something i think we should do is come up with i don't if dog whistle is only used to describe phrases for bad people but like a way to indentify each other in public, each other as in trans youth who aren't out do to unsafe home environments. If we have a couple of phrases, so trans youth can hint to trans allies or trans elders that can say like hey i am trans but i am not out. Maybe so they can have a supportive figure in their life, or help obtaining resources in a safe way, or just a safe space. But the phrases have to be on a very need to know bases. It needs to be a those who need to know, know those who can't know will not know. Idk if these already exists, if they do i need to know if not i have a few ideas though they arent that good. Um i few a slightly discrete one is "what is your favorite song? Mine is the village" or "i avidly listen to the village" or other variations, only issue some people might understand that the village is about the trans experience and might be a bit identifiable. Maybe someone can make a flag so that, their could be pins or nails can be painted or color schemes of some sort, so they can be identified in that way again only by allies or other trans people, but then those who are recognizing them probably need a way to let them know they are safe space. These only a few ideas, someone else probably has better. We would need a couple phrases so the same ones aren't being overused and people catch on but little enough that allies and trans people recognized them. It's really important that these phrases can be said in public and in front of parents. Its important that trans youth are able to get support through someone and have safe place and they need a safe way of getting it. 💙💗🤍💗💙
(This took them forever. They literally deserve all the support!)
I made aiura fanart :]] this took me 6 hours and 29 minutes exactly. If you think this is cool i do commissions and i really want get my hair done but i need the money so think about it.
I have without and with the background cause idk how i felt about the background. The hair was actually the reason i drew in the first place because i had the image of aiura with ringlets (i am pretty sure thats what they are called) so i am very glad it turned out nicely. :]]]
I want you to reblog this if you believe that two people can be very close and physically affectionate with one another, but still have a completely nonsexual, non-romantic relationship.
Even if the two people in question are capable of being sexually or romantically attracted to one another.
Because the friendship I share with someone I consider family in a way that transcends blood has been typecast as a romantic relationship ENTIRELY too many times, and I’m beginning to get sick of it.