#at this point this is just malicious ignorance

[comradekatara]

Can you go a bit more in depth about your post about Sokka in the Burning Rock episode? You said that it was basically his suicide mission, which I agree with. I'd really like to hear more of your thoughts on it.

okay yeah i mean i'm sure i've covered all these points before extensively because i love weaving a tapestry of sokka's fucked up psychological landscape more than anything in the world, but every so often someone will comment on one of my posts and be like "i think you're reaching i think sokka is the paragon of mental health actually" and i'm just like um. did we not all watch the boiling rock. did we just ignore the apotheosis of sokka's entire character arc. like katara's apotheosis in "the southern raiders" is both very overt and impactful and also, arguably, subtler than sokka's, because they don't explicitly spell out the themes every five seconds, but like. if you didn't watch the boiling rock then you cannot understand sokka. and weirdly enough i also believe that zuka shippers are the biggest culprit of this despite this episode being thee zucchini episode because they somehow still have the audacity to characterize sokka as "goofy sunshine who exists to comfort zuko" when like. the entire point is that sokka is legitimately suicidal here and zuko is doing everything in his power to support him thru what is quite literally a mental breakdown. like their relationship is legitimately interesting i don't understand how people have taken that and made it deeply boring.....but i digress.

the boiling rock is quite obviously sokka at his lowest. the worst thing that could ever happen to him – fumbling a mission that was squarely his responsibility, from its conception to its execution, due to not being able to sufficiently compartmentalize his emotions, leading to the mass imprisonment of most of his comrades, including the men of his tribe whom he idolized his entire life and felt immense pressure to live up to, including his father who he is deathly afraid of disappointing (for reasons that have nothing to hakoda being malicious or neglectful in any way, fwiw), and thus being directly implicated in the failure and the harm caused by said failure – happened. sokka is someone who is especially bad at dealing with failure, because a) he is exceptionally talented, and thus has less experience dealing with failure in both minor and major ways, and thus lacks the emotional resilience developed through the process of struggle and growth that normal people (such as, incidentally, zuko) go through and b) to sokka, whose primary desire at all times is to protect and provide for others in any way he possibly can, for someone else to sacrifice themselves for him constitutes a fundamental disruption to the order. there is a perverse wrongness to kya or yue or hakoda or suki making sacrifices on their own volition, because it means that sokka has existentially failed to protect them by martyring himself. like, he somehow feels so guilty about suki being imprisoned that when azula reveals this piece of information to him, it literally distracts him from his own mission. and mind you, there's absolutely no way sokka could have known or been responsible for suki's imprisonment. but he still feels guilty nonetheless. and azula knows that, knows exactly how to twist the knife to make him break, because, well, it's honestly pretty obvious.

sokka obviously cannot retroactively save his mother or his first girlfriend, but he can save his father and his current girlfriend. in "the awakening" aang says he has to restore his honor after the guilt and shame of his failure in ba sing se (aang is also an incurable gifted kid perfectionist, btw, as is azula. posts for another time...) and sokka repeats zuko's line again in this episode, after experiencing the guilt and shame of his failure during the eclipse. the driving motivation of zuko's entire character, feeling like he has failed in some ontological way and must therefore redeem himself or die trying, is reinforced through aang and sokka's respective experiences mirroring that drive. aang goes out in a storm and nearly drowns to redeem himself in some vague, nebulous way, because he isn't thinking rationally. and likewise sokka, who usually always has a plan and always thinks things through, feels that caution and foresight is pointless, because he came up with a genuinely brilliant invasion plan and it didn't work, so clearly there's something wrong with him (just as he always suspected) and no amount of planning even matters, because he's a capital F Failure and always will be. and so he vows to save his father, as he promised him he would when they parted on the day of black sun, or die trying, because if he can't even do that then what is he good for; at least he'll die a martyr, which to him, is basically his ideal situation. because to sokka, dying as a martyr is basically the highest form of fulfilling his purpose (being needed, protecting people) and so if he dies a martyr, then maybe his catastrophic failure (that is entirely his fault and rests squarely on his shoulders btw) can be forgiven. so his plan is basically just to sacrifice himself for his father so that he can die "redeemed." very normal, rational, healthy behavior, i would say.

sidenote, i also see people claim that "the boiling rock" makes sokka look stupid because why wouldn't he take any of the insanely talented benders to a prison in a giant volcano surrounded by a boiling lake, and it's like. sokka literally admits that he's not being rational, that he doesn't think he's going to survive this, that this is not a good idea. it would go against sokka's entire modus operandi if he brought the children who he feels a deep, presiding responsibility to protect on a suicide mission that he's lowkey hoping will fail (because he not so secretly loves courting death. it's like she's the moon or something). he only lets zuko come with him because he doesn't actually care whether zuko lives or dies at this point. sokka has absolutely no faith in zuko whatsoever (and frankly, why would he, zuko has yet to actually prove himself to him. he didn't even kill combustion man; sokka did) so he has no idea that zuko is actually going to be helpful and supportive in a meaningful way. and frankly, if he had known that at the beginning, or even remotely liked zuko as a person, he probably wouldn't have caved so easily when zuko invited himself to join. if he didn't think that zuko was objectively worse than him and basically worthless as a human being, i doubt he would have let himself be so vulnerable with zuko in the first place. meanwhile zuko is eating it up bc he's like "omg he's confiding in me he's letting me help him we're basically besties" because he doesn't actually know sokka well enough to realize that sokka doesn't actually do that shit with people he remotely respects. shit like "my first girlfriend turned into the moon" and "i had a feeling this was going to be a one way trip" are simply not things that sokka would say out loud 98% of the time. the fact that he is admitting something real is not a testament to the trust he places in zuko, but rather the opposite. sokka spilling his guts (you know, for him) to his resident collateral damage, sokka bringing his lovingly crafted space sword on this mission, sokka not even confirming whether or not his father is actually there beforehand – he's simply stopped giving a fuck, he doesn't care whether or not he lives to see another day, because to him, he has nothing left to lose.

but of course, that also isn't true at all. i mean, for one thing, zuko still needs to teach aang firebending, so he does serve a pretty important function to the group, and zuko simply telling him to do hot squats in his absence does not qualify as significant tutelage. but also, even more importantly, sokka is integral to the fabric of the group. when he's gone for a day in "sokka's master" they literally all just shut down and start complaining about how much they miss him (we don't actually see any b-roll of the gaang hanging around the western air temple because the episode is simply too busy for that, so who can say whether the same thing occurs twice). sokka cannot afford to simply die just because his first plan failed, he still has a major responsibility to his friends. fucking idiot. i've said before that sokka has the emotional resilience of like. a pathetic wet newborn kitten caught in the rain. but like, come on man. i mean, as someone who has also suffered from debilitating perfectionist issues and never had to be responsible for a failed military invasion that cost my people their freedom, i do get it, but still. not his best moment. although there is something genuinely admirable about the fact that after he finds suki, he decides that saving suki is enough, and genuinely does want to succeed in his mission going forward. like his love for suki is one of the only things that consistently makes him happy and makes him forget that his greatest dream in life is to be murdered, and that's so beautiful to me.

the entire point of this episode, by the way, is that sokka is wrong. if that isn't obvious. sokka's entire worldview, that he only has value insofar as he exists to provide for others, and if he fails to protect people in any capacity, he has fundamentally failed to uphold the one reason he even exists on this earth, and thus he does not deserve to exist unless he is bearing the weight of everyone's suffering or otherwise proving his worth through sacrificing himself for others, is um. fucking stupid???? and incorrect. and stupid. the thing is, unlike zuko, sokka can't really point to any one person who taught him to see himself this way. he can't just face his father and tell him that his abuse was cruel and wrong, because hakoda is a good father who has never not supported and believed in and encouraged him, done everything in his power to protect him, loved him unconditionally. hakoda has inadvertently damaged sokka's psyche in various ways, of course, but never with any intention to hurt him. like, ozai tried to kill zuko, on multiple occasions. it's a pretty obvious indicator of the primary source of harm in his life. but sokka is equally if not more Unwell, and there's no one single figure he can blame, because his complex lies within a tangled web of what my best friend fanon calls the "massive psychoexistential complex" of the colonized subject. he is being dehumanized not through interpersonal abuse, but through the violent logic of imperialism. sokka's formative traumas inform his psychology as he understands that he only has value insofar as he is protecting the people he loves (namely his sister) from being murdered by imperialists, much like his mother did. and that logic is continually reified through the violence he is being subjected to, until he truly absorbs the belief that his life has no value on its own, that he is genuinely Less than [human] in some fundamental way. which is obviously deeply tragic, but also lowkey kind of comical because he also happens to be the specialest boy in the world, who literally did come up with multiple working escape plans at the world's most secure supermax on the fly, mind you! but whenever anyone tries to point that out, including piandao literally saying "you're the most exceptional and worthy person i've ever met in my life" sokka is just like "um. that is incorrect actually." like NO ONE should depersonalize themselves and feel that their only value lies in their ability to serve and sacrifice themselves for others, but it's especially ironic that sokka literally does not think he has any value as a human being, and yet he is also objectively exceptional. like, do you understand why i adore this character so much. do you.

anyway. the point of this episode isn't that sokka has worth because he's exceptional, either. that's lowkey the point of "sokka's master," but also a) sokka doesn't really internalize it and b) the more important part of the episode lies in how much the gaang just misses his company because they miss their neurotic control freak big brother who makes bad jokes. but even if he couldn't come up with multiple working escape plans on the fly, suki and zuko still stay by his side anyway because they care about him. they are demonstrating that they would risk their safety and possibly even their lives, in the exact way that sokka is always trying to for everyone else, for him. that sokka doesn't need to be the one who always protects everyone else, and that he isn't a failure for letting people who care about him help him and protect him. and sokka has to accept their help, because suki and zuko are simply too stubborn not to force him into letting them support him. they are standing in a literal maximum security prison in the middle of a volcano and they are still choosing to prioritize sokka's mental health and wellbeing, which is honestly crazy, but also exactly what he needs in this moment. suki has known sokka for what, 3 days maximum? yes they're soulmates but like, girl get up. and in zuko's case, "girl get up" is magnified tenfold, because he literally risked his life to go with him to the boiling rock (also largely motivated by the guilt of not being able to stage his own prison break with iroh, but still!) and let himself get imprisoned despite being the fire nation's most wanted criminal, stayed by sokka's side no matter what including getting thrown into a literal torture chamber for him, jumped across a gaping boiling chasm with no guarantee that he'd survive except for the implicit expectation that sokka would catch him on the other side. like zuko is so fucking pussywhipped and sokka didn't even value him as a human being until like halfway through their entire mission. insane.

in conclusion: "the boiling rock" is a beautiful story of the most mentally ill boy on the planet (he took first place ever since jet died rip jet forever in our hearts), and his two ride or die bitches who he met like yesterday, and also his dad, and a casual homophobe named chit sang, all working together to demonstrate to him why killing yourself is a bad idea in most cases, probably. it's also the story of the most insane dyke drama of all time, but that's for another post (of which i have of course made multiple, most recently, here). i said it's the apotheosis of sokka's arc, and by that i mean it's the most overt acknowledgement of what his fundamental issue is, and the first steps one must take in actually resolving it (namely, accepting help and support from your peers and loved ones). do i think that sokka is magically cured after returning from the boiling rock? no, probably not (in fact, because i'm somewhat sick & twisted myself, i like to imagine that once the war ends, he actually gets worse). but he does seem genuinely happier after they return. and maybe that's just bc kyoshi warrior pussy hits different, but like. he was able to rely on others for help (including mai my best friend mai) who supported him unconditionally and prevented him from simply giving up, and that's so incredibly important. that kind of support is always important, to everyone, of course, but as we've established, it's especially important to sokka specifically, at his lowest (quite possibly ever), in this situation. no one has an obligation to risk their life for someone else, but sokka is something who thinks that his purpose is to risk his life for other people (namely katara), and so for people who really have nothing to gain and everything to lose in standing by and promising not to leave without him, to actually show that they support him unconditionally is huge. if sokka has no fans then i am dead and so is suki zuko hakoda toph aang piandao iroh the mechanist etc etc etc. perfect episode <3

#suicide / #writergracethepanda #asks #analysis #sokka #sokkaxsuki #cinematic masterpiece the boiling rock part 2 #(technically i use that tag to talk about maizulee but swagever) #this post is basically just stream of consciousness unstructured rambling so i hope you find it valuable in some way... #at this point i've given up on trying to do Readings of and make Arguments about sokka #and i'm just rambling. i posted a whole fucking. ACTUAL essay about him yesterday and no one read it #but this is not that. this is. who even knows. it's certainly not an ''essay'' #my thesis statement: i love sokka so much #my body paragraphs: hes a weak willed mentally ill fucking IDIOT #just trust me ok. trust the process

[iersei]

okay. let's talk about black terry jr.

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TL;DR: terry jr is black. that is something that should not be erased. regardless of your access to or willingness to search for the canon material that confirms this, you should not be depicting him as white. whitewashing terry by refusing to think of him as black creates an unsafe space for our black community members, and you should re-examine your personal biases if you choose to insist on continuing to see terry as white.

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terry jr is black. point-blank. and if terry jr is canonically black, then he should be depicted as such.

i will concede that it is something that you might not spot if you listen through the podcast casually. it's something that i didn't know was actually official in any capacity until recently. and i would like to note that i do not have and have never had access to the dndads patreon. i have not listened to any of the teen talks in full (even the ones released to the public. it's just not my jam.), and any information or spitballing contained within is something that i have either been told second-hand or am completely unaware of. i also didn't look at the official poster (the "everything is alright" poster) that depicted both terry jr and samantha as black.

but the fact of the matter remains that terry jr and samantha are black and have been acknowledged as such within the source material.

once again, i myself didn't seek this information out enough to know it was official canon. so then why have i always depicted them as black anyway?

well when i started engaging with the fandom, i saw what was being presented to me in the fandom was overwhelmingly that terry was indeed black or at least popularly interpreted to be black. and my first and only thought was that that was nice. so i decided to roll with it.

if i really wanted to check if that was canon and it being canon was important to me, i could always have asked around. i could've sought out information from official sources. because if they were black and i just missed it in some way, i would've wanted to check myself. especially because doing so would lead to whitewashing.

but i didn't feel the need to do that because i think that just the added racial diversity was really cool to see on its own.

for argument's sake, there is still the possibility that you'd think it is simply just popular fanon. let's say you chose to not check for yourself whether or not he was canonically black. or let's say that, for whatever reason, you think that what is available isn't enough to sufficiently deem him canonically black. so let's discuss why terry should still be depicted as black even if it was "just" fanon and there were no official artworks to go off of.

i am not of the opinion that fanon in general should be taken as gospel. in fact, there are quite a few things within dndads fanon itself that i personally disagree with and choose not to engage with. the reason why this interpretation in particular is a sore spot is the question of why, after seeing the popular portrayal and recognizing the ability to create racial diversity in a space where a good amount of appearances and identities can be up for interpretation, someone would still choose to depict him as white.

why do you choose to depict him as white? do you have any personal biases that make you think that he would or should be white? do you think that it is unimportant or inconsequential to not depict him as a person of color?

what would be so compelling about making him white that you would choose to go against this interpretation? why is it so important that you continue to see him as white?

who are you ignoring in the process?

i do not think it is deliberately malicious to initially think that terry jr is white. it is the unfortunate truth that white tends to be considered the default. but it begins to rub me the wrong way when anyone chooses to stick with that idea when presented with any evidence or argument to the contrary.

though i will admit that i am not black, i am still a person of color. and i think that creating a fandom space where we can highlight, create, and celebrate racial variety means creating a space where people of color feel safer. and because i would like to uplift the black fandom member who tried to voice their own personal take on this matter, i would like to link back to [this post from vivalapersistence] as the reason why i felt compelled to talk about this in the first place.

i don't want to talk over him, but i want to point out his statement that having this kind of solid representation is important and means something to him as a black person in this community. erasing terry as black means that you would be, intentionally or not, erasing and silencing black voices. it takes away that element of representation within the fandom and does real harm to the black people within when you decide that that representation isn't important. there are real racial connotations to the argument here, and it's frankly a little callous to pretend like there's not.

so maybe let's be nice to the BIPOC in our community spaces, okay?

and i want to make it clear right now. if you want to discuss what i say here, you can discuss this with me.

#sigh. i typically don't fuck around in quote unquote “fandom drama” #but i really wanted to make my stance clear #dndads #idc this goes in the main tag i want my stance heard too

[greencheekconure27]

Every day.Every day I'm subjected to "cute" or "funny" videos of pet birds interacting with cats or dogs or ferrets. For the last time internet people:

These.Are.NOT. Cute.

No matter how trained the animals are or how "friendly" the interactions look to humans-and they frequently are not- anyone who's making these is actively endangering their bird- and possibly also their dog/cat for likes.

Cats and dogs are not only predators, they can easily kill a bird through normal play behaviours as well- one hard smack from a cat can be enough to kill or severely injure something like a budgie or a cockatiel.and I'm not even talking about things like play biting here.

And even the friendliest best trained most passive cat might not be able to resist their natural instinct to chase birds. One slip up is enough.

On top of that cat saliva contains bacteria that are toxic to birds.

Please stop. Don't like these, don't reblog these, and most definitely do not make these.

Sincerely, someone who owns both birds and cats.

#rant #i don't know how many times we need to re #at this point this is just malicious ignorance #not cute #birblr #cute animal videos #cats #cat videos #bird videos #dog videos #pet endangerment #predator-prey interactions

[sysig]

Bad time of it, all things considered (Patreon)

#Doodles #SCII #Helix #ZEX #Blood #Just a bit but y'know - Enough #It honestly made me So sad that it took until his canonmates saw it happen that someone /finally/ acknowledged his spontaneous cuts D: #Like I get it it's dark and it's hard to see but his skin just opened up and he made a noise about it! The possible danger!! #And then by that point he's just so used to everyone ignoring it that their concern for him is barely even a factor weh ZEX ;; #Plus it's just a cool effect haha - sudden blood from nothing! Very rich mental movement #At least Max had someone concerned for him about it <3 Not that he could do anything about it but even just the validation of seeing it! #He has enough cuts on him :( Poor tenderized flesh #He gets all crabby from being sore from healing constantly haha :'D Of course he would! #One thing I found very interesting was the scar sidedness :0 Most of the examples in the gallery have his scar and missing eye opposite #But that's not necessarily the case! I actually scoured mid-read and there /are/ a couple instances of matching side! #They're very tiny so I overlooked them upon first viewing hehe ♪ But they're there! It's very interesting to me! #I like the aesthetics of the opposite - probably because I'm more used to it lol - but I can see the appeal and reasoning for the other way #I do honestly enjoy how much is open to interpretation and allowance uwu♪ And what's consistent! Like how it's always his right eye :D #That tracks hehe ♫ #Haha his meeting with his delightfully inept counselor - I'm pretty sure I was actually more angry about his supposed injury than he was #He chilled out pretty quickly while I was just - A Scratched Cornea??? The disrespect!! #So happy with his eyebrow expression on that one as well ah <3 #It really does make me curious for how the staff is kept there - they don't /seem/ malicious during the day! But they're also unaware #It's interesting where the lines of reality are between everyone :D Very interesting ♪ #Capping off with another song my playlist is looking quite healthy now hehe #Flagpole Sitta is one of those songs that only comes up for me every half dozen years or so but when it Does - phewph #It is /such/ a ZEX song to me now hehe <3 The flirtiness and exasperation - the defeatism even! So many killer lines #I think my favourite is ''I'm not sick but I'm not well'' ask me to read into that I will I'm gonna I'll do it even if you don't ask me lol #So fun to draw those lapses in control the poor dear ♥ #The digital reconstruction there was a lot of fun as well actually :D I think I nailed it :3 Pulled around from all over the page! Pleased ♪

[mountmortar]

i know this is my pokémon blog but i gotta say it. if you use windows i'm so fucking sorry i don't know how you guys deal with it

#modern windows is one of the most convoluted malicious operating systems i've ever seen in my fucking life #if you need windows for work or video games or something this is your sign from god to dual boot a linux distro on your computer/laptop/etc #and fuck i mean. gaming on linux is already getting a million times better than it was. and if anyone has ever told y'all that #linux was complicated to set up IGNORE THEM!!!! yes there are distros that require some assembly when installing #but there are also SOOOOO MANY that are as easy as windows to just install and start using. EASIER even #and fuck i mean i would even recommend mac over windows at this point even with mac's laundry list of problems #awful. all of it awful i tell you #i have recommendations for easy user-friendly distros. btw. if anyone's curious at all. #AND!!! THE THING ABOUT INSTALLATION!!! you can test out live version of them without ever installing them to see if you like it #if you boot it from a usb stick!!! #SO YOU CAN MAKE SURE YOU'RE COMFORTABLE WITH IT BEFORE EVER INSTALLING IT!!!! #like. head in my hands. haaaaate modern windows SO bad

[appsa]

Very interesting how all the siblings recreate the idea of logan so differently.

Shiv trying so hard to believe that her father wasnt Actually a fascist or an abuser but that he put his beliefs aside so that he could focus on profit and so thats what she does when negotiating with mencken. Its so hard for her to stomach the idea that her father was complicit in all the abuses the company was responsible for, that she turns to frank and karl for reassurance that he was actually a good man.

Kendall knowing full well that he's a terrible father and still going after custody because thats what dad would do. Thats what he Did. Still going after the ceo position even when everyone knows, he knows, deep down, that he doesnt deserve it because he has blood on his hands. Dad knew he was a terrible person who didnt deserve any of what he had and was paranoid about it, but he still kept it because it was his right to have it. So kendall gets to do it too. Its his right as the first born.

And roman having the most violent image of their father, tapping into the worst his father had to offer by swinging the election in menckens favour and eventually punishing himself when he just couldnt hack it like the other two could at least attempt to because hes too soft.

#roman is soooo funny like he fucked america by getting that freak elected and then was like #actually maybe fascism isnt my thing anymore......... #shiv has been agonizing over her dad actually being a terrible human being for so long like... that scene was just pitiable #like. at this point if u dont know if ur dad was a horrible person......... ur just being maliciously ignorant #succession #succession spoilers #its just very interesting how their images all differ

[theghostofashton]

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#tangentially related to that post too i think online conceptions of bigotry sometimes fall into everything being intentional and malicious #when a lot of times it just isn't #the society we live in is ableist and racist and homophobic and transphobic and all kinds of bigoted that is the world we've been raised in #and that results in people having blind spots and being ignorant and having things to unlearn #sometimes you don't even realize what you're saying or thinking is racist it's not this cartoon villain rubbing hands together type evil #it's literally just existing in this society and recognizing you may have biases and it's important when someone points that out to examine #to take a step back and think about what they're saying and what you believe and why you believe it #so often i feel like there's so much defensiveness around being called out for racism or any other bigotry because it's Bad #and no one wants to be Bad #but people also don't want to do the work to really understand what it is #it isn't an identity something you are or you aren't it's about actions and words reinforcing harmful systems #that anyone is capable of #but we can't get to that point without doing the work of understanding what these bigotries are and how they function #instead of deeming them Bad and moving on and not doing any further investigation

[hadoriel]

God I wish so bad I didn't have RSD. I didn't even know it was thing until a few years ago but it's been constant in my life and I hate how much it cripples me over the stupidest things

#personal #just writing a response to an anon that either willfully misunderstood me or possibly just didn't know kicks the wind out of me and has me #crying for hours over the stupidest stuff #everyone says to ignore strangers online but I feel unable to no matter how hard I might try #and it gets to the point that I'm frothing and sobbing and can't control the massive tide of overwhelming bad I feel #like my brain gets input: 'possibly stupid people misunderstood you' and brain ends up with 'you're worse than Hitler kill yourself' #I always want to teach and reach out to people to tell them things and it overrides everything else #but people rarely want to learn and are often callous if not malicious and I end up like this even from the softest rejection of myself

[bleetusmcyeetus]

Do you think my crush will notice I’m flirting with her if I say “good morning you fucking faggot❤️❤️” every day and send her fanart of the founding fathers getting fucked?

#malicious gay faggotry #MALICIOUS GAY FAGGOTRY LMAO #gay #girl crush #me trying to flirt #she actually had a crush on me at one point #but we ignored each other for a month #so I think she just hates me now #lovingly hates me #we still talk #i don’t know why i’m posting this

[nagitoedit]

looking at some of these people online are making me think it should be legal and even encouraged for me to kill these people with hammers.

#i dont even know how to insult these people like at this point i just straight up think they dont deserve life LAWL #like. look in the comments on most instagram videos and tell me there is no such thing as a worthless human #someone has an exotic cat breed and in the video says that they would not recommend this cat breed to Anyone because #this cat is very high maintenance and constantly begs to be left outside and shows some clips on this guy walking the cat on a leash #in an obviously urban area and the comments are like 'i live on a farm and i always let my cats outside youre cruel for locking her up' #and this person is having to explain a trillion times that if they let her off leash outside that She Will Be Stolen. #justoh my god. did you not see where this guy lives ?? she will either get hit by a car drink antifreeze or get stolen. what even #and thats just a milder example of someone whos just kinda willfully ignorant and stupid. there is sososo much worse stuff #i cant even begin to explain just how much i want these people to get dropped in the middle of the pacific ocean and left to die #i just genuinely dont think there is hope for these people to be honest like. theres just no way to describe them other than stupid #but its worse than stupid its worse than willful ignorance it has to be at this point just some kind of purposeful pure malice #towards the concept of humanity . there is just no way to get that stupid and deeply genuinely maliciously ignorant on accident #i feel like there is just. genuine unintended ignorance and then theres just pure malice. honestly even if it isnt the effect is the same #i think they should get killed with hammers

[worm-priest]

Ok this is kind of a vent post but

I saw a post on Twitter with more than 1k likes that was just dteam stans shitting on Fundy. And the thing is - I understand not supporting someone because you think they did something wrong, but this is just beating a dead horse. This dude hasn’t streamed in almost a year and they still can’t shut up about him.

But what i think is the most annoying part is that of ALL people i don’t think Dream stans should have a lot to say about it 🫤 And don’t get me wrong, I like dream and (at this point in time) I still support him but he could learn from Fundy about confronting his bad actions/behaviours. And of course D stans wouldn’t know that, because they don’t actually watch Fundy and they don’t care if he changed anything about himself.

You know, i thought we agreed that people can learn and change but apparently it’s only people we like.

#vent post #fundy #fundylive #and this isn’t me attacking Dream - im actually a big fan of his #but people don’t understand that fundy is treated by dteam stans the same as Dream is treated by his antis #you can tell that all of fundys bad pastactions come from him beying and extremely sheltered guy who didn’t have any friends who could #confront/challenge the things he says #he never said anything out of malicious intent just ignorance #you can tell that he’s a good person who always tries to be open and understanding but he just didn’t have the knowledge to do it corectly #these tags are a mess i don’t know if i put my point across well

[troonwolf]

I’m sorry but I’m genuinely disgusted and annoyed by that person 

1. vaguing me instead of growing a pair and actually engaging me on my stance and why I have it

2. basically invalidating a ton of people’s trauma and abuse by stating that if it wasn’t intentional it doesn’t count

3. showing their ass by not even realising most cults didn’t start with intentional malice and the grand majority of cult members are brainwashed victims

I can’t believe someone in the fucking DID COMMUNITY would say something so ridiculously ignorant. no wonder y’all won’t accept endos are a cult WHEN YOU LITERALLY DON’T KNOW WHAT A CULT IS

#tbf I have screenshotted people instead of confronting them but that was more because it seemed like the post wasn't made to be debated #but I still have something to say on it etc #whereas chief over here #just seems severely uneducated on what he's talking about #also in those cases I'm usually talking to myself and don't tag it in a way where they're meant to see it #wheras I'm obv gonna see that and be pissed off because you ignored all of my points #invalidated any cult survivor's trauma that ''wasnt done maliciously'' ????? #then focused on like the one or two points I didn't outright outline #because I assumed people would be good faith enough to check the tag I left #and see all those other things happening anyway #like I'm not saying you're intenionally dishonest but I am saying you didn't even give my post a chance before deciding to get haughty

[yesfxckyxu]

HATE LANGUAGE TEST

Inconvenience

Also known as “being an annoying little shit just to piss you off.” This hate language is small, but can really get to your enemies. Inconvenience is a hate language in which you do things that you know will generally inconvenience the person you hate. Drinking the last of the milk and leaving the empty jug in the fridge, putting dishes in the wrong place, things that cause them to do more work, all on purpose. Though not all small things, the biggest forms of this hate language are usually in the forms of “pranks.” Clownery, trickery, acting like a jester just to drive the people you hate insane. Your most likely crime would probably be vandalism, but c'mon it was just a prank. If its worth anything, though, you’re pretty damn hilarious.

tagged: stole from @moonglittering​ tagging: you ;p 

#(( tbf as this is accurate )) #(( if Jack does truly 'hate' you )) #(( its a slippery slope to just tormenting you maliciously just for laughs )) #(( cause at that point he'd just start using things he knows against you in cruel ways )) #(( making -you- the joke than the 'pranks' themselves )) #(( if that makes sense )) #(( as normally he'd only go that far if his 'enemy' was a common occurrence )) #(( and he wanted to do something about it )) #(( other times if he truly hates you he would ignore your entire existence )) #(( as he would find it meaningless to him )) #(( since he would get more bored 'playing the same tricks' )) #c!jack headcanons;; #headcanons;; #dash games;;

[jamminvroomvroom]

i swear y’all start fucking crying if someone sneezes at mclaren lord

#why are we going back to monza #daniel won bc he was faster and bc he was supposed to #lando lost in sochi. yes. he learnt a lot that day #if you don’t like lando just ignore him #he says stupid (not malicious which is they key point) shit all the time we been fucking knew #it’s never that deep #fucking get on with it

[mbat]

(ignore me i just want to put this somewhere idk)

oh i just had the most ridiculous realization

so in 2019 when i was 16 i dived hard into my atheism (i was an atheist before then, im still an atheist) and i got a bit dickish about it (im not proud of it, i fucked up a whole relationship with it) and i think i just connected some dots but also this could seriously be a 'i just connected the dots' 'you didnt connect shit' 'ive connected them' moment

but anyway 2019 was like right after i got out of the situation thats left me with trauma and im wondering if i got deeply into one of my worst phases because of that, not that it could ever be proven either way but now im like. hm.

#like it was not a healthy time for me #i hate to admit it was a fixation of mine but i wouldnt say that outside of this because its embarassing #i dont know how to articulate my point of like #hey i just got out of this life altering horrible situation! time to dive into another awful situation! #and/or hey i just got out of this awful life changing situation! time to aim my negative feelings in a different direction like #like some sort of range weapon idk #did any of that make sense? idk im tired #personal #ignore me #my post #atheism youtube is just very full of negativity because obviously almost all of it is discussing and debunking religious stuff #and well. thats not exactly a happy passtime. #not to mention the people i talked to back then were some of the most like. stressful people ive ever known #nothing against them they werent malicious. but they needed help that they just refused to get. and i was terrified for them a lot

[beeseverywhen]

Anyway if you work in an office and have decorated your desk to the extreme know that I support you 100% no questions asked.

#i once worked in an office where my manager tried to make us put away our keyboards at the end of the day??? #like unplug it. put it in a locker down the hall . this is the only way things will look tidy #really one of those. i need you to pause and think about that for a second. take a moment to consider how reasonable you sound. moments #i pointed out that considering we had no cable management going on and ancient pieced together equipment things looked more messy if there #was nothing to draw your eyes away from the shit we couldn't move and when she wasnt receptive just ignored her #so she started passive aggressively leaving box files on my desk like 'i found a place for you to store your stuff' #so did i. my desk. #anyway this ended after she issued a list of appropriate desk items (not including pens or any other stationery) #but which did include plants (this was a company wide employee health drive (don't ask)) so i eventually won the argument by going full #malicious compliance and removing my penpot to make way for a series of massive plants covering every inch of my desk #loved those plants