If we were to put them on a scale, some words would weigh more than others. The names of those we love and care for deeply hold great weight - perhaps, the greatest weight of all…Mom, Dad, family, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, husband, wife, partner, sons, daughters…the names of friends and pets. Conversely, the names of those we hate or dislike, may also be weighty, in a negative sense.
Words can make us laugh and make us cry. They can bring us comfort and distress.They can inform us, inspire us and depress us. The stronger the feelings we have for a person, place or thing - the more powerful and weighty is the word - the name - for that person, place, or thing.
Some of us remember the joy we experienced on our wedding day, when everyone wished us, “Have a wonderful life together!” Or at the birth of a child - “It’s a boy!” “It’s a girl”! Perhaps some of us also, unfortunately, remember vividly when the doctor came into the room and reported, “the cancer has spread.” Or when the police officer showed up at our front door and informed us, “there’s been a terrible accident.”
Personally, whenever possible, I like to conclude on a positive note. So, let’s not neglect to include some of the weighty words for hope and encouragement: “You’re terrific!” “Well done!” “Great job!” “Keep up the good work!” “Chin up!” “Hang in there!” “I’m proud of you!”