#get aro trending

[petrichorvoices]

AROMANTICISM. YOU AGREE. REBLOG

#aro #aromantic #reblog bait #rambling #oh gods this was supposed to be a quick post to help get the tag trending why's it almost at 2k notes

[just-some-moss-and-bones]

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#aro #aromantic #we gotta get this trending for valentines #come on people #ARO

[storm-of-moths]

guys im not even aromantic but god if aromantic isnt trending for valentines day i will break into tears and wail aloud

#aromantic #aspec #aro #aro pride #aroace #aroallo #aromantic asexual #arospec #acespec #aromanticism #aros i love you i will get you trending for valentines day #queer #lgbtq #lgtbqia+ #lgtbq community #lgbtqia #queer community #lgbtq community #storm speaks

[raavenb2619]

#happy 'let's get aromantic trending' day #to those who celebrate #aromantic #aro #aspec #queer #lgbtq #queer memes #original #meme #kombucha girl

[youknow-youknow]

[ID: bugs bunny meme reading “I wish all aromantics a very normal tuesday”.]

#aro #aromantic #my contribution to getting aromantic trending

[angryaromantics]

I think what the alloro's don't get is we're not like, out to take love from them. We don't see the word love and automatically grow rabidly angry (mostly lol).

For example, I just saw a text post that was something like, "I love love and being a lover." This was fine. It didn't make me feel gross. It didn't make me feel less than. And what it really boils down to is how that love is being framed.

This post is personal. They have strong feelings about love!! Great!! The "I" takes a strong lead in the sentence. Good job, op, I support you.

What I've seen piss a lot of people off is the posts of the genre, "_____ is about love," or "love is all that matters, " or even, "love is what makes us human." These statements automatically rope EVERYONE into the sentiment.

I try to see many of them with grace. Sure, love is in the soup, whatever. I can recognize that this is just a silly sentiment about how soup makes us warm, and food can be shared at the dinner table, etc. It's a metaphor in action. It might annoy me, but there are no real repercussions of that thought process.

The ones that are trying to sell love to everyone as the most important, vital thing in the world, though? Steeped in amatanormativity. And that is just furthering the cycle of dehumanization for aro people. And they don't even realize it.

#koko thinkin thots #aromantic #aro #amatanormativity #i get that text posts are not like doing the same damage as real world infractions but they are definitely showing trends of how ppl think!

[gdsplicer]

I'm seeing a influx of people using the wording "aroace spectrum" as opposed to aspec, or using aroace as if it covers all aros and aces, like...

Do I really have to explain why that's not as inclusive a move as you'd think it is?

If someone addressed me, a aro, as "under the aroace spectrum", I would be questioning their allyship even if they themselves are aspec because no where in that's sentence did I say I'm also ace.

Using that wording instead of aspec is as much dismissive and hurtful to non-ace aros as it does when people shove our aromanticism under asexuality without thinking on why it's not helpful or disrespectful.

I feel so strongly on demanding that aroness and aceness is seen as separate, on demanding proper recognition and respect for aroallos and non-SAM aros, on demanding that my aroness is seen as enough on its own because calling me ace or aroace is erasure on my identity; It pushes the wrong narrative and box onto my experiences. It promotes misunderstandings on not just aromanticism but also asexuality. It treats my label something not worthy of taking up space in the aro community, in the aspec community, in the queer community.

Stop using 'aroace' or as the umbrella word to cover the aspec community.

#aromantic #queer #this is the one time I encourage #asexual #aroace #aspec #folks to talk about this or tag as ace cos this is a aspec community problem and we all could address how using aroace like this is not hel #maybe I'm being a lil nitpicky on this but I can't be the only one annoyed when this happens #also since we're trending rn why not get a important message out to those still not getting it when we say “aro ≠ ace”

[hyacinthmenace]

Normalizing giving your aromantic besties chocolate on valentines psuedo-queer-platonically.

#also tag everything aromantic to get it trending for valentine's #aromantic #asexual #aromanticism #aro #aroace #ace #aspec #r.post

[feenixmork]

New year, same blorbos

#pmmm #madoka magica #magia record #mel anna #meru anna #kanagi izumi #it's been a whiiiiile since I drew a magia record girlie #so happy kgjfkgjfjg #had to get self indulgent with it of course so #aromantic #was thinking about the headcanons again since aro has been trending a couple days now kfhdkghdjfh #it's not even awareness week for us usually invisible little bitches! hurrah #i need to do a liveblog or ramble some day about Mel's valentine's story and how amazing it is from an aro perspective\ #i art 👍

[phosphorus-noodles]

A very happy valentines day from our favorite little blue guys <3!!!

#i. love how these turned out actually #(<- finished vvv late last night) #they're so silly!!! #and very aro coded #aromantic #get it trending!! for the aros!! #anyways #puppet history #the professor #the substitute #wearewatcher #valentines day #pho.posts #pho.doodles

[silverirony]

in honor of valentines day we are on 24 hour aro lockdown. i repeat

AROPOSTING ONLY

#aromantic #text post #on god we're gonna get the aro tag trending or so help me #ew.txt

[aspec-argentum]

#aro #aromantic #polls #on today of all days I must do my part to get aro trending... so a poll for these trying times

[fourohfourlifenotfound]

This Valentine's Day, let's talk about amatonormativity.

Amatonormativity: the assumption that everyone desires and is better off with a monogamous long-term romantic relationship with the end goal of marriage.

It's kind of like "heteronormativity" but for aromantic and poly people!

Some people assume that the term was coined by aromantics-- it was actually made by philospher Elizabeth Brake when writing about marriage within contemporary society. Here's her webpage on the term!

Amatonormativity affects a lot of people: aros who may not want a romantic relationship, poly people who may not want exclusive relationship, and even people who want a romantic exclusive relationship but don't want to get married!

Why am I talking about this on Valentine's Day? Well, I want to people to talk about why this holiday may be uncomfortable for some people within the context of amatonormativity

Maybe you're single and upset you don't have a partner when others around you are bragging about theirs. Maybe you're aro and tired of the expectation that you should have a Valentine. I'm here to say: don't let the societal pressure of amatonormativity get you down. Take things at your own pace, have the types of relationships you want when you want them, and don't let anyone shame you for not having a romantic partner today.

#aromantic #polyamory #amatonormativity #hope this is helpful to a broader audience #i recognize some people who are allo and single and want a romantic partner may not be comforted exactly #but i want to bring the term into the dialogue for today #especially with us aros trying to get the aromantic tag trending on valentines day lol #im not saying dont celebrate valentines day. im saying dont force it on other people #valentines day

[roseredsnow]

OK so because I got two posts almost in a row, I know it's aro week and that's why people want it trending.

But Palestine isn't in the top 9 right now and I think that's more important to be up there so could we please show at least as much effort, preferably more.

#Palestine #Gaza #free palestine #all eyes on rafah #aromantic #aroace #aroweek #last three tagged to get the attention of those groups not to help them trend #aro week #watermelon #free free palestine #free gaza #Also anyone using “but Palestine isnt queer friendly” as an excuse can fuck off #queers for palestine #aros for palestine #aroaces for Palestine

[mooseghost]

Aroace flag not colour picked from Maya Fey but it's behind her anyway (because Maya Fey is aroace)

#that's it that's the post #look i put in all the effort for my ace attorney aspec week stuff last week so just let me have this one ok #doing my part to get the tags trending #aromantic #asexual #aroace #ace attorney #maya fey #aroace maya fey #aro/ace headcanons #my post #aro attorney

[siphisket]

Happy Valentine's Day!

(Bonus doodle below the cut)

#im late and definitely rushed this but I made a thing! #wanted to get an aroace alastor out real quick after work lol #very funny to me that aro/aroace trending means that alastor is also trending lmao #good for him #OH #WAITttt i should have drawn him in a hole #rip in peace I’ll just have to save it for pride #edit: im gonna forget later so i just added it on here — call that a hole in one (?) i need sleep #hazbin hotel #alastor hazbin hotel #valentines day #aromantic #asexual #aroace #fanart #csp #my art #siphisketches #artists on tumblr #id in alt