#idk when telling ppl they said smth that came across as mean or harsh became known as a personal accusation of that person being mean

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I feel like I am going BONKERS, rn like I know Twitter is the website ever but like ??????

#ramblez #idk when telling ppl they said smth that came across as mean or harsh became known as a personal accusation of that person being mean #but man I did not yknow catch up on that understanding! #just like hmmmm #I am so tired of ppl telling me to chill out even when I am trying to in very calm very passive words explain my reasoning #and its like 10x worse when I am agreeing with the persons main point but dont like how they worded it #and they take it as an attack on the correct point they were making instead of a simple mistake of wording that can easily be fixed #+10 points if they double down on said wording and then later say it was bc they are neurodivergent #like my man maybe ur autism does cause u to come accross as harsh sometimes thats okay #but when somebody tells you youre coming accross as harsh ur autism does not make u double down instantly and get angry #and also its like maybe I sound insane? #but if u gonna defend ur take as objective critisism it has to be something u can like objectively prove! #and if u then end off the thread stating it was just ur opinion and trying to spin it all to make me look like I had a fit bc I disagreed? #thats super weird? #and also in general u should be very careful when mixing objective facts with ur opinions or speculation #u need to put disclaimers or have smth that clearly shows whats meant to be taken objectively and whats an opinion u have #otherwise it can get confusing esp if anyone yknow takes ur word as fact bc its surrounded by actually provable stuff! #and I mean Im ignoring the part where the number one way they doubled down was by saying it was objective critisism when it wasnt KJDFHGKJD #just #ugh #tiring #one of these days Ill grow strong enough to delete twitter bc nothing good ever comes of it