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figdays · 1 year

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long unique handmade glass earrings // Arey

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traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors · 8 months

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hi.. so you can call me arey. im tired. so very tired. and im looking for.. support? someone to listen? i think i just want to get it out of me. i have no friends. because i just feel used a lot of the time. i go through days where things are okay and then days where i dont really see a point of my existence. i have a kind and patient boyfriend but its hard to make him understand it all. he doesn’t really.. know how to talk to me. and i dont want to breakup with him because 1. im terrified of what he’ll feel. and 2. i don’t want to make an impulsive decision. i just dont know if i can be happy. not just with him but with anyone. i go through so many emotions and i dont talk about them at all. i want.. connection. but i want connection without worrying about how long i have to rest for because my soul is so heavy.

Hi arey,

I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been going through. It can feel incredibly isolating to not only have very little friends, but to have a boyfriend that doesn't really understand what you're going through. Although it makes absolute sense to feel that isolation and even questioning your own existence, please know that you're not alone in experiencing these things.

Regarding your partner, it may be worth examining this fear of what he might feel if you broke up with him. Wanting to protect people from their own emotions is empathetic, but ultimately unhealthy. How your boyfriend may react to you breaking up with him doesn't deserve to be a barrier if leaving the relationship is something you're considering. It can be painful to recognize that we ultimately cannot protect others from whatever emotions they may experience, and in many ways those emotions are necessary for healthy expression and growth. For the sake of your personal autonomy and mental health, the option of breaking up should be an easily accessible option if it is something you wish.

Sometimes this can be a part of a codependent relationship, which can be characterized by excessive caretaking, a lack of boundaries, a fear of abandonment, and avoidance of confrontation. This article explains a bit more about what codependency means. This article talks about how protecting partners from their emotions works in the context of a codependent relationship. It's important to remember that relationships where a partner seeks to protect the other partner from their emotions isn't inherently codependent, however. That being said, I did want to throw that term out there to see if it's something you resonate with and that you feel applies to the context of your relationship.

I also hear that another concern of yours regarding potentially breaking up with your partner is that the decision may be impulsive. It's important to consider that while you deserve to take your time in determining what is best for you, you also deserve to be in a fulfilling relationship that also meets your emotional needs and a partner that can effectively communicate with you. It is completely reasonable to desire the connection you seek in an intimate relationship, especially on a deep emotional level.

If you can access or afford it, a mental health professional such as a therapist could best help you in navigating the complexities of your relationship, exploring your feelings about the relationship, and constructing a game plan moving forward, whether that means continuing the relationship or parting ways. A therapist could also help ensure that those moments of not seeing a point in your existence doesn't escalate into suicidal thoughts or attempts.

I hope I could help, and please know that we're here if you need anything.

-Bun

#mod bun #trauma talks #arey

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kannibalkrunch · 2 years

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On today's walk I was lucky enough to meet these two gorgeous doggies. Arey is a 5 year old male Husky and Kingsley is an 11 year old female English Springer Spaniel. The sun was hot and shining brightly. #dogsofinstagram #dogs #Husky #englishspringerspaniel #2022 #summervibes☀️ #Kingsley #Arey (at German Mills Creek) https://www.instagram.com/p/CiQ0BZaOKXn/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#dogsofinstagram #dogs #husky #englishspringerspaniel #2022 #summervibes☀️#kingsley #arey

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areislol · 5 days

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regarding my isekai hsr fic, here's a little something. it's in no specific order btw!!

who worships you the most?

boothill — he worships you alright, he worships you hard. the second he glances at you he'll be in disbelief, on his knees and (if he can) crying.

gallagher — worships you a little bit too much but not as much as boothill. goes a bit crazy when he's near you for some reason.

caelus — LOVES YOU. ADORES YOU. WANTS TO SMOOCH YOU

welt — he isn't technically from the current world he's in right now, so he doesn't know you like the others BUT that doesn't stop him from respecting you. if anything he's more curious to learn about you.

blade — epitome of obsessed. worships you every day, afternoon and night. the second someone swears in your name.... wellllll lets say you wont see them again!

jing yuan — same with blade. he has an unhealthy obsession with you. when he finds you in your comet trust me he will make sure that he's the FIRST one that you see. poor baby, he just wants your praises.

argenti — you are the beauty he's searching for. (says enough)

dr ratio — you were the only to grant him with such wisdom... trust, when you arrive and settle down for a bit he'll be bombarding you with questions that he himself ponders and doesn't know the answer to.

sunday — LOVES YOU!!!! YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN!!!! will push someone out of the way if he must to snap a photo of you.

aventurine — loves you more than his life.

gepard — sweet little baby!!! he isn't exactly obsessed but will drop everything to do as you say.. very obedient i have to say

imbibitor lunae — adores you so so much it's a bit insane.

luocha — keep him locked away

#hsr x reader #hsr x you #—✧ · . areis rambles

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thatseitagremlin · 26 days

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gremlyn's danganronpa: despair time x limbus company au (drdt spoilers under cut up to chapter 2!!)

i LOVE making aus with a target audience of one person (1) by blendering two of my current interests together. this truly was our despair time.

everyone except mai's "sprites" are drawn based on official sprites, and they're meant to be height accurate! or, uh, a valiant attempt was made. at the very least i got to practice drawing everyone 🎉

(complete but constantly changing AU & character notes under cut: LOTS and i mean LOTS of yapping down there. spoilers up to chapter 2 and literature girl insane MV. content warning for "standard danganronpa stuff"; the hidden text in here is about the same level as drdt's hidden tumblr page quotes)

first up is a quick crash course on limbus company! that being said, i don't think i explained myself well at all, so i recommend just checking out the official website. or straight up playing it. i'm happy to answer any and all questions, though, whether here or in my limbus-centric main (@iamjustagremlin)!

and now here are the character notes. i have a Lot to say.

one more minor thing i'm 99% sure forgot to include and am too lazy to fix: the canon sinners are each assigned a color code and a cool descriptor (it doesn't even need to be an adjective. cool factor always wins), such as "oblivion yellow", "dreamy gray", and "inferno red". my brain won't let me tackle these yet, but my first attempt for xander was "courageous crimson", and my first attempt for teruko was "cursed clover".

once again, if you've made it this far: thank you for reading! and my askbox is always open for mutual brainrotting 👉 👈

(also, if you squint at the character notes for long enough, there might be even more to read... it's not much, but it's honest work. do note that it should be about as "heavy" as drdt's hidden tumblr page quotes)