD (all dx) and suspected NPD + HPD. Type 2 diabetic with migraine (both dx) and suspecting ME/CFS, fibromyalgia, and PCOS. Not my full health history.

I like psychology, writing/world building, colouring, JJBA, Sylvanian Families, LPS, Sanrio, Muse, Melanie Martinez, Hamilton, Twenty One Pilots. Slowly getting back into witchcraft and scrapbooking/journaling.

I am a survivor of extreme and organised abuse (OEA). I will talk about this as well as ugly symptoms of my disorders without warning. Graphic trauma posts will have warnings.

DNI RADQUEER, MINOR, NSFW, PRO ED/SH, GENDER CRITICAL/TERF, PRO/COMPLEX CONTACT, ISREAL SUPPORTER. I block very liberally.

Very opinionated - main ones under the cut!

Equity over equality!!!!!!

I'm an intersectional feminist, radicalised but not a radfem. Decriminalised and destigmatise sex work but create more ways for people to get out and not have to rely on sex work as their only way of making income. We need to abolish the patriarchy in order for everyone to be free.

I am pro kink overall. I think we should be critical of the potential harms that come from engaging in certain kinks psychologically but it is not up to me to decide that for others. That being said society does have a problem with the normalisation of violent kinks through porn.

I don't believe paraphilias make you an inherently bad person who is doomed to offend, we need to destigmatise them so people are able to access help for them if they need it. I am HEAVILY anti contact for criminal paraphilias (children, animals, etc)

I am pro liberal euthanasia but first and foremost we must put more funding into and reform the mental health system and social support as a whole. Adds into my whole psych critical belief.

I am a prison abolitionist and anti death penalty. Currently a socialist but I don't know much on that topic. Pro free healthcare, basic universal income, free schooling, etc.

I'm pro self diagnosis with proper research. You need to rule out more common possibilities before jumping to more complex disorders. I'm against minors under 16 self diagnosing personality disorders because puberty and other disorders can make things very complicated plus your personality is still developing.

I am pro fiction and personally cope with dark fiction. I am neutral in ship discourse but overall believe fiction doesn't define your morals and censorship will only harm people. I am against sexual loli/shota content.

I am supportive of good faith identities, neopronouns, mogai, etc. Being queer does not have to make sense as long as you're happy!!

I am endogenic neutral because I don't know their experiences, whatever they're experiencing is vastly different from OSDDID and the two should be kept seperate but I don't see a reason to hate them.

#intro #chronic illness #actuallyautistic

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I have no idea what I'm going to do. I can't see a future for myself as a trans person. I'm don't fit into the box of FTM neatly enough to identify as it. I've gotten so much advice to 'be who I am' but how can I do that when I don't even know? And even if I do work it out, most likely the world I live in won't ever accept me. I just don't know what to do.

Well, the world frankly doesn’t care much to begin with unless they can use you.

Also IQ scores increased over the past century because of education basically teaching us how to take a test. Like basically we tend to fixate on categorizing information first instead of just experimenting &or trying to work things. [1]

Basically if you’re still questioning your gender, you need to get some other skills & stuff, to basically get more information & experience before you try getting a definitive answer/label for yourself regarding your gender identity.

Also, damn the world for treating you badly! We’re always going to have something the world will use to screw us over. One could say Achilles Heel, but that sounds victim blamey. What I do want to say is there are a lot of systems of oppression & to worry about being oppressed because of how identities fit into them, like to reject our identities is Kitsch. It empowers the oppressors & weakens you. http://www.shipoffools.com/features/2005/kitsch_xmas.html

Kitsch is destroying or hiding parts that aren’t aesthetically pleasing because you want the world to not have shit. Denying your identity because of social rejection is the kind of bullshit involved in saying girls at school should wear clothes to a certain standard that boys aren’t because of “sexual distraction” to boys. It’s slut shaming & writing a script that its expected that boys can’t control their perversions & sexual harassment.

To end to your life only because you don’t want to see the bad instead of also not wanting to see the good is another example of kitsch. (I’d argue that euthanasia & such when dealing with medical bills & stuff is merely managing your healthcare though, like Do Not Resuscitate, but still).

So basically, do some other stuff first. Like learn how to do some trade skills for money. Learn how to do academic stuff. Travel. Make friends. Etc etc. Basically you need more information before you can categorize yourself. And if you refuse to be honest about your categorization/questioning conclusion because of fear of other people, then you are harming yourself & others who need to be honest about themselves.

I hope/wish you safety so you can thrive as whoever you are. I wish you peace so you can be you who are. I wish you luck so you can broaden your experiences. I wish you love so you can get through your hardships.

♣Peace♥Eve

[1]This book is very technical/academic jargony so while i wouldn’t exactly recommend “Are We Getting Smarter? Rising IQ in the Twenty-First Century” by James Flynn (2012), I would suggest reading articles about the book. So like this Wall Street Journal article: https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10000872396390444032404578006612858486012

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