#i’m sorry you guys feel unheard and unwanted. i am giving you many hugs. maybe even biting you affectionately....

[salsflore]

BANNER DESCRIBED IN ALT. TEXT

ps shoutout to the “lesser known” selfshippers! followers and notes really don’t matter, but i know a lot of people get upset over the lack of interaction so hi – reminder that being popular or whatever doesn’t make you any more or less valid, you’re cool just the way you are, so pls talk about your ships! we need it! we want it! you’re contributing lots just by being here!

talk abt what you love! spam post everyday! even though it may seem like nobody is interested or do not care about your ships, the art you put effort in, the fics you write or the games you reblog ( i am positive there are many people out there who do, okay? )

please try your best not to let that discourage you from doing what you want! selfshipping should be for you, don’t get pressured to reach a certain amount of mutuals, notes or the asks you get because they ultimately don’t matter, so don’t let that stop you from creating for things that bring you joy. maybe even take a break if it’s beginning to feel that overwhelming for you, i promise we’ll still all be here.

+ even if there are more popular self ships out there or whatever, that doesn’t make them any more valid or ‘better’ than yours, so just keep doing what you want to do if it makes you happy, don’t focus on people other than yourself. ♡

btw if you want letters, if you want to gush, if you want asks, etc. my askbox is always open okay !! i am you and your ship’s number one supporter (real)

#i’ve seen quite a LOT of posts (either on the main tag or by my lovely moots) talking abt lack of interaction and aghh #i’m sorry you guys feel unheard and unwanted. i am giving you many hugs. maybe even biting you affectionately.... #but you guys are cool regardless ok !! #⠀520! ♡⠀ #self shipping community #self ship #fictoromantic #fictosexual #self ship positivity #self ship community #self shipping