#this definition only came up in response to mspec lesbians existing and ppl were angry

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we really devolved as a community when we started defining lesbian as "non-men attracted to non-men" and forcing that upon other lesbians

#nonman attracted to nonmen!! #that definition is so ASS #i cant explain to u how binarist and exorsexist it is #it ENTIRELY excludes multigender and genderfluid folks which are welcomed to be lesbians #even if they have some connection to masculinity or manhood #their gender isnt static nor is it singular!!! let them be lesbian or gay or bi or literally anything!!! #stuff like that is why lesboy as a term EXISTS #this definition only came up in response to mspec lesbians existing and ppl were angry #so they entirely changed the meaning and now every single lesbian as to abide by it or else theyre not a real lesbian #IT SO FUCKED??? #yes im a lesbian!! no im not a nonman i just like girls!! #FUCK #lesbian #mspec lesbian #lesboy #discourse #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #poly lesbian #radical inclusion #rad inclus