#if u need clarification i'd be more than HAPPY to do that

[cozycottagetarot]

Okay. Then, can u do if I will be in a relationship next year(2024)? Any new love coming next year? I have been single for a while so I m curious to see if my love life will change next year💕 U can tell me any details u get. Thank you -A.M

Hi A.M,

I appreciate you resending your question, and I apologise for the wait!

Your Cards: Queen of Swords, Four of Wands, Page of Wands, Page of Cups, The Tower

Long story short, it's a strong possibility that love with enter your life next year. It may rock your world in unexpected ways, but you've got what it takes to handle it.

The Queen of Swords, to me, here represents the energy in which you need to show up. Being in a place where you can balance decisions made from your head vs. your heart. Being in a place of harmony and celebrating yourself with the four of wands but also a union on the horizon. The page could be someone you meet through work or a school/education-related avenue. They could be foreign or an intersection of a specific field to them and a specific field to your meeting. Situations involving emotional vulnerability and emotional risk with this person may likely arise but you'd be able to work things out. You could meet them through a younger friend or relative or through someone younger than you. With the king of wands to clarify the tower, this person may shake your foundations a little bit, but take things at face value. If they are a little bit inconsistent with communication and they say 'Hey I’ve got a lot going on with a work project at the moment', then that really is all it is. I don’t think there are any underlying lessons that I would typically associate with the tower. But another good signifier of the tower and king of wands together is that this person and a relationship with them could shake things up in good ways.

Other things I'm getting is that you could be celebrating an accomplishment at the time you meet this person, saying yes to new opportunities because you’re feeling spontaneous, or connecting with your inner child and letting them be expressive and playful.

I had a tough time making this clear, so let me know if you have any questions or need any clarifications (I'd be happy to do my best to explain more).

#free mini readings #free readings #free tarot readings

[dropssofjupitter]

personally i don’t support JKR too but can i ask y u don’t cos idk how to explain to my friend y not to

Hello my love! I'd be more than happy to help!

To put it bluntly, JKR has shown multiple times that she is racist and transphobic, and seems to have little to no remorse for her actions. She has been labeled as a TERF by the community (one that I personally find fitting) and by multiple media-outlets.

She has posted tweets claiming that trans-women should not be allowed to use women's' restrooms, and queer-baited both the community and her fanbase multiple times.

The main cause of her racism was simply her depiction of POC characters in the Harry Potter franchise. For example, she named the only Asian character Cho Chang, and placed her in Ravenclaw, which feeds into harmful and hurtful Asian stereotypes. (Here's an essay from CalPoly as a more in depth look as to why her character is problematic)

Here are a few links to the other incidents mentioned:

Four Major Controversies of JK Rowling

Guideline of Transgender Comments by JKR

I attempted to find some articles that thoroughly explained the situation while still discussing what I was focusing on. I still highly recommend that you do your own research into the subject, especially if you're going to be talking to your friend about it! It's important that you see both points of view on the matter and decide for yourself whether the evidence is sufficient. Please do not immediately take my word and opinion for it I am a stranger on the internet lol.

I hope this was useful and helpful for you! Please let me know if you need any further clarification at all nonnie, I'm happy to help :)

Also! If anyone sees anything incorrect on here, please let me know and I'll fix it right away!

#jupe talks #jupe asks #I hope this was also useful to anyone who came across it #jkr #harry potter #f jkr

[calmtone]

          hello everyone , the name is sab and i’m super excited to be here w u all 😔 everything u need to know abt jaein is under the cut and i’m sort it’s a mess my sister literally isn’t shutting her mouth , so it’s hard for me to concentrate KSMKSMS but , i’d love to plot w u , so hit that like button and i’ll come to u or i can give u my discord if y’all would prefer that !

˗ˏˋ  ( hwang hyunjin. twenty-one. cis male. he/him. ) yang jaein has been at so!ar entertainment for one year. they have been the stylist of legacy since february, 2019. they are known by their family to be altruistic, idealistic + zealous but they can also be meticulous, guarded + flighty. i hope that they can make it in this industry.

TRIGGER WARNING FOR HINTS OF ABUSE .

info .

born in seoul , sk to a beautiful , university student mother and a big business father . his father was ten years her senior .

it was a strange relationship truly , but neither really cared anyways . his mother didn’t care because she loved this man and his father didn’t care because well , he had a beautiful woman on his arm .

there was also the fact that he’d knocked her up and it would’ve been a disgrace to his own family to leave a woman and his child

so the marriage was forced , in his father’s eyes at least . he never quite loved her , not as much as she loved him . her life was molded into something fake and the light in her eyes dwindled as time went on . expected to be a housewife and not what her own dreams wanted her to be .

( she was a fashion design student , was in love with the idea of a simple piece of fabric being turned into something that could brighten eyes and turn heads )

it’s scary what someone would do for love or at least a fabricated version of love she didn’t want to leave , afraid of the truth

thus in turn , growing up jaein had a skewed vision of what love was , he received so much love and encouragement from his mother yet received cold harsh treatment from his father . watched his mother with hearts in her eyes as she watched his father and saw his father write her off like she meant nothing

jaein had a love for fashion from a young age , watching his mother make her own clothing in her small little space in the house , watched her sew fabrics and buttons and jewels together to make a masterpiece . she taught him all she knew , loved the way his eyes lit up like hers would when she was younger . he always found joy in helping his mother pick out pretty dresses and doing her make up

always dreamed of dressing people up like he’d help dress her up

he was always a more introverted child , he found nice company with his mother as mentioned above , she was always his best friend . however his father wanted him to be more , hated to watch his son find a love for something that would get him no where just like his mother . hated to watch him fall in love with smth that was some Prissy shit

when he was ten his father got offered a big job in milan , italy and off jaein went . forced to pack up his life and leave everything behind for a father that cared little about him

he was in heaven though ... kinda ... a fashion hub of the world it felt like his dreams were coming true . however it was while living in italy where his father was really forcing his hand on him

forced him to be apart of the more popular social scene , shoving him into crowds he didn’t do well with . forced his introverted and shy son to be extroverted and outgoing , to attend parties and let people use him however they saw fit . he didn’t make friends , he met ppl that wanted his money , wanted him because he was pretty .

people pushed him around a lot . physically , emotionally .

his father wanted him to be some big business man , take after himself and shit , jaein obviously didn’t want that , he wanted to do fashion and create things . his father wasn’t happy when he told him he’d be moving back to korea ( age 18 ) to pursue a degree in fashion design .

that furthered strained their relationship or whatever relationship they even possessed because his father wasn’t really present as a parental figure , the one time jaein stuck up for himself was the last line for his father who ended up p much disowning him

his mother was still there in his life watching him go to university , she supported his move and pays his tuition behind her husbands back bc she wants to toxically live through her own son as he chases the dreams she had

it was because of that that he had gotten his job at solar . his mother had paid his way in there and he hadn’t found out until recently , putting strain on their relationship because he felt like he couldn’t trust her . he would never tell a soul this though , so it’s his own internal battle !

personality-ish .

generally he’s sweet . kind , selfless , wants to help others more than help himself which leads to destructive tendencies of overworking himself .

he wants to be perfect , he wants to impress others , it’s why he shifts himself so much to fit a mold he doesn’t think he can fit .

his mother cares for him , loves him so much , but there’s always been pressure on his shoulders to be just like his father . he loves fashion he really does , he loves being able to create something that people will love , but he’s way too doubtful of himself , he never thinks anything he does is good enough which is definitely trauma from his father ( now from his mother because he doesn’t know if he should be at solar anymore ) , so he questions whether this is what he’s supposed to be doing or not .

he has hella daddy issues ... is struggling w the relationship w his mom bc of what she’d done . doesn’t talk to them .. talks to his mother on occasion but otherwise he’s pretty mf lonely but pretends to be happy bc he’s so good at pretending !

he’s a gemini . so he’s an annoying little petty whore and is quite moody and finicky and meticulous . he doesn’t trust ppl ... so many factors play into that from his parents to how he was treated by his peers , he’s just guarded and has trust issues up the ass .

yet he can be quite naive and he’s always craved love and affection ( that isn’t rough ) , so he’s thrown himself into things only to get himself hurt in the process ! he just wants validation and tried to get it in the worst way hehe ! like if u tryna get in his pants just be like hey ur amazing and he’ll drop to his knees ANYWAYSFLDKSJF

he can talk for hours once u get him started and get him out of his shell , though he can be quite self conscious about a lot of things

still pretends to be an extrovert but he’s definitely not !

def a romantic , loves the stars , flowers , wants to date and kiss someone but scared u know

he’s like an aesthetic hoe on insta , loves coffee and visiting different cafes whateva

uh he knows he’s bi , but he’s not like out ? kinda ? idk he hasn’t like explicitly said anything about it but like he’s been w both men and women before idk if that makes sense KFKDSM

wanted plots .

cute best friend ! probably someone he knew from korea before he moved to milan ? they always kept in contact , the person that jaein trusts more than anyone else

older sibling figure ! never had siblings , so having someone to sort of guide him would be nice

cuddle buddy bc.... cute /:

give him a lil crush pls ... he’s bi and it would be totally cute to see him get flustered in someone else’s presence and just be totally mf heart eyes ! could be a puppy crush or unrequited or not even that deep ! could be fully returned , whateva !

while he is a stylist , he always really loves make up ? but like hasn’t really dabbled w anyone besides himself ? so maybe a little test subject of sorts !

love / hate is always fun ! jaein can be a lil moody , so getting on his bad side isn’t super tricky 

an ex ! smth angsty and shit ... pls would love the angst

rival ? enemy of sorts ? just someone that jaein doesn’t like and they’re always bickering nd shit 

maybe a first love ? that would be p cute

his test subject ! w fashion and he’s always making them stand for too long and poking them w his pins on accident and it’s just a really precious and supportive relationship

#hqidolintros #⁺ 𝗳𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 ‚ ooc ♡ 𝙼𝚄𝙽 . #this is a MESS I'M SORRY #if u need clarification i'd be more than HAPPY to do that #but uh yeah . plot w me pls uwu

[rigelmejo]

i just want to say you always inspire me SO much to keep working on learning language. motivation is always an uphill struggle for me but seeing your dedication keeps me going and trying to shoot for more!

You motivate me!!!!!!!!!

Genuinely, whenever you share how you've studied or what you've done ToT I want to learn from what you did! I'm like "well Yue managed to do this! so maybe eventually I'll be able to too!"

Also. I don't know how much you get motivated similar to how I do but. I think sometimes for me the biggest challenge is how to make myself "just DO something" ToT

I tend to be such a perfectionist, and to study languages I absolutely kept self sabotaging myself because of that. In school classes, it didn't hurt me as much because teachers made me keep engaging with new material (but I had other issues in classes lol). But when I started studying on my own, it made me want to just re-read beginner materials (or whatever I was studying) over and over instead of engaging with new things to learn so I could actually improve. I had to set goals to do Actual things in the language, because when my goals were just 'go over X study materials' I'd just keep repeating them and refusing to move forward. Then when my goals were Actual things, I couldn't perfectly re-do them over and over to try and be perfect! Because I simply cannot be a perfect speaker, reader, listener, writer, for years. Even if I try to be a perfectionist - I'm not going to understand a text 100% at my level even if I look everything up, there's still nuance I won't get for years lol. Even if I try to perfectly master how to say X, I won't master pronunciation for a long while. So those goals got me to just... realize I needed to stop Being perfectionist and be happy with doing things 'good enough/understanding enough.' And then finally I stopped being perfectionist so much when going and engaging with reference materials - and just trying to read Through them, listen Through them, and then review later when I'm done as needed if I run into those aspects again while Doing things like reading/speaking etc and need some clarification.

I started making goals after that to "just go through X/try X steps" and not care if I understand everything or do steps perfect. Just getting myself to willingly DO them is the hard part. And if I do them, even imperfectly, I'll learn Something and make Some improvements anyway. Which is good enough for me.

So uh. That's probably not part of your motivation problem lol ToT. But if u happen to tend toward perfectionism too, maybe u relate somewhat.

Also! Your advice to 'do what you want most'!!! Again genuinely you don't know how much you end up motivating me!!! Last summer when I got back into japanese, I didn't really know how committed I was or my goals or how to motivate myself to keep trying when I'd spent 2.5 years learning barely anything and then had a long break. And because of you I went and was like screw it, I'll play what I've always wanted to play and understand in japanese! That's the ultimate goal I had wayyyyy back when I started! But it felt way too hard to be possible! And because of your advice I did end up trying to play, instead of waiting until I was "better" and "more prepared." It was hard! But it was also much closer to achievable than I had thought it was gonna be. You're advice really took me from "too worried I know too little to engage with any real japanese outside of learner materials" to "I can actually try manga! I can buy the Parasite Eve novel and maybe chip away at it with a dictionary! I can go play a game in japanese when I want and follow some of it!" To just actually Doing the things I was hoping to even Start to do, once upon a time.

also like. slightly related but. I love learning by doing. And the fact you did manage to learn and improve by playing video games and reading and looking some things up, figuring some things out from context. You succeeding showed me like... the way I tend to learn can actually work for some people. Because you know how it is when you look stuff up - some people will say it works but its 'inefficient' compared to some things (but another method isnt efficient for me if i wont do it lol), and other people will say 'its way too hard to dive into real materials so EARLY and make any progress'. Which. You and me are proof it is doable. You can be as prepared/unprepared as we were and still do okay and make progress. My point is just like. I definitely admire how you learned and since you succeeded I felt more like I could manage to do this too.

tldr: anyway please feel free to share whenever you're up to some study method! or working on things! or things you've done before! your progress is awesome and u motivate me a lot too! ♥♥♥

#@a-whump-muffin #replies #ask #ARE U KIDDING UR AWESOME #U SHARING WHAT U DID WITH FINAL FANTASY TYPE 0 #IS LITERALLY WHAT MADE ME FINALLY BRAVE ENOUGH TO TRY VIDEO GAMES I WANTED TO PLAY IN JAPANESE

[raymondshields]

That anon is the exact reason so many people shut the fuck up and don't talk about their shit and why people are so scared to be honest. What fucks up someone's mental healthy? Getting that kind of ask to be honest. People who do that can fuck up someone who's healthy into doubting their reality and I have seen someone start doubting their active therapist because of concern trolling. Fuck those people. I want to be a proud freak too. My freak-ness is what makes me healthy but I don't go to thearphy [because I'm healthy] so I don't have a safe defense to shove them off without them fucking with my reality so it's cool seeing someone who can. I started to ramble but fuck anon be proud and strong and be aggressively angry! You deserve it with this sanism borders on gaslighting armchair bull.

No kidding - especially because like, if someone just up and went "lol u faker c--t" I'd just react with a supernatural gif because that's the only effort they deserve. It's harder to do that when people weaponize concern and falsify empathy, especially when you're susceptible to those sorts of things.

Like, I grew up on 2014 otherkin tumblr when death threats from antikin were all the rage, so none of this shit bothers me. I can totally agree that being a freak makes me healthy: I know people who try to deny their freakishness, okay, and there was a time when I did that. Forcing a queer person to act a cishet role is a majorly triggering horror story for me. (It's also why I can't really talk to my friends who are closeted and have to remain that way about those issues. It says "this is what happens if you stop fighting tooth and claw to be what you are" and that's terrifying.)

I'm in therapy largely for unrelated reasons (had to battle off a potential case of PTSD and succeeded, and am now focusing on getting that ADHD diagnosis) but like, I opened with being otherkin and having been plural before, she's fine with it, it's all fine.

But of course, I've never said that on this blog, so clearly it never happened, and I just uhhh, need to try CBT because that's the first therapy tool anyone hears of and the only one most people know. Must be a miracle cure!

Also, note the fact they used 'alters' when I exclusively use systemmate, and soulbond if I'm getting technical. I've been very clear that I don't have DID. So either a) they don't even fuckin know what DID is or b) they're assuming I'm lying about my experiences, because of course I am, it's not like pretending to be a DID system wouldn't make my online plural experience significantly easier or anything. /s

(for clarification on that last point: DID is a hell disorder and I don't wish that level of dysfunction on anyone. But online in most plural circles I've seen, saying you have DID is a free pass to do basically whatever you want as a system and never get fakeclaimed. It is literally easier to say you have DID than it is to say you're endogenic. No DID system is going to lie online and say they're endogenic for clout or whatever. It's just not a practical move.)

But yeah no it's fuckin like. It's so obviously "oh I was weird and then I went to therapy and realized it was ~all in my head~ and I want you to realize all your weirdness is ~all in your head~ too uwuwuwuwu" like. That's a horror story, fuck off with your concern trolling bullshit.

I'll stand up to anyone, I don't fuckin care. I may not be entirely functional and I may not always know which systemmate is saying what without thinking for a second, but I'm me, and I know what I am, and I'm happiest that way.

Anyone who wants to take that happiness and pride away from me is gonna get bit. And then their hands broken probably. I dunno, would have to put more thought into deciding.

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