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#i just see the posts and tweets and i'm like '...nope... really glad i'm not that age right now... not gonna even touch that issue...'
youremyonlyhope · 2 years
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Observing the fandoms of shows I watch that have lots of fans that skew younger makes me kind of marvel at how different things are in online fandom even just 10 years after I was their age.
Like, I know I probably sounded like I was losing my mind every 5 seconds in posts I made as a teenager, but some things I see nowadays are actually concerning. I see people taking things waaaayyyyyy too seriously. It’s a TV show. It’s not obligated to go in the direction you want it to. It’s not the end of the world when it doesn’t. It’s not even the end of the TV show yet. Who’s to say it won’t go in that direction eventually, or even do something completely different that you’ll like even more than what you initially wanted? And outside the bubble of those younger fans on tumblr and twitter, no one really cares about the same issues that are being blown out of proportion here.
#no spoilers but i'll tag just in case#st spoilers#stranger things spoilers#specifically this is about stranger things and umbrella academy but i also saw it in the julie and the phantoms fandom too#but i'm seeing people act like a certain ship not becoming canon is the end of everything#am i the only one who had the sense to realize that realistically it probably wouldn't be canon and at least not right now if ever#like can we not joke about coming after a teenage actor because they ship the ship that didn't become canon and gave people hope#the actor just wanted to interact with fans. nothing malicious. honestly it's not even misleading.#anyway it's 2am and i watched stranger things this morning and then rewatched episode 8 when my brother watched it#and i'm still like processing the whole season so i can't even allow myself to pay attention to these younger fans#i just see the posts and tweets and i'm like '...nope... really glad i'm not that age right now... not gonna even touch that issue...'#honestly. these kids need glee. that desensitized me from asking for stuff from my shows because then it'd happen#and then it'd blow up in some weird way or just get undone by the end of a season or just be stupid and not what i wanted#only rarely did things i REALLY want to happen happen on glee. the rest of the time i was just along for the ride.#and that's the mindset i have when watching tv shows to this day. so honestly. thank you glee.#quick someone find the gif of soos in gravity falls saying 'this better be exactly like my fanfiction or i will be VERY disappointed.'#also something being hinted at and foreshadowed doesn't make it predictable when it happens. it makes it planned.#i swear. people are getting too used to shock killings or plot twists out of nowhere that they're forgetting what foreshadowing is.#the finale has a 9.6 rating on IMDB right now. a site that is infamous for being incredibly skewed if even half a fandom hates something.#(believe me. doctor who's IMDB ratings are all over the place due to a loud group of Thirteen's haters)#so if even a good chunk of the fandom disliked the finale then the score would be much lower. but it's not.#maybe it will go down a bit as more people watch. but this is not game of thrones. but i see people treating it like it is.#and really only focusing on 2 or 3 maybe 4 specific issues and writing off everything else.#(not trying to swat a hornet's nest or start crazy discourse and my anon is turned off so just don't come at me. i don't care.)
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jaskierx · 5 months
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I was a fan of OFMD S1, like, loved it, hyperfixation central, but didn't get involved in fandom beyond tweeting a load of my own meta, then S2 happened, me and my friends just ADORED it, I came online looking for fandom, and it was like '...oh no what's happening'. Finding a few blogs like yours has been a lifeline because I WANT to do fannish things and talk about the show and do meta and suchlike, but there's this huge wave of 'nope nope nope' I've been trying to navigate and avoid. I've been doing fandom fuckery for like fifteen years, so I've seen a lot, and I've seen a lot of shit go down like this, but it still hurts when you have so much joy and love that you just want to share. One thing I will say, for anyone whose losing hope or feeling down, is that it does seem to be a few people being very loud on the internet - I went to comic con in London with a friend to meet some of the cast, and all of the conversations I had in auto/photo queues with other fans were extremely sensible, rational, people talking about how they loved the show, fanning together, and quite a few conversations that were like 'I don't understand what people on the internet are saying, it's really weird?'. Was chatting with someone cosplaying as Calypso's Birthday Izzy, and the topic of the finale came up, and my friend and I were bracing for what the response would be, and they were like 'oh I really loved it, broke my heart but so good, hope we get a season three!'. It's really stark to see the response in person, the level of love and adoration and joy around this show, that really doesn't match up with the internet experience I was having. Anyway, thanks for being a blog I could cling to as I try to find a place in this fandom, and helping be part of a space where people can express and share how much they love this show (and feel like we're not actually going mad for doing so).
💕 thank you anon i'm glad my blog feels welcoming!
one of the main reasons i continue to engage with shit takes etc is bc of the sheer amount of people who have sent asks/dms saying that they feel unable to post izzy critical content or they aren't enjoying engaging with the fandom bc of the amount of izzy-related weirdness that's going on
and it's important for people to be able to see that they're not alone, they're actually part of the majority, it's just that the minority are very good at yelling and harassing anyone who dares to post stuff they disagree with
(that sounds so wanky. i am fully aware i'm sitting on my couch and typing on the fandom website like i promise i'm not under any illusions that this is a whole Cause or anything i just. want folks to be able to post izzy critical meta in the izzy tag without getting bullied for it)
ofmd is an incredibly special show and the fandom is mostly a really nice friendly space with some great art and fics from some of the most talented people i've ever met and really insightful meta and beautiful gifsets and it's such a shame that the whole thing gets tainted by a few idiots
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nobodynobodyno · 2 years
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No one asked but I'm going to write some highlights of the new video:
"my tree is erect" we started off great
i love dan's sweater phil is wrong it's pretty
"you're too sweet and make people sick" was that supposed to be an insult? and now they're both laughing love them 🥺
"smashing our fucking cocks together finally" delete this from my memory
dan's beep was cute
"we spend too much time together" i can see that
I live for phil making fun of dan's fancy words
"it was the biggest finger workout i've ever had" ok
"the dms between these two...duet????"
blessed family
did not think i would hear phil say "i want to die" but it's a nice change
philly poo cloud emoji
dan not having his mom as mom in his contacts is kind of sad
"don't open my laptop" was dan watching two furries tied to a bed?
rip norman, the synchronised "i cry" killed me dead
"don't settle for neoliberalism phil"
i love how they just didn't check if someone was at the door
that picture is really nice!!! dan is being a hater
i don't even know what to say about their secret language, i can't decode that, they're insane
not nigel making art of dan and phil's japan trip, i'm not saying what I think happened in Japan because you all know
"i'm not just simping phil" ok so you usually do?
merch #spon
why is phil asking dan if he can have a snack? does he need his approval??? going insane
i hate them for sending each other vibes and amimal emojis when they're apart for more than an hour
i can't comment on their design choices because i'd be mean
"our crazy sex dungeon" why phil
where tf were they to text at 4 am??
dan is so pissed at the haha bubble
aww look at dan being supportive
phil making a bullet list for things dan should say...this and dan sending phil the text for one of his tweets...i think that from now on we should know that whenever one of them says something, it might actually be the other's idea, they share one brain cell like they share one life
yeeten yeeben yone
phil's health problems :( i'm glad he's feeling better
"was that auto suggested?" help dan is being needy again
phil needs to be mean more often
dan not posting about the things he's done - phannies finding them anyway
needy dan again asking for a glass of oat milk
"you ever realise how ugly you are" yeah
dan wanting attention again
how many 'are you alive' texts do they have
ok how many of us thought they went to a gay club cosplaying as catboys irl why did they phrase it like that and why are they so outraged at someone hitting on them huh
i'm not gonna talk about the rooftop nope
"what if me right now wants to call you" going insane at dan being pissed and phil fully ignoring him
DON'T REACT ME
ok so they are nostalgic about old pictures i see
not dan being recommended 2008 phil
NO DAN WE DID NOT GET THAT YOU'RE INSANE
"am i annoying" me as phil texting that to my friends all the time
YOU DID SOMETHING WITH OTHER PEOPLE WITHOUT ME?
dan can't do laundry at his age of 30
dan not knowing how to get out of a social situation...also the crying dog meme, i send stuff like that all the time...
why did dan need to clarify the person he was avoiding was a lady?
love their memes
that was a journey indeed
ok i am sad dan didn't get to fulfill his dreams because of covid but i am glad he's coming back, although i'm not sure if i should trust him on that 👀 also dying at the fact that he wants to come back in the cursed year that is 2022
"i feel like the word missed your sarcasm aw"
no dan you left and a pandemic started life hasn't been good
"thank you for tolerating my presence" "thank you for treating us with your presence" 🥺
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czng · 4 years
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i haven't seen much support but as an ace person i'm SO glad you can feel that, i always think about how lonely we are in a community that should be celebrating? or rather accepting others for their sexulity/gender, but we are changing that
honestly, i get what you mean. it was such a surprise to see a good amount of ppl I follow reblogging posts saying “ace ppl are lgbt+ and if you disagree unfollow me” precisely because I don’t usually feel that sentiment online.
I think a lot of it is unintentional. like, people will reblog things thinking they’re lighthearted jokes, not spotting things that we do because we can recognise and be more hyperaware of the specific ways in which people devalue aces (including, ironically, making even us recognising and worrying about those things into a meme)
I spend more time on twitter than tumblr these days and exclusionism definitely still feels rife there, sadly.. I have 1000+ people blocked, without the help of a blocklist lmao. and i still feel it, so I get you.
i would say, for anyone who feels this way too:
don’t be shy with the block button!! for random users, i used to try give ppl the benefit of the doubt if they made an iffy tweet/post, give second or third chances. nope! no more. don’t even give them the chance to ruin your mood again. they’ll survive, often not even notice or realise, and your space just got that little bit safer.
unfortunately there are people who don’t bother to read or will just straight up ignore about/byf pages, but it’s always worth clearly stating u don’t want exclusionists to interact with/follow u. many ppl will look and listen, as it works for them too.
with friends, don’t be afraid to approach or talk to them about it. as i say above, some of it is just other ppl genuinely just don’t spot the aphobe/ace exclusionist dog-whistles we do.
when an online friend does say or reblog/retweet something exclusionary, i usually approach (privately in dms, ppl can get defensive if they feel confronted publicly) with something along the lines of “hey, this post you made/retweeted made me uncomfortable. i can explain more if you wanna hear it, but if you actually feel that way about aces i’m not comfortable being mutuals, so i hope we can just break the mutual on good terms”. this has a few possible outcomes: they maintain their point and break the mutual but do so at least respectfully and without a fuss, OR, you might just get them to hear you out! the latter has happened more with me than the former. ofc there is a chance they’ll be rude, but given you’re being calm/polite, they’d only be showing themselves to be the ass - and you don’t need “friends” like that anyway.
when ur tired and hurt and fed up of seeing exclusionism, talk to ur trusted friends about it! it really does make you feel so alienated from the community and lonely, so talking to my other ace & otherwise lgbt friends about it and having their support and love is the best thing and helps more than anything else, for me.
i know im not the most active ever, but im here if you ever wanna shoot me an ask or message to talk. you specifically, anon, or anyone else here. i promise you the support is there, it’s just sometimes the loud hate can drown it out, especially when ur already tired and hurting. but we’ll get there!!
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latinalesbi · 7 years
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I'm glad Callie and AJ are cool again. But I hope they don't start dating again. Sadly she will probably make up with Aaron. I just hope if she has to choose between them she should choose herself. I wish the writers would give us that. Of course I hope AJ and Callie friendship last. No dating. Just caring about each other and being there for each other.
I would like Callie to not date. That would be ideal. It sounds like they want to fix callie and aaron but honestly, realistically speaking, controlling boys can’t be fixed.
Anonymous said:                                                                      Bradley loves to boast about realism and ebb and flow and all that other bullshit, but show me one real life couple that would be okay with their spouse hanging out with, working with, or whatever with a person that kissed their significant other with the intent to seduce and I’ll call you a fucking liar.  Monte just needs to get the fuck off my screen.  Seriously.             
Absolutely. There’s no realism here. In what world would Stef invite monte to lena’s 40th? Like seriously nope. And Peter used to say how important it was to show Stef and Lena as a sexual couple and now Brad tells us to watch porn. All their jumping down people’s throat sounds like the lady doth protest too much to me. They know it’s true. It wouldn’t bother them so much otherwise. Brad recently has been posting pics of Teri and Sherri and how much he loves them, the great irony is that he doesn’t have newer pictures with them.
Anonymous said:                                                                      Why are so many people against Kamar? He’s Sherri’s husband. Leave him alone. He has never done anything to them or you and all y'all do is bash him. If she ever reads this stuff, all she sees is how horribly y'all talk about him. She loves him and cares for him and that’s all that matters. He likes his body, so what. He supports her in the way that they both understand that he cares, it doesn’t have to be up to your standards. It just ticks me off.(all of this isn’t at you but omg people chill)
Anonymous said:                                                                      I understand some lowkey want Sherri & Teri to be 2gether but they aren’t. She has a husband that she really loves&also his whole life can’t be about his wife. Sherri barely posts about his shows so why should he do the same. I highly doubt he’s jealous, it’s his wife for goodness sake. I hate seeing y'all talk bad about him. It’s his Instagram/ Twitter let him do what he wants. If u don’t like it, unfollow him but y'all obviously follow him to see Sherri & their boys. Stop complaining. @evryone      
I assume both of these are from the same person. I don’t think it’s that many people, I think it’s one anon I have. I think you can love Sherri and not love everything she loves or does. It’s like with Teri, i love her but I am not watching that movie she made. I hate rape in movies, period. And, I don’t follow him, so I don’t see him unless someone tells me something. As long as people don’t tweet to him or Sherri about it, I don’t see what the issue is with people expressing an opinion on tumblr. I think if you have issue, you should go and tweet everyone who says inappropriate things directly to them on twitter. I am not going to be so ego maniacal to think that Sherri or Kamar read my tumblr anons. come on.   The only thing I have liked about him is that mostly he stays out of it. I hate how in another fandom, the actress is always saying the husband picked the love interest, the hubby this and that. I don’t need to hear that crap.
Anonymous said:                                                                      if the writers can write a kiss like that between Emma and Mariana then they can do the same for Stef and Lena. The actual married lesbian couple of the show. I’m done with this nonsense.
I don’t blame you. After this happened, I said that I can’t defend this show anymore. There’s no argument that makes sense. They can’t write a stunt like that, a kiss created to impress men, lesbianism as a joke, for a laugh and then completely erase the healthy sexuality between two married women. It’s absolutely insulting.
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todokori-kun · 7 years
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THANK YOU SO MUCH, I’m ugly crying on the inside right now. I’m really so glad you liked the art, seriously this means a lot to me TYSM <3
I like how Hisoka turned out too :D I have a hard time looking at him though because WOW that’s way too much trash for once piece of paper
Be glad that I sent you the sassy Saiko, because I also drew a crying Saiko calling for Maman. I decided not to be a troll for once though ^^
I couldn’t do justice to OG Musical Maria though. She’s gorgeous…
That picture of Roy will be my legacy.
(as for the tiny dab, that is also Saiko in case the pic was too small for you to tell XD funny thing is that I wasn’t even intending to have that slip in when I took the picture. I drew a tiny, mouth-and-nose-less ‘I am not impressed’ Urie face next to it too but guess that didn’t make it in haha LOL
I'm actually sorta obsessed with drawing tiny, dabbing figures right now because I just discovered an easy way to draw dabs and…well. It’s fun?)
AWW tysm! Tbh though I get the struggle. I hated all paints for the longest time because I also had no idea how to use brushes and control the amount of water I used and ended up with shapeless blobs or super runny pics (also I’ve never actually learned how to paint or draw…a couple of short lessons when I was really little, a month(?) of lessons around last year or the year before, that’s pretty much it. So idk how to do things really lol). But I sorta-recently got obsessed with watercolor paintings (SO PRETTY) and that’s why I started ‘practicing’ (AKA watching/reading a bunch of tutorials and trying my best to remember the few things I actually learned XD). I still can’t draw stuff just with watercolors though, I need to do a light pencil sketch and then color with paint.
OK that sounds so cool but problem: My phone is a super old flip phone that I’ve had since I was eight(?), so mobile games are a no XD and my parents probably wouldn’t buy me anything that costs money (they let me play simple free RP games and dating games on the internet since those are usually fairly innocent (I mean, it’s plot/character-based stuff, almost like a manga) but not anything too 'big’ you know? If I was old enough to buy games like that with my own money I don’t think they’d care tho, as long as I didn’t get obsessed with games or anything.)
Also just realized that I’m stupid and apparently forgot that I don’t have Steam. I was going to install it but can I ask you exactly what it is/how it works, first? I’m just kinda worried about randomly installing this since I don’t quite get it yet ^^;; (sorry I can be really, really stupid when it comes to stuff like this)
THAT’S SO CUTE. Let me recommend you a game too- a free RPG/Dating game called Ascension by ImpQueen! No download, you just go to ImpQueen and play it. There are three(?) chapters. The first chapter might not be that interesting compared to other games, but the game and the story keep getting more complex as you go on :D you also get new dateable characters every chapter and the MC, Aida, is AWESOME. Also, in chapter two and three you can actually customize the main cast’s appearances, like you’d do in a dress-up game! Another cool thing is that you get different 'personality points' depending on the things you say/do, and the amount of points you have for a certain personality can change the outcomes of certain situations.
It’s also really fun because other than the romance, the plot and Aida’s journey is super interesting too.
Do you know I’ve been reading some Ishida tweets lately and look at this (yes these are all real)
Fan: Excuse me, is it ok if I ask what major you chose at university?
Ishida: I have studied worthless knowledge in University.
Fan: Please take good care of yourself and eat well! (I think that’s what they said? It was in Japanese so)
Ishida: I ate some tomatoes!
Fan: How do you draw Arima, sensei? It’s so hard to draw him ;-;
Ishida: Sadistic & Massive. I keep that in my mind.
Fan: I love you please marry me
Ishida: Sure! When is convenient for you?
Fan: Be sure to rest when you need to, sensei…
Ishida: I don’t wanna rest
Fan: HOW DID AMON’S EYEBROWS GET LIKE THAT PLEASE I MUST KNOW SENSEI
Ishida: It’s natural, you know.
Fan with a picture of a cartoon skeleton for their profile pic: Will we ever learn what happened to Hide, sensei? Also, thank you for the sequel :) I love TG
Ishida: Well, I’m not sure…by the way, you are so skinny. Thank you!
Also, dude reads Shoujo manga. He tortures us with Touken, Kanae, Tsukiyama/Kaneki, Saiko/Urie…and then he goes and posts fanart he drew of a Shoujo manga he was reading and says that he’s sad it’s over omg
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I’d probably never want to leave that flask HOW COULD A TINY INSIGNIFICANT HUMAN DEFEAT ME SO EASILY NOOO
*sigh* I didn’t raise you to be like this…
(I just got the funniest/weirdest idea though: So Evans is like Luna’s mom in this relationship, Riza is Roy’s mom. Imagine what would happen when Roy/Luna got to the 'meeting the parents’ stage in their relationship)
Mei’s version of subtle-
Mei: Mr. Scar, Evans thinks you have pretty eyes.
Scar: 
Scar: What
(basically catastrophe. And I would never have actually said that…Luna probably told Mei to say that I said something nice about him and that’s what the kid came up with OTL)
Well, he became a criminal in Civil War so not a big surprise really ;-;
For a second I thought that pic was you
Wow, that’s great! Bet it looks amazing on the queen <3333
Funny thing is I thought I liked physical contact (like cuddling, hugging, hand-holding) but turns out that’s not the case XD I get super awkward when anyone who’s not my mom, dad, or my little sister/younger cousin touches me. Tbh the only person I feel comfortable with cuddling anytime, anywhere is my little sister because she’s still smol LOL
It’s definitely weird when people who aren’t that close with you try to hug you though. The only thing that can make it worse is if they gush about what a good, sweet child you are while doing it XD
(btw, I sent you a message about the TG Re Volume 12 omake; did it get eaten?)
((EDIT AFTER NEW CHAP OF TG: WHAT THE FUUUUUUUUUU NO URIE NO N O)) Feel free to send more art anytime! I’ll always be glad to see it ^^
Is he really that bad? I mean, I’ve seen some memes, but didn’t think he was that trashy XD
Oh wow, thank you for that :P Who knows, maybe I would’ve broken my computer screen, because end the suffering already.
Dabbing Saiko, best Saiko. I assumed it was her because of the hair, but wasn’t 100% sure. Isn’t that Urie’s default face, tho. I mean, when is that man impressed? He does show emotion when he’s  trying to comfort someone, but that doesn’t happen very often.  *stares at that paragraph* *dabs aggressively* 
Ah, that’s what makes it even more impressive! I mean, we had art in elementary school, but it was mostly the ‘learn stuff yourself’ kind of art. Needles to say, I didn’t learn a lot. But watercolours really are a nice way of painting, since they can have really vibrant colours, yet be serene at the same time. Most people I know who draw, watercolour or not, use sketches and references, so I don’t see anything wrong with that ^^ Just take your time to learn what you want ^^
Oh, I see! So, free, computer games for you… Well, right now, CP is the only one I can think of, but I’ll discover more in the future and share them with you when I do ^^ The only paid games I play are on my phone, since I’m too shy to ask my parents to but me otome games… I have 0 problems playing them on my own, but not a lot of people know that I play them. 
Right, steam.  It’s a gaming platform. Technically, it’s an app for the computer on which you can download games that are available in the steam store. Some are free, some are paid. 
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This is how the page looks. The little green button in the upper left corner is to download the app itself, and you’ll also need to create an account.  You’ll need to give an email, but it’s only for account verification and to send you bills if you decide to buy anything. However, if you don’t buy anything, the email will mostly be useless after the verification. I mean, I don’t remember getting a spam email from them at all.  After that, just go to the search bar, type Cinderella Phenomenon. And press play the game! It should automatically download the game to the steam app and you’re good to play ^^  No worries about asking questions! It’s actually admirable how you’re so careful around the internet ^^
Oh, I’ve actually played that before! I could never finish chapter 3, though… For some reason, it keeps glitching at one scene making me unable to continue further =3= It was quite fun to play! I just don’t remember most of it anymore, since it’s been a while since i’ve played ^^;;;
Ishida summarised my high school experience so far in a single tweet, only it’s about University XD
Wow. That’s so mean of him XD Seriously Ishida, why you gotta torture us so much??? (I just noticed my computer stopped auto-correcting Ishida, I think it finally learned I wanted to type it) 
Muhahahahaha I’ve contained the legendary dwarf!!! Now she won’t be able to convince a whole nation to commit collective suicide because their leader is a naive idiot!!
The two of you just talk about how randomly childish the two of us can get at times XD I think you’d get along pretty well with Riza, though. I mean, she’s a nice person, who knows what it’s like to be scared, so she’d be fine with taking lead of the conversation. 
Scar isn’t sure if it’s Mei’s idea of a prank or not, but he’d be slightly disappointed if it was cause he kindawantedEvanstothinkhiseyesarenice but nope he’s in denial.
From that day on, Luna learns that if she wants to get the two awkward dorks together, she’ll have to take things into her own hands. Probably goes something like this:
Luna: Evans, are you free at 5pm this Friday? Evans: Yeah, why? Luna: Scar, are you free at 5pm this Friday? Scar: Aha Luna: Great, because I’m not! Have fun you two!
My sweet sunshine child cap T^T
Aah, no, my hair i shorter than that ^^;;; Also, I look younger than I am OTL
I think it’s more of the ‘I like physical contact if I know the person and am close enough to them’ thingy. I mean, I have a few acquaintances who love hugs and I always shrink away from them, but with close friends, U’m sometimes the one who starts hugs. But you might also dislike contact in general, which is also fine, everyone has their own preferences ^^
I did, but I only noticed after I answered your message OTL Well, that’s certainly an interesting ship… Now I slightly ship it… 
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latinalesbi · 7 years
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I'm gonna guess you haven't seen the sneak with stef Lena and Robert judging by your lack of disgust...
5I have sleeping hours, I am on the west coast and not working. I am sleeping in!
I expected something, so I am not surprised. And I know Robert isn’t around much after this, so who cares in terms of my viewing pleasure.
The message is terrible, and I can’t stand it. It makes all the straights feel so smug. I don’t know where they are going with this. And clearly, to our horror, this is what they meant by return to family. It’s atrocious. Gabe is still 1000x worse to me, because they shoved him in their home and his role is clearly to be “the man." Ana as well. Let’s remember this woman has recently fallen off the wagon. Her kids were removed from her. She was legally deemed not be able to take care of kids. Till they’re adults, they shouldn’t even be around her, Stef and Lena risk their own custody by exposing them to someone who has been deemed unable to take care of kids. Oh, and she fell off the wagon by hanging out with a drinking Gabe. Guess what she was doing last episode.. yep.
Anonymous said:                                                                      Are Stef and Lena sending Callie to live with Robert ?     
You hadn’t seen the promo when you sent me, but yeah we already knew she wasn’t going to go live with him. So, at least there is that. And no custody battle again.
Anonymous said:                                                                      has it been said or do you know if stef and lena were fostering kids in and out of the house before jude and callie arrived?             
It has not been said. So, I am going to assume that they weren’t. Yet, mysteriously their fostering license was valid when Callie popped up.
Anonymous said:                                                                      I'm glad Stef is being hard on Callie. But do you think she needs Lena to. Like a softer parent. In that sneak peek, it seems like Lena wants to say something but not be hard on Callie. Do you think she needs a softer approach ? I wouldn't mind Callie backing away from Stef and getting closer to Lena.            
I do think that all those kids need a firm hand right now. As we saw in the preview, she has Lena’s soft touch. I really liked Lena reassuring Callie by putting her hand on her leg. They don’t want to push her out. I think in some ways, Callie’s still pushing them to see if they want her out. She assumes they are going to send her away when she fucks up. She always does. The most important thing for Callie is that her moms choose her. That they continue to choose her because they love her, not because they share DNA. And once she gets that in her head, her life will improve. I would love to see Lena getting closer to Callie. Maia said that Stef and Lena keep a closer eye on her this season. We’ll see.
Anonymous said:                                                                      So I guess this mean we are not getting a fanfiction with Gabe and Ana it from you :(             
I mean, maybe if I get more asks and ask me to add Mike and Robert. Maybe ....
Anonymous said:                                                                      what an incredible  coincidence that Tess is going to be their neigbour. What do you mean when you guys say she's going to be there for five episodes ? I mean maybe we won't often see her after five episodes but she's their neighbour, where could she go ? Move out again ?
Yes, incredible! This show is so reality loving as I am told on twitter lol At least this is a coincidence that will bring mama drama and Mariana drama.
Ok, on IMDB, the actress is shown to be in 5 episodes. Now, not all the info on IMDB is correct before the show airs. There are some things you can weed out as wrong. They still have Mike as a regular and they added AJ. BTS alone tells you that is wrong. Sometimes minor characters appear to be in ever ep, also wrong. Annika is usually on top of her IMDB so she’ll put in all her eps pretty early. That’s why despite the fact that she wasn’t spotted in ep 9, or told the world as she usually does, she probably is in it.
Now, the actress who plays Tess is listed as being in 5 and those episodes that are listed, we have evidence of her presence in at least 4 of them. So, it’s accurate. 2, 3, 5, 7 and 9. Evidence proves 2,3,5 and 9.
I think the story won’t be resolved in 1a. I think it will in 5b but she’ll stay the neighbor.
  Anonymous said:                                                                      you said  "I instead will focus on all the lovely things Sherri said about Teri and Stef and Lena last night! Maybe I’ll make a post later since there’s NOTHING to gif."   What are you talking about here ? Where did Sherri say whatever she said ? Is it the yahoo interview ? I just saw Teri's one.             
I posted, I hope you saw! It was on her live tweets.
  Anonymous said:                                                                      Callie didn't try to kill herself but it seems like the moms have gotten that that point. Like Stef doesn't trust her to be alone.             
Listen, you need to let that go. Callie is not suicidal. You had a suicidal story, it was her sister. Let it go. Not gonna happen. Callie is destructive, it’s different. It’s self-sabotage. They don’t want to give her too much freedom. nope.
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