#a very irresponsable one and

[mishidefresa]

I have seen ppl saying that Min is SO mean to Ryan even so Ryan is so patient with Min in the bathroom scene and... idk if ppl notice this before but Ryan is a person that is really HARD to deal with, in the first episode is stablised that Ryan tents to jump in action before thinking about the consecuences and how it affects others and that's why he can't keep any relationship with all his girlfriends dumping him, Min Gi is the only constant thing in his life and that's why he keeps clingling on him despite Min's pettiness which it might seem excessive and even cruel but Min is not like that with everyone, just look how he treats kez, they first time they meet Ryan started acting angry and even a little bit vi0lent, Min is the opposite giving her the benefit of the dubt and trusting her...

It's just that Min has known Ryan all his life to the point he knows Ryan is not made of glass and can handle some harsh words (his words might be cruel but he still sticks with him saving his life and trying to "fix" the problem with Ryan without noticing he's ALSO part of the problem)... They both are mean to reach other at some point but they know each other so well that they know when it's time to calm down and look out for each other...

The bathroom scene is Ryan noticing for the first time that Min might have some trouble without thinking about is own needs first...

#sorry if there is any gramma or mistake im not used to write long text on English #but idk i get annoyed how some ppl treats ryan #uwu soft poor baby boy even so he can be #menace he's an adult lmaooo #a very irresponsable one and #Min is the type of person who would complaing all the way out and insult you but still be stick with you and help whenever u need #text post #min gi park #ryan akagi

[kaltacore]

one thing that is fascinating to me about merrill's arc is the way narrative manages to convince a big part of the fandom that she's immature and irresponsible and overall stupid. what we know about merrill and what we actually see on screen is that she successfully avoids possession for 6 years while working closely with a demon, almost every time she participates in some magic/spirit-related discourse she acts calm and confident and has some interesting input, she actively uses her knowledge of dalish lore and tradition to reason with her keeper, and that she actually did make progress with fixing and studying an ancient long forgotten artifact no one knows particularly anything about. but then an old woman who's never been shown to be an undeniably wise and reasonable figure, a guy who got willingly possessed with no awareness of possible consequences and whose whole mindset is still deeply andrastian and a bunch of people who know nothing about magic start judging and doubting her and everyone's like. yeah. she's so fucking dumb.

#that one post about your boyfriend getting tricked into believing in-universe propaganda #but in-universe propaganda in question is a little too loud opinion of incompetent people #which is like. very funny to me. because every time i leave my bubble with the most correct takes i stumble upon some da fans #who hate her guts for being an arrogant idiot and then bring up marethari as an example of Who Merrill Should Have Listened To #well i guess merrill would have listened to her if she had had smth to say except 'you have to stop and i won't explain you why' #also i guess. getting possessed to keep merrill safe (while she was as safe as 6 years ago) is not. the heroic move yall make it out to be. #and that was a lot more stupid and irresponsible than anything merrill has actually done. but i digress #merrill #dragon age

[gertritude-art]

Embarassingly, I haven't mentioned it on this blog, so I figured I would officially state that I stand against the ongoing ethnic cleansing/genocide of Palestine by Israel. I genuinely don't know what to say other than that I hope every politician - especially those in my country, the US - who has signed off on the murder of what is now twenty thousand civilians suffers forever.

#i saw someone like a post of mine that was very vocal in the opposite direction and realized with horror that most people dont follow #my other accounts #notart #anyway normally i dont make statements about this stuff on my tumblr art blog specifically #but being as the US is complicit i feel it is irresponsible not to at least make my stance known #should have mentioned it sooner on here but i forgot that this account has like. 10 thousand more than any of my other ones

[thepoisonroom]

'I flirted with the idea that instead of being trans that I was just a cross-dresser (a quirk, I thought, that could be quietly folded into an otherwise average life) and that my dysphoria was sexual in nature, and sexual only. And if my feelings were only sexual, then, I wondered, perhaps I wasn’t actually trans.

I had read about a book called The Man Who Would Be Queen, by a Northwestern University professor who believed that transwomen who were attracted to women were really confused fetishists, they wanted to be women to satisfy an autogynephilia. And though I first read about this book in the context of its debunkment and disparagement, I thought about the electricity of slipping on those tights, zipping up those boots, and a stream of guilt followed. Maybe this professor was right, and maybe I was only a fetishist. Not trans, just a misguided boy.

About a year later, on the Internet, I come across a transwoman who added a unique message to the crowd refuting this professor. Oh, I wish I remember who this woman was, and I wish even more that I could do better than paraphrase her, but I remember her saying something like this: “Well, of course I feel sexy putting on women’s clothing and having a woman’s body. If you feel comfortable in your body for the first time, won’t that probably mean it’ll be the first time you feel comfortable, too, with delighting in your body as a sexual thing?”'

-Casey Plett, Consciousness

#this quote always moves me almost to tears when i remember it #i'm not a trans woman and i don't share the author's specific experiences with transition #but it really moves me that she frame transition as joyfully giving yourself permission to approach your body #not as something that has to be disciplined and deprived and made small in all these various ways #but as a means for experiencing pleasure and joy and delight and for insisting that our feelings and desires are worth #valuing and exploring and treasuring #i always used to think of prioritizing those things for myself as selfish and irresponsible #but who does it harm to want to experience pleasure in your own body? #it's such a beautifully simple and powerful switch to have flip in your head #and equally why are we forced to deny our own pleasure in transition and anything else related to our bodies in the name of moral rectitude #this is why i get so confused and pissed off when other trans people are fatphobic for example #like why are you so invested in politics of shame and disgust that never had any purpose other than #violently disciplining people as if they've violated moral codes by existing in a body #to say nothing of white people being racist in gay and trans communities #like again this system of violence is foundational to homophobia and transphobia #so why are you acting like it has nothing to do with you #even if you are unmoved by the urgency of other people's suffering which btw you should be moved by #what do you hope to gain by acting a collaborator and handmaiden to those systems #Casey Plett #she really is one of my favorite authors i wish more non-canadians read her #this quote is from a series of columns she did ont transition and every single one is a banger #i love when she talks about the people-pleasing elements of dysphoria and transition denial #she's so sharp about noting how many of us deny our own dysphoria on the grounds that others like and validate our bodies #that's how i always felt during my cis conventionally feminine era #it pleased other people so much and also that reception felt so hollow and joyless to me because i hated it #i get less of that positive feedback but that feels so unimportant next to the joy and pleasure i get to experience #said with the understanding that i'm very privileged in being able to prioritize those things without fear. but it was a switch flip #personal nonsense

[puppyeared]

I made a lmk oc

#they’re supposed to be some sort of experiment to see if people could recreate Sun Wukongs stone egg. the goal was to make a more controlled #and tame version using carved wood and cultivation. but eventually they got worried about it becoming too powerful and scrapped it #eventually they come to life and live in the abandoned temple they were built in #their bottom half is made of wood because when they came to life their creator/s left them unfinished when they scrapped the project #they had to carve the rest of their body out of hunger and frustration because they couldn’t eat or move much by crawling on their top half #this is also why they spite their creators and hate irresponsible creation. because of abandonment issues and feeling like they have no #purpose or direction in life #their power is also very limited to due being man made since they were originally a wood carving #meo gave me the idea but one reason would be because they’re half finished. the sculpture was still half stump so it was completely untouche #that half can channel power in its raw form but the other half cannot once it’s been carved by man #so technically they could have the same level or potential for power as the stone but that was dampened #the other thing is how they were created to be a duplicate or recreation of a stone monkey and a celestial looked at that and was like #‘we’re not doing that again’ LMAO #i think the case of them carving their own legs doesn’t take away their power though. that balance was made #before they came to life so carving the legs or not can’t affect it anymore. like making a cake and slicing it #their energy levels are also naturally low because of that so their movements are sluggish and they aren’t very active overall #constantly lying in the sun to charge their batteries and get some stuff done. just like me fr #I actually don’t know what I’m gonna do with this character besides Put Them In Situations with other ppls ocs.. so if you have #a lmk oc you have been warned /lh /j #I wanna make some backstory art for them though.. maybe even the animatic treatment if I can get through dear wormwood which is 25 #SECONDS OUT OF 3 MIN BTW #doodles #Lego Monkie kid #lmk #Monkie kid #lmk oc #monkie kid oc #myart #my art #xin ya

[uncanny-tranny]

Doctors/surgeons should come before a panel of medical experts who are trans before being allowed to administer trans-specific care

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #this is a half-joke post btw #i kind of want to go in a medical field and while i don't know the ins and outs of what training is for people of minority status... #...it's probably not the best considering how many awful doctors *i've* had... #...i genuinely think we need some reconciliation of this issue because it's unhelpful at best and irresponsible and unethical in some... #...of these cases #so the panel of transsexuals is probably a hyperbole but i think if you're a doctor doing TRANS healthcare... #...then your *trans* patients should be your top priority #again i do kind of want to enter the field and while i don't want to do trans-specific care i would still put my trans patients... #...very highly when considering how to treat patients of trans experience... #...before there is misinterpretation: no i wouldn't prioritize a trans patient over a cis one #all i'm saying is that TRANS-specific healthcare providers should be required to uphold their trans patients... #...and treat them not only well but equitably. same goes for general healthcare providers... #...but it is wild to me that you don't need to have your future patients' best interest in mind in order to enter the field... #...that should be about the FIRST thing you make sure the prospective professional has no?

[leoleolovesdc]

Call me crazy, but if the batfamily was a friend group and not a family the mom friend wouldn't be Alfred, Dick or Bruce, but Tim

#hes the one taking care of everyone else #bruce is that one irresponsible suicidal friend who js forgets abt everyone else bcuz of his personal drama #dick vanishes as soon as he finds better people to hang out w #alfred is very done w everyone's shit and since he doesnt own anything to anyone he js sits back and watches the drama go down #tim is that one person who checks in on evryone to see how theyre doing #hes the glue of the group and the only persob who can arrange reunions #cause w/o him everyone would have given up on this friendship a long time ago #tim drake #robin iii #red robin #batfam #batfamily #dick grayson #bruce wayne #alfred pennyworth #dc #dc comics

[khaotunq]

uncle jim rly said this guy who's been helping with all the bills, organising my shit and trying to help save my livelihood means less to me than a guy i shagged this one time ?? make it make sense mate

#I'M NOT HATING I'M JUST SPIRALLING #ok i may be hating a lil #purely on jim everybody else is fine i even like wen #buddy u have 2 episodes to get some serious character development #but rly u only have 3 people??? r e a l l y how interesting #ignore me i'm throwing myself at walls #i'm not here for gaipajim gaipa can do better #i just think jim being like yes my only family are a one night stand an employee and my nephew i only acknowledge to yell at #it's just. it's a choice is what it is #and it's not very sexy of u jimmy boy i'm sorry to break it to u #oh god this has turned into hating i'm sorry #i'm still posting it bc i think i'm funny #like yeah sometimes family is a one night stand a fiscally irresponsible employee and the nephew you're mad at #that's cool. but /dude/. brother. buddy. pal. #moonlight chicken #mlc jim #so it is decreed #jayisms #dunno what my personal tag is still oops

[iraprince]

Came across a few of your comics (they’re great) and was about to keep scrolling and move on with my life, but then I saw you’re into planted aquariums so I had to follow. Us nerds gotta stick together ya know?

oh hell yeah, high five. i haven't posted any pictures in ages bc as my tank has reached a kind of insane unexpected equilibrium it's also become less photogenic, and i haven't wanted to disturb a stable system just to make it photograph better lol -- BUT recently i have been thinking about finally starting to fuss over it again, maybe add some new plants and some new shrimp to transition over as my current band of amanos reach the end of their lifespan, and maybe when i have that all brushed up i'll take u guys on a little tour again. (for the shrimp nerds who may be interested: i'm thinking about nabbing some neocaridinas, likely blue jelly + carbon rilli. it would be nice to have a self-sustaining colony, since obv the amanos can't breed in fresh water.)

#reluctant to talk more abt the technical stuff bc i am an Annoying Stickler abt tank stuff #and like. okay so i've reached the fabled 'no water change' tank mostly on accident. but the stickler in me feels it's irresponsible to- #casually talk about having a 'no water change' tank when in practice u should always be extremely skeptical of that concept #there is already a lot of misinformation and irresponsible breeziness abt the hobby online and i refuse 2 contribute #god forbid i become the Guy cited in someone being like 'oh well but a guy i follow online has a tank that doesnt need water changes.' ykwi #anyway. no one asked. uhhh what else. not to sound extremely blunt but the amanos should be dead by now actually #i have no idea why they're hanging on. don't get me wrong i'm very happy but every day i peer in there and i'm like. STILL? #whatever. not looking a gift horse in the mouth. (not looking my immortal shrimp in their gross little mandibles)

[donnyclaws]

I was gonan make a post apologizing for lack of regular art but I feel like jts already clear im sporadic and in and out of it bc chronic pain and circumstances. So for now I'm gonna hibernate, get my health steady again, deal with money issues, and art will happen when it happens.

#i do feel kind of worn down by it. i wish patreon and commissions didn't feel so taxing even with accommodations ive made for myself #maybe it'll feel better in the future when less is going on but rn it #places this barrier of management in front of art that makes it less relieving to do #cause there's always a part of my brain reminding me it needs to serve a purpose and needs to pay off in some way #which isn’t a new feeling for artists obviously. maybe doing it all since hs js also why it's tiring. and patreon changjng the way it does #working part time now too. idk if maybe id like to step back from it #it's abnormal that i worked taht hard and it did help me get out from my parents and stay out. but im also tired ect #idw let people down by not being able to keep up with a self imposed expectation or #be irresponsible and remove sources of income for myself. redbubble inprnt and patreon all suck in ways that bother me hugely #i only really enjoy itch.io at the minute #not to say anything bad abt patrons or commission clients you've all been excessively kind and patient and understanding always #i wish i could make them better i feel like there's no way how it is at the minute is of value compared to my output as an older teen #but yknow. self imposed worry. im just worn out and id like to just make things without the management and the fretting and the #i havent made a comic post for patreon in ages or this or this i havent made a speedpaint or a song or #yadda yadda lmao #sorry for the impromptu ramble #this isnt to say id never do commissions or a store or anything again or i want to not make money off art #god knows i will need to be grinding out comms once im well again but ex #i feel like im getting less and less able to manage it and then putting out less and less #and hoping ill somehow get very healthy and active again one day and make it worth the wait yknow. #it's not a feeling i want my art to carry in me. #part of me and the parent in my brain is saying it'd be selfish to give up income but the rest is like #that's cruel. i want to feel good and healthy

[pidayforpi]

WIP Wednesday

(Something I have written 1.5 years ago, uploaded here as a draft 0.5 years ago, and only posted now.)

(And a WIP of a work that won't be finished in the near future. But a WIP I am quite proud of, and of a story that will mean a lot to me.)

[Legit Warning: Depression, Mention of Suicidal Ideation]

...Sleep didn't help, because I couldn't sleep at all.

I just closed my eyes and waited, for varying lengths of time. And then somehow, before I knew, the sun would be back again. And now it was the start of another new day.

They kept telling me I should sleep early so that I could have the energy to enjoy the next day. But what was so great about tomorrow that I needed to sleep early for?

The vision of a new day was ever cheerful, but the morning sunlight was nothing but agonising. Mocking and taunting me for having the pleasure of living another day.

I started feeling sluggish, and the feeling intensified day by day. I didn't have a choice to just lie down and do nothing. I would just get dragged up. I would just drag myself up.

Although, sometimes, when I lay on my bed in the early morning, looking at the same old ceiling, I found myself thinking...

"I wish I never woke up again."

I wish I could just close my eyes and never open them again.

Like Sleeping Beauty in the fairy tales, falling into an eternal slumber.

And when I woke up, a prince charming would be there to give me eternal happiness.

Or I would just sleep forever, and that would be just as fine.

Because I didn't have the energy to wake up again.

I didn't have the energy to get up again.

I didn't have the energy to lie to myself anymore.

Eventually, I slept a lot more, sometimes a lot less.

Although I definitely spent a lot more time lying on my bed.

----------------------

But on that day, when I opened my eyes to the same sun...

I saw salvation.

For the first time, I found myself happy to see the light of day.

I found a purpose to wake up to.

Days are no longer colourless. Every day is an adventure. Every morning, I have something to be excited for. Every afternoon, I have something that makes me glad to be alive.

When I lay on my bed again tonight, I looked up to the stars that I had never seen in my home city. There, I finally found something that made it worth sleeping early for. I finally found something that made me look forward to tomorrow.

In this strange world, I finally found hope.

#The only context you have is that this will be a Ducktales fanfic #And a dark/sad one obviously #And a very long one too #story #storyteller #I feel irresponsible to add public tags at this point #That scene above is also inspired by something that I want to write an infodump about #(​I am okay now by the way. I am only drawing inspirations from the times when I was not okay)

[thegreenleavesofspring]

The problem with both Feminism (the political movement) and Anti-Feminism (the political movement) is that they give spineless, selfish men a free pass, in mirror image of each other. The one says that Womyn is Capable Of Anything A Man Is Capable Of (or more so, let's be honest, there are plenty of women who think that we as a society don't need men to function which is just... stunningly idiotic). The other says Well Women Have Fought To Be Equal so Any Woman Who Needs Help For Anything Is Just Entitled (which I just got told by a sterling example of the male sex. I blocked him.)

Or, in summary, Feminism (the political movement) is reeking misandry and Anti-Feminism (the political movement) is reeking misogyny.

#Where have all the good men gone #Yeah yeah “where are all the good women” #In this case? Hiding from the bad men. #Because there are no protectors left #And so hiding is the best option #I amend that: there are some protectors left #But they are a minority #Feminism has made selfishness very very easy for irresponsible men no matter which stance they take on it #Anyway this post has been brought to you by Bri Is Just Tired Of People #And has been vividly reminded today of the proportion of good men I've met versus the ones who are lackluster to despicable

[starlight-on-snow]

The way they hold each other....im passimg away......I'm going to the floor does anyone want anything

Also I just realized that his arms are in a perfect mirror of each other in these pictures I cannot go on

#true fact looking at these made my migraine ease off. im being irresponsible but it's worth it #the 1928 one could be a painting im feral look at Dea 😭 an angel #the man who laughs 1928 #the man who laughs #the grinning man #it's the way he closes his eyes in both of these like her very existence is a relief of all hurts and a joy unquenchable #it's the way she looks like there's nowhere else she'd even imagine being #FUCK #gwyndea #tmwl1928 #bovprod #*sings softly* my broken heart is mending my screaming world is healing with your looove

[doedipus]

the funny thing about going back to school in my late 20s is that I can't like, stay up especially late working on anything anymore but I do have like, a tiny bit better time management so it hasn't really come to that

#I'm also not doing this full time which helps #but I did still do a lot of irresponsible shit when I had like one or two summer classes at a time or whatever #I kinda miss summer classes #very peaceful

[buckleyseddie]

as y'all probably know already i can't enjoy things casually so i'm gonna buy another lego panda even if it's been a day since i built the two i got svdvsvd so i need your help picking which one so please vote below thank you

these are the options (i'm not including 2 or 6 cause i already have those)

#i appreciate your votes cause I don't know how to make a decision about anything ever #i wish i could order them all at once but that would definitely be a very irresponsible thing to do lmao #so I'll get one (maybe two) at a time #polls

[necromancy-enthusiast]

Me: Hmm I like Luxord but honestly out of every Organization XIII member he's probably the one I think about the least. I wouldn't say my least favorite, he just. I dunno. Doesn't come up as often as the others.

Also me: *headcanons time magic as being very rare in the Kingdom Hearts universe and that Luxord is a very powerful time mage and has a whole set of rules for how exactly his time magic works that don't at all take Nomura's attempts to cobble time travel rules together for the series into account because tbh I can't bring myself to care about that, and also that he purposefully limits himself not only because time magic is very powerful and potentially dangerous, but because he doesn't want to stick out and get murdered for being an overachiever.*

#he himself doesn't time travel but he could. theoretically. though he thinks it's irresponsible so he doesn't. #I'm very autistic about these people ok even the ones i'm the least autistic about. #necro plays kingdom hearts