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[renewyourheart]

If a child’s needs for connection and physical touch aren’t met, they learn to rely heavily on self-nurturing behaviors. They stop seeking closeness, expressing emotion and may even disconnect from bodily needs.⁣ ⁣ This attachment style follows them into their adulthood. After decades of living a pseudo-independent orientation to life, it feels uncomfortable when someone gets too close, and they will unconsciously push people away.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ❤️ 𝘓𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘴𝘵𝘺𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘳 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘴:⁣ 𝘙𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘸𝘉𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘶𝘱𝘉𝘰𝘰𝘵𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘱.𝘤𝘰𝘮⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #tinder #datingexpert #vancouverinfluencer #relationshipexpert #breakupexpert #breakuptips #scienceofattraction #breakupbootcamp #breakuphelp #estherperel #brenebrown #survivebreakup #heartbreaktips #anxiousattachmentstyle #codependency⁣ #getoverex #getoverhim #getoverher #breakuphelp #anxiousattachment ⁣ ⁣ (at New York City, N.Y.) https://www.instagram.com/p/CU8AjueB4KJ/?utm_medium=tumblr

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[parkourhipstas-blog-blog]

You know this feeling when you love a person so much and that person chose to leave you. that when you're experiencing a major problem, he chose not to be on your side. That... it's not supposed to be like this.

Way back you try to remember...he wasn't like this. He used to be kind, caring, always there for you when you needed him. He used to actually...LOVED you. 

But now as you think of all of it back, it doesn't matter anymore does it? He doesn't love you anymore. It's over. He changed.

All my life. I've been around with people. And that's the thing I observe. That. PEOPLE CHANGE. 

They're just gonna stick to you temporarily. Because, their presence make you realise that this isn't going to last. They're going to leave you someday, when they find someone better than you. You gotta learn and realise, that the only person you can rely on is yourself. So until that right guy comes into your life and stick to it forever, just stick to yourself. Trust yourself. Rely on yourself prior to your own problems. I'm not saying that you can't have friends to be on your side, I'm saying that they might not be with you forever. So whilst you can, be wary that you yourself are the only one who can decide on how you shape up your future.

-Nana :)

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