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friendly reminder

you are not a burden

your illness or condition is not and never will be your fault

you are worthy of love, kindness, compassion, patience and understanding

you are extremely important

#mun notes / ooc. #psa #//be back later to answer more dms and update some thangs hopefully <3

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dear multimuse writers, remember that it is absolutely one hundred percent okay and valid to show a preference to a muse / or muses you are writing. there is no shame whatsoever in having favourites, or finding yourself connecting with your writing for a muse more over others.

please remember that the most important thing for you is that you have fun. muses don't need to share a spotlight or have equal time and presence on your blog. just keep doing what you enjoy & please do not pressure yourselves into writing for a muse when it just isn't there. write because you want to.

not because you have to.

#mun notes / ooc. #reminders

[xlostparadise-a]

with all the posts that are floating around just a general psa for my partners

i will always do a platonic pair — even family 

i will ALWAYS take your females

i want your muses of color 

i will do aus that are canon (and not) 

aus that don’t involve romance 

i am okay with you losing muse for a thread

i want multiple threads even with the same muse 

tag me in posts 

i am OPEN and honest so just slide in my messages even if you’re just having a bad day

#mun notes / ooc.

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#mun notes / ooc. #// so true

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PSA: IF WE’RE IN A MUTUAL AND YOU WANT TO THROW A STARTER AT ME BECAUSE YOUR MUSE WANTS MINE OR YOU JUST WANT TO ROLEPLAY IN GENERAL —- JUST DO IT. I PROMISE, I’LL SCREAM WITH HAPPINESS IF YOU DO. YOU’RE NOT BOTHERING ME ; I WANT TO ROLEPLAY WITH ALL OF THE PEOPLE I FOLLOW. OKAY, YOU’RE ALL WONDERFUL. PCE.

#mun notes / ooc. #q

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the show (going out to get groceries. making myself a nice dinner. showering and opening the windows. being kind to myself in everything i do) Must go on

#mun notes / ooc. #q

[xlostparadise-a]

Do you still- still love me?

#wanted plots #q

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#mun notes / ooc. #q

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it’s okay if you struggle. it’s okay if you don’t feel like writing today. it’s okay if you take breaks. it’s okay if you don’t want to talk to others. your mental well-being is always more important than your activity here and you don’t owe anyone an explanation if you don’t want to give one.

#mun notes / ooc. #q

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[BREATHES DEEPLY] I NEED A PLOT WHERE MUSE A AND MUSE B HAD BEEN DATING FOR LIKE 3 YEARS AND IT WAS REALLY HELLA SERIOUS BUT ONE DAY MUSE A JUST UP AND LEAVES BECAUSE SHE GETS SCARED OF THE COMMITMENT AND ALL OF THAT AND THEN LIKE THREE MONTHS AFTER SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM IT’S POURING DOWN RAIN AND SHE SHOWS UP AT HIS DOOR STEP COMPLETELY SOAKED TO THE BONE AND SHIVERING AND SHE’S PROBABLY GOING TO GET A COLD AND SHE’S ALL “I DIDN’T KNOW WHERE ELSE TO GO” IDK ??? LIKE THIS IF YOU WANNA DO IT 

#wanted plots #q

[xlostparadise-a]

me on the dash every 5 minutes:

#mun notes / ooc. #// i will pay you $$ ship with me lmbo #q

[xlostparadise-a]

The image captures the miraculous moment when the rays of sun hit a rare cloud called a pile cloud, and the angle and other subtle conditions are reflected in a divine rainbow color. (Source)

#ooc / mun likes. #// whoa wth?? i feel like i just ate a mushroom staring at this lmbo #q

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You are not always going to have the inspiration to write. And that’s okay.

      You are not always going to have the energy to write. And that’s okay. 

          You are not always going to have the time to write. And that’s okay. 

Real life and health are more important than RP. Remember to take care of yourself. Be kind to yourself. And, please, never push yourself for the sake of this hobby.  Real life and health are more important than RP.

#psa. #!!!! #q

[xlostparadise-a]

come get ya juice

#mun notes / ooc. #wanted dynamics / ooc. #// mutual pining tho 👀 #out of those 4 it’s the fav #and then found families asdghsjs gimme <3 #q

[xlostparadise-a]

Being a writer is just 97% googling words to make sure they mean exactly what you always assumed they meant.

#mun notes / ooc. #// if this isn’t me all the time …

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For all my roleplay partners:

Never hold your muse back. For real. If your muse wants to lash out at mine, or kiss mine, or tell mine a horrible secret, or slam mine against a wall — go for it. Don’t ever feel like I’ll get your reply and judge you or your muse. Your character has specific feelings, instincts, and desires, and if they want to do something, don’t hold them back. I want to roleplay with your muse in their entirety, the whole truth of your character, not a watered-down version. Never feel nervous — just let it happen as it happens, and it’ll all be great.

#mun notes / ooc.

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Everyone I RP with deserves a Nobel Peace Prize for not killing me when I don’t reply for like a month

#mun notes / ooc. #// and not to mention still wanting to write with me 🥲 #this goes for ooc too bc i fail at keeping up with things :( #asdfgjkajl