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The Transunitist Manifesto

(here is a link to where it is being hosted- it is also copy-pasted below for easier reading)

Introduction:

21st Century trans politics is in many ways different to 20th Century trans politics. Some of the problems facing trans people then are gone. Others remain. And yet others are entirely new, borne out of the political landscape which we walk today. This Manifesto is simultaneously a response to the world as it is today for trans people and a commitment to building better solidarity and unity amongst trans people of all kinds. It is an affirmation to love, respect and help others in our community whenever we can- and to be alert to each others needs and problems, so that no-one ever feels like they are on their own. This is Transunitist theory at its core: compassion, respect and solidarity above all else.

Why Transunitism?

Transunitism was coined in the early 2020s by myself and a few other trans and nonbinary acquaintances online. Collectively we noticed that 21st Century trans politics had become unstable and imbalanced, inadvertently feeding into the transphobia it was supposed to be guarding against. Transunitism could be considered a wave of transfeminism, in that it draws from the same roots as transfeminism (and thus feminism as a whole), but recognises that a shake-up of the current trans politics is needed to better serve the community as it stands today.

The name Transunitism was chosen for its immediate understandability. Simply, it describes the desire to explicitly strive for greater transgender unity against our common and uncommon oppressions. In the last few years, trans politics has seen a rise in toxicity and vitriol between different transgender groups. This has had a negative effect on overall trans solidarity and unity when fighting against transphobia. As a result, transunitism is needed to help repair those bonds and create lasting solidarity against transphobia in all its forms.

Transunity theory largely draws from transfeminism, however, transunity theory also has some key developments of its own. Transunitism utilises transfeminisms beliefs that everyone has the right to define their own identities and to expect society to respect them- especially without the fear of discrimination or violence (1). It also utilises the transfeminist idea that trans peoples relationships with oppression, privilege, patriarchy and feminism are complex and at their most basic interpretations, are rarely black and white or as clear cut as is often suggested (1). These principles have been a part of transfeminism since its inception, however, subsequent interpretations of transfeminism have neglected one or both of these principles, leading to the need for transunitist theory to develop.

Transfeminism originated as a movement mainly by and for trans women, but much like feminism as a whole, many others can find solace and support in it. However, one of the flaws in early transfeminist theory was the neglect of non trans women in transfeminism. This has since been recognised by many early writers of transfeminist theory, however, mainstream transfeminism continues to neglect or even deliberately deprioritise non trans womens issues in the movement. The initial error is understandable, but is by no means the way forward. Feminism (as arisen from cis gender dynamics) prioritises mainly cis womens issues due to the lack of support womens issues have compared to those of cisgender men. The error is that those cis gender dynamics are frequently applied to transgender politics, but such a thing is not possible to achieve and often leaves other equally marginalised people with little to no support from transfeminism. The truth is that transfeminism has its roots in the mainstream feminist movement, but has different dynamics to it and requires more nuance in its application. Often, the (incorrect) application of transfeminism has been to prioritise trans womens issues on the unfounded assumption that other kinds of trans people's issues (particularly trans mens) have more support. Clearly, this is not the case for the following reason: Namely, that patriarchy does not value trans men as men the same way it does cis men (nor would it value nonbinary people the same way), therefore non trans womens issues are not receiving support from the patriarchy and thus prioritising trans womens issues at the expense of other, struggling trans groups is in the long run, damaging for solidarity and detrimental to non trans women.

Transfeminism's Role:

Since transfeminism was coined in 2001, its usage has morphed and changed. At present, the dominant strand of transfeminism does not promote unity and solidarity. Instead, it has fallen into relying upon toxic and often separationist politics- a crude distortion of the founding ideas of transfeminism. Emi Koyama, author of The Transfeminist Manifesto, was explicit in transfeminisms inclusion of all trans people in its movement. She wrote that transfeminism began primarily for trans women and that "it is also open to other queers, intersex people, trans men, non-trans women, non-trans men and others" (2). Her initial publication of The Transfeminist Manifesto was in the year 2001. Two years later, she revisited it and added the following in the postscript of the 2003 edition "I take full blame for the fact that this manifesto is heavily focused on issues male-to-female transsexual people face, while neglecting unique struggles that female-to-male trans people and other transgender and genderqueer people face" (3). Numerous other transfeminist publications recognise the need for greater solidarity between all trans people and for transfeminism to be explicitly inclusive of all transgender and nonbinary people. Talia Bettcher explained in 2017 that "since trans men are also vulnerable to sexism, transphobia, and the interblending thereof, trans feminism would be ill-advised to exclude them from its purview" (4). Despite the academic push for greater inclusion and solidarity, socially these ideas have not manifested. And so transunitism was created to bring awareness to these ideas with clarity of intent and purpose.

Transunity Theory:

Transunitism is not solely created from transfeminist and feminist theory. It also draws upon ideas of stewardship towards fellow trans people that are based upon ecological and environmental concepts.

Transunitism was coined by myself and a small group of other trans people online, but what is known as the transunitism symbol is my creation. I took inspiration from ecological and environmental movements to create a metaphor to explain transunity theory. Hopefully, many readers will be familiar with the recycle symbol and a variation on the three Rs. The recycle symbol usually consists of three arrows in a triangle shape. Each arrow point melds into the point above it and so on. The symbol represents how steps taken to recycle refuse follow on from one another and are interconnected. Typically, the three Rs are reduce, reuse, recycle and all three are equally important steps one can take to help the environment. The three Rs can be reordered and the sentiment still makes sense. For transunitism, the concept is much the same- three elements of trans theory which interlock and intersect which must all be upheld, otherwise neglect is risked. Instead of the three Rs, transunitism considers the three Transphobias.

The Three Transphobias

The three transphobias (or types of transphobia) are the subdivisions that transphobia can be broken down into. Transphobia itself is an umbrella term and while it can be used universally on any kind of anti-trans discrimination, it is helpful to subdivide it further in some instances to describe the specific challenges each part of the trans community faces. Over recent years, there has been a movement to establish a term for the transphobia primarily experienced by trans men. This manifesto will use the most popular term, transandrophobia, to refer to the concept. The transphobia primarily experienced by trans women is known as transmisogyny, while the most popular term for the discrimination primarily experienced by nonbinary people is exorsexism. There exist less popular terms for these concepts, but these will be the three used in this manifesto. I also acknowledge that further groupings exist within the trans community which the terms trans women, men and nonbinary people do not adequately cover.

Transmisogyny is described variously as either the transphobia primarily experienced by trans women or as an intersection of transphobia and misogyny. The term transmisogyny itself is at a crossroads- it is used often to refer to the transphobia usually experienced by trans women, but it is also often used to refer to any intersection of transphobia and misogyny- this has proved to be problematic, especially when attempting to include non trans women's experiences in transfeminism. There are transfeminists who believe that only trans women, as women, can experience an intersection of transphobia and misogyny. However, this is a flawed understanding of misogyny, since many non-women experience misogyny frequently (i.e. much homophobia directed at gay men is based in misogyny). Nevertheless, this has become the prevailing view in much of mainstream transfeminism. This is a problem, since transmisogyny as a concept could very much describe the experiences of trans men and nonbinary people as well as it does the experiences of trans women. However, it is my view that transmisogyny, at its crossroads, should take the path in which it simply describes the transphobia primarily experienced by trans women. This manifesto will use that definition henceforth.

Transandrophobia describes the transphobia primarily experienced by trans men. While trans men do experience an intersection of transphobia and misogyny, they also experience an intersection of transphobia and a hatred of men or masculinity. Arguably, much of what is called transmisogyny for the experiences of trans women is also partially an intersection of transphobia and a hatred of men or masculinity. The ideal word for the concept is sadly marred by disingenuous cis men, but to use 'misandry' here tentatively is not an endorsement of any kind of MRA-style politics, but a convenient shorthand for a kind of hatred of men or masculinity which has a significance in (and only in) the context of transphobia. As alluded to, the term transandrophobia is the most popular term presently for the transphobia primarily experienced by trans men. Earlier terms did include 'transmisandry', which, aside from one academic usage in the context of an intersection of transphobia and racism (5), has not enjoyed much usage due to knee-jerk rejection of the term's suffix. In short, 'misandry' in this solely trans context conveys the transphobia rooted in a hatred of men or masculinity.

Exorsexism describes the transphobia primarily experienced by nonbinary people, which, like transmisogyny and transandrophobia, can contain elements of misogyny, 'misandry' and discrimination based on existing outside of binary sex or gender (henceforth 'misandrogyny'). Like transandrophobia, other terms exist for exorsexism, such as ceterophobia or simply 'nonbinaryphobia'. The most high frequency term is exorsexism and this manifesto will use this term for clarity and consistency.

The three transphobias (as has been touched on somewhat already) intersect, interconnect and intermeld into each other, much like the 3 arrows in the recycle symbol. Hence, in the transunitist symbol, it is transmisogyny, transandrophobia and exorsexism feeding into each other. They are the 'arms' of transphobia. This metaphor comes with some important tenets to transunitism theory:

You cannot dismantle transphobia as a whole by only focusing on one arm of transphobia. E.g. eradicating transmisogyny, for instance, will not bring about the eradication of transandrophobia and exorsexism. Eradicating transmisogyny is a noble goal, but it can't be achieved in isolation. It is interconnected to other two transphobias. By working on eradicating them all, transphobia can truly be fought in all of its forms. Relating back to the recycle symbol, only doing one 'R' will technically help, however, it will have more impact if one strives to do all three. Just recycling is helpful, but reusing will extend the lives of items that would have only been recycled, and reducing your consumption altogether would prevent some waste altogether. The same is true of transphobia- all arms must be tackled to achieve greater trans liberation.

The three arms of transphobia are not exclusively experienced by their main target. E.g. Transandrophobia is the transphobia usually experienced by trans men, but a nonbinary person could be targeted with it for resembling a trans man. The same goes for anyone resembling a trans woman being targeted with transmisogyny (e.g. gender nonconforming cis men) or anyone who is perceived as nonbinary (exorsexism). When helpful terminology is gatekept because the victim of the bigotry doesn't belong to the main group targeted by it, nobody benefits. It is useful to defer to the main targets of a bigotry as authorities on it, but space must be held for all victims of bigotry. Not just some. E.g. Many Sikh men have reported being the victims of islamophobia because bigots had mistaken them for muslim men. While not the main targets, they are equally victims of islamophobia as the muslims who are targeted with it.

All trans groups experience a mixture of misogyny, 'misandry' and misandrogyny- the levels of which vary from group to group. Trans women may experience misogyny (such as unwanted sexualisation for being female and trans), however, they may often experience 'misandry' (such as the vitriol some transphobes espouse which accuses trans women of being 'violent males) and misandrogyny (such as transphobic rhetoric which centers around a trans person's appearance being androgynous and thus not easily sortable into male or female categories . This may result in slurs like 'heshe' being used). Trans men, on the other hand, may experience 'misandry' (such as accusations they are going to transition into -'violent men'), misogyny (such as insinuations trans men are being led astray and that they are incapable of thinking for themselves) and a similar kind of misandrogyny trans women may face. Nonbinary people may experience misandrogyny (such as being forcibly put into a male or female category against their wishes, especially in a medical setting), misogyny (such as rhetoric which claims being nonbinary is a social contagion amongst those assigned female at birth) or 'misandry' (such as rhetoric that claims those assigned male at birth who are nonbinary are identifying as such in order to be predatory). In short, every kind of trans person experiences a mix of misogyny, 'misandry' and misandrogyny. It differs from group to group as well as from person to person.

These tenets are foundational to transunitism. A synthesis of transunitism theory and transfeminism results in what the transunitism movement stands for.

It is my hope that through transunitism theory, we will create a trans community that includes all, aids all and fights for all.

Thank you for reading.

Luke, 01/01/2023

References:

Koyama, Emi. The Transfeminist Manifesto, 2001 & 2003 p. 2-4

Koyama, Emi. The Transfeminist Manifesto, 2001 & 2003 p. 1

Koyama, Emi. The Transfeminist Manifesto, 2001 & 2003 p. 10

Bettcher, Talia, Trans Feminism: Recent Philosophical Developments, 2017, p.2

Martino, Wayne, Omercajic, Kenan, A trans pedagogy of refusal: interrogating cisgenderism, the limits of antinormativity and trans necropolitics. Pedagogy, Culture & Society. 29, 2021, p.679

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I used to hate the word faggot but now I realize that it's probably one of the only things that the gay community has left that isn't being sanitized, shined, and sold back to us at a premium by deceitful ass companies who claim to like us but then vote for policies that kill us. you're not gonna see a bank in a pride parade with banners that say "we love faggots" but you sure as hell will see a gay person saying "I love being a faggot" it feels so more real.

and I want it to stay controversial too because if a bank ever feels like they have the right to say "haha faggot right guys? 😏🏳️‍🌈" we should be able to publicly execute their ceo

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I remember a lot of those bullet points having been directed at me, personally, when I first started being active in queer circles (2013-14). I joined many Facebook groups for trans people and found that they were all run by trans women and there was a specific rule that said to not talk over trans women.

Which is like. Okay. But then it became apparent that they were allowed to talk over us in discussions of transmasc oppression, and we weren’t allowed to correct them on our own personal experiences lest we be “mansplaining.”

And for a while, I believed (or at least thought I believed) this rhetoric. I, a transmasc, would perpetuate this sort of crypto-baeddelism by saying we transmascs are collateral damage in transmisogyny, which is not true at all!

Baeddelism isn’t just “trans women talking about transmisogyny,” it’s sinister and, dare I say, closer to TERFism than trans liberation.

I read bad takes on Twitter but was forced away from online for too long so. I currently do not have the energy to go into it as deeply as I initially wanted. But I do have the energy to boil down what I was gonna say to like. One point.

Baeddelism is not simply the belief that transmisogyny exists. That would be called paying attention to things that happen to other people and, if you’re transfem, yourself. Baeddelism is the belief that transmisogyny is at the root of damn near everything. There is a reason they picked what they believe to be an old English word for effeminate man or trans woman that later became the modern English word “bad” as the name of their movement/ideology. Saying baeddels are just people who acknowledge transmisogyny exists would be like saying radical feminists are just people who acknowledge misogyny exists.

Well fuck me this maybe won’t just be one point now.

Fine, two three points.

At this point you might be wondering what the big deal is, and y’know, that’s reasonable if you haven’t thought it through that deeply. The reason it’s a problem to decide transmisogyny (or misogyny) is the root of damn near everything is that it tends to force you into a framework that is extremely reductive and ultimately hurts people. We know this because we watched people take these ideas to their logical conclusion. And in this particular case it relied on a fuck ton of gender essentialism and the superimposing of cis gender dynamics on trans folks; trans men are believed by baeddels to be closer to cis men in terms of who statistically commits the most violence and abuse, to have male privilege (which is impossible if you acknowledge gender transphobia and cissexism exist), and to generally just have nothing in common with trans women. And of course trans men weren’t asked about any of this. In the minds of baeddels, any non-transfem is their oppressor, and you don’t ask your oppressors for their input on discussions of your oppression. So a whole shit ton of assumptions were made about trans men, and I haven’t even touched on how they handled nonbinary people (that is, badly: they went by AGAB and decided from there if you were a trans man trying to deny your male privilege, a cis woman trying to invade trans women’s spaces to be transmisogynistic, a trans woman halfway out of the closet, or a Genuinely Nonbinary Person (*only applicable if you were amab)).

When the term transmisogyny was coined, it was discussing the intersection of misogyny and transphobia, but due to a number of factors, developed into the term for bigotry directed at trans women for being trans women. I don’t think it was ever meant to be seen as the bedrock of society, but rather pointing out how trans women are affected by misogyny and transphobia, and how those two could make each other worse. It’s a very real phenomenon with key features including hypervisibility and a disturbingly high rate at which transfems are the victims of violence. But normal and healthy discussions of transmisogyny will not lead a trans girl to the conclusion that only other transfems can ever be trusted and the rest of the trans community is as dangerous to her as cis people. I know I’m a trans man saying this but jfc you can talk about transmisogyny without talking over me, claiming what I and other transmascs have lived through didn’t happen, and telling other trans people that I’m an evil predatory monster whose only hope of redemption is detransitioning and even then I can’t be trusted. Like, this isn’t helpful or productive, and reframing it as “people are mad that we know transmisogyny exists” is actually pretty fucked up and the fact that I had to see someone claim that shows how far baeddelism goes.

Also to the rando who claimed baeddels came back because trans men started talking about our own oppression too loudly: yall never left, you just went crypto for as long as you knew people would buy into it and regurgitate your rhetoric themselves as long as they didn’t see how far you actually take this. Shut up 🖕🏻

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y’all will literally watch people call for the death and assault of queer people and go “they’re minors u have to be nice to them!!!!!!!” no the fuck we do not!!!!!!! if ur old enough to call for genocide and violence on the internet bc someone used a word u don’t like then ur old enough to get made the fuck fun of for it!!

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"Queer" is ABSOLUTELY a slur because it ALSO means "strange"

good thing i am strange then so it accurately describes me!

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Posting faggot and queer like 2am gunshots to keep property values on my blog low and scare away assimilationist LGBTs who want to replace my empty lot full of native wildflowers with a 5-over-1 because they're too traumatized by their upbringing to accept the reality of our diverse marginalized community

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Okay yes you reblogged a post about a boyfriend being a girl but are you like actually normal about multigender people especially about multigender lesbians and gay dudes

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i always see your posts about slur discourse esp among young queers and as a gen z i just want to say it’s so much worse then you think. like there are some people who genuinely believe that if you’re bi you can’t use umbrella terms like “gay“ for yourself and if you do you’re ‘occupying spaces not meant for you’ or some shit. like i just…

if i ever see someone say that bisexuals can't call themselves gay i will suffocate them with my gay ass

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what’s a salmacian? :0

It's a term to describe someone who wants/has mixed genitals (both a penis and a vagina). You can check out the r/salmacian subreddit (there's a good mix of afab and amab salmacians & even some folks who have gotten surgery), Salmacian.org, and A Guide to Salmacians (very comprehensive)

#TWO DICKS #sign me the FUCK up

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AFAB non-binary people are way too often invalidated and called “not trans enough” or “privileged” or “transmisogyny-exempt” or other things like this, and this is a major issue.

and

AMAB non-binary people are way too often excluded and seen as predators or inherently dangerous in “safe” spaces, or even unduly associated with masculinity, and this is also a major issue.

Both are true at the same time, and both are issues that the trans/nonbinary community should work on to make it safer for everyone. And, more importantly, both are consequences of nonbinary people being shoved back into the binary of their AGAB, with various notions of privilege associated with it.

#yeah we absolutely experience transmisogyny #but no one wants to talk about that

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have you ever noticed ppl using transmisogny as a way of like. erasing other forms of oppression that ppl assigned male experience? like ive seen ppl who will chalk everything up to transmisogny& they may not even be wrong abt it playing a factor, but they'll like. act like it's the only thing 2 talk about & talking abt anything else is just a distraction. which feels bad for a lot of groups (like amab enbies) bc if you can't acknowledge that other things can oppress ppl... it feels like a great way of gaslighting ppl into ignoring lateral violence they experience from other ""TMA"" ppl

Absolutely! Trying to simplify transphobia into "transphobia that everyone experiences" and "transmisogyny" is overly reductive, and prevents a lot of people from having the language they need to accurately describe their oppression!

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Wait this one’s a classic how could I forget

I told my mom I wasn’t a boy or a girl in third grade. That young!

She said, “Oh, you’re a tomboy!”

My autistic ass thought that was a gender. I took it and ran with it. When strangers asked if I was a boy or a girl I’d say “I’m a tomboy!”

I told my sister that I remember saying I wanted a dick but I also know that plenty of cis girls say that.

She was like, “maybe girls say it like once, but you said it like. Every day.”

She said it got annoying after a while 😬

#I am such a dude #I might expand on that last one in a separate post

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Oh yeah and then there was the time I was like 11 or 12 and I had the entirely random idea to look up a masculine makeup tutorial, like to make me look like a boy. And I was very upset that the mascara beard looked like sharpie and her face was still very femininely-contoured. So upset, in fact, that I turned the computer all the way off and sat on the couch and cried. At the time, I didn’t even know why I was crying.

I told my sister that I remember saying I wanted a dick but I also know that plenty of cis girls say that.

She was like, “maybe girls say it like once, but you said it like. Every day.”

She said it got annoying after a while 😬

#just remembering my egg days

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I also remember thinking my chest dysphoria was because I was self-conscious that they weren’t big enough. So I’d try to make my chest look bigger but only feel worse and not know why.

I told my sister that I remember saying I wanted a dick but I also know that plenty of cis girls say that.

She was like, “maybe girls say it like once, but you said it like. Every day.”

She said it got annoying after a while 😬

[theyfabfag]

I told my sister that I remember saying I wanted a dick but I also know that plenty of cis girls say that.

She was like, “maybe girls say it like once, but you said it like. Every day.”

She said it got annoying after a while 😬

#trans #transgender #transmasc #trans man #transman #transmasc nonbinary #nonbinary transmasc

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And yet. You’re still trying to apply your personal experience to someone who is not you.

And so are those people from those “all kinds of personal posts” you’ve seen urging people to not do what makes them happy because they themselves had regretted it.

Too many trans-identified people give in to the sunk cost fallacy. I don't fucking take them seriously because I know how much they're just trying to cope with throwing their fucking life away because they want to run away from pain and mistreatment.

They don't want to think about the fact that the solution that they have 'come up with' for attempting to ease their mental pain could ever have worse results than what they've already gone through, but it can.

For some people, it has.