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💖 How do they say ‘I love you’ without really saying it? | ⁉ Have they ever questioned their sexuality? | 💋 How old were they when they had their first kiss? | 💞 Would they ever enter/have they ever entered into a polyamorous relationship? | 💔 What was their worst breakup? (DAMMIT GIMMIE ROMEO FEELS NOW) | 💎 Would they rather propose or be proposed to? | 👶 Do they want children?

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[ just due to length and because of some sensitive material, read below the cut~ ]

💖 How do they say ‘I love you’ without really saying it?

Bobby’s all about the little things. Good morning / good night texts, making them food when their sick, brushing hair from their face or just brushing up against them in general. He likes to rub wherever his hand is resting, or if he’s holding their hand he’ll rub his thumb over the back of their hand. Gentle kisses on the forehead and cupping the cheeks, siphoning warmth from them in the middle of the night because he’s literally always cold so when he cuddles you can be rest assured it’s cold as fuck. He also makes sure they get home safe or does the “text / call when you get home so I know you got home safe.” Kissing the side of their head when he walks past them when they’re sitting down. It’s the little gestures that he thinks speaks loudest.

⁉ Have they ever questioned their sexuality?

Oh, yeah, for sure. He questioned for a long time before finally trying to squash it down into the recess of his mind and forget about it. Then Jean pried and got it out of him and then he pried and… got it… out of himself??? His adult self, that is.

💋 How old were they when they had their first kiss?

He was 13. It was a neighbour girl that he was dating for a little while until they got jumped and some thugs tried to… vandalise her, and he used his powers, scaring her away. She never even thanked him.

💞 Would they ever enter/have they ever entered into a polyamorous relationship?

So, personally, I don’t see canon Bobby (at least not adult) doing this, but I can see my Bobby and possibly young Bobby in ANXM doing this. Tbh, the pairings would be Scott x Warren x Bobby and…

heh… Bobby x Caden x Morgan x3 @quiet-loudmouth and @exolazarus the three of them are all so good to each other I just… i can see it okay? They would but cute and good to each other for the rest of forever

💎 Would they rather propose or be proposed to?

Honestly, depends on the situation and the person. He’d love to be a sappy romantic and propose but he would literally die to be proposed to.

👶 Do they want children?

He doooes. So bad. He wants to adopt like 3 kids from different parts of the world and give them loving homes. He’d be such a good dad.

aaand i purposefully skipped this one to save it for last because i am a bad person

💔 What was their worst breakup?

WOW SOMEHOW YOU KNEW IT WAS ROMEO WHAAAAAAT

But actually there’s two break ups I have to include here but mentioning @missbigbadwolfie and Bobby’s breakup is also important because I actually headcanon that Bobby was dating Evee before he was dating Romeo and before he started coming out. They’re break up was pretty bad in the sense that Bobby was caught cheating on her with Romeo. Not everything else from our rp is ‘canon’ for my muse, but that part, I feel is vital, because it’s a guilt factor in his life that he feels like he can never be forgiven for. (But this sin’t included in his worst break up thing, just felt like it was important to mention aaah)

So yes, one of Bobby’s worst breakups was with his worst relationship, that all of you should know by now was with Romeo. I won’t go into the details of the relationship because that is for a different ask for a different day. But the basis of their breakup was this: Romeo was abusive and Bobby needed out.

The first time he tried to break up with romeo ended up with a few more bruises than he had ever had before and a lot of nights filled with bad sleep and bad dreams. The second time was via a suicide attempt in which Romeo found him and nursed him back to not dead and Bobby thought maybe, just maybe Romeo had truly changed his ways, but then Romeo told him that Bobby wasn’t allowed to die until Romeo said he could and that would only be when Romeo was finally tired of Bobby.

The third time was via the phone and then Bobby got a new number and decided to make it so he never went anywhere without Evan or Idie to protect him because they knew what had been going on – not to what extent, just that Romeo was a dick – and wanted to make sure Bobby never had to face that again.

Another really bad breakup happened in private messaging with @quiet-loudmouth (hahah we live on angst). What happened was Bobby ran into Romeo and right away that nasty little weasel messed around in Bobby’s head and there were 6 times they met back up until Caden caught them about to kiss on the 7th time. It was a nasty breakup filled with yelling and screaming and hurtful words and Bobby really didn’t own up to the damage he had done to Caden. He honestly should have let Caden blow off his steam and then peacefully try to talk to him about it instead of pulling the victim card, but since Bobby is horrible at conveying his emotions that is exactly what he did. It worked out in the end and they got back together and are still utterly in love, but it was hard on both of them. There were some really dark moments for both of them and well… Romeo is a dick. He likes to make drama. Keep him away form Bobby because he gets into Bobby’s head and then Bobby becomes a bit of an asshole.

#tw: abusive relationship #tw: abusive partner #tw: abusive boyfriend #tw: abusive exboyfriend #tw: physical abuse #tw: mental abuse #tw: emotional abuse #tw: emotional manipulation #tw: cheating

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