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Monster Crush 🌷

Limited print

#LOOOVE this #other's art #other's ocs #beautiful art and composition!

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Please go watch Sex Explained on Netflix. Not only is it a great resource for the basic sex education that is sorely lacking in the U.S., but some of ya’ll need to take a deep breath and remember the difference between fantasy vs reality. This purity culture thing that we’re going through right now is directly harmful to responsible, healthy sexual expression. BTW this woman, Lisa Diamond, is a noted psychologist and has been pushing for greater understanding of womens sexuality as a whole.

#tes peeps time to read

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Art of Wes as Sheogorath that I did in my Hobonichi journal the other night.

I used Tombow markers which I haven't used a lot, so it was definitely an experiment.

#loooove! #wes johnson #sheogorath #other's art

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Eye makeupe

Iridescent timeeee

#sheo's rambles #sheo's makeup #tw eyes #cw eyes

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#ohhhhh fuck #those are seizures oh well #and makes sense with my fucked immunity

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Pictured: The exact moment Dagon realized he may have miscalculated on his plan to invade Tamriel.

#i diabolically cackled at this

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Indoril Nerevar

My version of this man, exactly 1 week!

Transmasc and has albinism!

Details:

#indoril nerevar #my art #tes fanart #nerevar #elder scrolls morrowind #digital art

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can you not post nsfw :(

you come into my home uninvited and tell me how i should arrange my furniture? what a fool you are. skeleton divine death blast

#me and my mutuals fr fr #do not tell me what colors to paint my walls /metaphorical

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had an enlightening conversation recently

#me irl #other's art

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No one:

Me: HD eyes.

#sheo's rambles

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say cheeeese//2017

10/16

#looooove #daedra #daedric lords #sheogorath #shivering isles #tes #other's art

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Azura's golden boy

#art wip #sheo's rambles

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Ah yes my favorite part

*yeets blush on Nerevar's face*

Anime man

#sheo's rambles

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#shit if y'all aren't non-verbal then we can all sit in silence #let's be non-verbal together

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Say it louder, because this conversation needs to be started and held. I'm tired of this too. /genuine

“No one owes you, an autistic person, an explanation of why something is a social faux pas. If they say they don’t like it all you should do is shut up and accept it”

Okay have you considered I can’t turn my autism on and off and I don’t owe them to act allistically???

Like for context this was said to me bc I explained to other autistic ppl why pointing out things especially to strangers is considered rude. Like “you have diabetes neck, you probably have autism” is a statement an autistic child might make and to them it’s a neutral statement of fact akin to “oh wow it’s really cloudy it might rain soon”. But to other ppl it’s invasive and rude whether they know they have autism or not and regardless of if they’re right. And the explanation I gave was “it’s rude to point out things abt ppl that they can’t fix in 5 minutes bc it makes them feel self conscious and anxious”

Does someone owe some random w autism an explanation? No. Hence why I decided to look it up and research it myself. Social rules do not come naturally and intuitively to us. Just saying “don’t do x bc other ppl don’t like it” ISNT FUCKING HELPFUL. I don’t like ppl insisting on direct eye contact and I don’t like not being able to stim, but guess what? My boundaries are constantly violated bc our society has deemed my comfort as optional. Just not liking something is clearly not a good enough reason.

Having a reason helps autistic ppl understand the problem better and evaluate the next steps to take, especially if were low empathy (I’m not I usually have inappropriately high levels of empathy). Explaining that being out in public and having things abnormal or “wrong” about you pointed out you can’t fix immediately makes you feel anxious and like you shouldn’t be around other ppl at all even if you have stuff to do outside and thus ruins your day might help and autistic person go “ohhhh I see. You have things to do outside and I pointing this out might not be giving you a solution to a problem but just making it harder for you to complete basic tasks by producing anxiety. I will point stuff out in other people less, even if I think I might be correct”

Also like. Where the fuck did I say someone owes me an explanation to this problem??? I provided my own explanation so other autistic ppl don’t have to demand answers from an allistic or not get one bc they think the social rules are intuitive and don’t know how else to explain it. “Well regardless of the explanation you should—“ how about allistics stop demanding fucking eye contact w me when I’m trying to buy a fucking coffee or else that is supposedly a “clue” I am secretly a sociopathic serial killer who personally hates them or whatever the fuck their brains make up as an explanation for simply not wanting to make eye contact bc it makes me uncomfortable

#autism acceptence month

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Autism acceptance includes accepting all autistic manners of communication.

That means supporting autistic people who talk in a "very childish" way. (I do this a lot irl)

Autistic people who do "TV talking" (this means talking like a character from your favorite media,basically talking in quotes and copying their speech patterns,as far as I know)

Autistic people who use echolia.

Autistic people who are very awkward/quirky when they communicate.

Autistic people who are overly technical,or have very sophisticated and articulate speech.

Autistic people who mumble.

Autistic people who talk really fast.

Autistic people who can't control their tone of voice/inflection.

Autistic people who talk in a monotone voice.

Autistic people who use different kind of sounds,or body language to communicate.

Autistic people who talk slowly and draw out their syllables.

Autistic people who use a lot of sentance fillers.

Autistic people who use Aac devices,communication cards,etc etc.

Edit: acceptance of nonverbal autistics is also necessary. Nonverbal people deserve love,respect,acceptance,accommodation and support.

#text #autismposting #actually autistic #autism acceptence month #actuallyautistic

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Pretty boy, beauty boy...

#haskill in the background is sick of his shit #i love it #the elder scrolls #elder scrolls #sheogorath #other's art